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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by bigtt76(f): 2:51pm On Nov 17, 2019
The Bible written by me states we should be submissive to our husband, a new Bible written by women should state otherwise and change the narrative so we can follow suit grin abi nor bi so?



Magnoliaa:


It's been rewritten. There's a Bible for Women or something like that. A Christian wrote it.

And what does the Bible have to do with this making sense or not?
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Smile4mee01: 3:03pm On Nov 17, 2019
There is a silent war against Men.

The fall of Man started through a woman. I see The destruction of humanity coming via a woman.

Those that know, know.

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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by nlPoster: 3:09pm On Nov 17, 2019
Smile4mee01:
There is a silent war against some married women.

The fall of women started through men. I cant see The destruction of humanity coming via myself

Those that know, know.
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by fisherboy: 6:25pm On Nov 17, 2019
grin
Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

grin
Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.


hope tour surname no be Virginia onye-aralam ototokoro olusegu Sunday evuleme agama- kpolo
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Trueyarn(m): 6:43pm On Nov 17, 2019
These women do not understand that their womb is just an incubator. Whatever comes out there is nothin but what the man placed there, men are the creators, women are the preservers,tha'ts why GOD is always refered to as our "father", not our mother.

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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by ovcwality(m): 7:15pm On Nov 17, 2019
Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.
What is your surname?
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by monex(m): 7:59pm On Nov 17, 2019
Mizwisdom:


See reasoning, those few places I mentioned did it kill the kids or are they recording more marriage failures than those under patriarchal system? let me make my point clear to you as it seems you don't understand me, whether a child answers his/her mother's or father's surname doesn't affect his wellbeing, it's simply used to boost the ego of the spouse with an upper hand due to culture.
Pablo Picasso took on his mother's maiden surname, it didn't affect his progress in life negatively. All laws made are based on ego, that's my initial point.














Pablo Ruiz y Picasso

Ruiz is father's surname while Picasso is mother's surname. You add both names as per spanish customs
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by midnighter(f): 8:10pm On Nov 17, 2019
Mizwisdom:


See reasoning, those few places I mentioned did it kill the kids or are they recording more marriage failures than those under patriarchal system? let me make my point clear to you as it seems you don't understand me, whether a child answers his/her mother's or father's surname doesn't affect his wellbeing, it's simply used to boost the ego of the spouse with an upper hand due to culture.
Pablo Picasso took on his mother's maiden surname, it didn't affect his progress in life negatively. All laws made are based on ego, that's my initial point.

The thing is that for things to be orderly, somebody has to be under somebody else. The law is made based on maintaining order, and ego also plays some part.

I guess historically men were more powerful than women which is why the child "belonged" to him

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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by NiCurious: 10:32pm On Nov 17, 2019
Amiteye:
Unwilling slaves being sold and beaming and willing brides being bought, is a whole world apart. You are not worth the storm

Amiteye, thank you for your concise and to-the-point reply. I concede that the beaming brides seem a world apart...but there is a continuum that connects them. This is probably not the thread where the observation will get much consideration.

As to whether I am worth the storm...it's not about me. I don't seek to be trending in my own personal storm. undecided I'm about ideas, and I think this is an important idea to examine...little by little, as people are ready to.

Good day.
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by 9jaRealist: 7:49am On Nov 18, 2019
Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

Could’ve just stopped at the highlighted... cheesy

Meanwhile, you are aware that you can legally change your surname without waiting until you get married.
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Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by 9jaRealist: 7:49am On Nov 18, 2019
cool
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by NaeChris: 9:48am On Nov 18, 2019
Absolute HOGWASH
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by kingsarch2000: 6:30pm On Nov 18, 2019
She should just discard her father's name now for a start and answer her mother's name. Not her mother's maiden name. Then we will consider her.
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by DeHumbleTboy: 11:19am On Nov 19, 2019
Amiteye:
Date girls over 15 before police use you do Thailand movie
lol my baby no be small girl ooo. Just that she was born and raise in a place where smart phone isnt that rampage well she's now a nursing student but never value or fancy social media
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by RuggedSniper: 1:11pm On Jun 06, 2020
Elder0001:
Ladies on twitter kick against them and their kids taking up their husband's name in marriage.

Ridiculous ladies. grin
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Justbehave(m): 1:16pm On Jun 06, 2020
Elder0001:
Ladies on twitter kick against them and their kids taking up their husband's name in marriage.


They are still kicking on twitter. I will answer them when they start kicking in their husband houses.
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by isax(m): 11:08am On Nov 23, 2020
Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

i support your future wedding with one mudu of rice
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by isax(m): 11:10am On Nov 23, 2020
To say na dem dey feed their family dem nor go dey Twitter dey make a noise like bird wey dey chop free food
make dem go protest for Aso rock...

SMH
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by delishpot: 11:17am On Nov 23, 2020
bigtt76:
The Bible written by me states we should be submissive to our husband, a new Bible written by women should state otherwise and change the narrative so we can follow suit grin abi nor bi so?




In bible, children did not bear their father's names as part of their names. They are identified by their parent or the fou der of their compound. Its son of Eli, son of Rachael etc. No Jesus Jehovah or John Abraham. So pls leave Bible out of this matter.. Kids are known by who bore them in the biblical times. They did not stamp fathers surname to their names. That is a modern invention by men to keep record. Even in African tradition you are just known as the child of your father and mother. Okechukwu, mazi nnanna s son the one Ifeoma the daughter of Chinyere bore for him. Lol. That was the way it was. Na patriarchy stamp am say pikin must bear sure name of his papa alone.
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by tnerro1(m): 12:01pm On Nov 23, 2020
If you propose to me and I accept then u can keep your surname but if na me propose to you then your head no correct
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by idahme(m): 12:22pm On Nov 23, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I love this cool

My kids take my husband's name and I keep mine
while would I change my name because of a single dick? Not happening
Well unless he has a really prominent and influential last name


Is that a reason for a change? What u stand to get ?
Re: Ladies Kick Against Their Kids Taking Up Their Husband’s Name In Marriage by Orobokibo1: 3:32pm On Jun 27, 2022
payman:
nonsense...if person buy new gadget no be im name go dey d receipt?wen d ladies start paying dowry we will adopt their names.
grin

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