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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by SolarEdge: 7:30am On Oct 30, 2019
Wow! Perfect






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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Bblessing37: 7:39am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
Thanks for "pitying" me, lol.I ws actually learning how 2 post a new topic but d relationshp without sex issue hs alwys puzzled me


Pls how can some one write a topic on nairaland. Pls tell lecture me on how to do it
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Centcanada: 7:41am On Oct 30, 2019
Relationship without sex is just a waste in entirety. Avoid it at the initial time to avoid heart break.

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by MedicH: 7:48am On Oct 30, 2019
Jewessgratitude:


That is if you too are a virgin.
Look, not everyone worships men these days or bow to them because of their money. As most ladies are working hard these days and taking care of themselves. So, what again can you offer? Since that's the only thing you can offer a woman. And thats the reason some ladies dont value men again. If you dont know, know it now.

Marrying these days is just to fulfill the Lords command and also bear those lovely Gods blessing. And if a woman must marry at all for what she can.get, shell rather go for a stinkingly rich man. See Regina Daniels..... People are calling names but she knows her reason for actions. She had a fine boy like its the case with most of you that make you play around. but omor, my babe weigh the pros and cons of marrying Ned against her fine lover boy who has nothing to offer but shared responsibilities and went for the pros.
So, forget all that cos while you're there saying trash, young girls meant for you will be marrying your grandfather's mate who respect them and will do what they want.

Like I always say, men lost it to boys. after our fathers set boys refused to grow to men. Reason we are running back to marry our fathers age mates again.
Look at Oshiomole, FFK and receive sense. All the beautiful girls meant for you guys. No lady has time for young boys stunt and drama in marriage.

Lol i saw it coming. I wish u and ur daughters luck with their different versions of ned nwoko. Truth is, opportunities like these abound even at the days of your mom. Some opted for it u know just as it is now, be a fifth wife and be cool. I never spoke bad about regina, i'm a strong advocate of "do what works for you". things have changed between then and now. men didt loose anything to boys, just times changed and with desperate times comes desperate measures i dont think you know. The economy have gotten pretty bad and is affecting everything. majority of the women out there young and old to the tune of 8 in 10 have sex randomly for small small money and it's not like this before now. the guys nko, its a helter skelter something. you kwen what are ur odds, become a hoe to feed, ,marry a ned, become real productive. the first option, there are 80% chances. the second.... hmmmm. the third option that's the most difficult thing u can do.

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by DameB(f): 7:54am On Oct 30, 2019
mathew247:
Just put rophynol on her drink when next she come,she go sleep tire & you do whatever you want to do with her body. She won't be upset.

This is wrong... Society has enough psychos without you giving them pointers

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Mydazz(m): 8:02am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
True. More babes seem 2 be able 2 cope wit it but as for men, I cnt say d same

Girls don't always know what they really want,....... You'll be shocked to hear a 360 degree turnaround from "Let's wait till wedding night" to "I want it now"
Talking from experience,..... Unless she's a Virginia though.
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Youngzedd(m): 8:08am On Oct 30, 2019
franchasng:
Why call a relationship without sex a relationship in the first place Relationship without sex is not a relationship, it is called friendship.



If you are a lady or man and you are not ready to have sex with anybody, please stop deceiving yourself, don't go into any relationship, stop at friendship only.


How can you say let's marry without bearing kids, and both of you are biologically fertile, can it work


There is nothing like a relationship without sex, it is called friendship!


Why would you want to eat your cake and still have it, why

You want to have the benefits of having a boyfriend or girlfriend but out of your own selfishness, you don't want to offer your partner the benefit of also being in a relationship with you.


When two people in a relationship have sex, it is called lovemaking for a purpose.


Unfortunately many guys deceive gullible ladies by agreeing no sex till marriage, and then they will have other ladies they are having plenty sex with and when they are with their so called no sex till marriage girlfriend, they turn to Pope John Paul and the mumu lady will be stupidly bragging to her friends that her boyfriend is a nice guy, that he does not disturb her for sex and to her, she has a boyfriend lol


Any relationship without sex does not last, its always a pretentious relationship whereby each partner is pretending to be holy and trying so hard to keep up the pretence, and it usually happens between a guy who truly love a girl and a girl who does not have much feelings for a guy. Once a lady is in love with you or have deep feelings for you, she will be the one to remove her panties and your own boxers begging you to Bleep her brains off cheesy cheesy

Nne, you have said it all.


Case dismiss.

