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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 6:03pm On Sep 26, 2019
President Roosevelt of America also suffered polio on wheelchair. He was to become the first American president to have 3 terms in office. The fourth term, he died. The constitution was continuously amended because of him, and re-amended back to 2 terms after him.

Look well, more are disabled out there than u think. Really disability is of the mind not body my friend.

However, i am currently developing an App that will address some of your concerns.

Blessed.

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by midnighter(f): 6:04pm On Sep 26, 2019
Try networking with people at your church/mosque

Did you attend university? Didn't see anyone there?

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 26, 2019
There is a woman for every man and a man for every woman. If you are not paralyzed under there and you have source of income,you will surely find a good woman that would love and cherish you

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by AfroKnight: 6:07pm On Sep 26, 2019
AmazingELixir:


undecided

Just as you have derailed the topic by contributing absolutely nothing

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by planetx: 6:08pm On Sep 26, 2019
Nairaland babes help out a brother o
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Cousin9999: 6:11pm On Sep 26, 2019
This dude is trolling.
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by MrHighSea: 6:12pm On Sep 26, 2019
flexxyworld:
bros. Make money, make a life. you'd become irresistible even in disability. yinka ayefele marry ooo and found love. This latest Internet sensation too shatta bandle, imagine the girls that will be sliding into his dm or messing around him.. just hustle ooo, love will find you when you succeed
When the money goes?
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by flexxyworld(m): 6:14pm On Sep 26, 2019
MrHighSea:

When the money goes?

then it shows the paralytic is a brain own than a physical own. even able bodied, it's a red flag for anyone. but all I'm tryna say is focus on your ability, make a life. love will find you. She might just love you for the life you living and you'd be amazed how love find people. But if you don't love yourself first by focusing on improving your life, no one gonna love you.n

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by madgoat(m): 6:14pm On Sep 26, 2019
Tantaliteweb2:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am tired of being single as a disabled. I have all it takes to take care of a girlfriend but know is accepting my proposal. I am 25years I am tired of being single .

Mention your disability so people can advice you better.
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by emmyid(m): 6:15pm On Sep 26, 2019
lyriclekidd:
Look for another disabled.

They have arrive. Must you comment?

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by madgoat(m): 6:16pm On Sep 26, 2019
nanaman:


What's your form of disability.? I'm paraplegic and also married.

Then how do you type on nairaland or handle a fone to read msgs here? Just curious

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by StarOnEarth(m): 6:16pm On Sep 26, 2019
The right person will still come bro, don't think about it in relation to being disable, I know of a friend, very handsome, through out our stay on campus not even one girl gree for am.

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by enshi(m): 6:16pm On Sep 26, 2019
Disability ain't disqualification... I have loved and dated a disabled before.. She was an angel. We communicated through phone and we went out a lot.. We never broke up. The relationship ended because her father sent her to UK for further special studies .. She has since then completed her studies and decided to remain there.. Pls I still don't mind dating one .. Just DM me

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by vickydevoka(m): 6:17pm On Sep 26, 2019
lyriclekidd:
Look for another disabled.
It all depends on de state of disability. Hope u re not mocking at him bcus anybody can be disabled at any point in our life

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 26, 2019
Tantaliteweb2:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am tired of being single as a disabled. I have all it takes to take care of a girlfriend but know is accepting my proposal. I am 25years I am tired of being single .
Naturally people with disability are very innovative/creative, So ensure u learned a skill that u can get income from I assure you love will find u wherever you are regardless of your disability.
As long as you have brain you aint disabled, so dont ever see yourself different from PMB etc.
I recently met an elderly Man of about 60years...
He is physically challenged, Diabetic, Cant see very well, Hypertensive, guess what? he is an employer of labour!
There are so many hustles that people like you can do effectively without any headache.

NB: You are still young, there are tons of opportunities ahead of you, dont waste your time waiting for who will love you, hustle and determine who you will love!

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by BRATISLAVA: 6:18pm On Sep 26, 2019
madgoat:


Then how do you type on nairaland or handle a fone to read msgs here? Just curious

Paraplegic. Not quadriplegic!

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by flexxyworld(m): 6:19pm On Sep 26, 2019
nanaman:

What's your form of disability.? I'm paraplegic and also married.
I'm so inspired right now. few words with great value. more wisdom sir!

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by islandmoon: 6:20pm On Sep 26, 2019
Tantaliteweb2:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am tired of being single as a disabled. I have all it takes to take care of a girlfriend but know is accepting my proposal. I am 25years I am tired of being single .

that "know" is the main problem but keep trying dear.
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Dickson25(m): 6:22pm On Sep 26, 2019
lyriclekidd:
Look for another disabled.
it doesnt work like that who will now help each other.... I'm disable too its not easy the way think it is.... May GOD HELP US IN THIS COUNTRY.....

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by nanaman(m): 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2019
madgoat:


Then how do you type on nairaland or handle a fone to read msgs here? Just curious

Paraplegics can make use their of upper limbs 100%. Only tetraplegic and quadriplegic find it difficult to make use of their lower limbs to full capacity.

