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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by cococandy(f): 10:07am On Nov 19, 2019
You really think your post was intelligent and as such deserves an intelligent response?

The cognitive discombobulation is rife with this one shocked
anslem04:

you could av trashed my so called trash with logical views, buh where u wan see brain do am...pele

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 10:09am On Nov 19, 2019
Ronald1:
Mine is commitment.... Abeg who knows what phobia for love is called

Philophobia

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 10:17am On Nov 19, 2019
donjobill:


Best option is consensual open marriage, if he's open-minded to concede to it.
Most guys are too self centred to allow that plus the Nigerian factor.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:18am On Nov 19, 2019
UnknownQueen:


I used to have same thoughts but today, I'm an overcomer with two children via Vaginal birth..
And u know what only you can help yourself, yes the process is extremely painful but the koy they bring afterwards is immeasurable, but please of you must do, have great financial plans before venturing into child rearing oo also it' isn't a must u birth one via V. B ELECTIVE C. S IS LESS PAINFUL compared to V. B
Are you encouraging CS?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 10:19am On Nov 19, 2019
Rich4god:
Information confidentiality...

But one thing I have come to realize is that a good number of ladies don't marry who they actually love, reason been that the person they love is probably not ready or financially buoyant for marriage. So they end up with another man who is ready.

This has been true since the time of Adam.

it will continue till the end of the word.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Yuneehk(f): 10:19am On Nov 19, 2019
kenralph:
Cute little you.
Thanks, ancestor.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by sharpwriter(m): 10:21am On Nov 19, 2019
maynation:

Scammer
Lol.... I'm not a scammer... I swear
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by IgbosNIGHTMARE: 10:22am On Nov 19, 2019
pocohantas:


Almost like you are already having a heart attack.

And that is exactly what your final moments will look like. A lot of struggle, but it just wouldn't help.
Woe betide you.
You jobless and senseless whóre and attention whóre sick head.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:22am On Nov 19, 2019
Give figures and sites examples to back your claims
maiahsaiah:


Probably, but from observations, not completely.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:24am On Nov 19, 2019
Are bricklayers and Vulcaniser not getting married, c'mon man up
Godsonkemz:
Economic reason such as uncertainty in finance and job security to sustain the union, and psychological reason such as trust and betrayal.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:25am On Nov 19, 2019
You mind sharing
maynation:



Yeah from experience, I have seen enough.

Not personal experience tho.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fizzymike1(m): 10:26am On Nov 19, 2019
Juliearth:



That same soup can be garnished and tweaked to taste different. I think you need to jettison this mindset before getting married so you won't end up sending someone's daughter to the grave due to your promiscuity.

Who told u am not married
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:26am On Nov 19, 2019
fatymore:
lol
Yes o! abi u want ur man to have
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:29am On Nov 19, 2019
MedicH:


Lol i know men and i use a lot of psychology. Anyman addicted to soccer cant help but seek reward for his passion via bet9ja. On this pedestal, he is doomed. I hardly watch soccer games. Hardly. Betting na no no no.
Lies! My boss is a die hard of Liverpool, does not bet, my younger brother supports Barca, does snot bet, My boyfriends support Manchester city, does not bet. Betting is passion turned into addiction.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by kamalese: 10:29am On Nov 19, 2019
makydebbie:


My friend got it for me oo on my birthday, I've the hardcopy.
I don't know if it's rare or something I'll ask her.
I'm not in Nigeria Btw I don't know if it's over there.
Google.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:32am On Nov 19, 2019
True
Lindaa97:

Most guys are too self centred to allow that plus the Nigerian factor.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MedicH: 10:33am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
Lies! My boss is a die hard of Liverpool, does not bet, my younger brother supports Barca, does snot bet, My boyfriends support Manchester city, does not bet. Betting is passion turned into addiction.

Lol because when they do they tell you they've placed bet on a game. And normally u cant understand that for ever rule there's an exception. That paracetamol is the drug of choice for headache is only because it cured 95% of cases when tested. I am yet to see a soccer lover that doesn't bet.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 10:37am On Nov 19, 2019
zigzagluv:
Thanks , how can i know a nymph ?
Dating and asking .....
Your name though cheesy

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Dulcinea(f): 10:38am On Nov 19, 2019
AuwalYusuf812:
smile......not all men


I hope so embarassed
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 10:38am On Nov 19, 2019
Meaning you are cheating
Fizzymike1:


Who told u am not married
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
Give figures and sites examples to back your claims

I said observation not statistics.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 10:42am On Nov 19, 2019
Fisher007:


My sister you must be an exception cause there are always exceptions.

