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Okay i will pay you.. just let me konk your bald head.. i want to reset something

Greenback:
Copy copy....expo master!!!!

Who dash U brain to compose that post!?

BAAAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAHAA....

uruba23:
Well the Lord is your strength you really have nothing to fear,he would definitely put his angels charge over you,but it also make sense to take precautionary measures like she did, I am sure no one his perfect , even the man of God sometimes wants to be forgiven when he do wrong,problem is we are judgmental in this part of the world.

Great point.

However, I don't have any pity for pastors who fall. Reason being that some of the most judgmental people on earth are religious leaders. They judge you for everything. In fact, they take the position of judges over your life. So, expectedly, it would be hard for them to ask for forgiveness from people that they had themselves constantly judged.

Hacuttie:
Let's leave rape or sexual exploitation and talk about her trip to India. Ese teaches yoga in Nigeria and in India it goes beyong exercise, it's highly spiritual. Is she now a proper yogi or has she been indoctrinated into guru sphere? What a change, Nigerians are now realising you can be spiritual without religion. Keep your consciousness and meditate for sound mind girl. You'll definitely make positive change to humanity.

When Christianity fails you, you look for other means to express your spirituality.

Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

Okafor's law of congodynamics

iammo:


Okay i will pay you.. just let me konk your bald head.. i want to reset something

You copied and posted a very old lzaa intelligent post

wawu . lzaa and intelligent in the same sentence



that dude only cc and copy his ipob bosses

Greenback:
You copied and posted a very old lzaa intelligent post

I'm glad she has let go of religion and of ill feeling towards the pastor, she needs neither.

SleekGist:
COZA senior pastor and founder, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo first accuser, Ese Walter who first publicly accused of sexual abuse in 2013, has disclosed on social media that she recently attended Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) .

The Yoga instructor  said that she disguised and attended the church where her sexual relationship with the COZA founder began. Giving her reasons,  Ese said  attended COZA to gauge how far she has come in her healing and also to have an experience in the church building she contributed her one year NYSC allowance for.

She wrote "I attended service at COZA.

Disguised of course  (Spy my wig and shades.) I even sat close to the stage and observed the entertainment up close.

Why did I go to COZA?

Two reasons.

The first one was to gauge how far I had come in my healing.

It was the last Sunday before I left for India. I was going to share the photos then but a lot was going on with COZA leader that I didn’t want to throw myself in the middle of all that.

I knew India was going to mark a huge transformation for me and I thought about the one thing I didn’t know how I felt about and how I might conquer it.

COZA came to mind.

For years I had convinced myself that I was at war with COZA and as my healing progressed I realised that story didn’t hold water so I came up with a plan to go attend service there and see what comes up for me. A friend agreed to follow me in case things didn’t go as I planned

I was pretty amused with the whole being there and sitting in the big ass auditorium looking how far it had grown since its Metro plaza and Dome days. I didn’t recognise one face in the choir though a few protocol members looked familiar.

I also found that I wasn’t angry, hurt or any of the other feelings I had dragged on myself for years. I was very entertained too. It made sense why I was drawn to the church back in the day. I have to admit the founder knew what his focus was when he opened “shop” in Abuja. Sitting there made me realise I had moved past many of the things I thought I hadn’t moved past. It made sense why I wasn’t interested in investing my energy in the recent dragging of its owner. Like I said in story 1, this Ese hardly recognises the Ese of 2013.

The second reason I went was, when COZA was still at Metro plaza, I contributed my one year NYSC allowee to the church-building project. I invested in that building. Do you know what it means to give all your allowee as a corper? It didn’t make sense that I had not seen the building I contributed my 12 months allowee to. Spiritually, I own some part of the building and it made sense to experience it at least once.

Just as the message was ending, I left with my friend and he took these photos of me outside. That was sometime in August and I am glad I didn’t share the photos then.

When I left for India after this experiment, I knew I was going there free from any beef or bad belle for any human or institution. Truth is, the beef must have ended a long time ago but I didn’t realise this because I was following a narrative that Ese hated COZA, or pastors or even Christians. I don’t hate anybody. Hate is too much energy and I’d be damned if I allow anybody or anything determine how I show up in the world and who I beef. It will pain me to beef anyone or anything because that will mean giving my power away. If there is something I have learned about mind control, it is, you decide how you RESPOND to EVERY situation.

If there is anything I have to say to the owner of coza and even coza in general, it is THANK YOU.

If I didn’t lose my faith, I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to explore life on the level I am exploring it now. My biggest freedom has been the freedom from religion and it’s shackles. Boobbabies are lucky they won’t have to go through that programming.

What going to COZA proved to me is, we can choose how we want to show up in the world, we can choose what we let limit us and how we use our painful experiences to empower ourselves.

