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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 9:36am On Oct 26, 2019
PHOTSEE:
DON'T YOU SEE THESE AS PROBLEM ALREADY, WITH LITTLE OR NO SOLUTION, WHAT IF THE LADY FAILS, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CHILDREN?


The situation is not always a bad one cos many fathers are responsible which was why i stressed the need to choose a man wisely to be a fatherly figure.

My write up only points out the misplaced priority of the present-day woman when it comes to marriage. Do you know that some women won't mind jeopardizing the happiness of their children because their husbands cheat? is that not madness? so that is what this piece is trying to address...The priority of any lady is her chidren hence must do all she can to make sure they become better. That a man plays around does not mean he can't be responsible for his children.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by boiz2men(m): 9:42am On Oct 26, 2019
pocohantas:


I'm flattered cheesy
Just the girl next door though.

Why are you flirting with them? angry angry
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Mstick: 9:44am On Oct 26, 2019
Of course it's "audio marriage" because in this life or the next no woman can stay with you that long because you STINK.

come on I wrote about my parents marriage no body forced me to, checkout my reply to people that try to shame me with that. I can't be ashamed of my parent's marriage falling you know why? I learnt lessons and I used my father as an example as what I wouldn't want in a man and so far so good.


You keep talking about intelligence and IQ and I know if I had agreed with this your repugnant write up I would've been "the most intelligent lady on nairaland but since I don't I would wear my "unintelligent" badge proudly.

You posted a screenshot of a comment I wrote about a woman with kids going after DIFFERENT MEN and you claim I've mental illness? grin grin

So tell me how my advice to her tallies with this your OP? How the you absolve a man of his responsibilities TOTALLY?

You want a woman to see her husband as a intimacy gadget and train the kids that bear his name meanwhile the man just goes around fulling his fleshy lust? Is that the marriage your Christian God instituted?

You're a SADISTIC "man", you keep coming online to preach such evil message, if you're so smart go and work on your own MARRIAGE ooppppps I forgot she flung you in the bin. grin grin grin grin








Toks2008:


Audio marriage.

By the way I don't usually respond to unintelligent ladies like you but if you want me to open a book On you I bet you will cry in your solitude.

Any small thing you refer to a lady who is still very much with me that she left me blablabla but just a little digging has revealed that you are a product of a broken home and you have ranted so much on nairaland that you now sound like a broken record.

I'm the wrong guy to pick on cos my IQ is way beyond your league.

Were you not the one that typed this attached post?

I guess you have a chronic mental illness else you wont have issues with this thread cos i see no difference between the advise you gave in the attached and this thread?

All your 100plus posts on nairaland is suggestive that you are damaged psycologically so I will advise you once more to stay off my mentions. Go and vehement your bitterness somewhere else.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 26, 2019
Paxie55:

Igbo.
Na una type deh always turn Igbo language around, while forming shìt at same time.
I'm a pure igbo person. I can't form for that.
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 9:57am On Oct 26, 2019
kluivertngong:
You Tried, But You Got It All Wrong. Yes, The Bible Call Them Weaker Vessels, For A Purpose. Have You Ever Bothered To Find Out The Real Reason Why The Bible Calls Them That? How Do You Know That A Man Is A Real Man? A Man Is A Real Man, When He Behaves Like One. He Is Faithful To One Woman, He Considers Other Human Beings Feelings, He Makes His Wife And Kid(s) His Priority. Not Jumping From One Bitch To The Other, Just Because He Wears Trousers And Has Something That Dangles In Between His Legs. There Is More To Being A Real Man, Boy.

Oh dear.

I'm sorry I assumed you were a grown man before commenting.
A quick look at your profile left me speechless. Not only was a met with a picture of a pre-puberty little boy, but most of your posts is about nollywood actresses!

Lmao!

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:04am On Oct 26, 2019
eni4real:
Do you pick a particular moniker and disagree with that particular moniker all the time irrespective of what he/she says at different times??
C'mon.. .



Not at all - certainly I don't. BUT I can assure you these post-wall losers parading themselves as ladies on this forum are very guilty of this. Hence why they gather themselves in packs to insult any man who doesn't kiss their putrid behinds like they are doing right now to Mr Toks the genius.
ie. Msitck, CHoccolaTE and co.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:07am On Oct 26, 2019
boiz2men:


Why are you flirting with them? angry angry

Apologies sweetie. I didn't see it as such grin
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:08am On Oct 26, 2019
CHoccolaTE:


Lol you already know his way of requesting front page, very irritating thing.
Lal@sticlala hope this makes sense?
Lal@sticlala am I communicating?

