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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Mcslize: 5:03pm On Sep 18, 2019
BobiNick:
Let's assume as a guy you have a lady friend who you both have been chatting and meet in fast food from time to time and you both are attracted to each other. For the first time she will be visiting you at home and you are a bachelor that stays alone. You are not really so buoyant that day let's say because you havent been paid your salary yet and all you have in the house in 5k.

What easy nice meal can you prepare as a guy with like 2k so that she can eat happily and enjoy herself.

Please no bashing.

Bro don't waste your time cooking for a girl visiting you. Most times we do all these stuff cuz we want to impress her. But know this it won't change anything. Just serve her a cup of chilled water.

Girls really don't value all these niceness from guys. I am a good cook but I have stopped cooking for girls.

When you do all that, they take it for something else like you like them more making their heads to swell whereas you are just being a hospitable being. Ladies always mistake kind gestures and always think what they have to offer you in return is sex. Just sex. Quite bad. Meaning they don't see themselves more than sexual objects. Why? I asked.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Nobody: 5:08pm On Sep 18, 2019
The first time I visited boo,he served me white rice and cat fish pepper soup,what a gentleman.
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Nobody: 5:10pm On Sep 18, 2019
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Mcslize:


Bro don't waste your time cooking for a girl visiting you. Most times we do all these stuff cuz we want to impress her. But know this it won't change anything. Just serve her a cup of chilled water.

Girls really don't value all these niceness from guys. I am a good cook but I have stopped cooking for girls.

When you do all that, they take it for something else like you like them more making their head to swell whereas yiu are just being a hospitable being. Ladies always mistake kind gestures and always think what they have to offer you in return is sex. Just sex. Quite bad. Meaning they don't see themselves more than sexual objects. Why? I asked.
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Speak for yourself please.And also change the kind of girls you move with.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by supercent02(m): 5:13pm On Sep 18, 2019
2dice01:
5k is much my brother
She isnt coming so you can impress her with your money


Back to the Topic
1.Get both of you Meatpie and Juice from eatery

2.You can go for Cowtail or any kind of Pepper soup and Wine

3. I might even tease of enough she will come cook her favorite for both of us (you know ladies like to show how good they are in the kitchen)

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by frugal(m): 5:27pm On Sep 18, 2019
Blackivy29:
Indomie=N300
BIGGI=N200
3eggs=N120
onions, carrot, greenbeans, pepper. =300.

total=920
grin Remember its a meal for two.
I Iike this. What are the steps to preparing this? The carrot and greenbeans part.
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by daddycee91(m): 5:31pm On Sep 18, 2019
24kmagic:
2k too much self

700 will do the magic.

N200 spaghetti
N200 ice fish or smoked fish
N50 pepper (if you're a Yoruba man, you might need more)
N50 fresh tomatoes (the quantity will depend on your location)
N100 groundnut oil (1 cup)
N50 onion (e must remain)
N20 Maggi
Then salt (you suppose get that one for house)

That's N670 ~ 700

On her way back, give her the remaining 1k for Transport.


Come back and thank me later

Note: Don't cook rubbish oooo!
Cos some guys cooking is just extremely bad.

If I handle that spaghetti with those ingredients, you go believe.




My nigga

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by ThothHermes: 5:53pm On Sep 18, 2019
Sparkle777:
If ur budget for her is 5k, just buy meatpies, small chops and a carton of juice. Then give her 3k for transport, very important if u really like her and want her to come again. Good luck
Transport back to Ibadan

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by 2dice01: 6:00pm On Sep 18, 2019
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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Mcslize: 6:08pm On Sep 18, 2019
Simplep:
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Speak for yourself please.And also change the kind of girls you move with.

I speak for everyone. Do not deny the fact that you girls take kind gestures from guys as equal to a guy being so into you whereas the guy is just being hospitable. When a guy treats a girl with too much niceness, it never ends well. That's why we guys have come to the realization that all that really do not make a girl like a guy. I will prepare food, serve you and then you will start misbehaving at the end thinking I did all that because of one thing called love.

I thank ubunja for all the miseductaions he dished out to guys. Trying to please a girl is the one very stvpid mistake a guy will ever make. Girls love to be handled with full dominance.

Even if I want to cook for a girl, not now again. If she wants to eat, she needs to buy the ingredients and cook it herself. When she is done, she should serve it and we eat together.

