Martinez39:
... continued

There is a time for everything. Common sense says that, as a man, you should build yourself first and when you are okay, you can settle down in marriage. Hollywood love stories will dictate that love and relationships are okay even when you are 13. What misplacement of priority! At a very young age when you should building yourself, the search for "the one" with whom you will spend the rest of your life with is unnecessary, overrated and overly romanticised. It's a stupid fad.

The reason why true love and true friendship exist only in movies and novels is because in fantasy land, it is easy to write and think away challenges and you can orchestrate events to be convenient and have a happy ending. In real life, you can't do that. Love and friendship are easy during childhood and teenage periods because challenges are not there yet and mummy and daddy are taking care of everyone. When life starts happening, you will see that it's everyman for himself. Life is not easy. Some would have cried "but he was my friend and I did a lot for him. Why did he betray me?" or "after all I did for her, how could girlfriend abandon me when I needed her support?" what is happening? Life has happened. If you don't know these things, you will be played like a fool and you might lose a lot. If you know, you know.

You won't miss anything if you spend your teenage years and early twenties building up yourself and you marry later. So forget girls and work on yourself. Anytime you are ready to marry, there will always girls that are available. Stop wasting your fresh years on one girl that won't even be there when you go broke. Is it written anywhere that you must be in a relationship in your teenage years and early twenties?

Young boys, build yourself. Wake up.

cyprus000:
I've never had a girlfriend nor even found it necessary, and my ggz consider me weird. this is not to say I'm a neophyte in the game; heck, I can't count the plethora of galz I've flowed, only for my interest to douse subsequently cos I don't want to hurt anyone with my stolidity toward romance.

I've got a projection for my future, and I'm yet to achieve it; thus, can't waste effort on triviality on the most abused term called love.
the truth is that; the present mentality of an average Nigerian woman, is pernicious to the progress of one seeking to establish himself(a poisoning discrepancy between them and their European counterparts). I'm not saying it to disparage them, but it's simply the palpable truth.
they present themselves as liability to be serviced by the highest bidder and it's a pitiable situation, an ignominious one at that.

Michellekabod2:

Indeed disgusting it is for a girl to ask a guy for money ...I don't know where the entitlement mentally came from...like how can you depend on a fellow human like you for money? This is why gals have lost their respect in guys eyes....if you need money,work ,or ask your parents...
Most ladies see it as repayment for wifey duties like cleaning his house,cooking and sex...that is why I advocate both genders should be responsible for themselves financially,domestic wise et Al ..so they don't feel they owe someone a dime.....
Stereotype also contribute to this entitlement mentally from ladies,the society has made Man the sole provider. Let's get rid of all stereotype so humans can be responsible for themselves and free

Lamanii22:
Suddenly boys become the victim... And you lots have been deceiving girls from way back... Making them lose their virginity all cause y'all wanna get laid... SMH

EmptyCoconutHead:
me I surrender my monthly upkeep give am then come settle her accommodation for school, dey subscribe her phone every month only for me to realize that the idiot friend zone me, common hug I no even receive.
The juju don dey clear for my eye small small

Martinez39:
Send me your number and I will WhatsApp you immediately. We need to discuss at length. You must take the redpill.

When you are ready.

EmptyCoconutHead:
me I surrender my monthly upkeep give am then come settle her accommodation for school, dey subscribe her phone every month only for me to realize that the idiot friend zone me, common hug I no even receive.
The juju don dey clear for my eye small small

Chukapage:
please I beg you SAVE that brother SAVE him at all cost,I already have compassion for him

djevino:
God bless u bro for dis... Some guys no go ever get sense

Blinkers:


GTFOH, you stupid cûnt!

Your sister!

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Dwaynemustafa:
Mehn I wish i knew of de red pill long time ago nd took it.. I was in shambles in my skull days, it was after dat I den realise how f**ked I was.. Lyk at de moment bro I de love wit my ass hole..not my hrt anylonga, na jst to de kpansh de go..

jhubril:
Stfu kid!

True love does EXIST. I have a portion of myself worth sharing. When it comes to love ,the big question is whether it is true or fake. It's philosophically a diametrical construction and it is a balanced law of nature (-) /(+). What each one experiences is not conclusive of anything about love. It's our own subjective interpretation of the subject matter. The man / woman who dumps(ed) youou for another man / woman does not love you genuinely or unconditionally.

Martinez39:
I don't have a Facebook account. Due to my studies, Nairaland, Google and YouTube are my only stuff.