Evil human human being trying desperately hard to frustrate women's lives because his former wife left him.
And the lal@sticlala gan does not waste time to carry his evil agenda to front page for all the sociopaths and sadists to cheer him on.

Lol. We all know uncle Toks and his antics. Blows hot and cold at the same time.

I don't think he is evil though, I just do not understand his views on marriage most times.
grin grin
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CaptainMitch: 10:10am On Oct 26, 2019
Hi come and take my sperm, I am not using it for anything
AwkaetitiBabe:
Menopause is catching up. I need a sperm donor.

He has to be fair, tall and Ibo and more importantly, free from any disease. Apply within, no time to waste undecided
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:11am On Oct 26, 2019
kluivertngong:
You Tried, But You Got It All Wrong. Yes, The Bible Call Them Weaker Vessels, For A Purpose. Have You Ever Bothered To Find Out The Real Reason Why The Bible Calls Them That? How Do You Know That A Man Is A Real Man? A Man Is A Real Man, When He Behaves Like One. He Is Faithful To One Woman, He Considers Other Human Beings Feelings, He Makes His Wife And Kid(s) His Priority. Not Jumping From One Bitch To The Other, Just Because He Wears Trousers And Has Something That Dangles In Between His Legs. There Is More To Being A Real Man, Boy.

Ok I have heard you.

Now let me ask...

If you find yourself married to a man that cheats on you and you have kids for him already please what will you do?

A. Leave him and stay single for the rest of your life leaving your kids with a broken home?

B. Leave him.and start trying your luck with different men with no guaranty of meeting a faithful one?

C. Stay in the marriage and Focus on your life and that of your children whilst ignoring him with his philandering.

All my threads are actually in support of the women...to prepare and protect them from predators in the name of bad men but because many ladies lack the mental maturity to grasp the message or many are just too young to understand, they think I am against them.

We live in a very wicked,selfish and uncaring world of men and any lady who tries to fight this fact will certainly end up a loser.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:11am On Oct 26, 2019
genq:


Na you go die for my matter. I'd!ot.

Who does it look like is dying so far? You will be here scaterring body, while I remain Poco.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CaptainMitch: 10:14am On Oct 26, 2019
pocohantas:


Who does it look like is dying so far? You will be here scaterring body, while I remain Poco.

Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:17am On Oct 26, 2019
pocohantas:


Who does it look like is dying so far? You will be here scaterring body, while I remain Poco.


My darling, I dey kampe. Not everyone is interested in licking your rotten azz kiss

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CaptainMitch: 10:17am On Oct 26, 2019
Put new dp fine girl smiley me and lefulefu wan smile

Paxie55:

Igbo.
Na una type deh always turn Igbo language around, while forming shìt at same time.
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 10:24am On Oct 26, 2019
genq:


Oh dear.

I'm sorry I assumed you were a grown man before commenting.
A quick look at your profile left me speechless. Not only was a met with a picture of a pre-puberty little boy, but most of your posts is about nollywood actresses!

Lmao!


Listen, Pussy. Age Is Only A Number And Maturity Is Only A Claim To Age. Being Mature Is Not About Age, But It's A Thing Of The Mind: What One Does, What He Says And How He Reacts And Treats Other People Determines If He's Mature Or Not. I Think You Should Be Tell Yourself That, Not Me. Yes, Granted. I Might Look Small. But, Hey, Baby Boy. What I Carry Up Here In My Head, All Your Family And Yourself Put Together, Are Still To Get To Know About It. Don't Push Me. Just Grow Up And Be A Real Man. Make Your Wife Happy, Give Your Kids The Respect They Deserve, Be A Responsible Man For Once In Your Life, Zip Your Trouser Up And Keep It Shut. Handle Your Family Problems Like A Man And Prove Your Worth.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:28am On Oct 26, 2019
genq:



Serious mental illness caused by daddy issues. They'll gather themselves and be ranting like mad dogs all over people's threads. Lonely hags!

I honestly don't know what they expect me to start writing...

That a woman should leave her marriage because a man cheats on her?
All these relationship experts that preach such are not only evil but clueless and foolish.

Rather than waste my time writing futile sermons on why men must be faithful to their wives I chose to write about how women can be the best they can regardless and they have issues with that...is that not lame?

