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budaatum:
Please don't be rude to me. I cannot apply what I lack or don't even deserve in return!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Rude? I'm simply advising you to apply wisdom cos her type can actually stab you or probably commit suicide

Alitair:
In life, everything happens for a reason but this one I am still looking for the reason.

So that's how I met this beauty in my Finals. She is one of this beautiful girls that don't actually know they are beautiful.
Things moved a little fast and she dictated the rules if I wanted to taste the honey pot. Rules included Abstaining from some crude things I used to do of which I am proud I stopped. In fact the girl really changed my life...

To cut Long story short, I got what I wanted but got stuck, I have never been willing to change for anyone even my Mother and I changed for this girl.

OK. Issue now is the girl was always telling me "Love na scam, don't get emotional and stuff like that and she would prefer just being friends. I agreed with my church mind even though I know she already had a soft spot in my heart... Las las I dey see to chop na so I killed emotions except sexual emotions.

However for some time now, some kind things have changed, she confronts me over any girl I get too friendly with, steady checking up on me to make sure I am not with another girl, embarrassed me because I hugged a girl with very mad assets and even threatened to deal with the girl. It has escalated to the point where she can't let me stand alone with another female for just 5minutes whether its business or courtesy. If I ask her, all I get is that I should be content with what I have.

OK kwa. Now I was going through her phone last week and I saw my Brother's number, my sister's own and my mum's own was saved as mum in law.
I don't know how I got entangled in this but I know I want to leave. The girl has told me many times that she will never let me go no matter how hard I try and believe me I have tried. Even stopped giving her attention and time but she is even more determined. She has gradually turned down all her serious male friends even her supposed Fiancé....

I'm feeling like I don't own myself anymore and its really depressing. I am yet to stand and someone is already clinging on me by fire by force.

The one that is blowing my mind now: she thinks we should pay for an apartment together so we can live together. I didn't reoly yet but that would be a modern version of living in bondage.

I am in need of advice on how to make this girl an Ex of a non existent relationship...

Matured minds only

Thank you

Alitair:
In life, everything happens for a reason but this one I am still looking for the reason.

So that's how I met this beauty in my Finals. She is one of this beautiful girls that don't actually know they are beautiful.
Things moved a little fast and she dictated the rules if I wanted to taste the honey pot. Rules included Abstaining from some crude things I used to do of which I am proud I stopped. In fact the girl really changed my life...

To cut Long story short, I got what I wanted but got stuck, I have never been willing to change for anyone even my Mother and I changed for this girl.

OK. Issue now is the girl was always telling me "Love na scam, don't get emotional and stuff like that and she would prefer just being friends. I agreed with my church mind even though I know she already had a soft spot in my heart... Las las I dey see to chop na so I killed emotions except sexual emotions.

However for some time now, some kind things have changed, she confronts me over any girl I get too friendly with, steady checking up on me to make sure I am not with another girl, embarrassed me because I hugged a girl with very mad assets and even threatened to deal with the girl. It has escalated to the point where she can't let me stand alone with another female for just 5minutes whether its business or courtesy. If I ask her, all I get is that I should be content with what I have.

OK kwa. Now I was going through her phone last week and I saw my Brother's number, my sister's own and my mum's own was saved as mum in law.
I don't know how I got entangled in this but I know I want to leave. The girl has told me many times that she will never let me go no matter how hard I try and believe me I have tried. Even stopped giving her attention and time but she is even more determined. She has gradually turned down all her serious male friends even her supposed Fiancé....

I'm feeling like I don't own myself anymore and its really depressing. I am yet to stand and someone is already clinging on me by fire by force.

The one that is blowing my mind now: she thinks we should pay for an apartment together so we can live together. I didn't reoly yet but that would be a modern version of living in bondage.

I am in need of advice on how to make this girl an Ex of a non existent relationship...

Matured minds only

Thank you

budaatum:
Maybe he should stop with the "other girls" and love her instead, as you rightly advised. He knew she was vulnerable before he exploited her!

budaatum:
Grow up and get married! She sounds like she good for you.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Rude? I'm simply advising you to apply wisdom cos her type can actually stab you or probably commit suicide

hify9935:
Good kwa? Lol. What's your definition of "good". The lady is obsessed. She can kill!

Alitair:
In life, everything happens for a reason but this one I am still looking for the reason.

So that's how I met this beauty in my Finals. She is one of this beautiful girls that don't actually know they are beautiful.
Things moved a little fast and she dictated the rules if I wanted to taste the honey pot. Rules included Abstaining from some crude things I used to do of which I am proud I stopped. In fact the girl really changed my life...

To cut Long story short, I got what I wanted but got stuck, I have never been willing to change for anyone even my Mother and I changed for this girl.

OK. Issue now is the girl was always telling me "Love na scam, don't get emotional and stuff like that and she would prefer just being friends. I agreed with my church mind even though I know she already had a soft spot in my heart... Las las I dey see to chop na so I killed emotions except sexual emotions.

However for some time now, some kind things have changed, she confronts me over any girl I get too friendly with, steady checking up on me to make sure I am not with another girl, embarrassed me because I hugged a girl with very mad assets and even threatened to deal with the girl. It has escalated to the point where she can't let me stand alone with another female for just 5minutes whether its business or courtesy. If I ask her, all I get is that I should be content with what I have.

