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Chukapage:
mtcheew please yourself make YOUR self feel good it's a free world

Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

A305:
Angry over nothing. Not like you cuaght her red handed and if your girl doesn't care about you, she wouldn't have told you the truth. If you not sure of your girl's feelings for you. Ghost her and see if she would come back, her coming back would indicate affirmative action of you not alone and dating yourself in the relationship. Be sure oftl that before you worry about her caring for another guy. See my sigg

pocohantas:
Blablabla. Don't deny him, he is one of your own.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

julicia:
You didn't really say whether the both of you are in a relationship, from what you said, it seems like you are chasing her. In that case if you come to find out she likes some other, better to give up on her now or you'll be coming back to ask us what to do because you learn she is getting close to some other guy. If you make her force herself to have a relationship with you, you'll only regret it later.

Kerfuffle:
You're not serious. Must it be that girl? No girl is irreplaceable. It is actually a form of self-insult to think a girl is not replaceable . Why subject your self to such ridicle for any lady.

If you're an undergraduate in this present Nigeria, girls should be the least of your worries, crave for success should be your number 1, 2 and 3 priority. you're better off facing your studies, don't let campus-proximity-induced love blind you. Pass out with flying colours and face your future squarely; I hope you know you are aware that the official unemployment rate in Naija is 15m+.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Ategberoson:
are you sure you woo the lady and she say Yes or it's a friendship that you want to turn to relationship

your narrative doesn't show you're in a relationship with her and if you called that relationship then I tell you, the lady doesn't have feelings for u but for someone else


what I will tell you is this, don't force her feelings or relationship and don't end the relationship now. find a serious babe outskirt of your campus and bank your heart with, till you will know where her heart line with.


meanwhile before then give her space, don't let one Lady injure u ignorantly, a man have the privilege to date 5 ladies at a time. so why give yourself headache over one single lady

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

pocohantas:
Naso. Mugu will continue to fall.
Matters of the heart is beyond all this nonsense you all form online

DenreleDave:
Thanks so much sir martinez


Thank u very much

maynation:
No don't forget about her.
Keep it going.

Olalan:
She loves the other guy not you.......OP go find love elsewhere

pocohantas:
Fear ke? I don't see these pseudo-alfa males offline o. Do they exist?

Even you wey dey aggressive, see as you dey happy because I follow you talk like human being. Naso o. Alfa male, jisike!

DenreleDave:
Thanks.. We not in relationship but I have made my intentions to her and made her know that I'm not rushing... We can stlll give it time

pocohantas:
Lol. Alfa males are losing this battle.

Romance section should be remamed "Guys Whining Zone". Everyday na crying from guys, over same ladies they claim to have control over. Na real wa.

OP, there was never a relationship na!

pocohantas:
See as e dey happy.
Strength of a woman...

crackhouse:
I wonder how some guys behave. Someone is telling you not to bother carrying her loads but you are insisting that u must carry it. Na so u like helping people reach and your mama for village still dey suffer? Better leave that girl and face your studies after all u don't even know what she and her other sick boyfriend are suffering from, e fit be say two of them met where dem dey receive treatment for their sicknesses and u want come shook your inside again.

lilmax:
Because of a woman?

You have a lot to learn

Olalan:
She loves the other guy not you.......OP go find love elsewhere

Tokziby:
Someone that is trying to shield u away from ur responsibility and allowing another guy to do it. And even have the guts to lie about her illness. It's better u just zero ur mind and move on.
She doesnt want ur care but someone else's...smh

comshots:
If she tells you the clinic bill you go fit pay?Be happy that she doesn't want you to use you school fees to pay her medical bills.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this