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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by SuperKlean(m): 1:18pm On Oct 04, 2019
Psalm2423:


I swear, same thing happened to me. I was literally used, high-end maga grin. But I read different things, studied people and knew it was better to just stick to myself. I’m pitying any girl that happens to date me cheesy, e go hard am. The last one I dated, I actually lost interest in her. Marriage kor? That was before o. Even dating at 26 doesn’t mean you’d marry your partner. Love is a scam, it’s just like hate. You develop it and you feel you can’t breath without your so-called partner, whereas you don’t stop to think about how you’re still alive if you ain’t breathing. Truth is most guys don’t know that they’re meant to “go into the world and multiply” not run basic addition. So you can subtract your partner if she starts misbehaving. After all, removing 3 from 3 x 3 won’t give you 3. cheesy

So, first of all, OP is not marrying that girl. She might even be seeing someone else self. “A man doesn’t call crayfish poverty when he has not tasted something better.” So you’re stingy cause she has someone who can provide better for her. Money for tfare? When people day beg me to send them message self so them fit stroll reach side. Abeg, you don’t love her, else tears won’t let you create this thread. Love is a scam too, like other emotions, it can be discarded easily, if you can wire your brain well. Chop your money OP, leave 21 years old gal way no plan wed for the next 6 years.
my guy I'm framing this write-up and hanging it on my wall...
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by yeyeosoronga: 1:32pm On Oct 04, 2019
AntiBrutus:
2018, your gf was in her early 20s

May 2019, she was 22

Fast forward to Oct 2019, she is now 21.


Truly you are stingy. Considering how you keep taking out of her age without adding to it.

Pity him na...

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by LINTUNE(m): 1:32pm On Oct 04, 2019
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AntiBrutus:
2018, your gf was in her early 20s

May 2019, she was 22

Fast forward to Oct 2019, she is now 21.


Truly you are stingy. Considering how you keep taking out of her age without adding to it.
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by cenaman(m): 1:32pm On Oct 04, 2019
You are stingy, all your thread is about women, money and been broke. na only you waka come?
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by RexTramadol1: 1:34pm On Oct 04, 2019
AntiBrutus:
2018, your gf was in her early 20s

May 2019, she was 22

Fast forward to Oct 2019, she is now 21.


Truly you are stingy. Considering how you keep taking out of her age without adding to it.




Buhahaha
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 04, 2019
ornicus:


You women using tight toto to pussy whip the alfa male out of brothers cry angry


I see ishi is a fan of alternative uses of toothpaste
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by trybe(m): 1:38pm On Oct 04, 2019
So there are groups of people who do the work of keeping tabs on whatever you post in on on nairaland

Interesting
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Shugavee(f): 1:41pm On Oct 04, 2019
Psalm2423:


I swear, same thing happened to me. I was literally used, high-end maga grin. But I read different things, studied people and knew it was better to just stick to myself. I’m pitying any girl that happens to date me cheesy, e go hard am. The last one I dated, I actually lost interest in her. Marriage kor? That was before o. Even dating at 26 doesn’t mean you’d marry your partner. Love is a scam, it’s just like hate. You develop it and you feel you can’t breath without your so-called partner, whereas you don’t stop to think about how you’re still alive if you ain’t breathing. Truth is most guys don’t know that they’re meant to “go into the world and multiply” not run basic addition. So you can subtract your partner if she starts misbehaving. After all, removing 3 from 3 x 3 won’t give you 3. cheesy

So, first of all, OP is not marrying that girl. She might even be seeing someone else self. “A man doesn’t call crayfish poverty when he has not tasted something better.” So you’re stingy cause she has someone who can provide better for her. Money for tfare? When people day beg me to send them message self so them fit stroll reach side. Abeg, you don’t love her, else tears won’t let you create this thread. Love is a scam too, like other emotions, it can be discarded easily, if you can wire your brain well. Chop your money OP, leave 21 years old gal way no plan wed for the next 6 years.
don’t let this one bitterness get to you o!! They are very lonely n stingy . N want u to be like them.. if ur gf complains , then educate her that ur money is not easy to get n make her understand when things get better u would do better simple.. if she doesn’t cooperate let her go
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Eaglefine(f): 1:45pm On Oct 04, 2019
Bros eeee,
If you are broke, leave relationship alone and focus on your hustle.
Don't tie someone daughter with
"Reason with Me"
undecided shocked kiss

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 04, 2019
Just like the guy below,

I wish everybody could know his/her right in r/shpgrin

Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by meele: 2:07pm On Oct 04, 2019
Just thank your star she told you her mind, some other girls won't, and will keep managing you, still will go behind you to give another guy trail for friendship just to know if she would find the kind of man that would give her what she,s looking for in a man, and if she's lucky to find one, she will simply bid you a goodbye.
so man just reason it, adjust a bit and learn to please ladies just as you want to be pleased.

the silent ones are more dangerous than the out spoken ones.