OK kwa. Now I was going through her phone last week and I saw my Brother's number, my sister's own and my mum's own was saved as mum in law.
I don't know how I got entangled in this but I know I want to leave. The girl has told me many times that she will never let me go no matter how hard I try and believe me I have tried. Even stopped giving her attention and time but she is even more determined. She has gradually turned down all her serious male friends even her supposed Fiancé....

I'm feeling like I don't own myself anymore and its really depressing. I am yet to stand and someone is already clinging on me by fire by force.

The one that is blowing my mind now: she thinks we should pay for an apartment together so we can live together. I didn't reoly yet but that would be a modern version of living in bondage.

I am in need of advice on how to make this girl an Ex of a non existent relationship...

Matured minds only

Thank you

womenareapes:
black women don't normally have sense!

Her fiancé most have been spending on that biiitch of your girlfriend thinking he has find the right woman while this Goofy madafacker with no sense of purpose is trying to dump her!

I do pity for guys who fall in love with our black useless naija women

Alitair:
I like this. Thank you

budaatum:
Can she? Didn't know she had history, but he deserves it, in my opinion. She was not obsessed before he defiled her.

Alitair:
If I had a solution, I would not come here seeking help. Nobody likes washing their dirty linens/pants in public.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Rude? I'm simply advising you to apply wisdom cos her type can actually stab you or probably commit suicide

budaatum:
Can she? Didn't know she had history, but he deserves it, in my opinion. She was not obsessed before he defiled her.

budaatum:
Maybe he should stop with the "other girls" and love her instead, as you rightly advised. He knew she was vulnerable before he exploited her!

extremelygolden:
Alitair, behold your wife. Wifey, behold your lovely husband, Alitair!

What a determined young woman. I like her already. You aren't balling anywhere, ok? Just stay put where you're. You have been hooked, bros

Start loving her already. The sound of your wedding bell is so loud and near, dear.

Now you have found a Nigeria girl who loves you for who you really are and you're complaining. The same gender that believes Nigerian women love money so much and are not capable of loving "not-too-rich" guys.

Alitair:
Thats just what I want to avoid

hify9935:
Hahahaha, this got me laughing. Let's say he's not going to value what he has now until he loses her. Wedding bell indeed.

extremelygolden:
I just like the attitude of the lady. If he is rich now they won't let us hear word on this thread. We will be reading comments like.
> Olosho
> Gold digger
> She has nothing to offer than pussy
> Nigerian girls are greedy
> Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that
They will then conclude it on how they will all marry white women.

This time ehen, a determined wise sister is telling Op We die here". No retreat, no surrender! Hahaha

extremelygolden:
I just like the attitude of the lady. If he is rich now they won't let us hear word on this thread. We will be reading comments like.
> Olosho
> Gold digger
> She has nothing to offer than pussy
> Nigerian girls are greedy
> Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that
They will then conclude it on how they will all marry white women.

This time ehen, a determined wise sister is telling Op We die here". No retreat, no surrender! Hahaha

Alitair:
In life, everything happens for a reason but this one I am still looking for the reason.

So that's how I met this beauty in my Finals. She is one of this beautiful girls that don't actually know they are beautiful.
Things moved a little fast and she dictated the rules if I wanted to taste the honey pot. Rules included Abstaining from some crude things I used to do of which I am proud I stopped. In fact the girl really changed my life...

To cut Long story short, I got what I wanted but got stuck, I have never been willing to change for anyone even my Mother and I changed for this girl.

OK. Issue now is the girl was always telling me "Love na scam, don't get emotional and stuff like that and she would prefer just being friends. I agreed with my church mind even though I know she already had a soft spot in my heart... Las las I dey see to chop na so I killed emotions except sexual emotions.

However for some time now, some kind things have changed, she confronts me over any girl I get too friendly with, steady checking up on me to make sure I am not with another girl, embarrassed me because I hugged a girl with very mad assets and even threatened to deal with the girl. It has escalated to the point where she can't let me stand alone with another female for just 5minutes whether its business or courtesy. If I ask her, all I get is that I should be content with what I have.

OK kwa. Now I was going through her phone last week and I saw my Brother's number, my sister's own and my mum's own was saved as mum in law.
I don't know how I got entangled in this but I know I want to leave. The girl has told me many times that she will never let me go no matter how hard I try and believe me I have tried. Even stopped giving her attention and time but she is even more determined. She has gradually turned down all her serious male friends even her supposed Fiancé....

I'm feeling like I don't own myself anymore and its really depressing. I am yet to stand and someone is already clinging on me by fire by force.

The one that is blowing my mind now: she thinks we should pay for an apartment together so we can live together. I didn't reoly yet but that would be a modern version of living in bondage.

I am in need of advice on how to make this girl an Ex of a non existent relationship...

Matured minds only

Thank you

MrBrownJay1:
So...are you saying you don't want the babe any longer? Or you just want her as before, without any commitments etc?

Sit the babe down...remind her about what she told you about love and tell her to stick to her words....unless you BOTH want a new deal in place.....

But you have to understand that because someone says they don't want you to fall in love with them, that doesn't mean you can just fool around with any other babe.

Csami:
If he tries that he's a dead man. The girl is now a jealous person and jealous persons tend to harm their lover or competition. This is the thing about friends with benefits, someone will always catch feelings.

Fountainofyouth:
Hello to ya mama, is she also an ape