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Nobody: 8:19am On Oct 30, 2019
franchasng:
Why call a relationship without sex a relationship in the first place Relationship without sex is not a relationship, it is called friendship.



If you are a lady or man and you are not ready to have sex with anybody, please stop deceiving yourself, don't go into any relationship, stop at friendship only.


How can you say let's marry without bearing kids, and both of you are biologically fertile, can it work


There is nothing like a relationship without sex, it is called friendship!


Why would you want to eat your cake and still have it, why

You want to have the benefits of having a boyfriend or girlfriend but out of your own selfishness, you don't want to offer your partner the benefit of also being in a relationship with you.


When two people in a relationship have sex, it is called lovemaking for a purpose.


Unfortunately many guys deceive gullible ladies by agreeing no sex till marriage, and then they will have other ladies they are having plenty sex with and when they are with their so called no sex till marriage girlfriend, they turn to Pope John Paul and the mumu lady will be stupidly bragging to her friends that her boyfriend is a nice guy, that he does not disturb her for sex and to her, she has a boyfriend lol


[s]Any relationship without sex does not last, its always a pretentious relationship whereby each partner is pretending to be holy and trying so hard to keep up the pretence, and it usually happens between a guy who truly love a girl and a girl who does not have much feelings for a guy. Once a lady is in love with you or have deep feelings for you, she will be the one to remove her panties and your own boxers begging you to Bleep her brains off[/s] cheesy cheesy

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by mechanics(m): 8:32am On Oct 30, 2019
It's the perfect one.
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by rosalieene(f): 8:47am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
But sex ws originally made for marriage.how were they coping in d past where it ws rare 2 hv sex b4 marriage.and then divorce cases were not hitting d roof like right now.now we guys must taste d pudding first sha
back then, they get married very early, 16, 17, 18.
for boys 24 upwards. so it was easy.
but this days a girl of 25yrs is seen to be too young for marriage according to some people
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Nobody: 8:49am On Oct 30, 2019
I am not an animal, I will only have sex with my wife, if I can stay this long without sex, I expect my wife to do same.

This may seem odd to d fuvk boys & girls, but it's really easy to stay pure & avoid premarital sex. Am not forcing my opinion in anybody, we all attract our kind, so everybody should do what makes them happy

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by golddare: 8:59am On Oct 30, 2019
It's the most beautiful thing, it helps you to make informed decisions, no emotions and entitlement, you can walk away without feeling used by your friend. It's the best If you want to be objective in pursuing your goals in life.
Moreso, the fear of pregnancy or diseases is out and you have a free access to your God any time. Sex has derailed so many destinies, some lives can never be the same again simply because they had sex with some persons.

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by rosalieene(f): 9:03am On Oct 30, 2019
emddi:
sex and marriage are not different things.Forget that public show called "wedding ceremony",the real wedding is through sexual intercourse.
sex and marriage are not different,if you don't know you don't know.
this is the dumbest comment I have read on this thread. so you mean if you sleep with 5 people, you're automatically married to them lwkmd.

World people......
with the way guys are clamouring for sex, its same guys that will insult single mums and girls that have done abortions....... and this two scenarios occur as a result of sex.

Every girl, Lady out there, be wise.... learn to say no irrespective of what they think. you're the one to suffer the repercussions of the act.
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Jodera: 9:04am On Oct 30, 2019
Wait!
2011 Thread made front page in 2019? shocked shocked shocked. Isn't this wonderful.
Toh! Lemme just add, Relationship without sex in this our present era is a hypocritical relationship and dead on arrival. Except they're in a relationship less than 3months before marriage.
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Marvieduke(f): 9:40am On Oct 30, 2019
I will never accept such condition how me and my boyfriend no go Bleep? What is the essence of the relationship if we no Bleep. Abeg me I can't bear konji ooo
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by PAQ(m): 9:42am On Oct 30, 2019
Heavenly torture
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Olufela30: 9:45am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
But sex ws originally made for marriage.how were they coping in d past where it ws rare 2 hv sex b4 marriage.and then divorce cases were not hitting d roof like right now.now we guys must taste d pudding first sha



if yo know where ya going, it can work..
tz jst rare in dis generation..

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by eguarojeona: 10:03am On Oct 30, 2019
If she is a virgin,no p
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by eguarojeona: 10:06am On Oct 30, 2019
195:


wetin before

wud u buy a car and dont test drive it before paying for it angry angry
Most no sex before marriage or in relationships na scam.Na mostly gay or frigid people dey do so.Few na for religious and cultural purposes
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by aytuns(m): 10:25am On Oct 30, 2019
I speak as a Christian

If you are not ready for marriage don't bother entering into a relationship. It won't help you. Rather cultivate your SELF CONTROL, and prepare yourself marriage.

