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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 15, 2019
Oga,thats her own style of apologising. When she come grab her and f**ck her smiley
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 15, 2019
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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by eodavids(m): 10:17am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls


Sex, NATURALLY, is what God put in place for you and your spouse not to keep distance from each other for long.

You were wrong to turn her down. You are not godly, to have done that.

Apologize to her for that.

Church and State: issues is one thing and satisfaction is another. You failed God, not just her, by refusing her what only you is capable of satisfying her with. (Knowing she cannot contemplate satisfying herself elsewhere).

Come on, that she always comes to you for sexual satisfaction, even in times of unresolved dispute is an evidence that she does not look at any other male.
At any time she begins to avoid you sexually during dispute, that will be a cause for worry to you.

LOOK HERE FRIEND: LIFE IS BETTER IF WE LOOK AT THINGS FROM ALL PERSPECTIVES.

IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR WIFE TO ADMIRE ALTERNATIVE SOURCE OF SATISFYING HER NATURAL FEELINGS, THEN YOU SHOULD PAY HER WHAT YOU OWE HER, DISPUTE OR NO DISPUTE.

REMEMBER, SHE FEEDS YOUR STOMACH EVEN DURING DISPUTES...

BE WISE. THERE IS STRENGTH IN WEEKNESS.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Vabasi(m): 10:24am On Nov 15, 2019
Born2Breed:
Oga bros na wah for you oh.....you nor sabi say Body language na the best tool of communication. grin grin grin

She don apologize na.....make she shout first.

Word of advice dont turn back a woman that has been turned on, na fire oh, you need to quench am or else.....
Op, at the embolden na sure fact o. But she suppose the tell you sorry sha, make the s*x sweet well well.




Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by djgreenland(m): 10:35am On Nov 15, 2019
[quote author=byna post=84030487]We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate. Let me learn oo.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

Let me read comments and learn oo.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by dview001(m): 10:38am On Nov 15, 2019
All i see is a MANIPULATED MAN undecided
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by djgreenland(m): 10:42am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:


The malice is coded o. Am not sure the kids know sef. They might just notice daddy doesn't come to watch TV at the sitting room but stays to watch in his room. My wife is just stubborn!
She wants to be treated as a queen. Don't dare scold her
My girlfriend's attitude!!!
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by djgreenland(m): 10:46am On Nov 15, 2019
Viking07:
What I don't understand is how a supposedly married man will come online to publicly describe how his wife is nakedly demanding for sex.
This is NAIRALAND!!!
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by PrincewithGod(m): 10:49am On Nov 15, 2019
thesicilian:
You have a wife that still wants to have sex with you even when she's angry with you. Lucky you!
The guy is lucky to have such a wife.
My brother always try to initiate talk after the act so as to settle the quarrel and don't allow disagreements to affect your prayer life.
Husband and wife staying in separate bedrooms is not adviceable.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by izaray(f): 10:52am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:


I have beat her once and she enjoyed it. Infact she wanted it. She once told me she wants me acting fierce, it turns her on not being too gentle. But me as a gentle man, d thing tire me o
Lol, women sha, we are characters i swear, some don't even kno what they want sef cheesy
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by aorseer: 10:52am On Nov 15, 2019
Viking07:
What I don't understand is how a supposedly married man will come online to publicly describe how his wife is nakedly demanding for sex.
Men usually feel ashamed discussing such issues with family and friends. Whereas a woman will readily share intimate things with any "Tom, Dick and Harry". So its OK if he bares his mind on a faceless forum

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Hangulsaram: 11:00am On Nov 15, 2019
brodalikeme:
You're right for demanding that you guys resolve your misunderstanding before sex. Continuing to have sex when all is not well is only piling up issues for the day it will all boomerang and sex will not contain it anymore. But denying her sex is not the best, if she go commit now, the whole world will say you pushed her/ However as a guy, you must find away to settle your issues and not allow it to linger for a long time till your wife initiate her sex moves. From what you are saying and her actions, you guys care less about each others feelings, that is a negative emergency! Try and fix this fundamental defect before one satan sent guy/lady come into the picture
commit because he demanded that they resolve their differences? Na waoo, The op himself is not in control of his family. How can he and his wife be keeping straight face to themselves? Imagine me keeping malice to my wife or she doing so.

