WizAkzy:
I'm sorry to butt in on y'all discussions. But i want to ask, Why should a male child grow up, work and come back to take care of the financial needs of his female counterparts? Is it that the female children shouldn't be responsible enough to know that they are supposed handle their self-responsibility themselves, or that they male children are higher than the female children? I don't understand.
Please it's just a harmless question out of curiosity. Thanks.

You want marry wife then make she come your house come dey use her money feed you ABI wetin?
I no understand this question o!
How Does a man go to another person's house,take their daughter and not want to take care of her needs in the name of independence?
Whether she get work or not,do your manly responsibilities.

My Chinese replica will be made in China and You know Chinese men can cook too right?
She will be expecting you to know how to cook.

Logobenz:
I get it,sweetest coco.
You aren't bitter and I like it.
Your husband is such a lucky man,I hope I get blessed even with your Chinese replica.

WizAkzy:
I'm sorry to butt in on y'all discussions. But i want to ask, Why should a male child grow up, work and come back to take care of the financial needs of his female counterparts? Is it that the female children shouldn't be responsible enough to know that they are supposed handle their self-responsibility themselves, or that they male children are higher than the female children? I don't understand. Please it's just a harmless question out of curiosity. Thanks.

I didn't read that literally, I read it as "can you marry a man who won't meet up with his financial obligations as a husband/father". I hope I read right sha, because I won't marry such a man, as I am not that kinda woman either.

cococandy:

My Chinese replica will be made in China and You know Chinese men can cook too right?
She will be expecting you to know how to cook.

I will not cook,whether you like it or not.
But that doesn't mean I'm not a good man.
I am amongst the best men out there,trust me.Most women that have been in my life can testify.

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I don’t think it has anything to do with being good or not.

Don’t worry, just find a lady who agrees with your outlook on life (there are many)and y’all won’t have any wahala together..

I must also be invited to that wedding

Logobenz:
I will not cook,whether you like it or not.
But that doesn't mean I'm not a good man.
I am amongst the best men out there,trust me.Most women that have been in my life can testify.

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WizAkzy:
Manly duties you say, y'all keep promoting the same patriarchy that is considered evil to women.
First of all, no one is doing the other a favour if couple decides to get married. You said go to another person's house to take their daughter lol, do you think it wasn't her wish to get married or was she kidnapped? If a man and a woman decides to start a family together in the process of marriage, then it is the duty of both parties to provide and sustain the family they both started. Moreover, you said take her to a man's house? Do you think women shouldn't own their own houses or they are programmed to move from their parent's house then straight to a man's house?

She is not gonna feed me but rather we are both going to generate income to sustain the family we both decided to start. And of course it is only normal for both parties to engage in house chores and not just the woman, because women are not meant to be household slaves.

I have seen your previous posts and i feel pity for who ends up with you. This is 2019, throw that archaic harmful patriarchal ideology in the trash bin where it belongs. It does not benefit neither the man nor the woman. Have lovely day.

I will soon get married to a 22 year old.
Please,do come and see her make we know who go pity who
I don't know how society bred all these weaklings with phalluses.
Ladies,please don't ever give any lazy fool in the name of man your money for no reason.
Don't help out,don't share.
It is his job to cater for you and your kids VERY WELL!
Do not settle for less,I don't support it at all!

WizAkzy:
But regarding the part where you said "meet up with his financial obligations as a husband", does that also implies that even if the man carries out domestic duties at home he should still take care of the woman's financial needs, coupled with his own needs, and the children's need all together?.

Don't women do domestic chores and still work to support the home? So?

They should do it together. Except if they want otherwise- different strokes.

WizAkzy:
Manly duties you say, y'all keep promoting the same patriarchy that is considered evil to women.
First of all, no one is doing the other a favour if couple decides to get married. You said go to another person's house to take their daughter lol, do you think it wasn't her wish to get married or was she kidnapped? If a man and a woman decides to start a family together in the process of marriage, then it is the duty of both parties to provide and sustain the family they both started. Moreover, you said take her to a man's house? Do you think women shouldn't own their own houses or they are programmed to move from their parent's house then straight to a man's house?

She is not gonna feed me but rather we are both going to generate income to sustain the family we both decided to start. And of course it is only normal for both parties to engage in house chores and not just the woman, because women are not meant to be household slaves.

I have seen your previous posts and i feel pity for who ends up with you. This is 2019, throw that archaic harmful patriarchal ideology in the trash bin where it belongs. It does not benefit neither the man nor the woman. Have lovely day.

Also make sure she doesn't bear your name o...

Mariangeles:
Also make sure she doesn't bear your name o...

