Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

and most of these oloshos get hurt when they find out the have CO oloshos screwing the same pastor and these pastors are victms because they are pastor, you can't blackmail random guys like this else you make him popular.

I guess people are taking Ese Walter case for Busola. They are two different cases and scenarios.

1StopRudeness:


Wait...what did this girl go through??

I really don’t understand this ese.....Bisola I understand well, she claimed she was raped, the the pstor forced himself on her at 17, perhaps too inexperienced to refused I wasn’t there but I get her part..
Ese never said this man forced himself on her, she narrated series of sexual escapades btw her and the dude but she never even called it rape....so what is this about exactly??
Please what did she go through that u are trying to make a point from if u listened to her confession years ago mayb I missed something. she had an affair with her pastor in full consent....
I don’t understand why women make men evil once a relationship’s final outcome isn’t favourable to them..the reason why I’m saying this is that I’ve never heard any woman speak well of her ex...women are naturally very vindictive..they slip their mind into a revised standard narrative of how they gave u their all, and never did anything wrong and how they trusted u..have u ever heard a girl blame herself of the bad outcome of a relationship??

jaxxy:


I don’t think it was about bukola or her case in particular bt the many victims of this man as claimed. If true it’s very disturbing.

Except if you are not a guy.. Who no like better things.

Blackmailing is nothing to ladies if they are too emotional involved..

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helinues:


Except if you are not a guy.. Who no like better things.

Blackmailing is nothing to ladies if they are too emotional involved..

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Yoighaman:


Thank you for this post. I couldn't have written better.

Some comments here baffle me and felt like bashing people but I kept my cool because opinions do differ and one must respect other people's.

I like this Ese lady, very intelligent, confident and daring. She's also a very good writer, she subtly passed across loads of important and helpful messages in this article but many are quick to read and attack her.

I wish her the best in all her endeavors.

God bless you.

Just imagine in what direction some people took her intentions.

It is one thing to be able to read, it is another thing to have comprehension skills.

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helinues:


Walahi Na you go tired, cos you go create accounts tired

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Olalan:
Only God know His true worshipers.
BTW am not a fan of all this new generation hippy trendy pastors........

You right; only God knows the true pastor

Just read what Nigerian youths have to say in response to her write up then you will understand why the country is lagging behind.

helinues:
Biodun was a game boy when he was in Ilorin , no doubt but all these claims allegations are just embittered ladies that have no real bearings in Life.

But Dakolo behaved like a pvssy sha. And he allowed his wife to disgrace their family just like that..

Did you just agree that fatoyinbo is guilty as charged?

Sad...She needs therapy to fin closure

Bacteriologist:




Nairaland is filled with mentally sick people. Excessive trolling is a sign of mental illness and it's not far-fetched on this site.

Add that to the mix of religious apology and misogyny and you get what I mean.

ur the mentally sick one here. Gerrout!!! Bacteria!

helinues:


Except if you are not a guy.. Who no like better things.

Blackmailing is nothing to ladies if they are too emotional involved..

In other words women are always wrong/guilty and men always right/innocent not matter what? Is this ur constant position or do u arrive at this conclusion based on the facts of the case.

There have been serval cases of men in power doing rubbish cos they think they can get away with it bt it eventually catches up with them. From our dear lecturers to many others. Yes there are fakes bt also real cases.

Sometimes you have to face your fears head on. COZA pastor has raped enough, his cup is full

1StopRudeness:


Wait...what did this girl go through??

I really don’t understand this ese.....Bisola I understand well, she claimed she was raped, the the pstor forced himself on her at 17, perhaps too inexperienced to refused I wasn’t there but I get her part..
Ese never said this man forced himself on her, she narrated series of sexual escapades btw her and the dude but she never even called it rape....so what is this about exactly??
Please what did she go through that u are trying to make a point from if u listened to her confession years ago mayb I missed something. she had an affair with her pastor in full consent....
I don’t understand why women make men evil once a relationship’s final outcome isn’t favourable to them..the reason why I’m saying this is that I’ve never heard any woman speak well of her ex...women are naturally very vindictive..they slip their mind into a revised standard narrative of how they gave u their all, and never did anything wrong and how they trusted u..have u ever heard a girl blame herself of the bad outcome of a relationship??

The summary of her story was that the sex weren't forced but she felt manipulated. ladies are devils. Now she wants to heal, from what exactly?

uruba23:
Sometimes the best way to heal is to face that which hurt you and choose not to be hurt,instead show love.I honestly understood where she is coming from but she has never complete her healing,until she goes without disguise and damn whatever anybody wanna say,cos there opinion doesn't matter.

You underrate what some of these Christian Church members are capable of doing.

