From the little I've heard, seems like mbaise people are a terrible people. Also heard they eat people.. Bad stereotypes too about ijebu and ebira people of kogi.

Last last na discrimination go kill us for Naija.

Mbaise people fought the Pope because of their greed.

If you can marry from a place where they fought the Pope, be ready to have Satan as an inlaw.

Trezagezz:


I will just tell you a simple story that connotes the story....
A man from my kindred married an Mbaise is woman at early 80's and this woman made the husband not to look after her biological mum and siblings nor come home.. she successfully made the husband to avoid home,village meeting with our people in town nor associate with his kinsmen... This man built Manson for the wife's family and train up the wife's siblings.. he will cross my town and went to the wife's side to spend some popular festive season..
Lol and behold,he got sick (stroke) and this foolish woman abandoned him and move with the two girls she has with the man.. then wealthy man was brought home in shame and was burried in a compound without good building cause the family is doing in Poverty.....
Till today that Mbaise woman has not crossef my village neither the family which the man race and made what they are....


Another one is when I was in 200L,I dated one girl from same Mbaise,she always threaten me with death and always deadly with evil violent whenever I had issue with her not untill o unleash my anger and made her go her separate way by force.....

So your parents might have their own reason ...
But that doesn't mean that all are bad...


***DON'T NEGLECT THE ADVISE OF REASONABLE ELDERS***""

Haba! Your use of English language is as bad as the quality of your advice. Which higher institution did you attend?

There's a saying that "if you see an mbaise man and a snake in your house, that you should kill the mbaise man first".

GenBuhari:
okwia? No be do or die matter.

Yes nah!

Bro where have you been?

YorubaNinja:
Go marry a Yoruba guy, abeg... your parents would be very glad you did. They're the best!

Omo Yoruba nimi ooo... SWAGGERRR !!!

cheaters, go and marry your agbo hustling and agege bread hustling afonja ladies

slimanyd:
Ur parents knows best.

But assuming u told ur parents that the guy is the son of a senator from mbaise now, Am sure they will change topic straight up

lol

You have awesome parents. But you must be an ungrateful girl to question their wise counsel. Listen, there are no good men worthy of a deltan kpekus in Mbaise. Do not fall for their gimmicks. I once dated an mbaise girl. I loved her so well that I could kill for her. One day, her friend called me and said my babe was dying and in need of blood. I am O+. I donated blood at the clinic. The next day, I went back to the clinic only to see a guy lying beside her with a blood bag hanging over the metal hanger. I got mad. It was my blood that this Mbaise girl "donated" to her boyfriend.

Later, I found that she faked her admission at the clinic to make the guy feel she got ill from losing a lot of blood. The mad girl was also O+. Fear Mbaise people!

JLM:


Never use these disrespective tone to refer to parents. They are like small gods on earth. No one can ever love you like them. If things go wrong with you everyone else will abandon you, the nairaland people here will not be there to help you.

Believe me , I am talking from experience. Have a heart to heart talk with your parents and trust their decision. They have seen far. Except by nature you know that your parents do not have fair character or sense of judgement. Believe me many wish they had listened and obeyed, especially ladies, of which I am one.

God help you

Yes but when things go wrong with your husband you will face it alone without your parents.

Sorry but for all those ones who wished they had listened, as many wish that they hadnt

Not everything parents do is completely altruistic. Some parents act selfishly because they dont want you embarrass them by marrying from the wrong place ( and before that, do the wrong job and before that, study the wrong course, go to the wrong university, etc.) Parents can use you to flex and if you dont spot their motives you are done for.

Plus with "typical" African parenting you are still a child no matter your age, so your opinions or feelings dont necessarily matter to them as much as theirs when it comes to serious issues

Sometimes the love is tied in with vanity and selfish interest, the OP needs to look at the situation objectively and not just blindly follow her parents. This is so important

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

I want to ask, since you have been dating him for three years have you noticed any of the traits people mentioned here in him? If you haven't then I believe he's truly yours.

crackhouse:
There's a saying that "if you see an mbaise man and a snake in your house, that you should kill the mbaise man first".

It was a revenge song by Kabaka after Dr. Sir Warrior cheated on him. Both of them were Oriental brothers

All Nigerians are bad and evil, that's according to the international community and especially south Africa.

All Mbaise people are bad and evil, that's according to Nigerians.

But hear this:

Any tribe or group of people known for a particular character or thing, then they are truly that thing.

In other words, The international community and especially South Africans are right about Nigerians.

Nigerians are absolutely right about Mbaise people, which means you have every reason to worry.

The choice is yours.

Meanwhile......

Once in a while, don't you single ladies and gentlemen jokingly ask your parents where they wouldn't want you to marry from?

Once in a while, I jokingly ask my mom where she'll not want me to marry from and so far, she hasn't mentioned a particular place. It's not like I will even consider her when the time comes sha but just in case. We don't reject or discriminate people when marriage is involved.

Discrimination runs in the blood of southerners. I just wonder why. The only form of discrimination here in the middle belt is on the basis of religion.

I want to marry from the south east or south south. I just hope that when the time comes, issues like this will not come up. Cos if southerners can discriminate against each other, what's the faith of a middle beltan who southerners see as Hausa/Fulani?

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

How can you be involved deeply with a man for 3 years and didn't confirm if tomorrow you decide to progress in the relationship, if your parents will accept. The issue about his tribe ought to have come in early before now to avoid unnecessary wasting of time.