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 2:19pm On Oct 04, 2019
AntiBrutus:


He obviously has a thing for girls in that age bracket. After forming alfa male on NL, they will go offline and one small girl will be using their heads. grin
who doesn't love them when the hole is tight?
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Lalas247(f): 2:23pm On Oct 04, 2019
Wails of a Broke Beardless Dude!

She is right u are stingy and also long throat is worrying u........So u want fresh 21 year old yet u can't even pay for TF.. Smh

It's not by force to date, why don't u focus on building yourself up instead of crying every time the truth hits you.. cry

Sips smoothie grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Lalas247(f): 2:24pm On Oct 04, 2019
Eaglefine:
Bros eeee,
If you are broke, leave relationship alone and focus on your hustle.
Don't tie someone daughter with
"Reason with Me"
undecided shocked kiss

Honestly I'm weak grin
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2019
bukatyne:



Hahahhaahahhaha

Parfum oil lo le se!

This thread is comic!
Talking from experience, it works like magic grin
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by AstroG: 2:35pm On Oct 04, 2019
Lalas247:
Wails of a Broke Beardless Dude!

She is right u are stingy and also long throat is worrying u........So u want fresh 21 year old yet u can't even pay for TF.. Smh

It's not by force to date, why don't u focus on building yourself up instead of crying every time the truth hits you.. cry

Sips smoothie grin



You no go work,na ur type dy spread puna everywhere u go like MTN. See as dem don use ur womb go buy Benz.



Coconut head sad sad

Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by biggy26: 2:38pm On Oct 04, 2019
iLegendd:


It pisses me off seeing too many weak nice guys everywhere. When you tell them to read how things work, they'll never do it. Reading is like a calculus class to most of these weak men. The more you try to help, the more emerge. The worst part is: they'll attack you and tell you to go make money and everything will be fine.

When the foundation is faulty, everything can't be fine — except for a couple of weeks, months, or years. One day, that faulty building will surely collapse.

Any little thing, these weak men start panicking because they know not what they were supposed to know before being with a woman.

People don't know that women are like children and must be trained. Sometimes their desires and expectations are high, and as a man you must help them tame it. And if you're truly a good man that was only trying to set priorities right, when you begin to lavish on them, then, they'll understand and appreciate you better.

A man must grow up especially with the woman he loves. If he jumps up, he will fall back down.

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Lalas247(f): 2:51pm On Oct 04, 2019
AstroG:




You no go work,na ur type dy spread puna everywhere u go like MTN. See as dem don use ur womb go buy Benz.
Broke stinging brat


Coconut head sad sad
U bastard! Ur mother is the the one spreading her legs hence why u are here talking sh! T... Idgaf
Stay capping omo oshi

I'm rich b! Tch grin that word broke hit u hard kikiki ahhhh

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by mistyebby(f): 3:12pm On Oct 04, 2019
tfelicityk:
Guy (Mr perfect) watch yourself...

Learn how to manage human difference...

I don't think the matter you presented here needs advise...

Be happy you have someone who can speak to you directly and bodely...

Some will never tell you but give you attitude that will chase you away from them.


You can see she wasted her time and effort telling him the truth. Such guys dont need explanation. They will just find a way to use it against you.

I will even buy chicken add to the meal but trust me that's last supper, he wont see me again.

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by tosyne2much(m): 3:39pm On Oct 04, 2019
If she's not the kind of girl that is a money grubber I think she's right concerning the stingy tag because you sent her to buy something without including Tfare... Do you want her to trek there ni especially if it's a far place? cheesy

Maybe you should just try to adjust a bit bro
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by tfelicityk(m): 3:42pm On Oct 04, 2019
mistyebby:



You can see she wasted her time and effort telling him the truth. Such guys dont need explanation. They will just find a way to use it against you.

