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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by otabuko(m): 4:26am On Nov 19, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]you sound mean anyway.

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Empressshola: 4:32am On Nov 19, 2019
feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!
trust God and don't give up.... its gonna be okay soon

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by sisisioge: 4:39am On Nov 19, 2019
My partner becoming a stranger shocked

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Originalsly: 4:40am On Nov 19, 2019
Interrogations.... how did lipstick get on your neck?... how your skin look and smell so fresh this night when you rushed off to work this morning without taking a good bath?...last night you came home late and didn't eat... tonite you say you're not hungry?...you left for work in a cream shirt and now returning in a red one?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Igetmyown247: 5:07am On Nov 19, 2019
The inevitable
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Tima1980(f): 5:21am On Nov 19, 2019
Divorce

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Ojady(m): 5:34am On Nov 19, 2019
For me, it is my Mother-in-law STRONGLY believing and seeing me as A RIVAL. One of the greatest blessing a woman can have, is a supportive MIL. If your MIL is not on your side, there is going to be a lot of work to do: Courtship, Wedding, pre-babies, during babies etc May God bless us with all

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fxwarrior: 5:37am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
What's your biggest fear about marriage?

Fear of ending up with a cute face but a dangerous and heartless soul. Men this days scare me, some are monsters.

Is it not a bar am seeing in your dp? What kind of men do you expect to see there?

Where and how you meet someone is important and may portray their personality.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 5:38am On Nov 19, 2019
feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

Deep bro.

Financial literacy is one of the key to a sustainable marriage. But that we were not taught in school or by our so called parents and elders.

Instead na to dey push for marriage and children them go dey ask for. Responsibility that they can not help you handle. They will abandon you and use one's scenario as a case study. Pure hypocrisy in Nigeria.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fxwarrior: 5:42am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Its a dummy that will agree to Number 1. You are not ready yet.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 5:45am On Nov 19, 2019
mysticgal:
1. What if we fall out of love with each other?
2. What if he dies before me?
3. What will happen if I feel i can’t take his bullshit anymore?
4. What if he doesn’t support me or I feel alone in the partnership.
5. What if an accident happens right in the relationship, would I stay or would I leave?
6. Is love enough or what if he is too much of a spender or an NFA aka no future ambition?
7. Can I bear his family members or mine during marriage?
8. How do we resolve conflicts, what if he tries to abuse me?
9. What if I have mediocre sexual experiences all through out.
10. How would he cope if I die, get disabled, leave, never want children or even like pets?

It bugs me a lot embarassed embarassed embarassed

Everything mentioned surely happens. Trust me it will come to a point you will have to due with this issues one at a time.

And it is not worth it. But societal norms, survival instinct and baby rabbies go push Una enter marriage.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fxwarrior: 5:46am On Nov 19, 2019
styless:
Frequent slaps

Why 'Frequent slaps'?

Why not Slaps?

Its shows you are okay with occasional slaps. It means you already accept domestic violence to an extent.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 5:53am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready


The three things will definitely happen too. You can't escape them.

She/ he will cheat behind you and with an unimaginable being. If na better person now you fit understand but ( may be ex, housemaid security, brother, sister, etc.) It will be for stupid and flimsy excuse. Especially women, they cheat for so much stupid reason that can never be explained to a logical person. Even baby go dey shock her reason for cheating. So get ready.

He/ she will yell at you everywhere due to stress, hormonial imbalance, economy, country situation, rage, etc. Get ready and stop believing you can avoid it.

He/ she will certainly come between you and your siblings. That is why you are married. You both come together as one. To make matter worse make you go broke, or loose your job. And you are trying to get back on your feet. Na total disrespect go come after you.

You will do nothing and accept your fate. Cause at that time. A beggar will have no choice at that time.

Sorry to burst your bubbles.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Congrats321(m): 5:53am On Nov 19, 2019
Women like you should be feared.
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by maynation(f): 5:54am On Nov 19, 2019
Jewessgratitude:


Mine is disease and that is why I've decided to remain chaste and wait for a genuine born again bro who fears God. I don't care if people are rubbing it in my face to go and get married. I'm enjoying and maximizing my youth while waiting on God to give me a clean man. Men these days sleep around like dogs not Even minding the dreaded and then boom! Their eyes will now clear. Ain't nobody gat time for such. Until then, enjoyment galore. Marriage is not a do or die affair. I'm even happier than 70% of married people. so?

Moun jaye ori mi lo ninu Jesu Christi.

Listening to Teni Uyo meyo right now. Anyone care to join me.
Can't come and go and kee masef.����

Abeg shift mah siddown with you.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 5:55am On Nov 19, 2019
saintneo:


What do you mean by abduction?

