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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by martowskin1(m): 6:48am On Nov 15, 2019 |
mumumugu: Did u even read what the guy said 2 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by DatsAll1mSayin(m): 6:54am On Nov 15, 2019 |
pocohantas: E be like say this Oga na Lie Muhammed brother o... |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:55am On Nov 15, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:u finally grab took d advise of ur moniker |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by teedoxman89(m): 6:56am On Nov 15, 2019 |
For the first time I can see people here giving advise without insult. God bless you guys.. and as for you bro don’t let sex controls your anger. When there is an issue sort it out first she is your wife there will be always time for sex. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by luluosas(m): 7:00am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Dear friend, Sexual intercourse doesn't erase strife and grief in matrimonial dispute. You and your wife should sit down and talk it over. Keeping straight faces during dispute won't solve any problems, but instead would aggravate it. It is important to note here that the prayers you guys are supposedly praying apart are mere wishes which doesn't goes beyond your ceiling. You people should make ammend immediately before it degenerate into real battle that will ultimately break your home. You are the man of the house, play the fool, not that you are foolish but to prove that you know your onions in the matter of matrimony. In the 12 years of my marriage, we've had misunderstanding at times, but we've been able to manage it as true Christians so as not to leave any room for the devil to take advantage. God bless you and you shall overcome in Jesus name. Amen. Cheers. byna: 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 7:00am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Pussywar:a woman using sex to opress her husband even wen she knows she iz at fault, iz wat i said iz childish. 3 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 7:02am On Nov 15, 2019 |
sleek82:wow,ur type are rare.. d ability to make a woman Smile is a powerful man.. how did u know d secret to my life like this ..best advise ever. U must write a book ..wow 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 7:05am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Paulo3ree: Sex is the only thing she can offer ....according to the OP she does nothing other than sitting at home and taking care of babies 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Cynthiamarichuy: 7:08am On Nov 15, 2019 |
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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 7:09am On Nov 15, 2019 |
pocohantas: Tale by moonlight na... 95% of family issues and stories now posted on this section are fake .... all of them are tales by moonlight Family section now competing with romance section for the section with most fake posts 2 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Kaybex007(m): 7:14am On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna: Women are just kind of creatures that are hard to study. With what you just wrote, I will say, she is actually apologizing through sex, or do I say she enjoys sex most when you are angry at her. I will say you take your time to study her very well. She is not full of pride, you just don't get her way of apologizing. Communication is said to be sending of messages to the receiver and getting feedback, I will say you are having a misinterpretation of the message she is sending to you. Please do not deny her sex if not know her sake, at least for the sake of the children, if you keep denying her sex, the possibility of her looking outside increases and when this happen and she get caught, the whole family turns upside down. No one on Nairaland not even Seun will come to rescue your Happy family from the breakup. Look for a day when you know that the both of you are not having misunderstanding, call her and ask her why she behaves that way, who knows, maybe she might even be getting you angry so as to enjoy her sex. I am not yet married, but from my own point of view, it's always good for a married man to be updated on whatever is going on around him and then choose the one to go for and the one to reject. Your wife is more exposed to some part of life which you are not and is making you not understand her, a good example is her telling you to beat her during sex, I see no reason why a lady will tell a man who wants to have sex with her to beat her up, if not for all these porn movies some watch and they see some ladies demanding for beating, they try it once and get addicted to it. What I will advise is get updated on the latest trends in all aspect of life, when you are less busy, have a chat with your wife and enlighten her. Don't be surprise if she wakes up one day and tell you to Bleep her through her anus, she needs to be enlightened on which of the trends is good for her and the family and which one is bad. One thing I tell people is there is difference between "RELIGION AND REALITY". Too much of holy holy affects a human life. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:17am On Nov 15, 2019 |
pocohantas:. He has two wives All these liars self |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Alexun(m): 7:19am On Nov 15, 2019 |
omochelsea004: Don't use style to create your own thread jor... Open it officially, let's get the full gist! |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by reallouis: 7:20am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Bro this strategy have been working for your family. I think you should allowed it work. In my view it is the best strategy for a wife,as far as you have some days to reduced your angered. My marriage is 11yrs now, don't expect much from her. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by deavicky(m): 7:27am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Make until fucck first after that seat her down and trash the pending issue. But also remember the role, man shall not leave by Bleep alone. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 7:44am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Canapoly999: Thanks bro. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Shugargal(f): 7:45am On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna:Is your wife born between June and July? that's one of the imperfections of Cancer zodiac sign.they are homely and like sex to an extent not minding you guys are not in good terms |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by lionphil(m): 7:50am On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna: Please listen and listen very well to my advice... Your wife doesn't see sex as your weak point, she only sees it as a way to reconcile... She knows that you're smarter than her or that she can't win an argument with you but desperately wants to reconcile. Please do her that favor of always rectifying your arguments with sex. You can even initiate it sometimes. That's a good woman you have there sir, just believe me, God sees my heart. If that's the only fault your wife has, overlook it. It's too small an issue to biker over. Finally, like someone said, during the sex, learn to be creative and iron out the issue while at it. Imagine if she couldn't get back to you with sex, what would your marriage be like Keeping malice for weeks, haba! not good at all. Good luck sir. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by sleek82(m): 7:57am On Nov 15, 2019 |
