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Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by damoobaba: 7:15pm On Sep 28, 2019
sorrow, sadness everywhere since you people have decided to start keeping your tithes in your pocket, following Daddy freeze teachings and insulting genuine men of God. Call daddy freeze to deliver you from depression.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Heartbender: 7:17pm On Sep 28, 2019
Did you skip the last phrase? Where he was asked to call?
adenigga:
But remember the bus was purchased by loan obtained and d loan has not being repaid o. So, where will my guy get legal fees from now. My suggestion, our lawyers in the house can assist by offering their services Free of charge to assist fellow nairalander.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by executive12: 7:34pm On Sep 28, 2019
jclassiq:
One off payment or monthly?
Insurance payment is yearly. As the vehicle gets older you can reduce your coverage and pay less than when you started.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by jmichael259(m): 7:39pm On Sep 28, 2019
You are in a tight corner and in serious need of a bounce back plan. You can't afford to yield to the temptation to sue. Don't let lawyers or anybody waste the little money remaining on police or court cases.

FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, With around 300k u can learn and open a barbershop OR buy second hand keke-bus for town service, since you are already in transportation. Many other prompt business ideas are also available.

IT MIGHT TAKE YOU A YEAR OR MORE but you'll manage to pay of that loan that is threatening your life and start up again.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by executive12: 7:40pm On Sep 28, 2019
sophy17:
Anybody can sue anybody but its another thing to prove the case and succeed.
U parked the road by the road side because the brake failed is wrong. U may be guilty of contributory negligence.
The cause of the damage was d dug gutter leading to d fall of d pole n d fence on your bus. Again u reasonably ought to have known that by parking your car on d road where construction/ digging of gutter was ongoing could lead to further incidents including what happened. U could have towed, pushed, to a safer place. The digging was already there before u parked. Not after u parked.
Besides, are you sure the incident was not due to natural cause? Storm, flooding due to rain
U also need to consider the cost of litigation and enforcement of judgement if u won the case and time it will take you to finish the case.
I am a lawyer. Beware of those who tell you as if they are the judge.
You must really be a good lawyer. Great points there.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Nobody:
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
You were asking for a car to buy but didn't mention that it was a loan.

People don't fund transport business from loans .And it's not even an expansion but a new entrant.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 28, 2019
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
IF your car fails brake, doesn't mean you cannot still drive it down to your house. Or the nearest motor park. People drive bus or wagons 100km with failed brakes just to get home. It takes skill.

You are just new in the business.

Don't bother about the lawyer issue, they will just chop you.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Eofclub: 7:54pm On Sep 28, 2019
royaldok:
what's your WhatsApp number?
+2348130522285

This is my what'sapp
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by heendrix(m): 8:23pm On Sep 28, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


This heading is very confusing.
Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide.

My emphasis is on the word "before".
Meaning either way you'd still commit suicide but you just need a legal advice before doing it.

In that case, I won't waste my energy on you.

But just in case I got that wrong....accept the heartbreak and move on.
You'd never gain much from depleting your scarce resources to chase a legal battle that may go either way.
It makes no financial sense.
It makes no practical sense either; except to a troublemaker.

Remember, you were at fault by overnight parking by the roadside.
So the law isn't your friend on this too.

Times heals everything.
Let this go but please fight your case if you strongly believe that the only reason Toyota manufactured that bus is so that you can make it in life.
Lmao grin grin

