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Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by justphillips(m): 1:15pm On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Crunchy12(m): 1:22pm On Oct 15, 2019
My friend, mind your business.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by BareFacedLies(m): 1:25pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
The lady does not owe you anything cos you're not in a relationship
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by stevups(m): 1:35pm On Oct 15, 2019
Abandon her for a while, don't greet her again. Meet her by the road and run away.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Mypeople2(m): 1:35pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
Guy she nor want you. Leave her alone. You can go and help Nkechi
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by jaxxy(m): 2:13pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
Ure using the wrong strategy my frnd that’s why she won’t give u chance. Stop this assumption of bf status and trying to do things bfs do when she hasn’t given u the green light. Is she was a bad gal she wud have eaten ur money and wasted ur time and u won’t still be her guy. Relax and get to know and understand her 1st.

Also if she’s dating ur neighbors that shud be easy to find out and u can clear the confusion and know if u want to continue with a different strategy or not.

It’s not by following her to the hospital or up and down U become a bf. There are several ways to get her attention bt it depends on what attracts her and if u have such qualities. Sm like looks, others intelligence, conversation and sm just money they can’t resist bt the later will be a hoe galfnd so hope she’s not all the about money tho it may be part of the game at sm point bt not necessarily.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by calabardick(m): 2:34pm On Oct 15, 2019
Avast:
What do you want to end when you haven't started anything. You guys are not in relationship so why stressing yourself.
Why not allow that boy wallow in his ignorance?
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Omar09(m): 2:38pm On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.
I would have clicked on the like button to make it even, but I like 69.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Sunnybabe(m): 2:49pm On Oct 15, 2019
Avast:
What do you want to end when you haven't started anything. [B] You guys are not in relationship so why stressing yourself [/B] .
grin gbamnm... u don burst the speaker grin ... that's what have been thinking here that I don't think d relationship have started yet oo


Lemme call this type of relationship SEMI-FRIENDZONE RELATIONSHIP
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
Na your problem be dat. If you like keep chasing her
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.
Boy, I LOVE YOU for this. Little wonder people have been calling your name. It seems you're worth the attention.


Hope you're not offended at me calling you boy by the way? grin I just like the sound.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Oct 15, 2019
pocohantas:
Your topic made it seem like so though.
Come, Auntie, with all due respect and I don't mean to show disrespect to my elders but.... You no get work? huh


Always on every threadundecided
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by pocohantas(f):
Alright @ Oladimejirufai.
smiley
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Martinez79: 4:00pm On Oct 15, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
Boy, I LOVE YOU for this. Little wonder people have been calling your name. It seems you're worth the attention.


Hope you're not offended at me calling you boy by the way? grin I just like the sound.
I am not offended. I am cool with it.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by DenreleDave(op): 4:09pm On Oct 15, 2019
Fantazy:
According to ur story:
1. She is nt ur girlfriend u are just crushing on her. 2. She likes/loves someone else more than u.
Way forward: Leave her alone and concentrate on something else. U will be fine las las
Thanks bro
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by DenreleDave(op): 4:09pm On Oct 15, 2019
Grimmx:
See as this one wan mumu himself ontop love.
Op i pity you wella. I was in ur shoes back then. I even got depression because of the girl and was suicidal for months but thank God i quickly realized myself and ditch fake love for content and making money and i have never been more grateful and cherry about life.


U better ditch that girl and face ur studies, come out among the top of ur class, make plenty money(I mean this one sincerely), improve your life and live life to the fullest being happy for yourself alone.


#No one can make you more happy than yourself.
Thanks bro
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Brightneche(m): 4:09pm On Oct 15, 2019
Na she dey feed u?
Wasted generation
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by psalmylee(m): 4:10pm On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.
chaii,bros u too get sense.u don't burst my head. I swear
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by BluntBlunt: 4:16pm On Oct 15, 2019
Oga you have nothing to end.stop imaging things.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Citytrend: 4:17pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
but you already know the answer uncle
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Xisnin(m): 4:22pm On Oct 15, 2019
JONNYSPUTE:
.. When you work on your low self esteem
Says a man whose life revolves around women he claims not to care about.
You use multiple accounts to validate your sense of self and your caveman ideology while inviting your other selves to
support your anti-relationship comments.

Having failed at all relationships, then you became an anti-relationship adviser just like a jobless graduate
who discourage others from pursuing tertiary education.
That you failed doesn't mean others would.

What do you gain by tricking people to become a relationship failure like yourself?
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Oct 15, 2019
[quote a[/quote]No don't end it now. Wait until she invites you to her wedding with the other guy.

Op, as a lady let me tell you the truth, the girl is not into you. As in she no send you.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 15, 2019
pocohantas:
And somehow you know this by not being on every thread- as person wey get work.

Lol, I think it is stupidity to always assume that not posting means someone is employed. Really stupid thinking... grin
No, it's two ways.


It is stupid if someone seriously thinks that way...


But it isn't necessarily stupid if the person is joking.


Mine was the latter. Sorry for not constructing my post well enough to make it reflect in it and getting you offended thereby. Have a nice a day by the way.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by alexola20(m):
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Traveln: 6:25pm On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Don't mind him.


@op

You are not serious and you are yet to take some red pills. She is not your girlfriend; she doesn't want you; and you are forcing yourself on her. Never love a girl that doesn't love you. No mutual love is better than one sided love. Person wey no like you no like you and you no go fit love the one you no go fit love. Stop trying and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.

As a hustling student, leave girls alone and focus on your hustle and establish yourself. When you make it, you will still see girls. Girls no dey finish. It's not written anywhere that it must be that particular girl. No girl is special, irreplaceable, and indispensable. They can always be replaced and you can always find another one. Forget women and hustle. When you have too much money, you can get the best of them.

Whether you like it or not, as far as girls are concerned, their heart goes to the highest bidder (financially) that they can find. If you no get money, hide your face. That's how it is with women. Make sure you read my topic in my link below


When you are ready to settle down, pick one and marry. Don't do love, instead pick the one that will give you beautiful children and can play the role of a housekeeper. Romantic love is a scam.

Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Avast(m): 6:30pm On Oct 15, 2019
calabardick:
Why not allow that boy wallow in his ignorance?
Lol, that is why he has someone like you here.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by samology2000: 7:30pm On Oct 15, 2019
My brother hustle and make money. After that na women go get heart grin break for u not the other way round...
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by deltateam: 7:43pm On Oct 15, 2019
greatmarshall:
If you like
Straight and simple. grin

Anyway I don't think the girl is into op. Op free am "if you like o".

Before una use me settle quarrel.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by deltateam: 7:45pm On Oct 15, 2019
Avast:
What do you want to end when you haven't started anything. You guys are not in relationship so why stressing yourself.
Aww. embarassed

That's being honest. No relationship yet.
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by Femi316: 9:26pm On Oct 15, 2019
DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this
You wan die young.... Bros forget about her and move on with your life......I don talk my own oh.....?
Re: Tired Of Heart Break, Should I Just Forget About Her? by greatmarshall(m): 9:37pm On Oct 15, 2019
deltateam:
Straight and simple. grin

Anyway I don't think the girl is into op. Op free am "if you like o".

Before una use me settle quarrel.
grin
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