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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by uncjay(m): 10:13pm On Nov 22, 2019
Sukueponmalu:
Even though I don’t agree with that “women don’t have anything to offer apart from sex” thing.
I totally disagree with your assertion about engaging women in a intellectual/an intelligent discourse. These kind of discussions are boring to the average woman.
Trust me, I have tried it so many times.

God bless you for that... I have tried it too, Alas they are just bored. One even told how unsocial I am, that why is it that I have nothing important to discuss than education, science, business strategies..blah blah blah.... I was dumbfounded, what more could be important than the list above. that op is just saying something applicable to few reasonable girls.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:14pm On Nov 22, 2019
Bahddo:
why don't you implement those your business ideas? Does it have to be the guy who goes early to work and returns late?
I'm trying my best o, I'm a corper, I do home lesson and also waybill things such as yams to the west to have them sold for me. I was going to plant about 100 suckers but I heard it's too late so I've got to wait till February when it starts to rain, I would also love to buy rams from the north and have them reared in the west but no one to look after them so I've got to save enough money first to buil d a good shed for the rams and maybe two cows ( everything might cost me 200-250k), once I've saved enough money I'll do just that and from the proceeds I'd love to plant cocoa and some other things. I want to do more but I no fit do pass my power for now. BTW he writes better than I do that's why I helped him look for some sites ( he's really good at what he does) but truth is he's too busy for himself and that's why I'm willing to wait but we must never be too busy to progress.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by AstroG: 10:15pm On Nov 22, 2019
mistyebby:



As in eh, like men are not the new beggers and sex addicts in relationships.

They cheat, they cause you heart ache and still ask for money angry No wonder the increasing rate of jobless men. They want to take the feminine roles....Goodluck to them.



Rubbish undecided undecided

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by midnighter(f): 10:15pm On Nov 22, 2019
franchasng:
Nigerian women will rather die than help their boyfriends. Their mentality is always that if they help him, he will dump them.

But you cant deny that that actually happens sometimes.
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by AstroG: 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2019
OdefaGirl:




Am out of stock babe....



You where never in stock self undecided

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by midnighter(f): 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2019
tejiri4:


Smartness is not about bagging first class did mark Zuckerberg earn a first class. Funny post

But bagging a first class means you must have been smart, or what is the essence of degree classifications You're just being facile.

Mark Zuckerberg ko Michael Salzberg ni. He is not the only smart person in the world and his dropping out doesnt devalue other people's qualifications so stop typing inanities here.

Suddenly when it comes to noting female achievement you decided to remember Mark Zuckerberg...did he pay you to call his name here or what

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by GodAbeg5(m): 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2019
feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.
this is so true! Spot on, we have alot of brain dead girls around, who have let society define them. They have nothing more to offer, but have alot to gain from guys around them. When we shout feminism feminism, I just laugh because in this part of the world men, girls just love being second fiddle

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Mrshape: 10:18pm On Nov 22, 2019
UndauntedYOCA:
Some of us have sense but guys won't see that, I want to be my bf's peace, help him in whatever way he so desires. I have tried talking to him about side hustles such as business (trust me when I say I have business ideas), I help him look for other things that can fetch him money, one time like that I even dedicated a whole day to help him look for sites he could write for and earn extra cash, I told him about it, asked him to find out about them but he never got back to me. I'll want to tell him things he can do but he's always busy. Goes to work early and comes back late, barely even chats with me. Anyways she God will help us. Hope the sensible ones like us never get taken for granted.
Lol you want to kill your boyfriend?
Someone that goes to work in the morning and return late at night and don't have time for him self you are given him more work because you want more money, madam is it bad if you do the writing and he collects the money

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:18pm On Nov 22, 2019
MusaDanladi1:

Apparently he is either enjoying his job so much that he thinks that you ideas won't bring in as much as his salary is giving him monthly or he's just really really busy. grin
He doesn't enjoy his work at all because it's very stressful, he works as a banker undecided and it's not fun, he writes as well but he barely even has time to write but we must never be too busy to progress.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by franchasng: 10:19pm On Nov 22, 2019
midnighter:


But you cant deny that that actually happens sometimes.
ladies do it too, has it stopped guys from helping their girlfriends


Let's be honest, majority of Nigerian ladies are selfish, stingy, greedy and covetous in nature, only very insignificant few are exception.