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by winniecurtis: 11:06am On Nov 15, 2019
hmmmmnnnnn, my guy.....truth be said here, she give you her inside and you they look for wetin shocked? other times to talk gentle about misbehavior dey but for SEX i beg you, make her see the other side of heaven in fact put all your concern inside your Thomas as if na flog you dey flog her. Your own dey give you sex you dey look for advice....My own go lock up completely with no apology cos she feel say na me go feel am
Born2Breed:
Oga bros na wah for you oh.....you nor sabi say Body language na the best tool of communication. grin grin grin

She don apologize na.....make she shout first.

Word of advice dont turn back a woman that has been turned on, na fire oh, you need to quench am or else.....




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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by bayulll011(m): 11:07am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.



You ask for matured Mind but both of you are immature.
i wonder what's going on in some home these days you both keep straight faces for days that's totally unacceptable.
yes there will be issues and the urgency and ways of resolving issues makes things easier.
seems there is competitions between who is the husband and wife,Uncle act like a man and stop all these unnecessary rant online,upon all the issues affecting us in lagos,is this what you can bring forth
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Tirexy(m): 11:07am On Nov 15, 2019
OP u have a good wife, when she's mad at u, she wouldn't come to u. when she's out of d mood, she comes back for great sex with her husband.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by pocohantas(f): 11:08am On Nov 15, 2019
Ladyhippolyta88:

shocked shocked shocked. He has two wives grin
All these liars self

Honestly babe. The fabu in Romance/Family section is too much.

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by tabithaola(f): 11:16am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

Hello op, your wife is a special breed as she'll rather prefer sex to settling a misunderstanding. She's simply my opposite and I must commend you for seeing the need to discuss what led to the misunderstanding and probably the way forward. However, saying taking care of kids and cooking is just didn't go down well with me. They are enough task for everywoman and I can bet you 80% of men can't do it without going crazy. Let her see the need to communicate as often as possible and commend her each time she does the chores you called only.

Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by EXOUSIAng: 11:18am On Nov 15, 2019
thesicilian:
You have a wife that still wants to have sex with you even when she's angry with you. Lucky you!
I swear down

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by godofuck231: 11:19am On Nov 15, 2019
You have the attributes of a 12 year old , over emotional and less inclined to conflict resolution , from what you have aid you talk too much and she has decided to listen to your rants and do more action, your place is her heart is still safe but if you continue for long you will soon be dead or a divorcee, she is the man and you are the woman, if you think taking care of 3 male kids is easy then let her go to the factory for a week and see if that d*ck of yours Can stand erect , no issue should be brought forward after 12am , once sexual rituals are carried out it is ended , it is forbidden to talk about quarrels in a marital sex scene ,or refuse her sex, as for retribution if you feel insulted, tie her flayed to the bed and suck her till she screams and begs for mercy , in that way your powers as the man and head of the family is upheld , nothing beats the blade of your ancestors, the p*nis is mightier than the sword.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Psoul(m): 11:26am On Nov 15, 2019
So you want to start discussing the issue so that you will make her agree she was wrong or she makes u accept u are wrong?

If the sex will make her come back to her normal self and make u drop whatever she did that made u angry, what else do u you want Oga.

Reconciliation na Reconciliation ooo weda by sex or one on one verbal discussion.

The woman coming to ask for sex means she has already apologized. You should be happy she comes back after keeping straight face. Ask those men hw it feels that will go back to beg their women after they quarel and the woman will tight legs for them

So go band the woman and forget this ur village old skool kind of reconciliation.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Dopemover: 11:39am On Nov 15, 2019
Op learn to be bi/multilingual , translate to Swahili. Let me come and go and shit .
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by abbiboy: 11:53am On Nov 15, 2019
Born2Breed:
Oga bros na wah for you oh.....you nor sabi say Body language na the best tool of communication. grin grin grin

She don apologize na.....make she shout first.

Word of advice dont turn back a woman that has been turned on, na fire oh, you need to quench am or else.....
OR ELSE WHAT?




Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by dochenaj: 12:32pm On Nov 15, 2019
This story is clearly a fabrication. Do you have two daughters and a son or three sons? When you want to fabricate a story, do be consistent while doing it.