I left India a deeper person than the one that went there. I looked my former wounds in the face and thanked them for showing up. So when I say I can lead you through your pain and to your healing, I am speaking experientially not because of something I learned in a book.

I am powerful beyond measure.

When I think of myself these days, I see myself on the level of the character Jesus, Buddha and some mystics of India. I am no simpleton and maybe this is why my “troubles” have been life altering.

I am going to do what I said I will do.

In this NIGERIA"

Social media was set on fire in 2013 after Ese Walter made a public confession about her illicit love affair with Fatoyinbo while she was studying for her master’s degree in London. According to her narrative, Fatoyinbo had gained her trust, favour and confidence over the one year period she was attending his church before she travelled abroad.

While hers was not particularly a rape incident, she alleged that Fatoyinbo initiated the sexual move that would turn into an illicit sexual affair that lasted for days.

She shared beautiful photos click to see all here:

https://sleekgist.com/entertainment/pastor-fatoyinbos-accuser-ese-walter-visits-coza-in-disguisereveals-she-sowed-entire-nysc-allowee-into-church/

What's wrong with this one? Attention seeker

helinues:
Biodun was a game boy when he was in Ilorin , no doubt but all these claims allegations are just embittered ladies that have no real bearings in Life.

But Dakolo behaved like a pvssy sha. And he allowed his wife to disgrace their family just like that..

Biodun is the one that disgraced COZA, and Christianity. He's unfortunately a charlatan. A G-boy. I'm sure he would have excelled at yahoo plus if not that he discovered early that doing his f^cling ministry was more lucrative.

Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

Not a lady who already harboured some grudge against you!

Women are problem of this world.

elizabethg:
Thats the problem with success

When you are successful, Those you have wronged or the envious ones we show up to make any claims..

If this pastor were to be a nobody today.. All these girls will not show face oo..

By the way check Zlatan and Burna boy's new song here - https://web.muguvideos.com/2019/10/24/music-zlatan-gbeku-ft-burna-boy/

How many women has come out to accuse, mark zuckerberg, bill gate, dangote, adeboye, warran buffet, oyedepo, you cant even compare coza pastor to these names i just mentioned.

eneojoedu:
according to her, she was not raped. what exactly is she healing??

You put yourself in the girls shoe, your spiritual father used you and dumped you. Someone you see as representing god here on earth. I will say her fault is looking to highly of him and failing to realize he's just a mere man like every other man

Jayslicky:


Fatoyinbo is an example of what most women want, rich, handsome, swaggerlicious and a good fvcker. Wouldn't be surprised busola is also trying to reach out to him, lack of good sex made her mad , fatoyinbo should do the needful.

Be saying nonsense o. She married and got divorced. Go read how it happened the first time but I don't think hers was rape sha.

I think she needs lots of healing to do not because of fatoyinbo though but I think she has personal problems.

BluntBoy:
Many of you talk like this because you are either uneducated or you have never worked with traumatic people before.

What she has done is something close to CBT which is one of the most effective therapy for managing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Many retired soldiers and victims of natural disasters are helped using CBT.

The difference between CBT and what Ese did is that Ese's was more like a simplified desensitization.

Bros, indomie generation boku for NL.
Their brain never reach that level or experience to understand the solid points you made.
Thumbs up,Bros.

ekestic1976:
You're home-sick!

No she is Biodun dick sick.

SleekGist:
COZA senior pastor and founder, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo first accuser, Ese Walter who first publicly accused of sexual abuse in 2013, has disclosed on social media that she recently attended Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) .

The Yoga instructor  said that she disguised and attended the church where her sexual relationship with the COZA founder began. Giving her reasons,  Ese said  attended COZA to gauge how far she has come in her healing and also to have an experience in the church building she contributed her one year NYSC allowance for.

She wrote "I attended service at COZA.

Disguised of course  (Spy my wig and shades.) I even sat close to the stage and observed the entertainment up close.

Why did I go to COZA?

Two reasons.

The first one was to gauge how far I had come in my healing.

It was the last Sunday before I left for India. I was going to share the photos then but a lot was going on with COZA leader that I didn’t want to throw myself in the middle of all that.

I knew India was going to mark a huge transformation for me and I thought about the one thing I didn’t know how I felt about and how I might conquer it.

COZA came to mind.

For years I had convinced myself that I was at war with COZA and as my healing progressed I realised that story didn’t hold water so I came up with a plan to go attend service there and see what comes up for me. A friend agreed to follow me in case things didn’t go as I planned

I was pretty amused with the whole being there and sitting in the big ass auditorium looking how far it had grown since its Metro plaza and Dome days. I didn’t recognise one face in the choir though a few protocol members looked familiar.

