₦airaland Forum

Mrpsly247:
Go and tell this to the people living in Niger sokoto and zamfara.. Everybody's now automatically a life coach..

vincentjk:
We node

freemi:
wel u need to test 1st b4 thnkin of marrying ha

djoe21:
I know a study that says the closer in age a couple is, the longer their marriages will last. Although, I don't really dwell on such cos there so many things to consider when it comes to such statistical studies.

Omoluabi16:
37 is a bit on the high side now.

midnighter:
Yeah. It's the upper limit.

Omoluabi16:
40 and above nko?

midnighter:
What about them? You were the one saying it was on the high side and now you're talking about 40+.

Aren't you just answering your own comment?

Fountainofyouth:
I know of a 40 year old married man that is not matured at all, not even small, na only book e get for head, nothing again, and people tell him that with instances o, but he wouldn't listen, I dey always pity the wife, that's why I tell people being intelligent is so much better than being brilliant.

midnighter:
33-37 is perfect marriageable age for a man

pocohantas:
It is obvious you are U33. They are always trying to form smart, whining, bickering and bringing up petty arguments from nowhere.

They can give you massive headache in record time. Gosh!!!!

engrelvis:
l read no 4 with a smile because dats so true

vincentjk:
Really? Any experience pls where with me

pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guys is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts . I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.

pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guys is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts . I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.

Fountainofyouth:
You asked a stupid question and I refused to answer means I'm throwing emotional tantrums? Who wrote a long epistle here and ended it "god dammit" as seen below? Who is going emotional out of me and you here?




Get a life pls

pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guy is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts . I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.

vincentjk:
I've no problem with her being older than me nor the tribe difference. The problem is my mum and family

Btw she told me she isn't in a hurry to marry else I wouldn't be considering this at all

Newguyhere:
gbam! you just said it.
And the funny thing is even those women claiming 25 are in most cases lying about their age. All of them are old cargos, it's only make up and push up bras nah im dey hide the sorry state of their body

Steezz:
There could be some truth in it. The way me and my wife play ehn. She can slap my head, say things like sharrap or oga are u high? Lool. Of course it's all bants (only when we are alone though) and it makes us bond more. If the age gap was massive I don't think all that would be possible.

djoe21:
Good to know you are enjoying your marriage. I pray it continues till death do you part.

Aboguede:
That is it. Your mum and family will not accept her as you say. Why not distance your self from her now cox she is just saying those things cox of you and u know it.

Wht do u mean she said she is not in a hurry to marry but she is maybe 27 or above

If she is ur sister at that age and said that she is not in a hurry to marry, will you be happy with her? When you know that men in Nigeria don't usually like to take ladies above 30 for marriage

Listen my friend I know you find her as easy sex partner and that is all. As time goes on since you are not ready to marry now, you will eventually see that she is too old for you considering there are many younger girls available.

This is how a person invites evil into his life

"To be forewarned is to be foreharm" as the saying goes


Just start keeping ur distance now!

Gerrard59:
Why did he give birth to FIVE children? People should please make informed decisions. You cannot be a civil servant/military personnel who started having children from the age of 50 yet gave birth to FIVE children. How is that anyone's fault?

Cutehector:
marry early so that you will see your grand children and great grandchildren!

Cutehector:
because you lack wisdom

Fountainofyouth:
I am very much highly special, deal with it, you quoted me first, so you have to stop quoting first too.