Your hubby must be lucky trust me. Look at the lives of your female colleagues in school, what they have been through and how they pressure the poor husband to accept all these emotional baggages.

Most women don't understand what having a happy home means. They are so self centered and entitled that even it means disturbing the peace of the husband. The poor guy will just stay out all the time. Madam will think he is busy cheating around, not knowing the guy has so much responsibilities (school fees, mother, house rent, feeding and providing for the house, family (cousin, newphew, relatives ), career issues , self development issues) that cheating is his list priority.

Your hubby must be lucky though cause, look around you really, it is rare to see case as yours.


Lol... I like having him home jare. So I try to make the house liveable. Even till all his football matches, EPL, UCL, AFCON, Europa, Carabao, NPL, La Liga, Serie A,etc. He watches them all at home. No need to go out.

Marriage is really what you make it; especially when you marry someone on the same page with you and one who has your interest at heart.

There are disagreements and squabbles but we still realize that we are working together for the same goal.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:42am On Nov 19, 2019
kenralph:

This is the most outrageous claim I've seen in a while.

Where did you get that from? Hardship that's meant to come will definitely come. It has no business with the gender of the child brought into the world.

You both just have to be well prepared financially and otherwise before bringing anyone into this world. SIMPLE.

It might sound outrageous to you. But look around and observe.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by fatymore(f): 10:43am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
Yes o! abi u want ur man to have
I reject it
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by makydebbie(f): 10:56am On Nov 19, 2019
kamalese:
Fine girl google doesn't only cover Nigeria na.
Please do get back to me when your lovely friend, tells you where she got it from and am not in Nigeria presently too.
I was hoping to get it from hidden wiki that's why I was surprised, it wasn't even recognized as a keyword on google.

LOL I said I'm not in Nigeria because I've the hardcopy and I don't know if the hardcopy is in Nigeria as well I wasn't talking about goggle.
I know it doesn't cover Nigeria alone, thanks for the new information like I already didn't know.


When I get home, I'll send a snapshot of the cover for you.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Fizzymike1(m): 11:05am On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
Meaning you are cheating


The fact that I told u I was tempted to cheat does not mean I cheated. I said is one thing I fear.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by kamalese: 11:13am On Nov 19, 2019
makydebbie:


LOL I said I'm not in Nigeria because I've the hardcopy and I don't know if the hardcopy is in Nigeria as well I wasn't talking about goggle.
I know it doesn't cover Nigeria alone, thanks for the new information like I already didn't know.


When I get home, I'll send a snapshot of the cover for you.
cheesy
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:13am On Nov 19, 2019
tr
cococandy:
You really think your post was intelligent and as such deserves an intelligent response?

The cognitive discombobulation is rife with this one shocked



womennnn n maskin there feelin sha, mafo ! i was jus sayin d bitter truth guess i went abt it intelligently wink truth as to be rife, predominant or prevailing, void of feelings actually
Ur big grammar no impress me, i am sapiosexual n i believe u don't av wat it takes jus walk away
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by executive12: 11:25am On Nov 19, 2019
pocohantas:
1. Losing my spouse or a child.
2. What I will do to my husband if he cheats.

Note, I am not scared of him cheating. Just the repercussions he would face.

[img]https://media1./images/51a86b2115cd75b972f9bc933fec39cc/tenor.gif?[/img]

Any other thing I didn't write are things he would be smart enough to figure out. I don't like to talk too much, especially when dealing with adults.

Tough lady. I hope you are not just bluffing. How about if you are the guilty one?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Tunyx01: 11:26am On Nov 19, 2019
solablings:
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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 11:28am On Nov 19, 2019
maiahsaiah:


Is it a baby boy you had? When most couples birth boys, all manner of hardship comes. You’ll have to endure and pray.

Try and birth a girl the next time for uncountable blessings. To birth a girl, you need to show your wife overwhelming love so that she loves you genuinely in return. Girls only come from a place of genuine love. There is a science way too. But I only believe in tradition. (Joys of Motherhood)

This your understanding sound like a reasoning of a kid. How come u come about this conclusion ? Sounds way off. Lord have mercy!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 11:34am On Nov 19, 2019
mechanics:
, it's compulsory for one to marry according to the Bible.


You don't mean it.
where u follow read that one from?

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