you ehn
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by heendrix(m): 8:26pm On Sep 28, 2019
TOPCRUISE:
The Village pipu at your side strong gan o. They enter your bus to cause break failure. They whispered to you to park it to where they will visit it. Thereafter they are convincing you to commit suicide.
Don't give in to their desires. Sue the company.
Lol grin
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by adenigga(m): 8:33pm On Sep 28, 2019
Heartbender:
Did you skip the last phrase? Where he was asked to call?
No, I saw it and it means that help is on the way for him. Moreover, don't get me wrong, your gesture is what prompted my comment so as encourage other likeminds. Pls! Don't be offended!!!
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 28, 2019
It's all wrong from the beginning:
You borrowed loan to get a bus - issue
Probably you got second hand vehicle - issues
It starts developing faults - more issues
It became a pain - overly issues
It decided not to work again - issue
Left you on the road with no decision - issue
You parked it on the road - issue
You didn't realize that gutters are being dug - issue
The same night you parked it, the same night gutters decided to give way - coincidence or overly issues
Poles fell, not one, not two but 4 or is it five you mentioned - extra ordinary issues.
And one of the poles decided to have a great unfriendly impact with your vehicle - devilish
You then decided to commit SUICIDE - devilish issue
wink

Bros, now you can see that it's all issues from the beginning:
There could be more to this than meet the eye. Pray that every battle facing your success should be expose and destroy by the power of the Almighty God.

Stay blessed without issues smiley
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Listar(m): 8:58pm On Sep 28, 2019
pls don't sue anybody and don't commit suicide, just move on. You saw the construction site and gutter the danger they posed before parking your car there, so please move on
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Reucy(f): 9:22pm On Sep 28, 2019
The decision to park your car by the road side amounted to Car parked at owner's risk... Equity aids the vigilant and not the indolent, you should have driven the car to a safer place.

Besides I consider the falling of poles as an act of God.

To be honest with you, the chances of you winning this case if you choose to pursue it would be of slim one.

Kpele
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Gwagone: 9:55pm On Sep 28, 2019
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
Car parked at owner's risk

Borrow more money to fix it and double your hustle brah
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by LabDNA:
Ok
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 11:02pm On Sep 28, 2019
wrk is ongoing. i ws tld dat on TUESDAY while those half-baked engineers were wrkin, two poles fell on a keke and d keke took dem to police. case stil in police. i dont want to go to police. i dnt trust police.
alizma:
If the construction work is still on going you need to contact some journalist get some lawyers ready for help and move down there to create a better movie enough to stop the work for that day and possibly for some days. Otherwise, this is my country and my people will tell you that we don't refer to someone we know very well as that man, is either you call him by his name, eg Daddy funke or Daddy chukwuma.
What are my saying on a lighter but sincere mood? This is Nigeria if you no use craze follow craze, e better make you commit the suicide now because you no go see one naira.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 11:13pm On Sep 28, 2019
didnt u see whr i wrote dat I did my insurance wit LINKAGE PLC? u sounded like an engr. IYF im an engrin grad.
ednut1:
You dey abuse engineers as half baked. But how can a graduate not insure a vehicle he took with loan. Insurance for no pass 50k . Sad one.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 11:26pm On Sep 28, 2019
shut up abeg
MedicH:
Easy
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 11:32pm On Sep 28, 2019
it actually rained dat nite after i left. heavy rain.
sophy17:
Anybody can sue anybody but its another thing to prove the case and succeed.
U parked the road by the road side because the brake failed is wrong. U may be guilty of contributory negligence.
The cause of the damage was d dug gutter leading to d fall of d pole n d fence on your bus. Again u reasonably ought to have known that by parking your car on d road where construction/ digging of gutter was ongoing could lead to further incidents including what happened. U could have towed, pushed, to a safer place. The digging was already there before u parked. Not after u parked.
Besides, are you sure the incident was not due to natural cause? Storm, flooding due to rain
U also need to consider the cost of litigation and enforcement of judgement if u won the case and time it will take you to finish the case.
I am a lawyer. Beware of those who tell you as if they are the judge.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 11:47pm On Sep 28, 2019
i wud hav postd pixs here but my fone camera is bad. i used a residn fone to snap. hopefly i wil post pixs bfore monday
ornicus:
Take as many photos as you can. If you have an android phone, download open camera and set it to show date and position . Make sure your photos include the vehicle with its license plate.