I will even buy chicken add to the meal but trust me that's last supper, he wont see me again.
It seems he had tasted different ladies and he is finding means to recall her back... Smiling
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Psalm2423(m): 4:09pm On Oct 04, 2019
Shugavee:
don’t let this one bitterness get to you o!! They are very lonely n stingy . N want u to be like them.. if ur gf complains , then educate her that ur money is not easy to get n make her understand when things get better u would do better simple.. if she doesn’t cooperate let her go

Lol. I’m sure OP have discussed it with her before. And there’s nothing like loneliness in my life sister. I don’t need people to start or hold a conversation, if you understand what I mean.
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Itzteewhy(m): 5:07pm On Oct 04, 2019
This one wey na they talk of girlfriend, boyfriend and relationship.
abeg wetin e mean sef
Enlighten me more!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Greatzeus(m): 7:20pm On Oct 05, 2019
enshi:
Have been dating this girl for a year now.. She is on her Industrial training and would be in her finals next year. She is 21. To the best of my ability I try to be responsible for her especially in things I reason to be necessary..

We were having a little talk (argumentative) and she said I am a stringy man and that my love for money is on the very high side..

I tried asking her why she thinks I am stingy and she gave me an instance of a day I sent her money to buy fish for for us and that I didn't send an extra money for tfare ..

My people this is a girl I intend to wife. Right now I think she would never value my efforts and I see her as an ingrate.. Pls advise
This is not enough reason to think she won't appreciate your efforts when you get married. You were arguing remember,we say things we don't mean when we angry or during arguments.
Give her another chance,since this is her first time. If she repeats this repeatedly then you can know there's a problem.
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Greatzeus(m): 7:22pm On Oct 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:
2018, your gf was in her early 20s

May 2019, she was 22

Fast forward to Oct 2019, she is now 21.


Truly you are stingy. Considering how you keep taking out of her age without adding to it.
Nairaland FBI Agent spotted,well done grin
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by bigplayerz(m): 4:08pm On Oct 06, 2019
You obviously need help..even the way you write shows you`re a GAY..bloody gay. And a bitter person. seek help before you choke in your bitterness
Ryan03:
are you sure you read the post? The way stupid people take full nairaland eh, relationship adviser, oponu
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by massalati(m): 11:38pm On Oct 06, 2019
enshi:
Have been dating this girl for a year now.. She is on her Industrial training and would be in her finals next year. She is 21. To the best of my ability I try to be responsible for her especially in things I reason to be necessary..

We were having a little talk (argumentative) and she said I am a stringy man and that my love for money is on the very high side..

I tried asking her why she thinks I am stingy and she gave me an instance of a day I sent her money to buy fish for for us and that I didn't send an extra money for tfare ..

My people this is a girl I intend to wife. Right now I think she would never value my efforts and I see her as an ingrate.. Pls advise
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by massalati(m): 11:40pm On Oct 06, 2019
[quote author=enshi post=82814823]Have been dating this girl for a year now.. She is on her Industrial training and would be in her finals next year. She is 21. To the best of my ability I try to be responsible for her especially in things I reason to be necessary..

We were having a little talk (argumentative) and she said I am a stringy man and that my love for money is on the very high side..

I tried asking her why she thinks I am stingy and she gave me an instance of a day I sent her money to buy fish for for us and that I didn't send an extra money for tfare ..

My people this is a girl I intend to wife. Right now I think she would never value my efforts
IS SHE A STUDENT OF UNICAL?
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by ifyebere(m): 6:47am On Oct 07, 2019
You're a wise man, I love principled guys, wish I can buy you your favourite drink honestly. And to the complainer, adhear to what ilegend just advised, it will help you.



iLegendd:
Mtcheew. Why do you kids take relationship too seriously?

The next thing you'll hear is:

1. I love her so much
2. I want to make her my wife
3. I don't like any other girl except her, etc.

Finally, the next thing you'll see is a thread with the title: Nairalanders, Please, Help Me. I Can't Think Straight. She...

Now that you're still thinking "half straight," be the man and learn how women and relationship work before you engage in it fully, else, you'll regret at last. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Talking about being stingy, I tell women I'm the stingiest person on earth, yet they even love me more. What is wrong in being stingy when you're investing the main money in something good?

A man needs to be, first, stingy, if he wants to achieve success. When he finally arrives, then he can be a philanthropist. Try and understand The Men's Pyramid of Greatness.

Any man who doesn't follow that pyramid may look back in regrets.

Zoom the picture below to see the writeup. You're in level 3 — Mr. Nice Guy, but she wants to push you to level 11 — Philanthropist. Be wise.

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Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Tominix(m): 6:39pm On Jan 12, 2020
AntiBrutus:


He obviously has a thing for girls in that age bracket. After forming alfa male on NL, they will go offline and one small girl will be using their heads. grin
a swr guy he wilk be forming hard guy beard gang jus let bike speed small he will start holding his waist
Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Stingy Guy by Rhozabeth(m): 1:26pm On Jul 19, 2022
You don't need advice again, you have advised yourself with your last paragraph!

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