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ladyGKilaBCrueD:
carry your grantrtopic thread away from romance section to the dustbin section women are suppose to be chase by men.. is it chicken you want to chase? or are you gay?

Toks2008:
If you still want to be chased then you are either a kid, confused or delusional or worst still you probably have a thing for randy guys cos they are the ones that are interested in that silly act.

Toks2008:
If you still want to be chased then you are either a kid, confused or delusional or worst still you probably have a thing for randy guys cos they are the ones that are interested in that silly act.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
is that why you're on Nairaland 24/7? but guess wat, you can never find man on Nairaland with that attitude

0KNM:
all u ever tink about is dik dik dik fuk fuk fuk erection erection erection. ....WHAT THA HECK IS WRONG WITH U? ? ((can't stop shakin my head ))

Toks2008:
The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
carry your grantrtopic thread away from romance section to the dustbin section women are suppose to be chase by men.. is it chicken you want to chase? or are you gay?

truthsayer009:
Bro nice piece man. I like your write ups. It is mature and doesn't not necessarily push women under the bus like Ubunja and his fellow banters, rather it tells the truth of the whole story why Women should not even date Men they don't really like because he has become the only option.

Women have this annoying attitude of keeping you around just in case you become the only option even if they are super sure they don't like you.

A lot of foolish Men out there usually think this is Playing Hard-to-get. Instead of simply walking away as fast as possible & figuring out their own life.

Guest007:
Women take time to warm up to a man... It's not chasing it's courting.

Women are slow cookers and men are microwaves. This means it takes a woman time to get comfortable and to observe the man, before choosing him and if you don't want to give them that time then...

If you run from every woman who doesn't jump at the chance of dating you then you're setting yourself up for...

Women are not like men and if this granddad knew anything about women and relationships then...

FP doesn't pay

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "Chasing is simply making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny references that attracts them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them else you will only be making a big fool of yourself...95% of ladies prefer guys who are either Rich, very attractive or endowed down there but unfortunately only 5% of the total world's male population have one or all these attributes and until you upgrade yourself to be in this 5% league, you are likely going fall into the unfortunate category of guys who chase women ...

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny references that attracts them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them else you will only be making a big fool of yourself...95% of ladies prefer guys who are either Rich, very attractive or endowed down there but unfortunately only 5% of the total world's male population have one or all these attributes and until you upgrade yourself to be in this 5% league, you are likely going fall into the unfortunate category of guys who chase women ...

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

Guest007:
Women take time to warm up to a man... It's not chasing it's courting.

Women are slow cookers and men are microwaves. This means it takes a woman time to get comfortable and to observe the man, before choosing him and if you don't want to give them that time then...

If you run from every woman who doesn't jump at the chance of dating you then you're setting yourself up for...

Women are not like men and if this granddad knew anything about women and relationships then...

FP doesn't pay

Toks2008:
For the benefit of this piece it is important i define what chase in this context mean.. "To chase simply means making repetitive attempt to win the desire of a lady who does not want you"

A man should show a desire for a lady and not desperation but when you begin to chase a lady then you have crossed the line and if she eventually says YES, it will probably be because she has run out of time waiting for her preferred type of man or she just feels worn out by the pressure you mounted on her and will rarely be because she really wants to be with you..and the worst part is that you will end up being the one who will be making more sacrifices towards making the relationship work since you made it look like you desperately won her like a trophy or medal you have to keep fighting to keep.

For every lady you chase, it is most likely that there is a man out she is craving for so why ridicule yourself?...It is interesting to know that Nine out of every Ten single ladies already have a mind made guy they would love to be with?...simply put, almost every lady has a spec and if you don't meet up to the spec there is absolutely nothing you can do than to move on to another lady who may likely have you as her kind of man.

Some ladies have crazy desires and turn-ons like beards, 6pack, height, skin color, Age, Tribe, P*nis size and several other weird and funny references that attracts them to a man and if you don't have their desired qualities just forget wasting your time chasing them else you will only be making a big fool of yourself...95% of ladies prefer guys who are either Rich, very attractive or endowed down there but unfortunately only 5% of the total world's male population have one or all these attributes and until you upgrade yourself to be in this 5% league, you are likely going fall into the unfortunate category of guys who chase women ...

The best bet is to approach a lady in a mature way, tell her about your desire for her and be very sensitive to her body language.. if she wants you then go for her but if she rejects you simply tell her to be your friend with hope that she changes her mind and MOVE ON...

And no matter how you look or how your condition is, you must understand that there is a lady out there who is hoping to meet a guy just like you so stop wasting your time chasing a lady who does not want your type.

I hope this makes sense.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
ok so you saying that you'd rather chase kids or randy guys? bro you're either a peterfile or gay

Apus:
No offense, you sound unintelligent. Your comeback showed You didn't even understand what he typed.

cooooooks:
Just don't be desperate.

Never force anyone to date or consider you.

Chase girls you think like you.

Allow girls to chase you.

Don't cheat and don't tolerate cheating.

Mryacks:
The key word for me here is not to be "desperate" like you said. But I don't think there is anything wrong pursuing a woman who is worth it and showing her true affection. If it's meant to work fine, if not, then move on after sometime is she is not forthcoming. But pursuing a virtuous woman is ok me thinks. It doesn't make you weak!

cooooooks:
What does pursuing mean? I don't consider the word "pursuing" and the phrase "showing interest" to be the same thing.

If you show interest but she's clear that she's not interested, why continue to disturb her.

If she eventually 'settles' for you, small thing and she might say "na you beg me to marry you".

I think you should marry/date people who have a genuine interest in marrying/dating you too.

Jaboyka:
What u r saying makes a whole lot of sense. What does a guy now have to do when a lady stares at you, and it's obvious she likes you but when u make a move to meet her, shr just shuts down every

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
ok so you saying that you'd rather chase kids or randy guys? bro you're either a peterfile or gay

Magnoliaa:
Makes sense.

Never force someone to love you, or you'll keep trying to sustain that love...

It's better when it's a relationship where the people in it are together because they wish.

Desperation is bad.

OlawaleBammie:
It seems u didn't read the writeup,

he didn't say u should nt aproach a lady,

he didn't say u should nt ask a lady out,

he didn't say u should not develop a feeling for a lady,

he didn't say u should nt admire dem,

he didn't say u should nt make a trial of wooing dem.

the mesage is simple, dont chase dem around like ur existence depends on it, dont ridicule urself just cus u want a lady by all means, dont lose ur respect just cus of p..sy, just maintain ur class and ladies in ur class with follow u


how on earth wil i even run after a lady beyond limit as if i wil marry pass one wife?? mtcheeew.

Mryacks:
The key word for me here is not to be "desperate" like you said. But I don't think there is anything wrong pursuing a woman who is worth it and showing her true affection. If it's meant to work fine, if not, then move on after sometime is she is not forthcoming. But pursuing a virtuous woman is ok me thinks. It doesn't make you weak!

0KNM:
Wow! This is sick. So because you and your wife went to class and follow girls to run 100meters? Shame!

0KNM:
Wow! This is sick. So because you and your wife went to class and follow girls to run 100meters? Shame!