Marriage is between families apart from the individuals involved. My late uncle married an Mbaise woman and i must say that many things said about them are True. The marriage was filled with regrets because according to the information by my parents, he was warned against going that route but he was blinded by love. I guess there might still be some good ones there though.

If your parents insist they won't allow you go and state viable reasons for that, i will advise you adhere and shun those saying you should shun them because if tomorrow it doesn't go well, it's your family you will fall back to. You are a Lady leaving your territory to join with another so you need to be very careful of where you are going to in the name of marriage.

You are still fine at 26 and can still achieve marriage before 30. Even those that are already in their 30s still will get married. Don't because of age factor rush into something that will be filled with everlasting regrets. Take your time and in all, pray very well for God's guidance and direction.

Good luck

bluediesel03:
I have been reading wicked and terrible things that happened in South East fo some time now I hardly read any one coming from mbaise.maybe we should henceforth be mindful of where bad news comes from so that we can know the bad area to avoid in East.I believe in practical not Dem say Dem say...

thy could b very notorious dat evil may hav bcom a norm.

Sofistcatdmoron:

cheaters, go and marry your agbo hustling and agege bread hustling afonja ladies

Well, as your moniker displayed... "Sophisticated Mor0n". It says it all.

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

My sister is married to an Mbaise man and I tell you she always tells me how wicked the man is and only we as a family know what we have passed through with that man ..better listen to your parents oo

hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

You and your future generations are the most useless for calling Ibadan "useless bunch of people". Is your one man experience ( which may be due to your greediness) enough to generalise to entire Noble descendants of Oluyole?. Ibadan people are the best. You are the worst.

MedicH:
Lol my dad can follow u ur introduction as long as it's not Mbaisem we're four boys and he sings it like a song everyday. Old man has terrible experience with them.

I have too. Persuade your parents but Mbaise people strong gan gan.

Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

its obvious your parents have their reasons for not wanting you to mary an mbaise man, but you just can't stereotype a whole state

E dey pain u ooo haaaaaaa....you are mad , I'm entitle to my personal opinion ...to hell with u...see mad man dey talk about greediness , I personally funded ibadan people with my hard earned money on in the name of helping them but gboom they showed thierlineage character ....ole ni gbogbo yin

Jobabori:

You and your future generations are the most useless for calling Ibadan "useless bunch of people". Is your one man experience ( which may be due to your greediness) enough to generalise to entire Noble descendants of Oluyole?. Ibadan people are the best. You are the worst.

millionboi2:
Stop deciving ppl,buying from dealers is better pending d time d pesin will build up and start full importation.

How and who have I deceived... If you don't have any reasonable to say, is better you shut down your dull brain and sleep

ramaju:
I have too. Persuade your parents but Mbaise people strong gan gan.

Lol my papa. If he begin to narrate his ordeal eeh sotee he said once you introduce yourself to him and say you're from Mbaise he will just automatically brace up to be at alert for your tricks.

Our tenant taught him a bitter lesson sha

imitateMe:

So it's the job of boyfriend to send you money abi? You should be flogged.

I wasn't talking to you.

Truth be told my dear..I asked about something like this some time ago and I was told that mbaise are very stingy set of people and to cap it all during my N.D days in a maritime institute;our class rep was as stingy as anything and that guy is from mbaise..this guy buy me groundnut #50 chop #40 inside..lol..funny but its true..this class rep dated my friens but u nothing drip from him body even to the extent say na the girl dey pay their transport take go her house ooo and them go still kpansh ontop.. mbaise are like tortoise..if I tell you story of this my class rep ehn,am sure you would have a second thought about what your parents said but the question to this is:
Is the guy meeting up your needs?? In terms of finance..(just saying ooo...nobody should quote me)

doy56:
Are the mbaise people really that cursed because there is so much rejection of marriage to mbaise people

They are crafy species of lgboman
Hardly straight forward

Lurking and took a break from politics. I can sense Nigeria is being set up to implode or explode by global dark forces, so I am back and ready to do whatever can be done. I still relish memory of our campaign together and comradary.

Okoroawusa:

Yes nah!


Bro where have you been?

Imagine this mentality in 2019..

ngwababe:
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

Is it boyfriend's job to give you money? Bunch of leeches

seangy4konji:
Same way o can never marry any ijebu or ondo,ilesha,ijesha lady

I'm not Ijebu dear.

I don't believe I've ever even set foot in Ijebuland before? Unless in transit?

Hmmm
Mbaise people. All the atrocities committed in Igbo land are committed by mbaise people. They are very wicked and heartless. I heard Buhari's grandmother was from mbaise. The xenophobic attack in SA was started by an mbaise man. Evans the kidnapper is from mbaise. Rev king is from mbaise. Derico nwa mama was from mbaise. Eddy na nawgu was from mbaise. Otokoto was from mbaise. Gracious the serial killer was from mbaise. Adolf Hitler's grandfather was from mbaise. All the bad news u hear in Igbo land is only from mbaise.
The same way all Nigerians abroad are all bad people, all of them.
Bombocrats stereotype.

NuissancePolice:
Is it boyfriend's job to give you money?

Yes na

So what then is his job

arodavoo:


How and who have I deceived... If you don't have any reasonable to say, is better you shut down your dull brain and sleep

Oga read my post again and stop fooling urself....Mr mini importer