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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by mercyviv(f): 6:51am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Not every man or lady is a cheat! If people have to go into relationship with this kind of impression, then don't be surprised when the suspicion eventually leads to its failure. I've always believed, anything worth doing at all is with doing well. Everything in life is a risk, yet you can sit idling doing nothing! Meanwhile... Are you a teacher? Get FREE access to the best compilation of school lesson notes/plans, curriculum and exams. Visit my signature for details... 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Edusouls(m): 6:51am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Women are devils best friends so when you are loving them mind you that you’re loving two people not one?? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 7:04am On Oct 15, 2019 |
chenzen:no be only pun... Na rhyme... Ode.... Rago Ileya... |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by emmaodet: 7:04am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Martinez79: If they say that women lose more in a relationship then let us look it from this angle - 2 people agree to float a business (relationship), one came in with the money, time, ideas and also running around while the other came in with ideas, time and running around for the biz too. Now, if the biz crashes (broken relationship), who do will think will feel it most and be lamenting, nagging? The one who invested the lost money because the moment the business crashes, the other partner is already submitting CV in other reputable companies looking to get another job. That is why we see more guys lamenting on nairaland because the one that invest money most gets hurt most and we know most ladies don't invest in relationship with there money but body which they enjoy too 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by MrHeff(m): 7:05am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Michellekabod2:redirect ur last sentence to the OP 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:So you ladies purposely tear that condom he wears so that he can get you pregnant by force?You are taking a big risk.I pity you. Besides, why do you as a decent girl even allow a cheating bf to get you pregnant? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by ashewoboy(m): 7:14am On Oct 15, 2019 |
safarigirl: you don't want to phuck? you practice hypocrisy. let us phuck. do you know you are a pretty girl? let us meet and phuck na. you are my type of babe. Safarigirl to dun. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Femeto: 7:16am On Oct 15, 2019 |
It's Vice Versa |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 7:25am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:The day a guy will break his over jealous girlfriend heart that day she will reveal all the people she has been having sex with.And the guy will be shock to hear that she has even slept with his best friends and cousins before.Fear some ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Bigseven(m): 7:26am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Psalm2423:REAL MEN are set of men who holds the virtue of ''FAITHFUL WITH ONE PARTNER'' with dignity and high esteem come rain come sunshine. But you sound PAINED by my comment bro! Lets called a spade, a spade! So just because women wants our obediece we should be hard on em? Ok o. |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by maynation(f): 7:31am On Oct 15, 2019 |
All these emotionally battered nairalanders sef. So just because your relationship ended up in shambles you now thought it wise to make every lady tow your path? Y'all should shrove your opinions down your ass*s and let us do our thing. Worst that could happen is for us to learn through the hardest way. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Aboguede(m): 7:38am On Oct 15, 2019 |
You must be talking for. Experience Martinez79: |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 7:39am On Oct 15, 2019 |
emmaodet:This are all stereotypes that should be erased... It has caused lots of misjudgements..to the best of my knowledge I have not in my entire life shamed a human for their gender, race,tribe, even LGBTQ...all Humans should be left alone. Good men have been ignored or abandoned for fools who have money,and good ladies have been overlooked because of the outspoken sexuality.. It is wrong for a human to be judged for petty things like such. I condemn both Broke shaming and slut shaming 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:40am On Oct 15, 2019 |
@chenzen Let's also not forget that the average dating experiences for both genders are as follows. MALE : Loves ideally and builds relationship based on love as conditioned from childhood. He goes out to do the chasing to ask her out. If the female says "yes," they start dating. Typically, as conditioned by society, he become financially responsible for her and, sometimes, even her siblings and parents. All these are done in love and they are willingly to make sacrifices. FEMALE : loves opportunistically and finally ends up marrying her best option, at the time, among the pool of boys she had been keeping in touch with and playing. Usually she is playing all the men she claims to be dating and she receiving money from them. She is also having sex around. At the end of the day, when she wants to marry, she settles down with her best option. Boys, more often than not, usually realise, on checking the phones or laptops of their girlfriends, that their girlfriends are seeing someone else. When caught, she apologises, cries with crocodile tears, and promise that she won't cheat again. So I find it odd that you, chenzen, think men are playing women and then ending up with their best option. It's women that are fond of this. Usually, once a man picks you, he already has plans to make you his queen no matter if a more beautiful and sexy damsel comes his way later. Once, a woman agrees to date you, loyalty cannot be guaranteed except you are her best option financially. Even if you are the best option, she still sees other men and keeps them on standby. When it seems that no one is going to take your place are the best option, she agrees to walk down the aisle with you. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by hotwax: 7:43am On Oct 15, 2019 |