But I don't understand why someone will fabricate stories in the first place. To engage people in unreal gossip. What?
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Kbs468(m): 12:33pm On Nov 15, 2019
oglalasioux:
This wife is the type that loves beating and settling through sex. Many women are wired that way.
Who should be carrying out the beating in the case you've just posited?

You mean,

1. My wife would beat me and bribe with sex for settlement?

2. Or that I would have to beat her before having sex?

3. If number 2 is the case, What if I am not a woman beater nko?

4. Does that mean there would be No sex for me since I'm not a woman beater?

5. Did she told me about that as her TURN ON during courtship and I would go ahead marrying her against my principle of mutual respect?

6. What if I never got angry with any negative thing she does out of genuine LOVE for her? hence no sex for loving her except when I hate on her?

7. Was it hatred for her that endeared her to me or LOVE?

8. I would rather marry another Wife without divorcing her so that sex starvation would send her packing by herself Even if 1 is the case.

9. if the case is that she enjoys beating me before mending fences with sex





@ Oga byna,

1. Please forget about say your John Thomas no gree stand that day ooo.

2. Na because of your mind set and now that you know that her actions are all saying

'Honey I'm sorry. please forgive and forget'

whenever she is naked, Then it would never disappoint you again.

3. In fact, even if e no stand, pre-intimacy wey she go do with you will reset your brain make e stand because she really really LOVES YOU I must confess.

4. Because Women cherishes a Man telling them Baby I'm sorry rather than them saying that to you whether they are right or wrong in any dispute.

5. Just thank God say the number 4 na theory but the practical dey your house.

6. So which science student go say he no know practical or e never do practical for science laboratory before?

7. Always enjoy your practical oooo.

8. Dey chuk am Bura/Oko well well because she dey enjoy am because she loves you go moon come back!
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by BigBizzy(m): 12:38pm On Nov 15, 2019
As a fellow married man, you shouldn't have rejected her.

Sex and misunderstanding in marriage are two different and mutually exclusive.

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Kbs468(m): 12:44pm On Nov 15, 2019
byna:


The malice is coded o. Am not sure the kids know sef. They might just notice daddy doesn't come to watch TV at the sitting room but stays to watch in his room. My wife is just stubborn!
She wants to be treated as a queen. Don't dare scold her
byna!
Yes you are at fault ooo with this your comment.

Women are actually Queens and must be treated as such!

Hope you read my previous response that I did mentioned you though.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Wettoid123: 1:16pm On Nov 15, 2019
Hmmmmmmmm even when she is angry with you still she want to Bleep u o boy u have a wife .
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by JastSiryin(m): 1:16pm On Nov 15, 2019
There are times disagreements require both parties to "let things slide", and there are some that most certainly require verbal communication. If sex were the be-all and end-all of all squabbles, then I guess diplomacy would've been best handled by escorts. I applaud you for exercising self-control. Sit her ass down and you two should have a heart to heart discussion. Best of luck

PS - I don't know why many people have the view that a "normal" man would never turn down sex, like we should always be on stand-by, ready to pipe any girl at the slightest opportunity. That women are doing us a "great favor" by sleeping with us, that's bullsh*t!

Any wife who starves her husband of sex also starves herself, it takes two to tango.

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Vega100: 1:36pm On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls


You did the right thing bro... issues should be ironed out, it's not just about sex!!! Issues should be ironed out, talk about it, else there is a risk this will continue and never end..

All the best bro, u building a fine home, hope to be like you.

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Allsingles: 1:36pm On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls


It will be important for you to understand that individually, we have a way of apologizing
to our spouse whenever we offended them.
Her own way of apologizing to you is through sex because after giving you sex
that is when peace starts to reign again until there is another arguments.
This is her own way of apologizing to you.
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by piagetskinner(m): 1:43pm On Nov 15, 2019
Nigerians and sex....



See waterfalls of comments

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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Pegzzyg(f): 1:56pm On Nov 15, 2019
Typical Chauvinist is what you just posted, Op said "they had a misunderstanding" not 1 party offending another party. Now, they are better ways of "COMMUNICATION" within married couples aside from "Sex denial" that is agreed.
J111333:
I hate emotional blackmail.
You offend them, you beg, they offend you and they will also want you to beg.
Kudos for standing your ground, man.

Forget about the she will collect it elsewhere crew here, you did the right thing else you'll continue to be a sex slave in your own home.

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