HRHQueenPhil: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by sleek82(m): 7:59am On Nov 15, 2019 |
HRHQueenPhil:like I said, even a witch will calm down with these things stated....it works like magic! |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by ctex4real(m): 8:00am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Its a lovely book. A friend recommended it and I and my wife have read it grandstar: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by nairamaniac: 8:02am On Nov 15, 2019 |
cococandy: It waa extremely necessary he brought up his financial contribution to his wife and to his home. For money and sex are usually the top-2 fundamental factors of turbulence in marriages. Believe me, if he hadn't voluntarily stated anything about money in his post, half of the commenters here would have asked him about it, directly or indirectly. Now he mentions it, you stone him with da "why did u have to bring that up here, then shit on his effort", to borrow your words. Fine he messed up by minimizing his wife's contributions, but that didnt mean u had to shade him with da "how much is 130k, no be your mates dey give their own wives 3000 dollars per month". Girl two wrongs dont make a right. And thats what you just displayed here. And to be honest, when a woman does that, it makes her appear so immature & somehow-bitchy. I'm not saying you are though. But reactions speaks louder than actions. And tells more of peoples character. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by cobsol(m): 8:02am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Born2Breed:
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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by grandstar(m): 8:06am On Nov 15, 2019 |
ctex4real: That's nice to hear. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by nairamaniac: 8:10am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Rubby007: U are too much joor. There is something op is not telling us about thr sex part with his wife. Maybe he doesnt enjoy it. Maybe she ain't good. Op. Tell us the truth. You dont enjoy the sex. There is something so wrong with the sex she gives to u. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by CutieMya(f): 8:10am On Nov 15, 2019 |
las las una go dey alright byna: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by cococandy(f): 8:11am On Nov 15, 2019 |
anslem04: The point is clearly stated. You’re the one who chose to miss it |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by cococandy(f): 8:13am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Yes but he never mentioned the wife not appreciating him. Hence irrelevant. Like I said. nairamaniac: |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by codinight: 8:14am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Starlight10: I think some people are just complicated to live with. Compatibility is indeed a thing. If you're a simple person you should marry someone whose simple too. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Jamiuolatoye(m): 8:16am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Why can't you invite her family to talk to her, instead of Exposing her here on Media?? My Family issue is always within me not media 0r do you see her on Media and married her?? |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by gabicon: 8:18am On Nov 15, 2019 |
byna: You both just have two different perception of how to solve your problems, she sees sex as a solution while you want to trash the issues by talking about them. The reason for this occurrence is that you both have not deliberately but a communication framework for your relationship. You guys have to work on your communication, have unresolved issues for 15days is not healthy for your relationship, you need to understand that your children are watching and learning from you both. I think you both need to take time out to work on the modalities of your communication, sit together and decide on the rules and regulations of conflict resolution. Most conflict should be resolved before going to bed, some could last days but with constant communication. Please have sex with her asap you don't need this to metamorphos into something else, I will suggest you forget about what happened 15 days ago and start working on the communication process together. The process will have rules and regulations guiding it, I suggest you write them down and store them safe. For instance one of my rules is we don't argue Infront of the children, another is we don't correct each other in front of the children, another is we don't raise our voices when we have disputes. Some disputes are as a result of long term decisions that need to be made today, we talk every dispute before we go to bed, if it's one we still don't agree on, we adjourn it for a week and we both give it serious thought, then we come together and discuss it, if we still can't agree which is rare, we meet in the middle or sometimes when there are multiple disputes we pick two disputes and we both win in one. I'm not saying you should follow through with these methods, I'm saying create your own method. After sometime you both will know who makes better decisions in what sector and it will be easy to see reason based on track record. Cheers bro. 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Afodot0022(m): 8:29am On Nov 15, 2019 |
You guys advicing op why keeping straight face and why op denied her wife sex..Am sure this advice are coming from inexperienced single ladies and guys. A man has to be a man at some issues, onless the woman will see him as a vegetable. There are times you should be strong in the home just not to be rided as a horse. Op Your action is fine by me but if your wife realise how hurt and bad you feel and she apologies, pls forgive her and give her the baddest s*x ever. 1 Like |
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