Abduction = Kidnapping

Or you meant to write Adoption.

Thanks for the correction. Changed it already.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by adegeye38(m): 5:56am On Nov 19, 2019
mysticgal:
1. What if we fall out of love with each other?
2. What if he dies before me?
3. What will happen if I feel i can’t take his bullshit anymore?
4. What if he doesn’t support me or I feel alone in the partnership.
5. What if an accident happens right in the relationship, would I stay or would I leave?
6. Is love enough or what if he is too much of a spender or an NFA aka no future ambition?
7. Can I bear his family members or mine during marriage?
8. How do we resolve conflicts, what if he tries to abuse me?
9. What if I have mediocre sexual experiences all through out.
10. How would he cope if I die, get disabled, leave, never want children or even like pets?

It bugs me a lot embarassed embarassed embarassed
One answer, be a child of God, marry someone who fears God, marriage is a union of man, woman and God, also read books on marriage, the issue of falling out of love, If you don't love God, you cannot love another human, it is d love u have 4 God dat u transfer to another person, and love in marriage is a commandment.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 5:58am On Nov 19, 2019
ceeceeuwa:

Lol, you talk too much!

Hmm the truth my person. If people wey dey marriage really talk here. This my talk na just HELLO for waiting dey really happen.

But what do I know.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by maynation(f): 6:01am On Nov 19, 2019
sharpwriter:


If to say I near you, with this your sweet appearance, I go make you my own and show you that marriage and love no be scam wink

Scammer
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fisher007: 6:02am On Nov 19, 2019
persinpapa:



I am sure this guy married for the wrong reason

Lol only if you knew my brother. Marry first then please comeback to this same comment after few years. You will understand.

Just to let you know. I am not even close to it. It is from family stories, friends experience, redpill content, married exgirl girlfriends rants and complain in their marriages. Them wan turn me to emotional tampon.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by RoyalHighness7(m): 6:02am On Nov 19, 2019
Geting married to the wrong person
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hoodbilonia: 6:03am On Nov 19, 2019
Someone will sti Bleep my wife

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticgal(f): 6:09am On Nov 19, 2019
Akinbahm:

Nah so u get all these issues for una head b4 the marriage sister, offload this kind mentality and av a positive mindset towards marriage....
E no easy orara oh
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by maynation(f): 6:10am On Nov 19, 2019
Acidosis:
What are your reasons?

I have seen a lot of love birds deeply heads over heels in love with each other before the marriage only to get married and turn to war machines.


It still beats me how marriage tends to birth an entirely sour experience, it is more like every love and care ends few months after the marriage.

I wish I was born in the previous centuries, when marriage still had its values but you see this 2019 men? Especially Nigerian men?? They should go and rest.
And Baba you see me so ehn? I am complicated enough for my generations to come and I will never let marriage serve as another source of complications.

Make marriage dey its dey.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticgal(f): 6:11am On Nov 19, 2019
imitateMe:

Wow.
So women are really concerned. I used to think you all don't care as long as you have a ring on ur finger

I care oh. Maybe not others, but me.
I once rejected a marriage proposal because I never knew if I would cope in that country alone, without family or people I know. I just couldn’t fit do it.,Abeg

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by muykem: 6:12am On Nov 19, 2019
Ahdunns:
Lacking communication skills and been clueless on what to say and how to act
Na GEJ you won marry?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by TemmyT002(m): 6:12am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready


Hahahaha
Weyrey leleyi o
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticgal(f): 6:13am On Nov 19, 2019
BarrElChapo:


Some of these questions can be answered by your during dating/courtship like 6,7, and some part of 10.. questions like 2,3 & the part of 10 is out of you hands cos no one knows tomorrow or the next...
That’s true tho. It makes sense but still the uncertainty is not settling at all embarassed
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticgal(f): 6:14am On Nov 19, 2019
Fisher007:


Everything mentioned surely happens. Trust me it will come to a point you will have to due with this issues one at a time.

And it is not worth it. But societal norms, survival instinct and baby rabbies go push Una enter marriage.


I honestly think I can’t deal but let’s see what the future brings
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticgal(f): 6:15am On Nov 19, 2019
adegeye38:

One answer, be a child of God, marry someone who fears God, marriage is a union of man, woman and God, also read books on marriage, the issue of falling out of love, If you don't love God, you cannot love another human, it is d love u have 4 God dat u transfer to another person, and love in marriage is a commandment.

I know about the God factor in marriage but pastor adeyemi would say, we won’t remove God but asides from God, why if wine in the marriage finish?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by bluefilm: 6:19am On Nov 19, 2019
My biggest fear about marriage is getting married with someone who will come and be stressing my life anyhow...

I can't just deal with that.

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