I also found that I wasn’t angry, hurt or any of the other feelings I had dragged on myself for years. I was very entertained too. It made sense why I was drawn to the church back in the day. I have to admit the founder knew what his focus was when he opened “shop” in Abuja. Sitting there made me realise I had moved past many of the things I thought I hadn’t moved past. It made sense why I wasn’t interested in investing my energy in the recent dragging of its owner. Like I said in story 1, this Ese hardly recognises the Ese of 2013.

The second reason I went was, when COZA was still at Metro plaza, I contributed my one year NYSC allowee to the church-building project. I invested in that building. Do you know what it means to give all your allowee as a corper? It didn’t make sense that I had not seen the building I contributed my 12 months allowee to. Spiritually, I own some part of the building and it made sense to experience it at least once.

Just as the message was ending, I left with my friend and he took these photos of me outside. That was sometime in August and I am glad I didn’t share the photos then.

When I left for India after this experiment, I knew I was going there free from any beef or bad belle for any human or institution. Truth is, the beef must have ended a long time ago but I didn’t realise this because I was following a narrative that Ese hated COZA, or pastors or even Christians. I don’t hate anybody. Hate is too much energy and I’d be damned if I allow anybody or anything determine how I show up in the world and who I beef. It will pain me to beef anyone or anything because that will mean giving my power away. If there is something I have learned about mind control, it is, you decide how you RESPOND to EVERY situation.

If there is anything I have to say to the owner of coza and even coza in general, it is THANK YOU.

If I didn’t lose my faith, I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to explore life on the level I am exploring it now. My biggest freedom has been the freedom from religion and it’s shackles. Boobbabies are lucky they won’t have to go through that programming.

What going to COZA proved to me is, we can choose how we want to show up in the world, we can choose what we let limit us and how we use our painful experiences to empower ourselves.

I left India a deeper person than the one that went there. I looked my former wounds in the face and thanked them for showing up. So when I say I can lead you through your pain and to your healing, I am speaking experientially not because of something I learned in a book.

I am powerful beyond measure.

When I think of myself these days, I see myself on the level of the character Jesus, Buddha and some mystics of India. I am no simpleton and maybe this is why my “troubles” have been life altering.

I am going to do what I said I will do.

In this NIGERIA"

Social media was set on fire in 2013 after Ese Walter made a public confession about her illicit love affair with Fatoyinbo while she was studying for her master’s degree in London. According to her narrative, Fatoyinbo had gained her trust, favour and confidence over the one year period she was attending his church before she travelled abroad.

While hers was not particularly a rape incident, she alleged that Fatoyinbo initiated the sexual move that would turn into an illicit sexual affair that lasted for days.

She shared beautiful photos click to see all here:

https://sleekgist.com/entertainment/pastor-fatoyinbos-accuser-ese-walter-visits-coza-in-disguisereveals-she-sowed-entire-nysc-allowee-into-church/

Jesus cursed a similar generation to ours in his days. a blind generation that lack discernment. very wretched and backward. most of us as missed the point here.
the point worthy of note is what that wolf in sheep's clothing has turned this lady to.He has made her loose faith and lost on the labyrinth of 'false help' around everywhere. look at her referencing Buddha and even equating him with Jesus!? Shouldn't we be AAANNNGGGRRRYY at these scammers masquerading as pastors/shepherds!!?

That we should not be greedy

nrexzy:
Moral of d story plz

Okafor law

Shibaraba:
Nack a lady well, she will never forget you.
She will always come back. Always.

iammo:




these girls are addicted to pastor totoyinbo, many years after the sexcapade, they still roam around his domain

Imagine my fiancee telling me she went to visit her alleged abuser , it would surely drop my ego

Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as fools

PS: i see many comments praising ese and i feel like reminding you what happened

*Ese was Fatoyinbos P.A
*They had a seminar in London and went together
*Fatoyinbo invited her to his hotel room
*Ese claimed Fatoyinbo made a move on her telling her he finds her attractive
*Ese also claimed she couldnt resist his advances as she was shocked and froze
*Ese subsequently visited Fatoyinbo and they had henesey and made love on other ocassion
*Few months later, Ese made a post on feeling "manipulated and used sexually" by Fatoyinbo and trended a while

Now lets define sexual expliotation : Sexual exploitation is an act or acts committed through non-consensual abuse or exploitation of another person's sexuality for the purpose of sexual gratification, financial gain, personal benefit or advantage, or any other non-legitimate purpose

key word here non consensual

Rape definition is - unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried
out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will

key words threat, force ,


To the guys who support emotional blackmail because a lady shed few tears just remember Adam was a victim and that manipulation earned humanity a big curse, Joseph in the bible was also a victim, same as Akon, Neymar and many unknown guys in prison or with ruined life.. keep supporting this monster of an angry woman and we would all pay dearly.. your sons and brothers are not safe



..

the sad thing is most guys don't understand that this whole saga is an assault on the male folks.

the foolish lady is angry that fatonyibo has dropped her for a younger side chick (no more traveling abroad).

same thing happened to busola.

but the bbiggest loser here is timi, that guy foolish sha.

