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Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 8:44am On Sep 30, 2019 |
AryaSand:I also hope you will buy the house,pay fees for kids and provide for him and the family since you want to switch roles. Only a poor,good for nothing man enters the kitchen to cook while he has a wife. You can take this to the bank. 4 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 8:47am On Sep 30, 2019 |
AryaSand: I will sure handle the cooking. It would be an added bonus if he can cook too. But I would never want a man who will make so much fuss over the days I am too stressed to cook. As for daily running of the house chores, if we can't do it together, then we are getting a cleaner. I don't want to break down. Someone will na say "women age faster". Na poor man stressed wife dey age faster. Bianca and Otedola's wife have refused to age My friend claims to be a defender of the patriarchy. I keep telling him he has not seen the main defenders, lol. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by starbuck(f): 9:01am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cutiereborn: Lines fall for her in pleasant places today,protocols are broken for her sake and she will enjoy the ease in all that she do. Her day is blessed! � 4 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:02am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Really? Logobenz: |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:Yes. Show me a man that does that and I will show you a man who isn't fulfilling his manly duties. A man can feel jovial and decide to help around,not that he should start sharing chores! Today na papa Stanley go wash plate,dry clean parlour and corridor while mama Stanley sweeps backyard and make golden mourn for Stanley. The day a woman tries that with me ehn...e no go funny o! 2 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:11am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Someone had stir fried vegetable rice noodles with grilled beef and shrimps. I had a salad. But not a sad salad this time. A yummy one . 23 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:16am On Sep 30, 2019 |
You’re entitled to your opinions. I do share chores with my husband and he’s as manly as they come. Both financially (because I can see that’s what being a man means to you) and otherwise. Chores in your own home is a way of taking care of yourself as a grown adult and taking care of your loved ones who can’t help themselves (like the children and elderly). It’s not beneath anyone. It’s not a lowly duty that is reserved for the lowly people. You need to change that archaic mindset. It’s a new day. You know this! We’ve moved past that. I think we might end up getting banned if we go further on this topic as it does tend to get heated. I’m just trying to say your opinion is not fact. Just an opinion. Logobenz: 32 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 9:21am On Sep 30, 2019 |
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Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:24am On Sep 30, 2019 |
I do cook, do laundry and take care of baby girl 60% of the time. I’m also the public relations officer of our house (very hard job ). Her dad cleans, does dishes, yard work and other home maintenance chores and take care of baby girl 40% of the time. We both work full time but I only work 3 days a week and then take one day off to recover from work. So the rest of the days I’m free for other house keeping things like stocking up the pantry and miscellaneous stuff. The truth is that it can never be 50/50 all the time but if you’re both willing, it will be balanced and no one will be overworked and suffering while the owner is brandishing their genitaliia as a reason why they can’t do this or that. I guess my point is that you will surely find someone who will be willing to work with you to ensure a functioning home where you don’t have to suspend your dreams because house work and bla bla bla. Stick to your guns girl. pocohantas: 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:25am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:Archaic mindset ABI? When you all retire to Nigeria ehn,share chores with him let me see. Or you need me to tell you people do things like that over There to prevent you all from running to the law and kill their ass with alimony Also,being a man or manly has everything to do with money.Spare me the emotional blackmail please 4 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 9:30am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy: Thanks sis Coco. It is on NL I read that it is "unmanly" to help around the house. My dad did it while we were growing up, even till now and he is a manly man. Yes, it can never entirely be 50-50, but we can work towards ensuring no one is stressed. There are men like that, I have met such and they had money that I could see- not audio money. So, it is not like they were broke asses trying to fill a void. Money doesn't make a man, character does 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:32am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Logobenz:We met 10 yrs ago when I was 19 still in naija. So yes I knew the kind of person he was then. He taught me how to cook a lot of things and I never got to play the role of good wife material killing my tender fingers with hand washing clothes and cooking and cleaning in order to be liked. It has nothing to do with where you are. In this same country, there are men who won’t pick up a stick because they are men. You are who you are no matter where you stay. And there’s someone out there who will like it that way. Hopefully you will find someone who agrees with you. Just don’t force it on her if she doesn’t. Every home can’t follow the same rule. When I retire I hope I can afford a driver, butler and house keeper etc etc so none of us will have to do any work except that I’ll still be cooking. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Logobenz: I really am at a loss sometimes. By your own account, your mother had to raise and send all of you to school by herself. No man in the picture paying school fees etc. So how is it that you have disdain for house chores? How is it that you are a chauvinist when a woman paid your school fees? My old man was in the middle east for 10 years. Basically through my secondary and tertiary education. So it was my mum that held the Fort through this period. She even learnt to handle the shotgun we had to buy after a robbery. She built the houses we live in. I don't understand how a person who was raised largely by a woman will have this much contempt for women. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Mariangeles(f): 9:38am On Sep 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:Can you marry a man who can't take care of your needs ? ( financially) 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 9:39am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Mariangeles: Is that what you understood from the part you highlighted? 25 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cutiereborn(f): 9:40am On Sep 30, 2019 |
starbuck:Amen n Amen. Thanks dear 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Mariangeles(f): 9:42am On Sep 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:It's just a simple question ... No aggression needed 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:43am On Sep 30, 2019 |
ornicus:Contempt? Where in my post did you get the idea of me being chauvinistic? Men should be men and women likewise,that's all. Not these mix responsibilities some people are trying to bring in. And if I marry a woman like my mother,no be person go tell me to rush go do house chores and wash her pants na. And I will do it happily because I know her canopy covers me fully,if you know what I mean. But then,how many of today's women are like her? |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cutiereborn(f): 9:43am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:Sure do looks yummy 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 9:44am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Mariangeles: You asked a question, I didn't term it aggression. I ask you one- you give it fancy names. Who is the aggressive one? Anyway, money and character are not mutually exclusive. You probably read that post with the assumption that they can't coexist and I have to pick a man with either of them. So, "Money doesn't make a man, character does" 20 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Mariangeles(f): 9:48am On Sep 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:Forget it sha! This type of argument no be my forté...e no dey usually end well 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:48am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Logobenz:quite a lot actually Today’s women are amazing like your mom. We’ve done a good job raising women who are shamed for being dependent. We call them leeches and gold diggers bla bla bla. As a result we have women who are told they need to be able to do everything for themselves. And they do. But we don’t have enough men raised well enough to balance that. We just have a lot who want to have an independent woman who is also traditional. 11 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:49am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Thanks cutiereborn: |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by pocohantas(f): 9:49am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Mariangeles: Never planned arguing with you, tbh. Thanks still... 11 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:49am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:Sorry,you don't know my mom. |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:51am On Sep 30, 2019 |
Never said I do Logobenz: 11 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:51am On Sep 30, 2019 |
pocohantas:If you want video,let me know 1 Like |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:52am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:You kind of insinuated so with your descriptions which is nothing like her. |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by WizAkzy: 9:52am On Sep 30, 2019 |
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Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:53am On Sep 30, 2019 |
I was speaking generally. The only part that was kind of directed at her was where I said women are amazing like your mom. It was a compliment that I also gave to myself and other ladies reading. You know typing sometimes doesn’t fully convey the message as face to face communication does. Logobenz: 9 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Nobody: 9:54am On Sep 30, 2019 |
cococandy:I get it,sweetest coco. You aren't bitter and I like it. Your husband is such a lucky man,I hope I get blessed even with your Chinese replica. 2 Likes |
Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Mariangeles(f): 9:57am On Sep 30, 2019 |
WizAkzy:Whatever works for you is allowed . |
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