I have cooked for many girls over time. But does that really count? When quarrel burst, they will forget all those good things you've done in their lives and will make it looks like you've done nothing. Absolutely nothing! That's why I have changed never to treat a girl with any form of preferences. I will treat you just like how I treat a fellow guy like me.

I once told a girl that I see her as a guy so she should not expect me treating her like a Queen. After all we are all equal right? You girls have been clamoring for feminism and you are all equal to men.

Thus, we will treat you like we treat our fellow guys. We will talk to you like we talk to our fellow guys. Don't expect any preferential treatment from us. We are all equal now. If you can't cook, cooking for you won't make me be the best boyfriend to you in the world.

The moment quarrel burst, you forget all those good things the guy had done in your life. You see how you girls are wired?

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by BobiNick(m): 6:18pm On Sep 18, 2019
Mcslize:


I speak for everyone. Do not deny the fact that you girls take kind gestures from guys as equal to a guy being so into you whereas the guy is just being hospitable. When a guy treats a girl with too much niceness, it never ends well. That's why we guys have come to the realization that all that really do not make a girl like a guy. I will prepare food, serve you and then you will start misbehaving at the end thinking I did all that because of one thing called love.

I thank ubunja for all the miseductaions he dished out to guys. Trying to please a girl is the one very stvpid mistake a guy will ever make. Girls love to be handled with full dominance.

Even if I want to cook for a girl, not now again. If she wants to eat, she needs to buy the ingredients and cook it herself. When she is done, she should serve it and we eat together.

I have cooked for many girls over time. But does that really count? When quarrel burst, they will forget all those good things you've done in their lives and will make it looks like you've done nothing. Absolutely nothing! That's why I have changed never to treat a girl with any form of preferences. I will treat you just like how I treat a fellow guy like me.

I once told a girl that I see her as a guy so she should not expect me treating her like a Queen. After all we are all equal right? You girls have been clamoring for feminism and you are all equal to men.

Thus, we will treat you like we treat our fellow guys. We will talk to you like we talk to our fellow guys. Don't expect any preferential treatment from us. We are all equal now. If you can't cook, cooking for you won't make me be the best boyfriend to you in the world.

The moment quarrel burst, you forget all those good things the guy had done in your life. You see how you girls are wired?

I don't agree with you in some aspect. Probably the kind of girls you have cooked for is the issue in your case and it can't possibly be sane to reason that all girls will do same. Its very possible the sort of girls you woo happen to always be under that particular category and maybe its the way you woo them that puts them in that kind of settings.
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Lamanii22(f): 6:19pm On Sep 18, 2019
BobiNick:
Let's assume as a guy you have a lady friend who you both have been chatting and meet in fast food from time to time and you both are attracted to each other. For the first time she will be visiting you at home and you are a bachelor that stays alone. You are not really so buoyant that day let's say because you havent been paid your salary yet and all you have in the house in 5k.

What easy nice meal can you prepare as a guy with like 2k so that she can eat happily and enjoy herself.

Please no bashing.


Noodles and egg... Or white rice and fish sauce... But if I were the girl, just get me some garri, ekpa ati sugar ati omi tutu

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by BobiNick(m): 6:22pm On Sep 18, 2019
Lamanii22:



Noodles and egg... Or white rice and fish sauce... But if I were the girl, just get me some garri, ekpa ati sugar ati omi tutu

I wish I can believe you. People that speak like this sometimes happen to be the ones that can embarrass a guy for giving her such lol

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:23pm On Sep 18, 2019
Meal kee... This days every1 is hungry na so one came one night like that, me be like wetin u go chop she said anything, me arrange garri n egusi if u see how she descend on this swallow shocked My mouth still dey open each time i remember am

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by BobiNick(m): 6:25pm On Sep 18, 2019
Tonymegabush1:
Meal kee... This days every1 is hungry na so one came one night like that, me be like wetin u go chop she said anything, me arrange garri n egusi if u see how she descend on this swallow shocked My mouth still dey open each time i remember am

Hahahahahaha... Why you go dey carry hungry babe naa
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Lamanii22(f): 6:36pm On Sep 18, 2019
24kmagic:
2k too much self

700 will do the magic.

