iammo:




these girls are addicted to pastor totoyinbo, many years after the sexcapade, they still roam around his domain

Imagine my fiancee telling me she went to visit her alleged abuser , it would surely drop my ego

Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as FOOLS

PS: i see many comments praising ese and i feel like reminding you what happened

*Ese was Fatoyinbos P.A
*They had a seminar in London and went together
*Fatoyinbo invited her to his hotel room
*Ese claimed Fatoyinbo made a move on her telling her he finds her attractive
*Ese also claimed she couldnt resist his advances as she was shocked and froze
*Ese subsequently visited Fatoyinbo and they had henesey and made love on other ocassion
*Few months later, Ese made a post on feeling "manipulated and used sexually" by Fatoyinbo and trended a while


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1StopRudeness:


Wait...what did this girl go through??

I really don’t understand this ese.....Bisola I understand well, she claimed she was raped, the the pstor forced himself on her at 17, perhaps too inexperienced to refused I wasn’t there but I get her part..
Ese never said this man forced himself on her, she narrated series of sexual escapades btw her and the dude but she never even called it rape....so what is this about exactly??
Please what did she go through that u are trying to make a point from if u listened to her confession years ago mayb I missed something. she had an affair with her pastor in full consent....
I don’t understand why women make men evil once a relationship’s final outcome isn’t favourable to them..the reason why I’m saying this is that I’ve never heard any woman speak well of her ex...women are naturally very vindictive..they slip their mind into a revised standard narrative of how they gave u their all, and never did anything wrong and how they trusted u..have u ever heard a girl blame herself of the bad outcome of a relationship??

Greenback:


You in particular

NothingDoMe:
Was Ese walters also raped? Which healing is she going to gauge? Let's not support nonsense.

iammo:
you this boy.. dont let me have your time

Ten06:
What pain is she healing from, is it the pain of willingly submitting her pussy for her pleasure with the guy? I don't really understand

wirinet:

Did she at any time allege that she was raped? She accused your god (pastor fatoyinbo ) of sexual exploitation and breach of trust, but never rape.
It's like a 419 scammer, you can't accuse a scammer of armed robbery or forcing you to part with your money.

She says he needs to heal from years of anguish and pain from the sexual exploitation, allow her that luxury.

Greenback:



3 gbosa!!! For that your friend,joor

Yoighaman:


I like your analogy, drives the point home succinctly.

Rape=Armed Robbery
Sexual exploitation=419

Either ways, you part with your hard-earned money and you are deeply hurt.

Ese was sexually exploited, let her heal.

lexy2014:


Pls help me clarify d following. Did Ese claim that she was raped or that she had consensual sex? Was it at COZA that her supposed sexual encounter took place or was it in a hotel? If d whole idea is to heal, has she gone back to d hotel to confront it?

eneojoedu:
according to her, she was not raped. what exactly is she healing??

iammo:
one gbosa for your head

Greenback:

You are a kantakerous lubugrous element

Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

Yoighaman:


I agree with you, Rape is different from an Affair but you see? An affair is a very dirty and complex game, you don't come out of such dirty games looking all clean. The game bruises your soul, shatters your heart and can even ruin your life. Only God knows what transpired between them (Pastor B and Ese) that makes it so hurtful for her, I cannot tell, you cannot tell but one thing I know is that You and I do not 'hate' all our EXes, think about why you 'hate' that particular Ex and you might come close to understanding Ese. Anyway, Pastor B might be rugged enough to have moved on easily, same doesn't apply to Ese, she needs to get healed and she's sure entitled to that.

Rednaxelot:
The true worshippers also know themselves

Isoduwa:
I thought Buhari closed border so how did she enter

Isoduwa:
I thought Buhari closed border so how did she enter

Gforce2015:


Ok .. may she want collect another bonus prick from pastor krest..

iammo:




these girls are addicted to pastor totoyinbo, many years after the sexcapade, they still roam around his domain

Imagine my fiancee telling me she went to visit her alleged abuser , it would surely drop my ego

Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as fools

PS: i see many comments praising ese and i feel like reminding you what happened

*Ese was Fatoyinbos P.A
*They had a seminar in London and went together
*Fatoyinbo invited her to his hotel room
*Ese claimed Fatoyinbo made a move on her telling her he finds her attractive
*Ese also claimed she couldnt resist his advances as she was shocked and froze
*Ese subsequently visited Fatoyinbo and they had henesey and made love on other ocassion
*Few months later, Ese made a post on feeling "manipulated and used sexually" by Fatoyinbo and trended a while

Now lets define sexual expliotation : Sexual exploitation is an act or acts committed through non-consensual abuse or exploitation of another person's sexuality for the purpose of sexual gratification, financial gain, personal benefit or advantage, or any other non-legitimate purpose

key word here non consensual

Rape definition is - unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried
out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will

key words threat, force ,


To the guys who support emotional blackmail because a lady shed few tears just remember Adam was a victim, Joseph in the bible was also a victim, same as Akon, Neymar and many unknown guys
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Greenback:


Copy and paste/post....

BluntBoy:


You underrate what some of these Christian Church members are capable of doing.

The woman that accused Oyedepo of being occultist some years back was nearly lynched when she dared visit Winners Chapel Ota.

I tell people that Christians are just as fanatical as Muslims. They just have more restrains. Don't ever believe that they can't get violent where their Daddy GOs are concerned.

I remembered a team trying to seal up a church in Ibadan for noise pollution. They were almost lynched by the church members. The men had to run for their lives and return with backups.

Bacteriologist:




Nairaland is filled with mentally sick people. Excessive trolling is a sign of mental illness and it's not far-fetched on this site.

Add that to the mix of religious apology and misogyny and you get what I mean.

iammo:
to konk you dey hungry me

please bring you head please

franchasng:
Biodun Fatoyinbo is every Nigerian lady's dream man, these ladies only get angry with him after he uses them and dump them for a hotter lady, so their senses comes back and they start to look for a way to bring him down, we all know this but because we all love to scandalise Pastors, we just dance to these ladies' evil drums, maybe 5 years from now another set of used and dumped ladies by Biodun will come up with another bring him down storyline , we know all of una wella, truth is bitter!