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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Rajman45(m): 5:53am On Oct 24, 2019
See dis one... Lol. Nigeria men dislike u too.

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by khia: 5:58am On Oct 24, 2019
BMaretraitors:
How is this a racist post? I have basic standards that i expect from men, how is that discriminatory if some cannot meet them.

You didn't only say Nigerian men but black men altogether. You aren't racist but you are prejudice.

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by khia: 6:10am On Oct 24, 2019
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Troynewyork:
I am new to this forum.Show me some love in the house!!!I am a afro american woman married to a (igbo)man.I love me some naija man.They are the best!!All women who are commenting with their negativity about nigerian men have never jam correct naija man.Sweet oh.
Just say your man is sweet and stop generalising like the op.

PS.. I'm black American as well and WELCOME. Why is your grammar like an Nigerian rather than an American?

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 10:21am On Oct 24, 2019
RedCreme21:
grin alternating both accounts?
Seems you're now more fiery.
Why are u casting me na sad
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 24, 2019
dairykidd:

Why are u casting me na sad
no dont take it like that, why would i such a thing? Even i, im more..um..quicktempered after that crazyemberr scandal.
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 24, 2019
RedCreme21:
no dont take it like that, why would i such a thing? Even i, im more..um..quicktempered after that crazyemberr scandal.
Lolz.. anyways in case i get banned i can always fall back to the other smiley
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BIGGIE121(m): 11:53am On Oct 24, 2019
This is bullshit

Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Magnoliaa(f): 6:57pm On Oct 24, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Hahahaha cheesy painment loading cheesy


lol. You guessed right. They chant "team foreign girls" all the time, now they won't take their hate being directed back to them. OP is suddenly racist, and not stating her just her preference.
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 12:24am On Oct 25, 2019
I agree sis, black men are useless
bunch of lazy, dirty things
white and hispanic men are for me
BMaretraitors:
It is no secret. Anyone that knows me know i'm totally against the idea of dating or mating with any man of African descent. I'm not attracted to them in anyway. I try to avoid any space that has a lot of black men because the sight of them repulses me especially the Nigerian ones. They are mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted. Whenever the look at me, i cringe because even though they would never have me the nurture the idea that they can. I see how their eyes burn in desire for me, ughh. How can they ever think that i would consider them a choice when they are just ugly copies of the real men in this world. They are no match. I know it. They know it. The whole world knows!


Today, i was shocked when my elder folks insisted i must marry my tribesman, which according to some means i should stop befriending non black men since that might spoil the whole plan of marrying within. I have not been my usual self since i heard this because i know my folks. They are tribal to a core and I would have been too but i lost my loyalty not just to my kinfolks but to my skin folks as well, after i learnt that we are all a lost cause because of the indiscipline and lack of loyalty of black men as a whole.

Dear Nairalanders and romancelanders, how do i convince my folks that i cannot end up with their choice for me. I can't tell them that i have self respect and a high taste in men because these seem selfish. What concrete reason can i give?

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by AmazingELixir: 12:38am On Oct 25, 2019
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This is the very reason discerning parents send their wards back home to complete their high school instead of allowing them run the full course of their education abroad and imbibing the full western lifestyle.

This op is a lost course and to think that you have the temerity to ask for advice from thesame black men you detest calls for serious examination of your cranial content.

Lalas do the needful and gag diswan ...nothing person nogo see....black racist dey too.. grin

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 3:48pm On Oct 26, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I agree sis, black men are useless bunch of lazy, dirty things white and hispanic men are for me
Thanks. Black men are canceled.
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 26, 2019
Lol Just keep giving them hot hot we behind you grin grin
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Mynaija292(m): 6:22pm On Oct 26, 2019
I understand how you feel about black men most especially from the side of the divide you come from. It goes to show how ignorant you are about your ancestral lineage. Non particular set of people that are 100% what you are looking for. Wish you the best.

BMaretraitors:
How is this a racist post? I have basic standards that i expect from men, how is that discriminatory if some cannot meet them.
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Mart1994(m): 1:58am On Feb 11, 2020
Las last the post no blow...

Sorry this is coming late, but it's coming directly from the Brotherhood of the Nigerian Men.(BNM):

"We are more than happy to let you go. One stress gotten rid of.

You shall not be missed."

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Tayor23(m): 3:05am On Feb 11, 2020
BMaretraitors:
It is no secret. Anyone that knows me know i'm totally against the idea of dating or mating with any man of African descent. I'm not attracted to them in anyway. I try to avoid any space that has a lot of black men because the sight of them repulses me especially the Nigerian ones. They are mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted. Whenever the look at me, i cringe because even though they would never have me the nurture the idea that they can. I see how their eyes burn in desire for me, ughh. How can they ever think that i would consider them a choice when they are just ugly copies of the real men in this world. They are no match. I know it. They know it. The whole world knows!


Today, i was shocked when my elder folks insisted i must marry my tribesman, which according to some means i should stop befriending non black men since that might spoil the whole plan of marrying within. I have not been my usual self since i heard this because i know my folks. They are tribal to a core and I would have been too but i lost my loyalty not just to my kinfolks but to my skin folks as well, after i learnt that we are all a lost cause because of the indiscipline and lack of loyalty of black men as a whole.

Dear Nairalanders and romancelanders, how do i convince my folks that i cannot end up with their choice for me. I can't tell them that i have self respect and a high taste in men because these seem selfish. What concrete reason can i give?
you want an advice from the people you hate? God punish you and your western thinking

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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by linearity: 3:42am On Feb 11, 2020
We get it that, your father, brothers & uncles are of African descent and as such are.....” mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted....”..but take heart, not all men of African descent are.
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Collyweed: 6:21am On Feb 11, 2020
BMaretraitors:
How is this a racist post? I have basic standards that i expect from men, how is that discriminatory if some cannot meet them.

You should just kill yourself. That way, you permanently avoid marrying a black man (even by accident) and you remove your mumuness from the human gene pool.

Ignorant white trash!

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