N200 spaghetti
N200 ice fish or smoked fish
N50 pepper (if you're a Yoruba man, you might need more)
N50 fresh tomatoes (the quantity will depend on your location)
N100 groundnut oil (1 cup)
N50 onion (e must remain)
N20 Maggi
Then salt (you suppose get that one for house)

That's N670 ~ 700

On her way back, give her the remaining 1k for Transport.


Come back and thank me later

Note: Don't cook rubbish oooo!
Cos some guys cooking is just extremely bad.

If I handle that spaghetti with those ingredients, you go believe.







Gbayii...
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Lamanii22(f): 6:39pm On Sep 18, 2019
BobiNick:


I wish I can believe you. People that speak like this sometimes happen to be the ones that can embarrass a guy for giving her such lol


You would ask me first though... I'd most likely not eat anything... I'd just have water or drink I'd be fine...
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 18, 2019
If she can not eat correct Oil beans and garri with fried fish with me, she should bye bye. We just need to trek to one restaurant and I will not even spend up to 600 seff.

Beans 200,
2 fried fish - 200
Half rubber of garri - 100
5 chilled pure water - 50
4 sugar - 40

She will never forget it.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Mcslize: 6:48pm On Sep 18, 2019
BobiNick:


I don't agree with you in some aspect. Probably the kind of girls you have cooked for is the issue in your case and it can't possibly be sane to reason that all girls will do same. Its very possible the sort of girls you woo happen to always be under that particular category and maybe its the way you woo them that puts them in that kind of settings.

I really don't see girls as being different like with 80% difference in the way they are wired. Treat a girl with full nice guy attitudes and see how she will start messing with you.

The truth is that being a nice guy wil never make a girl love you. If you doubt, try it out and you will notice it yourself. Start acting all nice to your babe, sending her romantic messages and all those stuff. Call her 5 times a day and watch how all those stuff do not contribute to her loving you the more.

This has nothing to do with the type of girl you are dealing with. It is just how they are created. Give them what they want and they will start acting up in no time.

more so, being that nice guy that pleases girls will make even your own babe to see you as the one with less power in the relationship cuz she believes that you love her that's why you are doing all that, and when she senses that, she will start undermining you as the man in the relationship. After all, if she mess up and she threatens you with a break up, you will crawl back to her begging. What a mindset!

All these things had been tested and tried by guys who had taken their time to expose all these secrets to men so that they won't be victimised by the female counterparts.

For the record, kindly read up ubunja miseducations. Those miseductions are eye openers.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by OnPointMan(m): 6:56pm On Sep 18, 2019
Let her come and cook bro. 2k will be more than enough.
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Newguyhere: 6:58pm On Sep 18, 2019
Mcslize:


Bro don't waste your time cooking for a girl visiting you. Most times we do all these stuff cuz we want to impress her. But know this it won't change anything. Just serve her a cup of chilled water.

Girls really don't value all these niceness from guys. I am a good cook but I have stopped cooking for girls.

When you do all that, they take it for something else like you like them more making their heads to swell whereas you are just being a hospitable being. Ladies always mistake kind gestures and always think what they have to offer you in return is sex. Just sex. Quite bad. Meaning they don't see themselves more than sexual objects. Why? I asked.


Loud it brother!!!

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by ComputerOperato: 7:24pm On Sep 18, 2019
Lamanii22:



Noodles and egg... Or white rice and fish sauce... But if I were the girl, just get me some garri, ekpa ati sugar ati omi tutu
I love you already!

Modified:

I won't cook. Tried that shit before and it didn't work (Infact, it was the Genesis of the breakdown of the relationship).


If I like you pa, I'll cook indomie. Now my indomie must have tomatoes, egg and other condiments so at most I will spend 500.

But garri and epa with kuli (big round ones) all supplemented with cold water sure pass!

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by BobiNick(m): 7:42pm On Sep 18, 2019
Lamanii22:



You would ask me first though... I'd most likely not eat anything... I'd just have water or drink I'd be fine...

You have a point but its worrisome that we got to this level were it will be suspicious for a guy to surprise a girl he is actually in love with by cooking for her on her first visit but she might think otherwise.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Burgerlomo: 7:49pm On Sep 18, 2019
Take her to eatery grin
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Korllami007: 7:53pm On Sep 18, 2019
Mcslize:


Bro don't waste your time cooking for a girl visiting you. Most times we do all these stuff cuz we want to impress her. But know this it won't change anything. Just serve her a cup of chilled water.

Girls really don't value all these niceness from guys. I am a good cook but I have stopped cooking for girls.

