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DenreleDave:
Idiot, if my mama need help, even as I be student, I. Dey hustle to make sure she gets it...

So. Don't come here displaying ur foolishness... Ur advice not insult

u can only say that on the Internet. U don't even know the direction your life is going yet and you are here calling your father names.... no be only hustle. Small boy, dey there dey look for a woman to impress. Don't go and think about your future, u no know say name Nigeria you dey? Tomorrow nowith if you come out u will start blaming government for not giving you job.

Xisnin:
Says a man whose life revolves around women he claims not to care about.
You use multiple accounts to validate your sense of self and your caveman ideology while inviting your other selves to
support your anti-relationship comments.

Having failed at all relationships, then you became an anti-relationship adviser just like a jobless graduate
who discourage others from pursuing tertiary education.
That you failed doesn't mean others would.

What do you gain by tricking people to become a relationship failure like yourself?

. No go kill yourself for nairaland matter o. Nah beg I dey beg u o.

she don voodolize ur small brain.... no face ur book, dey find woman wey don already leave u for back since whc yr.

crackhouse:
u can only say that on the Internet. U don't even know the direction your life is going yet and you are here calling your father names.... no be only hustle. Small boy, dey there dey look for a woman to impress. Don't go and think about your future, u no know say name Nigeria you dey? Tomorrow nowith if you come out u will start blaming government for not giving you job.

He-diot

anthonyuncle:
u are just worsening ur case for urself.

to start with,
have u made ur intentions known to dz girl vocally?

Yes she is fully aware about that

Ebonygirl1:
The girl doesn't like you and she keeps dropping so many hints yet you keep ignoring them. Let her go and stop hurting yourself

I want too, but seeing each other within the university walls again reignite my feelings for her... I just like her but u no every one has a but

flexxyworld:
Guy funny but true, ladies don't like guys that choke them. obviously, your affection hasn't appealed too her, you can't force it. Give her some space, if she doesn't still notice your absence then bros, kindly bounce

I don't choke her.. This recent issue made me get angry with her.. We do have issues though but our good times are much more than bad times

seunmohmoh:
Quick question op: Is the lady in question your girlfriend?

Do u suggest I call her and we see so that I just tell her that we shud give ourselves a break...

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do such

Sirvingeo:
Both of you are not compatible .

Do u suggest I call her and we see so that I just tell her that we shud give ourselves a break...

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do

tweakdude1:
Dude from my experience

Try channeling your mind now on the possible reasons why she dumps you and work on it but make no mistake accepting her back or going to her.

Do u suggest I call her and we see so that I just tell her that we shud give ourselves a break...

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do

pocohantas:
Naso. Mugu will continue to fall.
Matters of the heart is beyond all this nonsense you all form online

Aunty Pocohantas

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do

safarigirl:
Why will you come online and use text-speak to pass across your message? What are you? 19?

You also go ahead to state you are angry at a girl that isn't your girl, for not telling you she was ill. What did you want to do? You have an unreciprocrated crush, she doesn't even see you as a friend to share anything with. Leave her alone, let her focus on her sick crush.

Aunty safari

Do u suggest I call her and we see so that I just tell her that we shud give ourselves a break...

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do

DenreleDave:
As in I don dey on this girl matter since last year oo, I really like am much if I must Confess.
One thing happened yesterday and it Pained me so so so much. One of my neighbor in hostel fell sick early in the day and in the evening after church weekly meeting, I got to meet this babe as she was going back to her hostel and she was on a call and I heard a name that sounds like one of my sick neighbors roommate. She was asking the guy about the sick one (the sick one is her frnd like she claims). She was asking the clinic they took him too and so on, I could sense that she was kinda worried.

Later that night, she still called me again to go find out about the sick guy bcox he is my next neighbor. She still called the roommate to my sick neighbor again asking about his whereabouts and so on.

So later later sha, we dey chat for Facebook. So I was like why are you so worried Cox I cud sense dt she is kinda tensed.

She said
"the guy took care of her when she was sick, he was the one doing the stress for her when she went to clinic and now he is sick and she is stuck here and doesn't know which hospital they took him too"

Now here is my problem;
Most times when things are not really fine with this babe, I used to sense it or have dt kinda feelings dt sumtin is wrong with her. We stay in different hostel so we chat and call. When she was sick, she didn't tell me, I even told her that I av this feelings that she is not feeling fine but she lied and said she is fine. It was her younger sister dt later told me that she was admitted in a clinic. Imagine oo, I even offered to go with her whenever she is going for her injection and she was like no, she can take care of herself.
I couldn't force her but I never knew it was bcox of this guy she was doing this.

Guys, I'm not angry that she cared for a guy that cared for her but lying to me when she wasn't fine annoys me. I feel helpless and angry.

Maybe he who get more bargaining power gets the babe. Most times I av always wanted to help her but she always insist No, she doesn't wana stress me, I'm just a hustling student.

Guys, do u think I shud just end this with her and go my way.. I can't keep enduring this

I noticed that people now use Auto-liker to increase their LIKES on this Nairaland

DenreleDave:
Do u suggest I call her and we see so that I just tell her that we shud give ourselves a break...

I don't wana behave immature by not talking to each other like she is kinda doing now.
So I'm thinking of calling her, sit her down and just request dt we give ourselves a break

I no love cannot be forced and I wunt dare to do such

You haven't answered my question yet. Are you dating her?

seunmohmoh:
You haven't answered my question yet. Are you dating her?

I'm not in a rush to date.... Infact she will always ask me what I want now... I have made my intentions to her and she is fully aware about how serious I am about courting her... We ain't dating...

DenreleDave:
I'm not in a rush to date.... Infact she will always ask me what I want now... I have made my intentions to her and she is fully aware about how serious I am about courting her... We ain't dating...

Move on man, she's not interested. I'm a lady and I speak on how it works.

DenreleDave:
Yes she is fully aware about that

then pull da plug

anthonyuncle:
then pull da plug

Thanks bro

seunmohmoh:
Move on man, she's not interested. I'm a lady and I speak on how it works.

Yes I know I shud move on.. But I can't just do that without confronting her and just make things clear to her..

I prefer we see face to face and we discuss things out to just take a break than shunning her without telling her

What do u think

DenreleDave:
Yes I know I shud move on.. But I can't just do that without confronting her and just make things clear to her..

I prefer we see face to face and we discuss things out to just take a break than shunning her without telling her

What do u think

Go ahead. She doesn't bite.

DenreleDave:
I want too, but seeing each other within the university walls again reignite my feelings for her... I just like her but u no every one has a but

I have felt what you are feeling right now. Give it time, you'll feel better eventually