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Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by WaywardSon(m): 9:23pm On Nov 17, 2019
ChildOfDoom:
hmm..i can relate with that your friend. Betting pushed me out of school. I would have loved your idea of using only a fraction of one's pay to gamble. But how do i do that when i know i am indebted to people, and only a quick fix can help out
dont bet, invest the money on forex, get financial education and you'll see its better to trade Fx than throw money on chance
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by midnighter(f): 9:23pm On Nov 17, 2019
Billi007:

I disagree with you.

With discipline and a clear plan you follow through. You will make money from the bookies. Trust me.

Yeah, for professional gamblers or people who study odds and make intelligent choices.

This guy is already addicted, he is not acting out of logic.

But what Im telling him is that the machine is already rigged against the player. Thats how they make their money

If you sit and calculate your risk, thats a different story. Since risk and chance is the name of the game
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by millionboi2: 9:36pm On Nov 17, 2019
Billi007:


That's practically not possible. That means home win or away win and no goal.

For there to be a winner, there has to be a goal.

To be successful in bet, you do not need to know all bet types. Draft your strategy. Improve on it and make some money.
so is a trap?
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Nobody: 9:38pm On Nov 17, 2019
midnighter:


Yeah, for professional gamblers or people who study odds and make intelligent choices.

This guy is already addicted, he is not acting out of logic.

But what Im telling him is that the machine is already rigged against the player. Thats how they make their money

If you sit and calculate your risk, thats a different story. Since risk and chance is the name of the game
how is it rigged when matches are played live
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by ibechris(m): 9:46pm On Nov 17, 2019
WaywardSon:
Duuude your case strong o.
There was a time I sold my Samsung laptop for 80k and invested the entire money in Bet9ja. The hope was to get steady 1.5odds and stake 20k daily, not bad I thought lol

Squandered the entire capital in a week.
Since then I've never taken betting seriously,
The house always wins in the end.

My good friend staked his 120k school fees on 2odds and won. Then I watched as Bet9ja slowly but surely ate the entire money both profit and capital. In the end my guy no write exam.

Betting is stupid but betting out of desperation is more foolish. Using your last card to donate to the bookmakers.

Here's a tip to cure your addiction
Only bet when you have a steady source of income and use only a fraction of it. For instance on a 30k monthly salary shelve 5k every month for placing bets. And that's all

Avoid virtual and play only big games like ucl.
I still bet for fun and the funny thing is when you're betting for fun that's when you even make some money.
For instance I staked 5k on the UCL final and won. I haven't bet since then and that's control bro





Are u solving his problems...by my assessment, ur problem is far bigger than his. How can one use his hard earn salary to gamble and waste away?
How did we get to this point where madness has become a norm. Must people gamble?
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 9:52pm On Nov 17, 2019
millionboi2:
so is a trap?

Of course.

The bookies are in business to make money. Not to help the masses

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Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by ibechris(m): 9:54pm On Nov 17, 2019
monichannel:


Please edit and make corrections. How can someone earning 30k use 5k to play bet
It's addiction already. I play for fun, I don't spend upto 1 percent of a month salary in playing for 3 months. That's to say if I'm earning 100k/month, I spend less than 1k playing bet in 3 months.

On another note, my security guy is so addicted that he can leave his post during work hour to go play bet and stay for over 5 hours there. He will come back crying explaining to the driver who will in turn tell me about it.

Virtual kills faster than HIV





If I were in ur shoes,I will fire the security man with immediate alacrity. A security man leaving his post just to gamble.

Be sure that one day this same gateman will burg ur house to search for what to sell. Is not a bad wish but a fact.

Talking from experience.

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Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 9:55pm On Nov 17, 2019
midnighter:


Yeah, for professional gamblers or people who study odds and make intelligent choices.

This guy is already addicted, he is not acting out of logic.

But what Im telling him is that the machine is already rigged against the player. Thats how they make their money

If you sit and calculate your risk, thats a different story. Since risk and chance is the name of the game

While I disagree with your language of being rigged against the player, we at least agree on the fact that chance and luck is the game. Nobody is controlling anything. I know book makers that have ran into losses.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by millionboi2: 10:03pm On Nov 17, 2019
Billi007:


Of course.

