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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by AuwalYusuf812(m): 5:47pm On Nov 19, 2019
Dulcinea:


I hope so embarassed
the bad ones has cover the good ones......!!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 5:52pm On Nov 19, 2019
maiahsaiah:


When you see Buchi Emecheta, author of The Joys of Motherhood, tell her that too. You can also tell that to your elders. You had better broaden your knowledge and stop being one sided. It’s people like you that think white medicine is the cure for all sickness.

Tune your voice down and reason with your sense. I believe you have got one. You can't base your reasoning and arguments base on mere fictional story written by one author or so.
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Just crosscheck what you wrote earlier and tell me if there's any atom of sense in it. Male child brings hardship while female child brings progress- very Lame assumptions.
*
From what you said up there, it's even easier to believe that white medicine as, you said , cures all ailment than to believe the crap of sex of the first born bringing hardship or progress to their parents.
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Say this not in an open place or discussion. it's good to know that you read but, know where to draw the line on what you believe hook, line and sinker.
*
I will leave you with your thoughts.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Nov 19, 2019
cococandy:


The things these boys tell themselves to make themselves feel good.

Have you even been a woman? How do you know what a woman feels? More jargons and baseless excuses.
Did we tell you that we love sharing peniss?

Smh.



tell ourselves, really !! what do u take men for GAYs/sissies, nothing makes us feel gud like after sex wink. no time 4 yeye talk.
It is not really about d dick what women don't love sharing in actual sense is a man's attention. buh lemme spare u my nonsense & ingredient these time. ALOL

a woman wil envy & start rivalry even with her own daughter if she feels her hubby is showing her more attention ... grin grin

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 5:53pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrMacinterchi1:


forget about the guys now and the Nigerian factor.. You, would you allow that in your marriage?
I would love too. A friend of mine does, its a new relationship so can't say if it would work out on the long run.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 5:55pm On Nov 19, 2019
zigzagluv:
i have left the dating scene since 2012 , i only do friends with benefit because i dont want to hold any girl down with relationship and not marrying and blocking her chance to get married , so i have made of my mind to start a relationship but really scared
Damn.... That's a long time o, its a beautiful thing to be in love but whatever works for you....
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by RxSameer(m): 5:55pm On Nov 19, 2019
bbeautylik:
I am a Muslim so do not crucify me


The kind of marriage I hate is the so call Muslim marriages, women almost have no say in the marriage... The men can marry as far as four wives and still Bleep outside. Now how will the men feel if the reverse is the case if we women can marry four husbands not minding how one feels. In Islam women are the slaves in marriage. Do not wear this , do not wear that, do not use perfumes so that you won't attract men..... What about the men? Mtcheww
SMH.... I don't know if wat u are saying about been a Muslim is true i highly doubt it but u strike me as some1 hu is ignorant (very ) no one is forcing you to marry against ur will abeg go get knowledge n don't come on social media to disgrace urself

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by emmaodet: 6:06pm On Nov 19, 2019
Rich4god:
Information confidentiality...

But one thing I have come to realize is that a good number of ladies don't marry who they actually love, reason been that the person they love is probably not ready or financially buoyant for marriage. So they end up with another man who is ready.

Well, it goes both ways.
We mostly focus on women too much why ignoring the big picture.
The truth also is that - Most Men won't marry who they married if they have what it takes to be a man, they would have choosing a better woman than what they have at home.
Only and insane man will choose an ugly, broke, dirty woman when he as the option of picking a beautiful, young, virgin, productive and financially buoyant woman

Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Franchasng

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MedicH: 6:09pm On Nov 19, 2019
RxSameer:
medic H I respect ur input alot but for diz one I don't believe you, all my broders n me are core football lovers but we never bet , I have so many frnds who love football but don't bet don't generalise if u dont av evidence to back it up. but from your moniker are you a pharmacist?

