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Plz I need help, Dont even mind my Grammar please I have to summarise this. My husband of 5yrs now behaves so strange in our home since we got Married. I didn't really date him, because it was a distant relationship before we finally says Yes"

He is a nice Man, I mean kind in nature, but I noticed he is not moved at all no matter how hot I am, this has been bordering me since. I have been the one initiating Sex since our marriage. God has been on my side we have two kids now, I have tried all I could, all abortive.

Most of his friends are just small boys, I have even caught him with one particular one, that nearly sent me home.... is all About this Guy then, he even spent months in same room with him, till i saw one hell chat from the small boy, that he should try and shave his Penis. That one really got me Mad, I have to pursue that one. I can say he is no longer in the picture again, but am still not convinced because he like keeping to himself.

I know he is an Introvert to the extreme, but he don't behave like a real Alpha Male, I have to force him in even sharing same Bed with me, am really disturbed now because am really tired of this.

There was a time I had to Involve his family I noticed that his immediate elder bro knew about it, that was when I sent that particular guy away, I have been hoping he will change am not sure of that..

Please help me.

Situation is helpless. The thing don cross point of Rubicon. Ladies date whom they love and marry who's ready.

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Pls if you believe in prayers, now could be the time to do so earnestly. My friend has a brother like this and he's not yet married really and is well to do financially. Now he got a fiancé and the way I access that guy psychologically, only divine can straighten him. Divine

Madam have you confronted your husband over this? I think its necessary you do so and if you do, remind him about Nigeria law on same gender s*x. You must also let him know about jungle justice in Nigeria.

I remember a big bros like that for my area, though he don peme now.

I no, I guess it wz love @ first sites

Modified: Just pray about it and God will guide you.

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You suspect abi you know...

Please bear your cross and if you tired walk out.. Marriages of today is not a DO or DIE affair

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Thank you ma

How did he woo you before marriage?

Report him to the nearest police station. They'll just ask him some questions and find out if your suspicions are real.

Sir, any help for this lady? @iLegendd

b3llo:
How did he woo you before marriage?

Maybe she was the one that wooed him into marriage since she said she's been the one initiating seeex from day one.

I accept all d blames, but am down psychologically plz I really help nw, no body to talk to

Dis ur Mata pass nairalanders...u for come wen water never pass garri.

Too late madam

Way too late. So sorry
Take heart. Be strong

How you can bear this without cheating on him is what I'm wondering

If you cheat and he finds out, his punishment on you baffles me.

Gay guys are mean & don't forgive cheating partners o!

@Sandra8

He is bisexual. Na wa o so na man(small boys) you go dey chase no be girls. I no envy you

He lied to you from the onset..please confront him and tell him you can't continue with the way things have been going
That if he doesn't change you will be forced to leave the marriage..you have NO business been married to a gay!.. Harsh but that's the only way out.. There was no covenant in the first place..

Call 112


Report him to the police before he sodomize every young boy around him

Na WA oooo
This one pass be careful

If he has been this way since you got married, then he was like this before you got married, meaning this is who he is. You've to ask yourself if you want to continue the marriage b|c he's not going to change, sorry to break it to you. I'm disgusted w| the situation w| the small boy|s. Your husband is a pervert who is taking advantage of young boys.

The choice is yours, you can decide to stay or leave. Just don't force yourself on him. Look for good support system and move on with your life

Tony142:
Sir, any help for this lady? @iLegendd

You can't change a gay man or a bisexual — you can only subdue his activities temporarily. Sadly, he will secretly do it. In such a case, I'm speechless.

Are the small boys underage? If yes, then you need to report him to the authorities. That’s rape

If they are not underage, then it’s different.

Honestly only you know what you want to do in this situation. If y’all are interested in an open marriage then maybe that might work.

Otherwise why are you staying with someone who’s not sexually attracted to you and is cheating on you?

He's gay. Gay men like pursuing yonger guys.
Ask about my story and I'll tell.

You're in for a long thing. Only God can change Gays.......

Ajaerof:
I accept all d blames, but am down psychologically plz I really help nw, no body to talk to

Aunty you have to confront him head on. Since he is dead in bed, ask for an open marriage. Find your own happiness. At this point, no one will blame you if you cheat. He most likely wont want everyone to know he is gay, use that to let him settle you. There is no point forcing a gay man who'll never be attracted to you

Always keep evidence.

He is a homo.

Nothing to suspect here again madam.

Thank God you have 2 kids already.

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He is a homo.

Nothing to suspect here again madam.

Thank God you have 2 kids already.

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With all the evidences, it's time to confront him about your suspicion