The bookies are in business to make money. Not to help the masses
lol
If u fall into it thy will chop u
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Michano22: 10:04pm On Nov 17, 2019
millionboi2:
see What is d meaning of d number at d centre column.
12&NG....how is it possible
it's very possible
a scoreline of 1-0, 2-0 or 0-1, 0-2 renders the bet valid.
it simply means any of the teams must win and both teams must not score
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by millionboi2: 10:05pm On Nov 17, 2019
Michano22:


it's very possible

a scoreline of 1-0, 2-0 or 0-1, 0-2 renders the bet valid.

it simply means any of the teams must win and both teams must not score
really?ve u played it b4
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Michano22: 10:07pm On Nov 17, 2019
millionboi2:
really?ve u played it b4
I do play
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by WaywardSon(m): 10:18pm On Nov 17, 2019
ibechris:





Are u solving his problems...by my assessment, ur problem is far bigger than his. How can one use his hard earn salary to gamble and waste away?
How did we get to this point where madness has become a norm. Must people gamble?
you are funny, I don't think you understand how addiction works you don't just pull the plug, discipline and control is important. It's better someone uses 5k than waste the entire 30k, I have been a fx trader for 3yrs and am only saying how o curbed my bet9ja addiction 5 years ago. These days I don't bet cos I dont need to. Money everywhere
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by midnighter(f): 10:20pm On Nov 17, 2019
Billi007:


While I disagree with your language of being rigged against the player, we at least agree on the fact that chance and luck is the game. Nobody is controlling anything. I know book makers that have ran into losses.

The rules are written in favour of the bookmaker and not the player

Im talking about large betting companies though
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 10:51pm On Nov 17, 2019
millionboi2:
lol
If u fall into it thy will chop u

Haq Haq Haq.
Without mercy
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 10:52pm On Nov 17, 2019
Michano22:


it's very possible

a scoreline of 1-0, 2-0 or 0-1, 0-2 renders the bet valid.

it simply means any of the teams must win and both teams must not score

Okay...

Goal Goal OR No Goal Goal.. sometime this abbreviations can be confusing...
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 10:55pm On Nov 17, 2019
WaywardSon:
dont bet, invest the money on forex, get financial education and you'll see its better to trade Fx than throw money on chance
Believe it or not.

Forex, stock trading, binary options... I do not see the difference. The outcome is uncertain. Whether a stock will go up or down, you do not know
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by WaywardSon(m): 1:17am On Nov 18, 2019
Billi007:

Believe it or not.

Forex, stock trading, binary options... I do not see the difference. The outcome is uncertain. Whether a stock will go up or down, you do not know
lol, real estate, Poultry importation and any other businesses are still not risk free and you can still lose and go broke, laslas everybody is good at something I have my viable means of livelihood and you have yours

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Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by IceColdVeins(m): 12:52pm On Nov 18, 2019
Its possible if the match has penalty shoot-out tendencies.(knock-out)
millionboi2:
see
What is d meaning of d number at d centre column.

12&NG....how is it possible
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by IceColdVeins(m): 12:54pm On Nov 18, 2019
Its possible.
In knock-out matches.
Extra-time and penalties may decide after a goaless full time
Billi007:


That's practically not possible. That means home win or away win and no goal.

For there to be a winner, there has to be a goal.

To be successful in bet, you do not need to know all bet types. Draft your strategy. Improve on it and make some money.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 2:20pm On Nov 18, 2019
IceColdVeins:
Its possible.
In knock-out matches.
Extra-time and penalties may decide after a goaless full time
Bets do not consider events after 90mins plus extra time.
Unless you are staking on a live match that has exceeded the 90mins.

The NG, actually means no goal goal. Meaning only the winner is going to score.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Billi007: 2:33pm On Nov 18, 2019
IceColdVeins:
Its possible if the match has penalty shoot-out tendencies.(knock-out)

Not necessarily. Just means that one team will win the match and the loosing team won't score a goal.