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by SpaceAngel: 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2019
My young man, don't see yourself from the point of disability. See yourself as single and looking for a spouse. Don't cage yourself psychologically. I have friends that have similar issues that are married. I don't see them as disabled. I prefer you don't use the word to describe yourself. Just try and mix up with people and don't limit yourself. The fact that you are having some limitations doesn't mean that other aspects of you life is lacking. There are people with visual impairment, hearing, speech, autistic etc that are married. Have a nice day son.

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Enyimbamercedes: 6:31pm On Sep 26, 2019
You are not disabled; you are living with a disability.

One is psychological and the other is physical. You have mentally limited yourself by saying you are disabled. There are people with disabilities who have overcome the challenges and are doing great things including finding love. Dont let what you think limit you.

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by fishjam: 6:31pm On Sep 26, 2019
correctguy0900:
President Roosevelt of America also suffered polio on wheelchair. He was to become the first American president to have 3 terms in office. The fourth term, he died. The constitution was continuously amended because of him, and re-amended back to 2 terms after him.

Look well, more are disabled out there than u think. Really disability is of the mind not body my friend.

However, i am currently developing an App that will address some of your concerns.

Blessed.

Why announce it prematuredly?
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by skukimania(f): 6:32pm On Sep 26, 2019
enshi:
Disability ain't disqualification... I have loved and dated a disabled before.. She was an angel. We communicated through phone and we went out a lot.. We never broke up. The relationship ended because her father sent her to UK for further special studies .. She has since then completed her studies and decided to remain there.. Pls I still don't mind dating one .. Just DM me

But the op is a male oh and you are another male.
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by saajus: 6:34pm On Sep 26, 2019
What kind of disability. Each disability has it own special way of turning it to ability. Pls, tell the house more about urself

Tantaliteweb2:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am tired of being single as a disabled. I have all it takes to take care of a girlfriend but know is accepting my proposal. I am 25years I am tired of being single .
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Tantaliteweb2: 6:35pm On Sep 26, 2019
lyriclekidd:
Look for another disabled.
. God forbid who will now help each other out
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by nwamabo247(m): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2019
my dear it very difficut oo ladies of this generation has higher espertation,and may never look our direction.i have since remove my mind from that side.i have c-5 spinal cord injure for almost 12yrs now

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Tantaliteweb2: 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2019
saajus:

What kind of disability. Each disability has it own special way of turning it to ability. Pls, tell the house more about urself

mine started when I was just 5years old . It was caused by polio . It only affected my Left leg and I am using wheelchair. But I can still use clutches

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by frozen70(f): 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2019
Tantaliteweb2:
Dear Nairalanders,
I am tired of being single as a disabled. I have all it takes to take care of a girlfriend but know is accepting my proposal. I am 25years I am tired of being single .

There is a woman for every man

Don't be in a hurry to get settled

Start looking for women whom you feel will understand your status and be willing to accept you and love you with a pure and genuine heart

No matter how much you think you have that it takes to care for a woman, she has a greater task to accomplish

You will definitely get one and when you do,
be nice,
remove pride and ego,
be loving and caring,
be humane and protect her
be a good gentleman

You and her will definitely rock your marriage

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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by victorian(f): 6:40pm On Sep 26, 2019
Make money be rich and you will have a wife.

Even able bodied men are yet to find a wife, because they possibly do not have any source of income or they are broke and seriously single.

I know of a friend's friend who is disabled, as in. He doesn't walk. He's being moved around by an electronic wheel chair.
My friend just got back from UK, we hung out and he said babe! I want to introduce someone to you. You will be shocked when u see the guy and please control yourself when we get there o, pls. I replied ok. So we drove down to this stranger's place. The gate of this stranger was huge, fine and black.
A security guard opened the gate for us as my friend horned.
He drove in, staring at me was a massive white huge building . We parked, we sha entered the house and a guy greeted my friend warmly and said Boss is coming, we should have our seats.
We sat down I was admiring the decor and house. I shook my guy? Whats strange about this place? I don't understand.
He replied just chill.
Then lo and behold, a man with tiny polio legs, seated on an electric wheel chair drove into the sitting room, with three men walking by his sides holding files and all. My guy stood up went to greet the guy. Me sef greeted him. I was looking at this man in fascination.
The guys standing by him were speaking igbo. So I knew he's an igbo man.
Then later someone walked in briskly saying madam has just arrived from the airport. The disabled man mumbled OK.
We were still waiting for him o
Then few minutes his wife breezed in.
A tall fair beautiful thick shaped igbo lady. She was all smiles holding her bag while some men were carrying her luggage upstairs.
She walked to him, kissed his lips and they were speaking in igbo. She greeted us and went upstairs.
My friend said u see that disabled man, he's fucvking rich!
He owns alot of shops in Lagos, aba and onitsha.
He has 5kids and they are all schooling abroad. That's his wife. She went to see the kids in their boarding schools abroad and she's back. All these men u see walking around him, giving him files are his managers managing the shops.
Shey u see what money can do?

Then I saw two men bringing in brief cases, they opened show him and he kept them by his side.

My friend even said, there is a business deal he wants to discuss with the disabled guy that's why we are here. His friend in UK assured him, he will be a perfect business partner for such deal he has in mind.

I was like wow! shocked


Mehn the memory of that man stuck into my brain like forever.

So op make money o! And having a wife will be past tense. You go even have children join. Just make your money and leave comfortably. That's all.

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