It will amaze you that many ladies forming Amazons online are actually side dish of one married man who is not even taking good care of them.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:29am On Oct 26, 2019
kluivertngong:
Listen, Pussy. Age Is Only A Number And Maturity Is Only A Claim To Age. Being Mature Is Not About Age, But It's A Thing Of The Mind: What One Does, What He Says And How He Reacts And Treats Other People Determines If He's Mature Or Not. I Think You Should Be Tell Yourself That, Not Me. Yes, Granted. I Might Look Small. But, Hey, Baby Boy. What I Carry Up Here In My Head, All Your Family And Yourself Put Together, Are Still To Get To Know About It. Don't Push Me. Just Grow Up And Be A Real Man. Make Your Wife Happy, Give Your Kids The Respect They Deserve, Be A Responsible Man For Once In Your Life, Zip Your Trouser Up And Keep It Shut. Handle Your Family Problems Like A Man And Prove Your Worth.


Have you done your Saturday chores? Don't let your mother catch you on nairaland little kid.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:31am On Oct 26, 2019
kluivertngong:
Listen, Pussy. Age Is Only A Number And Maturity Is Only A Claim To Age. Being Mature Is Not About Age, But It's A Thing Of The Mind: What One Does, What He Says And How He Reacts And Treats Other People Determines If He's Mature Or Not. I Think You Should Be Tell Yourself That, Not Me. Yes, Granted. I Might Look Small. But, Hey, Baby Boy. What I Carry Up Here In My Head, All Your Family And Yourself Put Together, Are Still To Get To Know About It. Don't Push Me. Just Grow Up And Be A Real Man. Make Your Wife Happy, Give Your Kids The Respect They Deserve, Be A Responsible Man For Once In Your Life, Zip Your Trouser Up And Keep It Shut. Handle Your Family Problems Like A Man And Prove Your Worth.

So in all.your self acclaim wisdom, once a man sleeps with another lady or marries another lady then he is automatically irresponsible...

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by boiz2men(m): 10:36am On Oct 26, 2019
pocohantas:


Apologies sweetie. I didn't see it as such grin

kiss kiss kiss
Chop kiss
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:36am On Oct 26, 2019
Toks2008:


I honestly don't know what they expect me to start writing...

That a woman should leave her marriage because a man cheats on her?
All these relationship experts that preach such are not only evil but clueless and foolish.

Rather than waste my time writing futile sermons on why men must be faithful to their wives I chose to write about how women can be the best they can regardless and they have issues with that...is that not lame?

It will amaze you that many ladies forming Amazons online are actually side dish of one married man who is not even taking good care of them.

See, what they want is the liberty to dominate this forum spreading vitriol and foolishness. So when someone comes along who isn't buying it, they'll start ganging up grin

Trust me, they even do this same sh!t to their fellow women who reject feminism - These h0es hate themselves and hate each other with a passion. They've been so rejected, ridiculed and used up by men all their lives and cant help but spread bitterness.

The loudest warriors here are the baby mama's, divorcees, and post-35 year old single sluuts - whilst the tag-along learners are teenage prostitutes like LilllyVal (whose been named and shamed into oblivion).

Nairaland is their only hope. Miserable things.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by genq(m): 10:37am On Oct 26, 2019
Toks2008:


So in all.your self acclaim wisdom, once a man sleeps with another lady or marries another lady then he is automatically irresponsible...


Dude don't engage that boy. He's a just a kid - check his profile.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 10:38am On Oct 26, 2019
Toks2008:


So in all.your self acclaim wisdom, once a man sleeps with another lady or marries another lady then he is automatically irresponsible...
Of Course, Toks, For Once, Call A Spade, A Spade. Haba, Na Wa For You Ooo. You Can Pretend For Africa.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 10:40am On Oct 26, 2019
genq:



Have you done your Saturday chores? Don't let your mother catch you on nairaland little kid.
I Can See That You Need Help.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Rapmoney(m): 10:45am On Oct 26, 2019
I am a man but this thread is highly flawed!!! In fact, it's filled with illogical points. What's the essence of the marriage if the woman shouldn't care about the character of the to-be husband? Sincerely, there is no sense in this write-up.

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 10:46am On Oct 26, 2019
boiz2men:


kiss kiss kiss
Chop kiss

kiss kiss

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Mstick: 10:46am On Oct 26, 2019
WE ARE TIRED OHHHHHHHHHHHH!
CULTISM THEY'RE QUIET lipsrsealed
RAPE OF WOMEN AND KIDS THEY'RE QUIET lipsrsealed
MURDER THEY'RE QUIET lipsrsealed
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE lipsrsealed

BUT WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN shocked

TALK ABOUT YOUR GENDER LEAVE WOMEN ALONE!

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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Mstick: 10:47am On Oct 26, 2019
Thank you!


Rapmoney:
I am a man but this thread is highly flawed!!! In fact, it's filled with illogical points. What's the essence of the marriage if the woman shouldn't care about the character of the to-be husband? Sincerely, there is no sense in this write-up.

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