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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by midnighter(f): 6:41pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
madgoat: I was wondering too, paraplegic means he only has an issue with his legs Quadriplegic means arms and legs So his case is much better 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Opexzy: 6:41pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Don't worry about finding love... Wait till love finds you.. Just be good to people and more importantly yourself, be happy and try not to exhibit inferiority in any form, finally, make money if your disabilities permits that... MODIFIED There is no disability that impedes greatness.. What can be worse than being deaf, dumb and blind at the same time... Helen Keller was one... But she eventually turned out to be one of the most respected lawyer and human rights activists in the US... You need to watch the movie, the miracle worker about this woman... Indeed disabilities is truly of the mind and not of the body... 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by lyriclekidd(m): 6:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
emmyid: Go and ask your grandmother
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Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by freeman1010: 6:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Bless family � |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by thesmallgod(m): 6:46pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2:I've seen a guy during my Msc program. The same disability as urs. He's a computer scientist and a very versatile data scientist. He works for the school. He's happily married. Anytime I see him alighting from his Toyota Camry 2008, he's always assisted by his wife who always get the wheelchair from the boot of the car. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Dpharisee: 6:48pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
You hardly see Igbo disabled begging (no tribalism meant), because they are hustlers and their families and friends don't even treat them as disable. They are always proud and full of themselves, they acquire degrees, learn trades and get good at it as shoe makers, tailors, shop owners etc Go to major markets you will see them hustling hard in one trade or other and they have wives and kids. Their relations set them up in business, trade or employment and sometimes help them to find wives. Disability is a thing of the mind, the only disabled person in Igboland is a poor person who can't take care of himself. Relax, your woman will find you, just be cheerful, kind and Godly. 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by qaulyns27: 6:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Just be patient. You will meet the one that will love u. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Obodo999(m): 6:52pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
EmmBim: From your answer, the 'good woman' will only give her Love when there are sex and money on offer. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by omomummy13: 6:53pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I'm so sorry about your condition but TRUST me, you need to develop a skill and make a living off it. Shoe making Graphic design Web development Writing Blogging Motivational speaking etc. That is a major factor that'll attract the opposite sex to you. They're not rejecting your offer because you're disabled, I'm sure their thought will centre around sustainability. Like, how is he going to maintain a family. It's real, I mean responsibilities. Even if a lady will suffer with you, nobody wants to have the confirmation from the start. That's not attractive, it's not fair either. Please forgive me, no offence intended. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by samyyoung1(m): 6:54pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
victorian: U av said it all....an sure aki n pawpaw never dreamt of the life they r living now....just be good in a skill as low as show making n watch girls fall for u like parks of card 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by DEBJOCH1(m): 6:54pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
IF SHATA BANTLE COULD HAVE MANY NUISANCE LADIES DANGLING AT HIS MONEY, BROTHER NOTHING DO YOU, JUST HUSTLE HARDER, MAKE THE MONEY YOU WILL SEE THEM RUSHING AFTER YOU LIKE WHERE BEES ARE RUSHING AFTER HONEY CONE. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by victorian(f): 7:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
samyyoung1: Exactly! That's just life o! |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by nwamabo247(m): 7:04pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
nanaman:you are right my own was tetraplegic i can type well with phone but can't with laptop or pc |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by freeze22(m): 7:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
I understand what you're going through bro. I also have the same condition as yours. It hasn't been an easy journey. But I never had a reason to give up hope. I'm a graduate, unfortunately I couldn't secure a job and so I became my own boss. Income is not much now but I'm working on it. One of the best part of my story is this amazing lady I met some time ago. To cut the long story short, we're planning on getting married sometime in the first quarter of next year. It's not always about having all the money in the world, it's more about being who you are. I don't know if you're a Christian but I always draw inspiration from this verse Jeremiah 32:27 “Look, I am the LORD, the God who rules over all flesh. Is anything too difficult for me?” If it worked for me, then I believe it can work for you too. Stay blessed. 