All the ladies I am fcking right now are in serious relationship... Men can't compete with women when it comes to cheating. It's resources intensive...women don't need any resources, all they need to do is go to the venue and open their legs. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 7:44am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Aboguede:Funny enough, I have never had a girlfriend before. I observe my world around me, learn, and I try to be realistic. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by emmaodet: 7:44am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: You are right sha but as humans, the pressures will always be there. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Psalm2423(m): 7:44am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Bigseven: Pained by your comment? I don’t feel pained by words, that’s something for emotional folks. You point on obedience is absurd. No one should seek your obedience unless they have something that you’re benefitting from. In the modern woman’s case, they tag their hole as the ultimate sacrifice, and feel that you can’t do without it. Now, they fail to realize that they’re at least 200 holes you can bleep in your life as an average male. Now where does the term “going hard on them” comes in? If you have options, then you won’t mind discarding something for the other. Do you get my point? It’s alright if you don’t, it really won’t matter. There’s nothing life being faithful with one partner. If you’re a Christian, you’ll know that an unmarried folk is not even expected to show faithfulness to a partner. You can get that from the part where Paul stated that if you can not control your urge, you should get married to remain accountable. Now, that’s for a married man, and here, we are talking about unmarried persons. Women want you to be obedient to them, they want to ride on you like a slave (which you might already be to your girlfriend) and what do they offer you? Less than slavemasters once did. There’s nothing like cheating outside marriage; it’s just an exploration, and you get pained when you choose to be loyal to your partner by not messing up the same he or she does. So calling a spade a spade doesn’t entail cheating. Real men are the men who wake up in the morning without thinking of satisfying anybody. They are those folks who go about their daily lives without pleasing women. They know they’re made for themselves only, so they don’t jump at the command of a lady. They can bust ten asses in a day, and won’t be held accountable. They can have a girlfriend and sleep with someone else and won’t feel guilty. Faithfulness is not a thing in a relationship unless it is marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Skmoda360(m): 7:46am On Oct 15, 2019 |
chenzen:Men hater....this must be a woman killing relationships. |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by jimbson: 8:02am On Oct 15, 2019 |
chenzen: Hw sure r u? U might be the queen � but because of ur insecurities and this kind of thinking u push him aside.. Just saying |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Raydans: 8:05am On Oct 15, 2019 |
hotwax:I can't agree less |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Aboguede(m): 8:07am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Martinez79: How old 're u |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Niggmatic: 8:08am On Oct 15, 2019 |
tolumizzy: Lol |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by MichaelSokoto(m): 8:11am On Oct 15, 2019 |
una dey confuse me here... abeg who are d males talkin and who are d females talkin also females wit male monikers shld com out clean, abegi |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 8:19am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Aboguede:Below 24 (I am being sincere). It's left to you to guess the correct age. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by marvelous000: 8:22am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Psalm2423:To correct your egregious perception of my gender; I'm a man. I do expect loyalty from anybody I choose to make my woman(that's if I'm able to come out of this phase I'm in), which is why I haven't got my own woman in more than 20 years now, because I can't guarantee that, and don't want to hurt anyone. It's actually risible how people make pathetic stew out of delusion, utopia, emotion and mendacity, then call it love. Love is nothing but a superficial force of cohesion, but loyalty is the bulwark of relationship. have you taken time to ruminate on the reason why the love of a mother wither for her child who have become the negation of her expectations, not to talk of love between spouses. |
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Omar09(m): 8:30am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Martinez79: Niggie. Tag me in all threads, comments. And shi.t |
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