When you do all that, they take it for something else like you like them more making their heads to swell whereas you are just being a hospitable being. Ladies always mistake kind gestures and always think what they have to offer you in return is sex. Just sex. Quite bad. Meaning they don't see themselves more than sexual objects. Why? I asked.

You get the drill. They see niceness and kindness as weakness.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Fidelismaria: 8:06pm On Sep 18, 2019
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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 18, 2019
Eba+Egushi+Asun!!!!

Na she go cook am o grin
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 18, 2019
Simplep:
The first time I visited boo,he served me white rice and cat fish pepper soup,what a gentleman.
He loves you too much cheesy
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by gulfer: 8:16pm On Sep 18, 2019
NnamdiN:
Fried plantain, eggs and custard with plenty milk
This is what airforce 1 will usually serve shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Mcslize: 8:18pm On Sep 18, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/5056487/ubunjas-miseducation-flipping-bad-boy



#Don't please women. #women don't give a fvck about what you do for them. #If you like build mansions for them, buy them cars, they will still crave bad boys. Don't go make money cuz of girls, make money cuz you want to spend on yourself and family not to impress women.

Impress yourself first before even thinking of impressing any girl. That's the drill. We are not swallowing these redpills for nothing.


Don't be surprised when you see me addressing a girl as bro. That's the drill.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Zinny25(f): 8:20pm On Sep 18, 2019
Simplep:
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Speak for yourself please.And also change the kind of girls you move with.
gbam tell him...

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by Zinny25(f): 8:27pm On Sep 18, 2019
Mcslize:


I speak for everyone. Do not deny the fact that you girls take kind gestures from guys as equal to a guy being so into you whereas the guy is just being hospitable. When a guy treats a girl with too much niceness, it never ends well. That's why we guys have come to the realization that all that really do not make a girl like a guy. I will prepare food, serve you and then you will start misbehaving at the end thinking I did all that because of one thing called love.

I thank ubunja for all the miseductaions he dished out to guys. Trying to please a girl is the one very stvpid mistake a guy will ever make. Girls love to be handled with full dominance.

Even if I want to cook for a girl, not now again. If she wants to eat, she needs to buy the ingredients and cook it herself. When she is done, she should serve it and we eat together.

I have cooked for many girls over time. But does that really count? When quarrel burst, they will forget all those good things you've done in their lives and will make it looks like you've done nothing. Absolutely nothing! That's why I have changed never to treat a girl with any form of preferences. I will treat you just like how I treat a fellow guy like me.

I once told a girl that I see her as a guy so she should not expect me treating her like a Queen. After all we are all equal right? You girls have been clamoring for feminism and you are all equal to men.

Thus, we will treat you like we treat our fellow guys. We will talk to you like we talk to our fellow guys. Don't expect any preferential treatment from us. We are all equal now. If you can't cook, cooking for you won't make me be the best boyfriend to you in the world.

The moment quarrel burst, you forget all those good things the guy had done in your life. You see how you girls are wired?
I guess you have been meeting the wrong girls just as some girls have been meeting with wrong guys.

I have this to say to you...do not change who you are because of past experiences, do not become a bad person because some girl somewhere didn't appreciate your goodness or take you for granted. Don't stop being who you are because of some people who don't matter to you. What if you finally Miss that angel because of your new attitude.

Me sef if i should change based on past experience eeh that means my boo go suffer naa

The first day I visited him,he prepared a delicious jellof rice with fried fish, I didn't eat shaa, I just took a can malt.

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Re: What Easy Meal Can You Give A Lady On Her First Visit To Your House by ImaIma1(f): 8:39pm On Sep 18, 2019
BobiNick:
Let's assume as a guy you have a lady friend who you both have been chatting and meet in fast food from time to time and you both are attracted to each other. For the first time she will be visiting you at home and you are a bachelor that stays alone. You are not really so buoyant that day let's say because you havent been paid your salary yet and all you have in the house in 5k.

What easy nice meal can you prepare as a guy with like 2k so that she can eat happily and enjoy herself.

Please no bashing.


Spaghetti 200
Titus fish. 350
Tomtao paste 50
Fresh pepper/tomatoes 100
Green peas/carrot 150
Veg oil 100
Drink 100.

Fry the fish and serve with your spaghetti. You can slice a boiled egg add to it

Indomie is too basic and cliché.

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