Nigerian women are mostly good to their children and parents; those are the people that enjoy their selfless love and care, but to men, they are brutal and offer nothing aside sex in return for money, favor, job, help, marriage, etc

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by midnighter(f): 10:20pm On Nov 22, 2019
TheRedpillguy:

Yep but she is old thou. I wouldn't want to go near that ever. Except she is paying then am going to get wasted and do it under a dark room. God nooooo nope on second thought she can keep the money. No no no no no

I thought you had finally become sensible in that other post but I was expecting too much. What kind of stupid comment is this Do you think she has never been young? You, you no go old?
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:20pm On Nov 22, 2019
livebyday:


Rule2

Repeatedly abuses members
Inciting comment, off topic and derailing thread

Mynd44 Seun lalasticlala OAM4J


LMAO, you have been noticed, now buzz off.
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Oremeyii(f): 10:21pm On Nov 22, 2019
golddust6000:
Nigerian girl will want to visit you, she will ask for tfare if she is going tfare.
When she wan call you she go ask for airtime, when. Very useless set of girls, after akudo show me Pepe in 2015 since then I have stopped dating Nigerian girls. I don’t even look their face not to talk of approaching them.

Change "Nigerian girls" to "the girls I've met"

Very useless? I laugh in Spanish because I don't want to take dis as an insult, I'll just dispute ur rants. Every person on dis planet is useful in one way or another, either by exhaling gases for plants, or anything more complex, everyone is useful!
You don't look at their faces? Most of them wouldn't look at u either if they knew ur mentality

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by jaymorgan(m): 10:22pm On Nov 22, 2019
[quote author=Generallll post=84265604]You just don't want to come to terms with the reality MISS POSTER.
Nigerian ladies ve nothing to offer in a relationship!!!! Period.
Infact most ladies this days have no difference with those ladies at the brothels, they date you, give you sex and extort money from you, an average Nigerian lady has many boyfriends and she bleeps and extort money from them
The truth is bitter
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by MichaelSokoto(m): 10:23pm On Nov 22, 2019
Pettyprincess:
Are you minding them? Men attract ladies of their type,if your woman offer only sex in relationship then it obvious u also dnt offer nothing else aside sex!! Birds of the same feathers flock together!! Rubbish!!!
op, see wanof dem hia grin
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Dulcinea(f): 10:23pm On Nov 22, 2019
TheRedpillguy:

Feminist sometimes its best to understand that people have opinions, yes most of them are dumb. But you can't keep attacking everything head on with emotions all over the place. You can actually respond with love and show us how that is just rediculous and not true. If you are the president, you will lunch an invasion to a whole country if they say something you don't like. I can come here be bitter too, respond to u and call u names and we all end up enemies. Without the problem being solved. How can you show you are better when you sound exacly like that guy you are responding too? Mean this in the best way possible. If you are offended I apologize

you're right, I shouldn't have been harsh in my response. Thanks for the correction, I hope the others accept their mistakes too

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Christmasdon(m): 10:23pm On Nov 22, 2019
[quote author=victorian post=84278839]






I'm not attacking the Op, the Op said the right thing.

But comments coming up from Some guys here, is so appalling and I wonder why would any right thinking lady wish to even date these kind of guys?

They will suck her dry and empty her bank account all in the name of, what is a woman offering in a relationship. I see these comments every time on nairaland, what's a woman offering and it's becoming annoying.
Some men are no longer men, they are not ready to work. Even when they are working, they want zero responsibilities. All they just want is to keep fucvking different girls, day in, day out. Tasking the girls for food and money.

Haba! What kind of useless life is that?