Get an honest estimate of repairs. Avoid an overinflated one. You can consider getting two or three

Get a lawyer.
The first step is to engage the site engineer. Make sure it is semi official.


Most people will want to close out the issue without office getting wind of it. If the site engineer cannot or is unwilling to resolve, then you need to engage his employer.


Officially through your lawyer. You also need to copy whoever they are doing the job for.

If this doesn’t work, then engage the employer proper. If it is local government and they are dragging their hands, then you need to hit social media so the governor or some commissioner becomes aware.

We had an incident where we were painting a station and some cars in a sales lot got stained. The vendor had to pay for all of them.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 11:53pm On Sep 28, 2019
how wil i pay off 800k? i hav d money and i borrowed? ur last statemnt sounds as if i loan money and delibratly refusd to pay.
N1G3R14N:
If you parked legally...

In a real nation, you'd find a good lawyer to help you sue and get a replacement, then gradually pay your debts, all done fast.

But here, you have to pay lawyers first, 'tip' the police or journalist or whoever helps your case get attention, still battle with an unresponsive, unwilling to pay company, while case just keeps getting adjourned and money keeps going on airtime, transportation and tips, and still, only luck can help you after.
Gauge all this, is worth it? Really, you know your country, can you afford to get justice?

Like someone said, better start thinking of another way to move forward, before you're in more debt, sorrow n high bp.

Unfortunately, you're now going to restart from debt. Keep that thought aside for now. Think; What do you have? What can you start with? No skills? (invest in that next time). If you can get pro bono help, or pay after a won case, still try your luck with justice, but start thinking of how to move forward. You don't know what the future holds. What happened simply shows how random life can be.

Also: PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS. It's not good to owe people. Nothing wrong in sacrificing to be off debt
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 12:09am On Sep 29, 2019
i fence and electric pole compressd d car frm d roof. i wil try an post pixs
lowkey0147:
My brother abeg take am easy..Some days are like that, Since u said the bus can't be repaired, you can consider selling it by parts...Look for those that will buy the engine, if the engine is sound you can get a deal of 80k or more for the engine only depending the model of the bus..then you sell the body as scrab (Mgbuka)..some can pay up to 20k - 40k for a Scrab car but it depends on how greedy the person you met is..from there you can couple things up..it won't cover all the expenses but it's better than suicide. My 2 cent
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by AbelAbdul(op): 12:17am On Sep 29, 2019
there was no single brk to evn managed. d frst time d car fell brk i tried managin it home and almost got crushed by a trailer.
Naughtysite:
IF your car fails brake, doesn't mean you cannot still drive it down to your house. Or the nearest motor park. People drive bus or wagons 100km with failed brakes just to get home. It takes skill.

You are just new in the business.

Don't bother about the lawyer issue, they will just chop you.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Truthbites: 1:25am On Sep 29, 2019
infogenius:
I am sorry about that. This is not what one should bargain for in this period of NEXT LEVEL

Suing the company may not be in your interest because u parked your bus at the
roadside and not in a secure garage.

Your insurance policy may be the key to getting something out of the damage.

I believe the lawyers on this forum will enlighten you and me
Third party may amount to nothing
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Trutherme: 2:25am On Sep 29, 2019
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
I hope the advice you have gotten already will discourage you from taking your life. Taking your life shouldn't even be on the table because there are millions out there who are in worst shape or situation than you. You should hang in and look for other alternatives.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by ednut1(m): 4:46am On Sep 29, 2019
AbelAbdul:
didnt u see whr i wrote dat I did my insurance wit LINKAGE PLC? u sounded like an engr. IYF im an engrin grad.
5k third party no be insurance. The lord is ur strength bro.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by rigarmortis: 6:53am On Sep 29, 2019
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
What's the name of the company. Getting your money back is easier than you think. All of them have construction all risk or public liability insurance
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by decub: 7:36am On Sep 29, 2019
AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.
Please do not commit suicide, that's usually not the best option.

