Born2Breed:
You don't want your kids to take your husbands name as surname but you took your fathers name as surname.

E get feminist fight wey make sense,this one nor join.

Amossity:
useless women taking credit for carrying a child a man insert inside them for just nine months and forgets about the man that carry the responsibility of both the child and nd useless wife for life term...... they wont think that, all they think of is 9MONTH. 9MONTH FIRE THEM THERE

liberalchick:
Is Spain in Europe?

AmuRubber:





My dear, may God bless you five times a day.

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

sweetiliciouz:
before I say my surname I tell them it's a temporary surname �

nlPoster:


It's just a forum, dont be so bitter.

I guess you have issues with your biological parents.

I even thought you meant out of wedlock pregnancies, then I noticed you specified wife.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:

wow nawa for your mama

payman:
nonsense...if person buy new gadget no be im name go dey d receipt?wen d ladies start paying dowry we will adopt their names.

Martinez39:

I usually suspect that gynocentrism will get stronger, more brutal, and more oppressive due to the rising number of weak men and fathers with each passing generation. Sometimes I wonder if Ubunja, iLegend, and other red pill men are wasting their time fanning out red pill messages but when I remember that I was able to save one from a toxic girlfriend, I keep hope alive. It's depressing.

Mrpsly247:

It's not about being prominent or just rich.. being manly is now considered outdated and not cool.. the man is gradually taken a back seat in the society and allowing most feministic employs like sensitivity, and emotional ploys lyk guilt trap and mind games to run amok these days.. men need to take pride in their masculinity and retake the leadership mantle in the society - the chauvinism

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I love this

My kids take my husband's name and I keep mine
while would I change my name because of a single dick? Not happening
Well unless he has a really prominent and influential last name

Mizwisdom:
Patriarchy is a scam. Every rule given is done by men to fan their egos, in some parts of Ghana people answer their mothers surnames, even among the Ijaws and Efiks they operate their culture based on matriarchy. Don't conclude that all parts of Nigeria is patriarchal, it's a big lie

bigtt76:
Makes no sense.... at least until we women rewrite the bible

Magnoliaa:


So. A few places are different, then it is the norm now?

Magnoliaa:


It's been rewritten. There's a Bible for Women or something like that. A Christian wrote it.

Mizwisdom:


See reasoning, those few places I mentioned did it kill the kids or are they recording more marriage failures than those under patriarchal system? let me make my point clear to you as it seems you don't understand me, whether a child answers his/her mother's or father's surname doesn't affect his wellbeing, it's simply used to boost the ego of the spouse with an upper hand due to culture.
Pablo Picasso took on his mother's maiden surname, it didn't affect his progress in life negatively. All laws made are based on ego, that's my initial point.

DeHumbleTboy:
I can't even marry a lady who uses social media. My babe is not on any social media platforms. And most importantly she's a virgin so I don't think I have anything to do with this shits. Pwehehehe

Mizwisdom:
Patriarchy is a scam. Every rule given is done by men to fan their egos, in some parts of Ghana people answer their mothers surnames, even among the Ijaws and Efiks they operate their culture based on matriarchy. Don't conclude that all parts of Nigeria is patriarchal, it's a big lie

Divay22:

Awwww
Can't promise to give you the whole world but if you will accept, I'll give you mine

Kikikikikiki I have nothing to say

NiCurious:
In the comments there is a strong backlash, citing the husband's payment of the bride price, and ownership of his kids.

With the echoes of slaves being bought and sold as chattel, and shipped from Nigeria's shores, will anyone step back, really step back, and reflect on the irony of defending bride purchase and ownership of children, today?

Waiting for the storm....

johnkey:
what's your surname?

DanDeeBoss:
Kikikikikiki I have nothing to say