Song of sol 8:4= I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, DO NOT STIR UP NOR AWAKEN LOVE UNTIL IT PLEASES.


If you think you can't hold your body anymore, then rather than fornicate or commit adultery, go and marry.
1cor 7:9= but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

God DETESTS fornication and adultery. There's nothing you will say/think/do as a guy or girl that will change God's plan for sex. Sex is only allowed in marriage. It may seem unreasonable to you, but that's God's plan for sex. Only in marriage!

Heb 13:4= Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Remember, I speak as a Christian.

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by kingadex(m): 10:32am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
True. More babes seem 2 be able 2 cope wit it but as for men, I cnt say d same
Why won't you? Ladies are full of lies...Before u know it her friend don dey nack her.... grin grin grin I can only do that if i'm sure you are a virgin

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Annie001: 10:49am On Oct 30, 2019
mathew247:
Just put rophynol on her drink when next she come,she go sleep tire & you do whatever you want to do with her body. She won't be upset.
You are wicked sad
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Ubdavis(m): 10:49am On Oct 30, 2019
its a complete waste of time and resources
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Bigman247(m): 10:54am On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:
Many people debate on dis issue a lot. for some its ok but for some others its like "are u kidding me? No sex?!! so seriously what do u guys think about a relationship wit no sex?


Based on biblical injunction, a Christian can not be involved in sex before marriage, it may seem old fashioned but what God says is the best and for our own good!
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Annie001: 11:06am On Oct 30, 2019
It complicated
You don’t expect me to start having sex with Everyman have dated all in the name of keeping a relationship
Any guy I meet now till he puts a ring on my finger
No sex
I can’t be loosing body count because I want to keep a relationship

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by vivypretty(f): 11:07am On Oct 30, 2019
195:


wetin before

wud u buy a car and dont test drive it before paying for it angry angry
do you test everything you want to buy before actually buying it?
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by Bamz(m): 11:48am On Oct 30, 2019
franchasng:
and you and your girlfriend think you are not having sex even when you guys are romancing (kissing, touching, handling, cuddling, etc) You see where the problem is.


If you want to be chaste for religious sake or to please God, you must abstain from all forms of sexual activities from kissing to squeezing hands because they get you emotionally aroused which spiritually means you have had sex.

So if you and your girlfriend are avoiding to have penetrative sex because you two want to please God, I am sorry to disappoint you that you guys have failed. But if you are doing it to avoid STDs and STIs, you guys must then ensure you avoid oral stimulation or deep romance which can expose you both to contracting STDs and STIs even without penetration.


Sex is not only when a guy puts his dick into a girl's pussy, romancing and smooching and licking and handling and sucking and all the other arts that happen during romance are also having sex.

It's obvious that the post was mainly talking about penetrative sex. I did not specify our level of romantic involvement nor did I mention religion anywhere in my write up but you've made your point. Also STIs are not the only reasons why people do not have sex but what do I know. grin
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by lightdream: 12:01pm On Oct 30, 2019
Enemyofpeace:
How person go buy motor especially made in Nigeria car, without test driving it to hear the sound(screaming, morning and shouting) and also to know how strong(number of rounds) the engine is.
hehehehe.
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by ImaIma1(f): 12:11pm On Oct 30, 2019
kingadex:

Why won't you? Ladies are full of lies...Before u know it her friend don dey nack her.... grin grin grin I can only do that if i'm sure you are a virgin


The truth hurts. I can imagine
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by ImaIma1(f): 12:13pm On Oct 30, 2019
Chuvin22:


Who said sex was made for marriage?


Wow. 2011 post


As in! I created this thread 8 years ago and it's hitting front page now. Wow!

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Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by kunleweb: 12:19pm On Oct 30, 2019
ImaIma1:


As in! I created this thread 8 years ago and it's hitting front page now. Wow!

I also checked and laughed. I'm sure this was the scenario that led to your current marriage madam
Re: What's Your Take On A Relationship Without Sex? by mathew247: 1:19pm On Oct 30, 2019
Annie001:

You are wicked sad
I'm not wicked dear,you girls are more wicked.

Nevertheless have you resolved the issue with lynx electronics, if No then you have to involve CBN.

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