I'm good on that. She can bear whatever name she chooses to. Not my business.

Logobenz:
I will soon get married to a 22 year old.
Please,do come and see her make we know who go pity who
I don't know how society bred all these weaklings with phalluses.
Ladies,please don't ever give any lazy fool in the name of man your money for no reason.
Don't help out,don't share.
It is his job to cater for you and your kids VERY WELL!
Do not settle for less,I don't support it at all!

Poco, I hope this will not be another interesting saga with all the horror stories of guys wifing small girls still in uni who have not quite figured out what they want.

Especially as like dey attract like.

I think both of you are saying the same thing.

pocohantas:


Don't women do domestic chores and still work to support the home? So?

They should do it together. Except if they want otherwise- different strokes.

Are you of the school of thought that women shouldn’t bring financial contribution to the family?

Just trying to understand your POV.

Like I said no fixed rules for everyone.

Mariangeles:
Also make sure she doesn't bear your name o...

cococandy:
Are you of the school of thought that women shouldn’t bring financial contribution to the family?

Just trying to understand your POV.

Like I said no fixed rules for everyone.

Always write in full.That POV abbreviation reminds me of porn

ornicus:


Poco, I hope this will not be another interesting saga with all the horror stories of guys wifing small girls still in uni who have not quite figured out what they want.

Especially as like dey attract like.

I thought you were in your forties men?
What's happening to you?I'm yet to turn 28 ffs!
Pocohantas,Try fùck this guy make e blood rest,Jesus

ornicus:


Poco, I hope this will not be another interesting saga with all the horror stories of guys wifing small girls still in uni who have not quite figured out what they want. Especially as like dey attract like.

That would make it seem like I care, which is actually not the case here. I can only wish any human well...

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Mariangeles:

I did not like that comment one bit .
It didn't sit well with me...not even as a joke!
If to say na another person, I for don change am for am straight!

Ok

pocohantas:


Nice one, especially the tattoo

Been nursing that idea recently.

Thanks Sweetheart.

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cococandy:
Are you of the school of thought that women shouldn’t bring financial contribution to the family?

Just trying to understand your POV.

Like I said no fixed rules for everyone.

I believe a woman should contribute but not equally.
Whatever works for each family sha...

WizAkzy:
Don't try to flip it and make me look bad

Okay then. Cococandy is/was right.
We were saying the same thing...

Prestonn:

Ok

I didn't expect that from you .
Please never mention me again with such words!
It doesn't go with my personality .
You have no rights whatsoever to tell someone that about me.
I wouldn't do that to you .

Mariangeles:

I believe a woman should contribute but not equally.
Whatever works for each family sha...

Is there a time when it's ever equal?

Contribute but not equally. Okay.
That a valid design that works for a lot of folks.

But what if she makes more money than the man? Maybe he had more money when they started out and of course provided very well for everyone but somewhere along the line she started making more money.

At that point, I don’t think she should still keep it bottled so that the man can contribute more. If their harmony was based on him making and bringing more money, then they will start having problems.

That’s the reasons why I believe in flexibility. No fixed roles. Supporting according to each person’s strengths.

Mariangeles:

I believe a woman should contribute but not equally.
Whatever works for each family sha...

Have you considered that maybe he doesn’t understand ‘good time’ is a slang that doesn’t actually mean just having a good time?

It’s a possibility.

Mariangeles:

I didn't expect that from you .
Please never mention me again with such words!
It doesn't go with my personality .
You have no rights whatsoever to tell someone that about me.
I wouldn't do that to you .

cococandy:
Contribute but not equally. Okay.
That a valid design that works for a lot of folks.

But what if she makes more money than the man? Maybe he had more money when they started out and of course provided very well for everyone but somewhere along the line she started making more money.

At that point, I don’t think she should still keep it bottled so that the man can contribute more. If their harmony was based on him making and bringing more money, then they will start having problems.

That’s the reasons why I believe in flexibility. No fixed roles. Supporting according to each person’s strengths.

Yes. It's also about understanding each other sha .
There are no specific rules .

pocohantas:


Okay then. Cococandy is/was right.
We were saying the same thing...

Have a lovely day

Honestly it can never 100% be equal all the time.

Left hand wash right hand and right hand wash left hand. That’s the beauty of love.

Logobenz:
Is there a time when it's ever equal?

cococandy:
Have you considered that maybe he doesn’t understand ‘good time’ is a slang that doesn’t actually mean just having a good time?

It’s a possibility.

That was not actually the first time...
The other time, he used the words " you can have her "
I'm like "WHAT DA FOX"

You are not serious

Logobenz:

Always write in full.That POV abbreviation reminds me of porn