kluivertngong:
Of Course, Toks, For Once, Call A Spade, A Spade. Haba, Na Wa For You Ooo. You Can Pretend For Africa.

pocohantas:

Rapmoney:
I am a man but this thread is highly flawed!!! In fact, it's filled with illogical points. What's the essence of the marriage if the woman shouldn't care about the character of the to-be husband? Sincerely, there is no sense in this write-up.

kluivertngong:
If I Get You Right, Then Keep It Real With Men. Tell Them That Cheating On Your Wife, Is A Choice And Not A Must. Tell Them That, They Can Change And Be Better Human Beings. Afterall, Change Is A Constant Thing. Tell Them How It Hurts To See Your Spouse Cheat. Most Men Are Really Inconsiderate, They Feel It Is Okay For Them To Cheat On Their Wives, While Their Wives Should Just Overlook It And Not React, Because They Are Furnitures Abi? When The Woman Cheats, All Hell Will Break Loose. IT IS NOT FAIR. Do You Want To Know Why Jesus Christ Was And Is Considered The Best Husband To The Church?

genq:



Have you done your Saturday chores? Don't let your mother catch you on nairaland little kid.

Toks2008:


Shebi you know you can always create a thread about this and quote lalasticlala to consider it for the frontpage.

For me, i chose to prepare the ladies for the wickedness of many men who do not have respect for their marital vow and i don't think all the sermons in the world will stop men from being with another woman.

purleesh:


She's "alarmingly" gifted..I follow her just to laugh

Pocohantas

kluivertngong:
Sorry To Burst Your Bubbles. Not All Men Are The Same. There Are A Few Good Ones Out There In The World. Just Make Sure That, Men Should Know That They Can Change And Be Faithful.

Toks2008:


Of course they are few good faithful guys


My threads are for ladies who end up with the bad unfaithful guys who are more in number and ironically the ladies prefer them to good guys like you.

DMerciful:
Your thought process is intriguing ...that's basically it.

pocohantas:
Thank God for women and marriage,

I wonder what lots of you would be talking about. I also wonder what you want to write that you haven't written in your hundreds of previous topics.

E go pass how we want responsible and faithful ready-made men that are already taken and/or heavily desired?

-how we want equality without equal responsibilities?

-how we want faithful husbands when all men are polygamous by default?

-how cheating doesn't change the love a man has for his wife as long as he performs his duties, she should focus on her kids. He would definitely come back home...

-Etc

Nothing eye-opening to be written again in 2019. Every grown woman has been hearing these things since she was born. Some of us can recite it like the multiplication table.

NNEWIsuper:


Why don't you all allow him to land, why all these fights and misgivings.its uncalled for

modified

he has finally dropped it and I must sincerely apologise to the two ladies I quoted above, seems you all already know what he was capable of writing and I apologise.His write-up is meant for the dustbins, it lacks substance and misleading. I won't even comment on the topic as it will be out of place for me to consider it a merit

pocohantas:


Ancestor is for the money. Young bobos have their own part to play too.

ImaIma1:


The op's mindset is disturbing and unbelievable. He's promoting disunity, and freedom for men to live however they choose while the woman takes it all. Then why marry?

Everytime,...women of old, olden days women, our mothers. Did he think such women were happy?Besides a good number of "our mothers" married out of love and not this loveless and pathetic union he keeps mentioning here.

A woman should be all about her kids and allow the man live his life the way he wants. Really? Can she also sleep around?

This op's write up is just myopic and bourne out of selfishness.

This "women" of old he keeps magnifying were not all that he describes.

Besides if anyone expects the present situations and outcomes to be the same as in the 60s, that person needs to wake up and move with the times or die in the past.

bukatyne:


If our mothers' way was perfect and they had well brought up kids, wouldn't their daughters (us) be perfect?

Abi you have forgotten that the terrible daughters of today were brought up by the perfect mothers of yesterday.

Despite overwhelming evidence, we are all in denial that the mothers hailed as been content with their lives must have secretly abhorred it to collectively raise the daughters of today.