14 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by grandstar(m): 7:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2: You're still young my guy but loneliness is killing you. Your advantage is that you're male unlike females who have very little chance of ever marrying. To date, you'll simply have to work twice or 10 times as hard as others. As long as you're ready to do so, you'll get someone. You did not state the degree of your disability. It plays a big part. I suspect you're crippled but to what extent? I know you're not blind |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by extremelygolden: 7:15pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2: I know of two siblings, a male and a female in the same situation as you are, who are happily married with children. That of the female sibling was so bad that everyone feels for her, but she was very active in the Church and was always wearing a cheerful look. A brother saw how devoted she was in Church activities and insisted he will marry her. Today, they are just everything you will desire in a marriage. The male sibling is doing well with his family too. So keep your hope up, love will definitely find you. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Obanyi30(m): 7:22pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
nanaman:. I am also a paraplegic. Please how can I talk to you privately? |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Opexzy: 7:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
correctguy0900: Wow... You are a software developer...? |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by lizdammy: 7:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Your own will soon come. Don't give up. Pray and trust God. Don't be tired. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by xrenzy(m): 7:34pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Disability is all in your head you've gat to love your self first thats the greatest love ever, what you experiencing is normal i have alot of able friends whom i give girls to, ask about me ? girls wanna get married everyday to this pure disable guy, and all my disable friends? some are married and some have girlfriends, point is life will always accept you the way you present yourself take it from one physically challenge person to another you can be whatever you want to be be and be |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by nanaman(m): 7:35pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Obanyi30:tunjioui@gmail.com |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 7:36pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Obodo999:I said source of income not until he becomes a millionaire |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by nanaman(m): 7:37pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
nwamabo247: Awesome |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2:Look for a wife when you are ready to get married. Don't look for a girlfriend. Ask five ladies (casual friends) that you have built close relationships with that you want them to be your wife and i believe you will have Yes from one or two if not all of them. Note before asking the question you must be sending them(the casual friends) motivational and inspirational quotes every morning and evening via sms or their social media handles and also call them at least once in three days to ask what's going on? for at least four months. They might even begin to ask you why didn't you call them for the past two days but never get angry when you see any of them with another guy(he might also be a fisherman"LOOKING FOR A WIFE" like you).Never show them that you can't live without them if they end the relationship. Always be happy around them if they ask you how do you feel about your condition? Tell them God knows best. You will also need to offer them gifts like recharge card,slippers,clothes or any gift that you can afford occasionaly (once a month will do until you propose). Note: Some able bodied youths get no from five out of five ladies they propose to so don't think it is about money or looks. Lastly,always ask God to give you a good wife not just a wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by enshi(m): 7:55pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
skukimania: Ooh dear , I wasnt referring to the op .. My DM request is for general |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Obanyi30(m): 7:55pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
nanaman:. Thank you. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by skukimania(f): 7:56pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
enshi: Oh, ok. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by DEBJOCH1(m): 7:57pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Love4God:. TECHNICAL ADVISER CLEMENT WESTEHORF, WHAT IF HE PROPOSE TO THE WHOLE FIVE AND ALL IF THEM ACCEPT TO HIS PROPOSAL AT THE SAME TIME. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by DJBIGGY(m): 7:58pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2: I'm disabled like you man and it's only God that knows how many ladies I've dated (planning to settle down sha). You can get any lady you want.... Always show women how independent you are without having to be needy of attention and emotionally blackmailing them cos you are disabled. Watch them want to do anything you want. Women day dream about disabled when they see a disabled man with so much confidence and doesn't see his condition as something that weighs him down 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by seguntijan(m): 7:59pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Am also disable, I can't afford 3 square meals. Been disabled is a thing of the mind |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by Nobody: 7:59pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
DEBJOCH1:Let the OP answer the question. |
Re: How Can I Find Love As A Disabled by ojay72(m): 8:05pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tantaliteweb2: The first step is to STOP ADDRESSING YOURSELF AS A DISABLED. that word alone, lowers your self esteem. Secondly, focus on making money and create the dream environment and lifestyle you desire.... Trust me... Na you go de run from women afterwards. |
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