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DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Leave the relationship. Stop calling or texting or contacting her in any form.

Find someone else, that will care for you as you will care for her.

And whatever you do, don't go back to the babe you left.

Op so for all the issues in Naija,this is the kind of issue that's bothering so much for you to post it on nairaland.
My friend go read your book.

It's okay to act your age. Case dismissed...

start listening to [color=#000000]Sermons[/color] and forget Girls.

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Why not find out why she's falling ill all the time.





Some people no jus get sense

You are practically dating yourself.wake up

Internet alpha-males indeed. They'll come here and slut-shame and drag the female folks just to massage their already badly bruised egos. But when they logout,it's time to face reality - begging for love, being used for financial upliftment,begging for vaginas to lick , facing rejection etc. Its a pity.

sigh.....

M

Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

lol
Idiot
U nogo kill me with laff for here

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo,


So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Oh yeah fooolish generation!!!

How stupid can one be? Grow up, hustle, make money and forget chewing gum girls who doesn't cause you to aspire your greatness.

Struggling student, deceiving whosoever pays your fees, stealing certainly, missing classes and forming what you're not. Just to impress one slim thing that even runs when she sees you in her dreams.

you ijjiot had to run up to her after service. Oga, Idi fooolissh. Infact you're foolrish and foulish.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Op I'm not sure you're thinking with your right mind, maybe you hit your head or something. You're in school to focus on yourself and build your career and not be a love sick Arrow , Money you no get, book I no sure say you too know book as u dey so, Smart you no smart which is obvious by the way you talk that you're an easy going person. Leave her alone she is obviously infatuated with the sick roommate, leave her make she Bleep who she wants Bleep move on with your life, later she'll try to get closer but don't ever make the mistake of any emotional attachment again just Bleep her brains out ,tell the bitch to wear her panties and go home.

On behalf of the greatest men to walk the surface of this great planet, I thereby award you the Nobel prize for Common Sense. Keep sharing your vast and priceless knowledge and wisdom to these learners.

Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

IF you are in school , face your education because if u no make am in future ,same girl go laugh you.
while i was in school,i was very close with girls and i never asked anyone out. infact so many called me assistance boyfriend but i ate a lot of free and quality food. Girls love someone that play along without any emotional attachment.

Bros I don’t want to conclude that the lady in question doesn’t like you cos overtime I have come across some very complicated human beings so she might just be one of such people,and it’s equally possible that she doesn’t give u attention cos she’s into some other guy.Maybe u should give her some space and see how she reacts..but Sincerely I think as a student you should be more success driven, focus more on graduating with good grades and on things that add value to your life rather than channel so much energy and resources towards winning the attention and affection of the opposite sex..forget all those stories you heard about the university being a place where u have so many girlfriends and a lot of fun; that’s an illusion as well as a lie, infact the real life starts after u have graduated and become successful, then all those pretty girls back in the uni are all looking for a rich guy to settle down with(if u like u go chop as many as u like b4 u finally pick one�)..But If u spend all ur time trying to get a gf in school which u might not even get and as a result forget why ur in school and fail to graduate well my bro it will be a loose loose situation for you at the end of the day.

My brother trust is very important in any relationship ooo and the lady should be able to confide in you for you guys to flow properly.. Anyways, here is my advice..Sit her down and talk to her about it

As an undergraduate all u need is a sex partner .. As long as this gal doesn't deny u sex my brother it will be foolish to back of due to mere speculations..me myself I have caught my gf being straffed by another man I didn't dump her in fact I was the one dat pleaded n we continued but some years after I got tired of her pussy n dumped her..remember life has no duplicate

Avast:
What do you want to end when you haven't started anything. You guys are not in relationship so why stressing yourself.

I tire

This is easy man. She is just not into you!! Forget about her and set your focus on other things. Another lady will come along. Don't stress it.

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

Their wahala is too much, l will advise you to shun.

Walahi the babe is nice unlike normal naija babes wey full town, you for Don hear wheann, guy go do testimony for church that you are not a side boo/maga,My 2 pence

I don't see any problem here at all!!
A full fledged man feeling "helpless and angry" because of a girl..

Na teenage exuberance de worry you.
Girl de send you up n down like fool you come NL de lament. What more do you need to know to understand she's either cheating, planning on cheating or simply dig someone more than you ? Anyway you will learn not to waste your time on such girls, we have all been there.

Chop your own make you comot, use your head n stop being sissy.

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Xisnin:
When will you grow up?

.. When you work on your low self esteem

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

ghost her

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Omo. This guy is running low on redpill drugs. Martinez79,more supplies for him. ASAP.

so you think latina guys always do drugs

OP, let me shook mouth for your matter o before heartbreak go finish u for there.

Firstly, Boys have no bizness falling in love. When you become a Man, you won't need to fall in love, love will fall on u (If there is anything like that). The thing is that you are in school so focus on that goal, achieve it and move on. Free any Girl that does not like u. There is no law in Nigeria or anywhere else in the world that says a girl must like u or reciprocate ur good gestures. If u are not feeling equal vibes, move on unless u want to die young.

Conclusion - Move on and let the babe be. A better babe is ahead. You will never find her if you remain at this junction.

Run for your life.

See as this one wan mumu himself ontop love.
Op i pity you wella. I was in ur shoes back then. I even got depression because of the girl and was suicidal for months but thank God i quickly realized myself and ditch fake love for content and making money and i have never been more grateful and cherry about life.


U better ditch that girl and face ur studies, come out among the top of ur class, make plenty money(I mean this one sincerely), improve your life and live life to the fullest being happy for yourself alone.


#No one can make you more happy than yourself.

According to ur story:

1. She is nt ur girlfriend u are just crushing on her.
2. She likes/loves someone else more than u.

Way forward:
Leave her alone and concentrate on something else. U will be fine las las