I know how many guys I have blocked cos all they know how to chat bout is how's your night? have u eaten? What did u eat? Oh wow! U are e.
keep blocking them until u clock 40 Years.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by MedicH: 10:25pm On Nov 22, 2019
This statement is not always correct. most nigerian men are obsessed with sex, they so much love it they feel they can't do without it. As a result, a nigerian man goes into relationship with a girl only with the goal of having sex and nothing more. If the girl happens to be celibate, the rlship wont survive the next day. Some will stick with the decision because they only want to test the girl's ability to maintain her resolve against their gimmicks. This shows that nigerian men have placed a high premium on the vagina making it a gold mine and as a result, sex is the main selling point to any girl that wants to stay relevant.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 22, 2019
If you've been meeting Nigerian girls who had nothing to offer but sex , I would strongly advice that you check yourself first because you attract what you are .


It's also very foolish to generalize the whole Nigerian women which means all of your mothers, sisters and all female siblings you've ever known are empty with nothing to offer other than sex . It's best you'all make use of the word SOME OR MOST Nigerian women and not All Nigerian women.


You meet these girls who have no business ideas, no investment plans, no career paths and no dreams to offer other than sex because you senseless Nigerian men are always the ones after slay queens with the latest Brazillian Hair , breast , nyash , figure 8 and all . After looking in the wrong places and going after a woman for the wrong reasons , you pigs come out to cry foul of how they have nothing upstairs after you must have gotten sex which was what took you to the THING in the first place.

You all see the sensible ones everyday but you choose to ignore and go for the flashy things .

I have female friends with amazing intellectual acumen when it comes to businesses , investments and life in general but their problems are that most Naija man they meet these days are only interested in sex and nothing more . They tell me how frustrated they get cuz even when they try to strike up a reasonable convo , the guys would keep saying " babe you too hot , babe your Ukwu dey drive me nuts , babe this ! Babe that ! Yeah !!!!

So it's vice versa . Both genders are guilty of this. So you shameless guys should quit cursing Nigerian women at every slightest chance you get and work on yourselves too.

All Nigerian women are whores, agreed !!! Including all your mothers and sisters .


Change your circle of women and you will find out that we have Nigerian women with intellect and mind blowing ideas as well . As a matter of fact , some are living it already .

If you keep meeting this type of women , then you are empty yourself .

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by AstroG: 10:27pm On Nov 22, 2019
Even a Celebrity talk am Say Naija girls na hoes,na Just God dy look for us(we men)

Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by PyriteBoss: 10:27pm On Nov 22, 2019
feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.
Guy,you are very wise ,for flesh and blood has not revealed this to you......oh Nigerian ladies are a very lazy,greedy and terrible lot sad

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Organs(m): 10:29pm On Nov 22, 2019
rtdCivilservant:

So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.


What she is saying is, Garbage in, Garbage out. A guy that says a woman has nothing to offer but sex, means all the guy has to offer is sex.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by LINTUNE(m): 10:29pm On Nov 22, 2019
feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.
sad truth
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by NaijaDonCast(m): 10:29pm On Nov 22, 2019
feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.
you over nailed it
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by AstroG: 10:29pm On Nov 22, 2019
Classyuniquebae:
If you've been meeting Nigerian girls who had nothing to offer but sex , I would strongly advice that you check yourself first because you attract what you are .


It's also very foolish to generalize the whole Nigerian women which means all of your mothers, sisters and all female siblings you've ever known are empty with nothing to offer other than sex . It's best you'all make use of the word SOME OR MOST Nigerian women and not All Nigerian women.


You meet these girls who have no business ideas, no investment plans, no career paths and no dreams to offer other than sex because you senseless Nigerian men are always the ones after slay queens with the latest Brazillian Hair , breast , nyash , figure 8 and all . After looking in the wrong places and going after a woman for the wrong reasons , you pigs come out to cry foul of how they have nothing upstairs after you must have gotten sex which was what took you to the THING in the first place.

You all see the sensible ones everyday but you choose to ignore and go for the flashy things .

I have female friends with amazing intellectual acumen when it comes to businesses , investments and life in general but their problems are that most Naija man they meet these days are only interested in sex and nothing more . They tell me how frustrated they get cuz even when they try to strike up a reasonable convo , the guys would keep saying " babe you too hot , babe your Ukwu dey drive me nuts , babe this ! Babe that ! Yeah !!!!