NNEWIsuper:


Why don't you all allow him to land, why all these fights and misgivings.its uncalled for

modified

he has finally dropped it and I must sincerely apologise to the two ladies I quoted above, seems you all already know what he was capable of writing and I apologise.His write-up is meant for the dustbins, it lacks substance and misleading. I won't even comment on the topic as it will be out of place for me to consider it a merit

ImaIma1:


You echoed my thoughts. How does he know if the women were happy? And would it be unjust for women to crave happiness and satisfaction in present times?

He is only thinking about how is benefits the men at the expense of the women.

CaptainMitch:
Put new dp fine girl me and lefulefu wan smile

Toks2008:


I think Satan should be more scared of men who are so mean that all they do is mess up the lives of ladies.

My write up will make sense to any reasonable woman who understands that there is nothing any lady can do to right the menance of Randy men.

They come online to bark like dogs but they still go back to face the harsh reality...some of them are now so clueless that they have accepted that most guys are Randy but if you must cheat then you must be rich.

My guy abeg I no fit shout. My threads are in support of ladies but cos I write realistic stuff, the ladies with indomie brains won't catch the drift but the wise ones wiĺl understand.

Toks2008:


Aunty Aristotle so with all your rantings..

Can you stop even your own husband from cheating on you? And of he cheats and you have kids with him wettin you go do?

It is convenient to always come online to form Amazon.

Toks2008:



The situation is not always a bad one cos many fathers are responsible which was why i stressed the need to choose a man wisely to be a fatherly figure.

My write up only points out the misplaced priority of the present-day woman when it comes to marriage. Do you know that some women won't mind jeopardizing the happiness of their children because their husbands cheat? is that not madness? so that is what this piece is trying to address...The priority of any lady is her chidren hence must do all she can to make sure they become better. That a man plays around does not mean he can't be responsible for his children.

Paxie55:

genq:


Oh dear.

I'm sorry I assumed you were a grown man before commenting.
A quick look at your profile left me speechless. Not only was a met with a picture of a pre-puberty little boy, but most of your posts is about nollywood actresses!

Lmao!

CaptainMitch:
Put new dp fine girl me and lefulefu wan smile

lefulefu:
na queensexy be dat?

Paxie55:

Mstick:
Nigerian version of Christianity cracks me up big time.

The Bible said thou shall not commit adultery but in Nigeria it's interpreted as, women don't commit adultery but a man can.

Same bible said men love your wives in Nigeria it's interpreted as, men it up to you even if you love her or not she must submit to you after all you paid bride price.

To be honest, this is one of the most sickening write ups ever but in the mind of this docile man he feels he made sense.


Why should I marry a man I don't love?
Why should kids be brought up in a loveless
marriage?
Why should I give my body to a man I know sleeps with numerous women and risk my health and well-being?
Why should I watch helplessly while a man pursues his happiness meanwhile I am dying of unhappiness just because YOU asked me to?

They keep talking about "our mothers" like they did such a great job. The Nigerian society is just a reflection of the homes and family life in Nigeria.
*wickedness *envy *hopelessness

Men want to tell women how to act, how to think, how to live meanwhile you lot are the WORST when it comes to crime and evil.

Where is the thread advising men to stop raping, killing, violence, stealing, cultism.

You religious people have exonerated "men"From doing anything in their homes after all a "wise woman builds the home" still you want to be accorded maximum respect.

LilMissFavvy:
The priority of both husband and wife should be their children....don't lay the ''priority on children'' thing on women alone, especially today's woman.

It is childish for anyone to expect today's woman to act like women of olden days. Today's woman is educated and often a working class, she is exposed and has a say in issues. Yesterday's women were mostly dependent illiterates who were dependent on men, and saw their husbands as god's. They could tolerate all kinds of oppressions from men.

A woman that dumps an unrepentant cheating husband should not be blamed, and she is not jeopardizing her children's future like you have said, rather she is protecting herself from emotional blackmail, or STDs.

A philandering unrepentant husband is not worthy of love/respect from his wife and children, so he should be ready to swallow whatever decision his wife takes. He may end up having kids littered everywhere/many divorces, but his wife should not be blamed. His life, his choice!