There are exceptions. That's the point but majority of sports lovers do bet.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:16pm On Nov 19, 2019
y?
Utthaan4:
Surprised with comments here
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:18pm On Nov 19, 2019
y?
zigzagluv:
i have left the dating scene since 2012 , i only do friends with benefit because i dont want to hold any girl down with relationship and not marrying and blocking her chance to get married , so i have made of my mind to start a relationship but really scared
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:18pm On Nov 19, 2019
Yes o!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
victorian:
I don't have any fears on marriage anymore, because Imma look well, before I leap into it with the man I have chosen.

I will never ever marry blindly or rush blindly into it.


Never I won't!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:19pm On Nov 19, 2019
anslem04:





Well i guess some of you can't just deal with the message without huntin for d sender.
it doesnt matter if it happens to my grandma, mom or sista sef ... its jus d truth n reality out that no one can do anytin about. if my daughter hubby cheat on her will i kill him n even she divorce him wil i marry my own daughter to safe her frm all men... or what is probability other men she tries won't cheat.
-85%
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:23pm On Nov 19, 2019
You are a working corpse with curses on you
vickydevoka:
I have bleeped so so many married women bcus of their big soft ass. I am scared of kama. B4 person go begin Bleep my Wife.
I still don't knw y married women are easier to Bleep dan single ladies. I even Bleep one today. N the husband can never catch a cheating wife.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:26pm On Nov 19, 2019
Godmademan:
1. I feel polygamous. I feel one wife will not do it for me. Just love women. Perhaps my out look will change when someone captures my inner being.

2. Phobia for Heartbreak.

It like have two fire woods with fire under one roof.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:28pm On Nov 19, 2019
Lesson 1 in WOMEN 101
A woman can hide/pretend for years until she get what she wants then you see her true feeling or character.
hresso:


Signs. You can't hide your true feelings for long.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:28pm On Nov 19, 2019
grin grin grin
sharpwriter:


Lol... I've been laughing hard since at your comment. Reason being that your moniker being "satan" can call another person animal... Then that person must be an animal indeed to have infuriated and disgusted you this much... Your satan sef get little morals... Lolz cheesy
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:30pm On Nov 19, 2019
You are spewing trash
anslem04:



I like your kind of curosity buh b4 i make some emotionaly annoyin analysis,let me emphatically say i am nt justifyin infidelity for men.
We all knw life is not fair, even nature/creation is not fair ... for a man sex is jus sex , to a woman sex as to mean sumtin she jus as to define it to accept it,that is why rape traumatize dem.
Women are emotional beings, ofcus they do av heart & feel pains more buh these wonderful creatures understand pain d way the strongest of men would never, some men won't even survive menstrual pain not to talk of labour pain ... the way a woman feels wen she see her hubby on top another woman is funnily different from the way a man who caught is wife under another man will feel.
the woman feel cheated emotionally she is less concern abt the sex act, while the man feels cheated bodywise ... what disgust n hurt him d most is anoda dick savourin pussy to be his.... bottom line is nature in to be blamed in all these women don't do ego dey deal in pride.
sex appreciate a man's ego buh same sex depreciates a woman's pride ,sey u see life


Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:30pm On Nov 19, 2019
Help me ask am o jare
cococandy:


You fear heartbreak yet you are afraid of committing to one woman. Whose daughter do you think like heartbreak?

As you are like this, are you coming or are you going?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:31pm On Nov 19, 2019
U did nt answer my question.
makavelli80:
y do you quote me? U like trouble
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:32pm On Nov 19, 2019
bbeautylik:
I am a Muslim so do not crucify me


The kind of marriage I hate is the so call Muslim marriages, women almost have no say in the marriage... The men can marry as far as four wives and still Bleep outside. Now how will the men feel if the reverse is the case if we women can marry four husbands not minding how one feels. In Islam women are the slaves in marriage. Do not wear this , do not wear that, do not use perfumes so that you won't attract men..... What about the men? Mtcheww
Many will commit suicide