NG means both teams won't score. Opposite of . Meaning both teams will score
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by ChildOfDoom: 10:24pm On Nov 18, 2019
KevinDein:
At some point you have stop all this whining and self pity and TRY to actually change for the better. Seek help. If you can't afford a therapist, there are sites that offer psychotherapy or at least articles that can help with your addiction.
Google them up.
hmm... It's a spell sort of. Unless one is assured of a bright future, one always goes back to it after a little period of fighting it
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by ChildOfDoom: 11:09pm On Nov 20, 2019
written007:
...to go Charge phone... That line works on my spirit 99% of the time. I had to buy a 22mah Powerbank to cut off the temptation.

After about 8wks, I had a service call adjacent to the bet9jashop around 8:30am... You guessed right. The logic this time around was... Just plug ur Powerbank there and save #50 meant for charging it at an aboki shop about 9 buildings, at the back of my office.
Me: makes sense, of course not like I am playing and I ain't staying.
Fast forward to 5pm. I spent the same amount to board a bus to the betshop- mr stupid.
Got there, said to myself this Powerbank isn't near half full, waited a while, before I know it the bet9ja vudu toasting got complete. Within the next 40 minutes, I had lost #11.500. A sum I couldn't boast of weekly... Point is if you nor wan eat, no go kitchen at all.



The very first happened 18 months ago when I lost all the money I charged the shop owner ( including my wallet money) to wire the Betshop.

One thing though I read from someone who was a bet addict, on quora.com. A white girl, the girl said there were some time she was on winning streak or loosing but strangely discovered that she remained sad not because she was loosing or winning but because her fingers were becoming numb from blisters and her eyes were becoming heavy with sleep.
She hated that nature had to take it's cause because eventually she fell asleep while she strongly "needed" to continue.
She stole, she did all sorts that gambling bring out in people. She lost severely. Depression engulfed her. At the time of her writing, she said she was going to come clean to her mother and sister who she felt are the only people on Earth who could attempt not to judge her much but try to help her.


To think that gambling is legalized ....sad


hmm.. I get your point. going there to charge phone can lead one to temptation. but what can we do? we see standby generator to power our phones and look away?

my area for example has been on blackout since February 2018
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Firstnebo: 2:19am On Nov 21, 2019
Sorry my dear. There are many people suffering addictions today.

I suggest you meet Jehovah's Witnesses for help to learn how the Bible can help you
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Nobody: 4:45am On Nov 21, 2019
Before reading the full posts, i knew it had to do with gambling addiction.
@op, you are not alone.
fight for what belongs to you bet9ja must pay you your money back. grin
as una no wan get sense.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:06am On Nov 21, 2019
I can't understand how gambling can become an addiction, it doesn't make sense to me. How can someone be addicted to something that renders him broke without quitting such habit fast? I feel gambling is carried out by people who got cash to spend.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by nuelyoyo(m): 3:56pm On Nov 21, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
I can't understand how gambling can become an addiction, it doesn't make sense to me. How can someone be addicted to something that renders him broke without quitting such habit fast? I feel gambling is carried out by people who got cash to spend.
Read up on the "sunk cost fallacy", you'll understand better.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:01pm On Nov 21, 2019
'' sunk cost fallacy''......is it a book?
nuelyoyo:
Read up on the "sunk cost fallacy", you'll understand better.
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by Martinez39(m): 4:14pm On Nov 21, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
'' sunk cost fallacy''......is it a book?
SMH.

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Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by midnighter(f): 4:22pm On Nov 21, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
I can't understand how gambling can become an addiction, it doesn't make sense to me. How can someone be addicted to something that renders him broke without quitting such habit fast? I feel gambling is carried out by people who got cash to spend.

Because they get hooked on the idea that they may win "next time" if they just keep trying, no matter how much money they waste
Re: I Have Lost My Sense Of Reasoning by nuelyoyo(m): 4:26pm On Nov 21, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
'' sunk cost fallacy''......is it a book?
No it's not, it's a term used in Economics, Sociology and other behavioural science studies. Just google it up, I am too lazy to type.

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