EmptyCoconutHead:
me I surrender my monthly upkeep give am then come settle her accommodation for school, dey subscribe her phone every month only for me to realize that the idiot friend zone me, common hug I no even receive.
The juju don dey clear for my eye small small

DenreleDave:



U read my post... What do u think I shud do??

@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

You are welcome. Now, here are the things I want you to do :

1) Forget about relationship and romance and focus on yourself. Don't waste time and money on any girl and sex until you have established yourself. Don't be the financial messiah of any girl.

2) Forget about that girl. Stop calling, caring, or texting her and move on. Let her deal with her life and you mind your business. Do not give unnecessary attention. Her emotional state and happiness are not your responsibilities. You don't owe it to her to be concerned about her.

3) Never in your life think that a particular girl (beautiful or not, educated or not) is special, indispensable, or irreplaceable. All girls are not special, they are not indispensable, and they can be replaced. Don't you ever think that you can't live without any girl for it's a huge lie and don't ever swallow bullshit from any girl.

Have a nice day.

Blinkers:


Captain Save-a-hoe.

All these NAWALT weaklings! Lol

FROGMAN101:
Read this post again.

Sad Martinez39 is giving these for free. It’s costly. It should be in a book. People should purchase this.

Many guys will never learn though. Women are at big advantage than the average man. She can look hot and the world will come to her aid. Men are like disposable tools.

You as a man don’t have that luxury. You must work to make money. Nobody gives a damn what you do to be rich. Just be rich. Then you can pick a wife. Women are fucking much. You won’t lack. You won’t lack pussy if you are rich.

People fall for these lame Hollywood scripts. Behind the scenes of those movies, you would find cases of directors in sexual relationships with these actors. Everything they are acting is for their own profit.

Just know the truth guys. I beg you. Life is too short to be scammed and manipulated. I was in the past. I had to suffer to get here.

Good luck.

Thiwalade:



Rich rich rich! What happens when the money stops flowing in? The lady you married because you had money will leave... Bye bye...

Skmoda360:

This cruel truth

NevetsIbot:
Lol... If any guy is up to 20yrs and doesn't know this, then he's a phooooo...

My eye cleared when my best friend of 9rs who happened to be my gf left me for someone who had higher dough... I was surprised she could do that. She was the last person I'd expect to do such a thing.. That she left was not the most painful part, the derision I got from her almost ran me mad.

Right from then, I understood the shit... Worked on myself, upped my income, made my looks more alluring, became a very ambitious guy who pursues the good life...

Any relationship i get into now -

If she messes up, red card
Asks me to foot her bills unnecessarily - Red card.
Expects me to lavish money - Ultimate red card.
Expects me to live above my means - Red card.
Compares me with a bloke who spends without wisdom - Red card.
Is ungrateful of even my tiniest favours - Red card.
Doesn't not have something productive to do to make money - Red card.
can't think and make decisions on her own - Red card.
Won't place me above all other options - Red card... In fact, when I notice another guy is fingering your brain successfully, red card.
Is not intelligent - we can't even have anything to do with eachother in the first place


This life is too easy, I can't complicate it for myself... I love - Yes, but my love is conditional....

Terms and conditions apply

NevetsIbot:
She was the last person I'd expect to do such a thing.. That she left was not the most painful part, the derision I got from her almost ran me mad.

Martinez39:
This is how many girls are. They have the option of breaking a relationship politely but they will, of their own accord, deride you, snub you and rub it in your face. The same applies if you approach her as a relatively lower earner or you were her friend and hard times put you at a social status below hers. Even the ones you related well with in the past and you were helpful to, the same thing. It just goes to tell you that they are cold at heart. All these I observed from people's experiences. Maybe ubunja can explain why this is so to you better.

NevetsIbot:


Well. My experience was before I got woke...After I got woke, I realized this - 90% of women will walk over you to the bigger spender, Finer guy and better fvvker. And they will not care how you feel about it... Even if they do care, it'll be of little importance to them... They won't lose sleep over it.

I have three girl coming for me... They have boyfriends (two of them already are fiancé's" ... Yet they still come for me like there's no tomorrow...two can't leave their boyfriends for me cos they are affianced already. And I wonder if one day, I'd have a fiancé who'd low-key be begging a guy for dick.


You can't fully understand women but the little I know... I've become immune to their games... All the crocodile tears,the blackmails, distress calls and manipulative advances don't work on me.


There's no special girl.... If you eff up.. I'll drop you like a hot coal.