You might also not win the case in a court because a construction site is usually not for public use until they are done and the site commissioned.

Your best bet is to look at the terms of your insurance and see if it favours you or probably use the insurance firm to negotiate with the construction company to get the most you can, otherwise, learn to move on even though it's difficult.
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by Nobody: 7:47am On Sep 29, 2019
sophy17:
Anybody can sue anybody but its another thing to prove the case and succeed.
U parked the road by the road side because the brake failed is wrong. U may be guilty of contributory negligence.
The cause of the damage was d dug gutter leading to d fall of d pole n d fence on your bus. Again u reasonably ought to have known that by parking your car on d road where construction/ digging of gutter was ongoing could lead to further incidents including what happened. U could have towed, pushed, to a safer place. The digging was already there before u parked. Not after u parked.
Besides, are you sure the incident was not due to natural cause? Storm, flooding due to rain
U also need to consider the cost of litigation and enforcement of judgement if u won the case and time it will take you to finish the case.
I am a lawyer. Beware of those who tell you as if they are the judge.
I am an engineer.

Did they Cordon off the Works?
Any caution tape?
Did they put warning signs?
Any traffic management?
Did they have a safety officer on site?
Do they have a proper EHS policy?
Did they close down the road?


It is just that this is Nigeria and the job is probably direct labour or paddy paddy. If you cannot demonstrate that you adopted best safety practices, you are liable. So what if it was a child the pole fell on?

Car parked at owners risk is a disclaimer for commercial premises. It is to absolve them of liability if the car is broken into or vandalized. It does not apply in this case

Have an accident on your site in a petrol station and all your paper better be in order.

Lawyers abroad can take on cases with an agreement to share the monies paid out to the plaintiff. Not sure if we do that here. Note that the longer you wait, the more difficult it will be
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by N1G3R14N(m): 10:10am On Sep 29, 2019
AbelAbdul:
how wil i pay off 800k? i hav d money and i borrowed? ur last statemnt sounds as if i loan money and delibratly refusd to pay.
I meant payback as gradual as you can. Don't be like some (experience talking) that won't pay off debts till the whole 800k lands. I don't know you, idk if you're like most other Nigerians. Just advising you on that end
Re: Legal Advice Seriously Needed Before I Commit Suicide. by sophy17(m): 11:32am On Sep 29, 2019
ornicus:
I am an engineer.

Did they Cordon off the Works?
Any caution tape?
Did they put warning signs?
Any traffic management?
Did they have a safety officer on site?
Do they have a proper EHS policy?
Did they close down the road?


It is just that this is Nigeria and the job is probably direct labour or paddy paddy. If you cannot demonstrate that you adopted best safety practices, you are liable. So what if it was a child the pole fell on?

Car parked at owners risk is a disclaimer for commercial premises. It is to absolve them of liability if the car is broken into or vandalized. It does not apply in this case

Have an accident on your site in a petrol station and all your paper better be in order.

Lawyers abroad can take on cases with an agreement to share the monies paid out to the plaintiff. Not sure if we do that here. Note that the longer you wait, the more difficult it will be


Your questions above are not relevant in the instant case. The simple reason being that it wouldn't have stopped the damage. It would probably have been different if eg someone fell inside the dug gutter.

The fact that this is Naija, or that it is direct labour or paddy paddy does not and cannot be a defence to escape liabilty.. If the pole had fallen on a child or anybody, the point is, to claim damages, you must prove that the person/company u are sueing caused it by his action or inaction or actually fell the pole on u, that he owes u that duty of care. Eg. If u park your car under a coconut tree and a coconut fell off on your windscreen and broke it, who will you sue? NOBODY.

Lawyers in Naija infact do "pro bono" do cases free of charge. And sometimes just recover their money spent on client's case as well as the agreed fees. I wouldn't call it sharing money.
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