BluntBoy:
God bless you.

Just imagine in what direction some people took her intentions.

It is one thing to be able to read, it is another thing to have comprehension skills.

True.

At the bolded, many Nigerians, especially the young ones of this generation and time lack that. They're also plagued by the first-to-comment syndrome according to Wole Soyinka..

Thumbs up for your first post, you nailed it.

that one is under a spell..
we know who wears trouser in that family

chiedozie198100:
the sad thing is most guys don't understand that this whole saga is an assault on the male folks.

the foolish lady is angry that fatonyibo has dropped her for a younger side chick (no more traveling abroad).

same thing happened to busola.

but the bbiggest loser here is timi, that guy foolish sha.

alizma:
Just read what Nigerian youths have to say in response to her write up then you will understand why the country is lagging behind.

It is shameful.

iammo:




these girls are addicted to pastor totoyinbo, many years after the sexcapade, they still roam around his domain

Imagine my fiancee telling me she went to visit her alleged abuser , it would surely drop my ego

Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as fools

PS: i see many comments praising ese and i feel like reminding you what happened

*Ese was Fatoyinbos P.A
*They had a seminar in London and went together
*Fatoyinbo invited her to his hotel room
*Ese claimed Fatoyinbo made a move on her telling her he finds her attractive
*Ese also claimed she couldnt resist his advances as she was shocked and froze
*Ese subsequently visited Fatoyinbo and they had henesey and made love on other ocassion
*Few months later, Ese made a post on feeling "manipulated and used sexually" by Fatoyinbo and trended a while

Now lets define sexual expliotation : Sexual exploitation is an act or acts committed through non-consensual abuse or exploitation of another person's sexuality for the purpose of sexual gratification, financial gain, personal benefit or advantage, or any other non-legitimate purpose

key word here non consensual

Rape definition is - unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried
out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will

key words threat, force ,


To the guys who support emotional blackmail because a lady shed few tears just remember Adam was a victim and that manipulation earned humanity a big curse, Joseph in the bible was also a victim, same as Akon, Neymar and many unknown guys in prison or with ruined life.. keep supporting this monster of an angry woman and we would all pay dearly.. your sons and brothers are not safe



..

very long post and all you portrayed is a woman hater.

i love women very much and am very close to the women in my life

One of my close female acquintance gave me a very wonderful advise and she simply said, never listen to a crying or hurting lady, wait till she's a bit calm before making logical judgements

GhostWisperer:
very long post and all you portrayed is a woman hater.

BluntBoy:
Many of you talk like this because you are either uneducated or you have never worked with traumatic people before.

What she has done is something close to CBT which is one of the most effective therapy for managing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Many retired soldiers and victims of natural disasters are helped using CBT.

The difference between CBT and what Ese did is that Ese's was more like a simplified desensitization.

Educated people state the meaning of the acronyms they use. CBT on my mind.

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•Technical Drawing
•Fine Arts
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iammo:
i love women very much and am very close to the women in my life

One of my close female acquintance gave me a very wonderful advise and she simply said, never listen to a crying or hurting lady, wait till she's a bit calm before making logical judgements

yes, you validated your rapist friend's action seemingly and seem to think women love being roughed up and abused.

"Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as fools"

Then you labelled Ese angry ....has she been angry since 2013? When I read her piece, I just felt she was looking for attention to herself and cheap publicity. She deosnt seem angry and yes women who foolishly surround themselves with pastors they trust can easily be bleeped and be bleeped before they regain their balance.

Anijay1212:
Bia speak for yaself o...
Me i have one spare Bleep to give. Lol

Lol

I tire

She still has feelings for the man. Don’t forget she came out to clarify that he did not rape her, they were only in a relationship. With that said I’m off to the next thread.

BluntBoy:
She didn't reach out to him. She went to confront the place that has given her so much distress in life.

In psychology, there is something called desensitization. More like facing your fears to conquer them.

Now, she has finally attended COZA and seen that she has overcome her hate for Biodun, and everything associated with him. Now, she can move on with her life.

I am sure her past must have also affected her marriage. So, it is best to cleanse that hate before attempting to start a new life.

I'm not for or against your write-up but I am sorry to let you know that she didn't overcome anything.

If she truly wants to completely overcome then she should go as the woman she is without any form of disguise whatsoever, irrespective of what people will say.
If she can withstand that and look at everything there without disguise, I believe she's healed.


Look at it this way, what will she do the day she walks in on pastor Fatoyinbo in a place unexpectedly and with no one or few people around?