So it's vice versa . Both genders are guilty of this. So you shameless guys should quit cursing Nigerian women at every slightest chance you get and work on yourselves too.

All Nigerian women are whores, agreed !!! Including all your mothers and sisters .


Change your circle of women and you will find out that we have Nigerian women with intellect and mind blowing ideas as well . As a matter of fact , some are living it already .

If you keep meeting this type of women , then you are empty yourself .




Classical rubbish cry

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Nature8(m): 10:30pm On Nov 22, 2019
lavylilly:
Greetings to you all.

I have a disturbing thought I'd like to share. Recently, i stumbled on a video which had a caption "Apart from sex, women have nothing to offer in a relationship."

I totally disagree with this.

I am not disagreeing as a feminist. I am disagreeing as a sane woman.

In as much as a lot of women folks are guilty of the caption charged against them, i think the male folks should also be blamed as an encouraging factor to this.

Gentleman, apart from calling her to come over to your place for the weekend, have her wash your clothes, keep your house clean and have massive sex. Have you tried to engage her in an intellectual/an intelligent discourse?

Apart from drilling that hole, have you tried to drill and extract her God given potentials from her?

Have you tried to discuss your dreams and aspirations with her and see how she fits in by suggesting ideas that would contribute positively to your dreams?

Apart from taking her to the club and have countless sit outs, have you ever taken her for seminars and workshops?

These are questions a lot of male folks are guilty of.

It takes two to tangle. Until you give her room to show you her potentials, you will never see her showcasing it.

The reason why she gives you just sex is because that is the only thing you require all the time from her ever since you both met.

Require more than sex, and then you will see her come out in her fullness.

(c) Precious Pearls


undecided
Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 22, 2019
content208:


Any woman that sees the man as a means to get money does not deserve honor


I completely agree with you only if the man does not see the woman as a means of sexually satisfying himself , then your statement would be justified .

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by clems88(m): 10:31pm On Nov 22, 2019
Well I would say it depends on the kinda woman u have. Not all women are the same.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by wisdomkid: 10:31pm On Nov 22, 2019
feelz:
90% of Nigeria girls are not interested in such conversation, people that dont even know basic stuff as the governor of there state down to knowing what's just going on around. They derive pleasure in watching soap opera's, having unproductive discussion and using emotional way to get money from guys. I can go on and on listing. Nigerian girls have a very long way to go.


If the girls are that clueless as you portray, then something is certainly WRONG with the men (their fathers and Boyfriends). I can't have a girlfriend where we can have a strong agreement or disagreement on politics, sports, etc.

I've discussed politics and aspiration with Women and their f**king intelligent. Maybe angry sad you're staying around the wrong women or the women you grew up with are basically just drilling holes. Most f**king guys are stupid too, they know nothing. Stop with the generalization and gender biase against ladies.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by golddust6000(m): 10:32pm On Nov 22, 2019
Oremeyii:


Change "Nigerian girls" to "the girls I've met"

Very useless? I laugh in Spanish because I don't want to take dis as an insult, I'll just dispute ur rants. Every person on dis planet is useful in one way or another, either by exhaling gases for plants, or anything more complex, everyone is useful!
You don't look at their faces? Most of them wouldn't look at u either if they knew ur mentality
sorry, I have similar situation with my friends and guys on naira land. So I can categorically say most Nigerian girls are not worthy to date.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by MrPaul2: 10:33pm On Nov 22, 2019
Deja93:
My girlfriend is from cape town South Africa and she’s a miner she’s been my backbone financially and morally for a while now trust me I’ve met Nigerian girls in the past they’re a disgrace to their womanhood

*spits* angry
Tell us the truth, you are only taking advantage of her because of what you get from her. Just get a job that can take care of you very well now, that's when you will know our girls means the world to you.

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Re: "Apart From Sex, Women Have Nothing To Offer In A Relationship." by Organs(m): 10:33pm On Nov 22, 2019
AstroG:
Even a Celebrity talk am Say Naija girls na hoes,na Just God dy look for us(we men)


Most guys that talk like you are actually Broloshos as well. It takes an ashawo broda to recognize an ashawo sister. In conclusion, bros, you, AstroG dey follow only ashawo.

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