The woman that accused Oyedepo of being occultist some years back was nearly lynched when she dared visit Winners Chapel Ota.

I tell people that Christians are just as fanatical as Muslims. They just have more restrains. Don't ever believe that they can't get violent where their Daddy GOs are concerned.

I remembered a team trying to seal up a church in Ibadan for noise pollution. They were almost lynched by the church members. The men had to run for their lives and return with backups.

https://www.nairaland.com/5495235/theory-humans-could-now-live#83497110

Bacteriologist:




Nairaland is filled with mentally sick people. Excessive trolling is a sign of mental illness and it's not far-fetched on this site.

Add that to the mix of religious apology and misogyny and you get what I mean.

another sissy

helinues:


But Dakolo behaved like a pvssy sha. And he allowed his wife to disgrace their family just like that..

Dat is wat i still dnt understand till now a well respectable musician like him

Even if truly d wife was hurting because of d past y nt see a therapist @ least dey can afford it

Instead of coming out disgracing his family in public like dat

For what? Justice? ve dey got d justice dey were seekin 4 now ? Nt even in nigeria wia dia is no justice

Now the stigma will be 4eva be dia anytym I c her pic now d picture of sex she had wit fatoyinbo comes 2 my mind

I'm sure I'm nt d only one wit d thought

Mizwisdom:
Sometimes you have to face your fears head on. COZA pastor has raped enough, his cup is full

did he rape you?

jaxxy:


In other words women are always wrong/guilty and men always right/innocent not matter what? Is this ur constant position or do u arrive at this conclusion based on the facts of the case.

There have been serval cases of men in power doing rubbish cos they think they can get away with it bt it eventually catches up with them. From our dear lecturers to many others. Yes there are fakes bt also real cases.

No, I am not saying men are always right.. Infact 70% of men in position/power do sexually harassed ladies. In this Bisola's case, abegiii.

I didn't know Fatoyinbo back then but my ex does... So she also claimed me too.

I know what I am talking about.. Biodun was a known and recognised players back then.
They are only jealous.

adenugatoyin:
Sad...She needs therapy to fin closure

too much of western movie dey affect una brain. closure ko, ending ni. For a graduate who supposedly has mutual sex to come scream about manipulation.

uruba23:
Sometimes the best way to heal is to face that which hurt you and choose not to be hurt,instead show love.I honestly understood where she is coming from but she never complete her healing,until she goes with disguise and damn whatever anybody wanna say,cos there opinion doesn't matter.

Ok .. may she want collect another bonus prick from pastor krest..

Chithauri:
did he rape you?

See them, people who rape will always support fellow rapists. You and COZA will end up as eunuchs soon

BluntBoy:


Many of you talk like this because you are either uneducated or you have never worked with traumatic people before.

What she has done is something close to CBT which is one of the most effective therapy for managing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Many retired soldiers and victims of natural disasters are helped using CBT.

The difference between CBT and what Ese did is that Ese's was more like a simplified desensitization.

this is the concept you humaman formulate to soothe your wounded souls even after claiming being healed by the most high. nobody send her message to go the church. if Kidnapper free you from him den you dey go back there go check so as to complete your healing process? abi kidnap victims no dey go through trauma too? then again I ask, who fuorking send am message!

Her coming back is no big deal.
Never trust a bich

Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

FrLukas:
We don't care and we don't give a shit.

Bia speak for yaself o...
Me i have one spare Bleep to give. Lol

Rednaxelot:
The true worshippers also know themselves

that the most correct terms to use sir, those that are serving the true God knows them selves, HE REVEALS HIMSELF TO THEM

Mizwisdom:



See them, people who rape will always support fellow rapists. You and COZA will end up as eunuchs soon

simply question, and you are convulsing. did he rape you too? did you see him rape.

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helinues:


No, I am not saying men are always right.. Infact 70% of men in position/power do sexually harassed ladies. In this Bisola's case, abegiii.

I didn't know Fatoyinbo back then but my ex does... So she also claimed me too.

I know what I am talking about.. Biodun was a known and recognised players back then.
They are only jealous.

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BluntBoy:


She didn't reach out to him. She went to confront the place that has given her so much distress in life.

In psychology, there is something called desensitization. More like facing your fears to conquer them.

Now, she has finally attended COZA and seen that she has overcome her hate for Biodun, and everything associated with him. Now, she can move on with her life.

I am sure her past must have also affected her marriage. So, it is best to cleanse that hate before attempting to start a new life.

Pls help me clarify d following. Did Ese claim that she was raped or that she had consensual sex? Was it at COZA that her supposed sexual encounter took place or was it in a hotel? If d whole idea is to heal, has she gone back to d hotel to confront it?