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:33pm On Nov 19, 2019
Just negodu these men
Theyoungmatron:
The whole post on front-page has men running away from marriage grin grin grin grin grin citing silly excuses especially cheating grin grin grin grin.
They do not want to be served with their own coin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:35pm On Nov 19, 2019
anslem04:




tell ourselves, really !! what do u take men for GAYs/sissies, nothing makes us feel gud like after sex wink. no time 4 yeye talk.
It is not really about d dick what women don't love sharing in actual sense is a man's attention. buh lemme spare u my nonsense & ingredient these time. ALOL

a woman wil envy & start rivalry even with her own daughter if she feels her hubby is showing her more attention ... grin grin

Lies from Aso rock
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(f): 6:38pm On Nov 19, 2019
emmaodet:


Well, it goes both ways.
We mostly focus on women too much why ignoring the big picture.
The truth also is that - Most Men won't marry who they married if they have what it takes to be a man, they would have choosing a better woman than what they have at home.
Only and insane man will choose an ugly, broke, dirty woman when he as the option of picking a beautiful, young, virgin, productive and financially buoyant woman


Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Franchasng
Most Women won't marry who they married if they had waited knew what they knew now, they would have choosing a better man than what they have at home.
Only and insane woman will choose an ugly, broke, dirty man when she as the option of picking a beautiful, young, virgin, productive and financially buoyant man

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 19, 2019
MrMacinterchi1:


Tune your voice down and reason with your sense. I believe you have got one. You can't base your reasoning and arguments base on mere fictional story written by one author or so.
*
Just crosscheck what you wrote earlier and tell me if there's any atom of sense in it. Male child brings hardship while female child brings progress- very Lame assumptions.
*
From what you said up there, it's even easier to believe that white medicine as, you said , cures all ailment than to believe the crap of sex of the first born bringing hardship or progress to their parents.
*
Say this not in an open place or discussion. it's good to know that you read but, know where to draw the line on what you believe hook, line and sinker.
*
I will leave you with your thoughts.

And I will leave you to yours. But at least, you’ll always remember mine. Your thought is too common, and unfortunately, I don’t have the crowd mentality. Bye.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mignone(f): 6:53pm On Nov 19, 2019
ijewejones:
angry

The fact that (some)women can't be trusted!!!

... while all men can be trusted?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by emmaodet: 7:07pm On Nov 19, 2019
Hamachi:
Most Women won't marry who they married if they had waited knew what they knew now, they would have choosing a better man than what they have at home.
Only and insane woman will choose an ugly, broke, dirty man when she as the option of picking a beautiful, young, virgin, productive and financially buoyant man

grin cheesy grin
Hamachi, our paths as been crossing lately.
Wetin i do u now?? undecided

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by franchasng: 7:25pm On Nov 19, 2019
emmaodet:


Well, it goes both ways.
We mostly focus on women too much why ignoring the big picture.
The truth also is that - Most Men won't marry who they married if they have what it takes to be a man, they would have choosing a better woman than what they have at home.
Only and insane man will choose an ugly, broke, dirty woman when he as the option of picking a beautiful, young, virgin, productive and financially buoyant woman

Martinez39
Pansophist
Ubunja
Franchasng
what more can i say cool

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MrMacinterchi1: 7:36pm On Nov 19, 2019
Lindaa97:

I would love too. A friend of mine does, its a new relationship so can't say if it would work out on the long run.

Whatever makes them sleep well at night.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by yazga: 7:49pm On Nov 19, 2019
Marriage is not an education.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by yazga: 7:50pm On Nov 19, 2019
to what extend can a pretending partner be known?
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by folake4u(f): 8:18pm On Nov 19, 2019
Godmademan:
1. I feel polygamous. I feel one wife will not do it for me. Just love women. Perhaps my out look will change when someone captures my inner being.

2. Phobia for Heartbreak.





So you like woman like this, oga! grin
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by folake4u(f): 8:21pm On Nov 19, 2019
I fear that I might not find a man who doesn't want children like me.


I fear that I might fall out of love with my partner. Craze dey my head, I might just wake up one day and be cold to him for the rest of my life.


I fear the institution called marriage. Bottom line.

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