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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 23, 2019
Mrpsly247:

Go and tell this to the people living in Niger sokoto and zamfara.. Everybody's now automatically a life coach..

grin grin grin grin

What language do they speak, I will tell them!
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by freemi(m): 9:17am On Nov 23, 2019
vincentjk:

We node
wel u need to test 1st b4 thnkin of marrying ha
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by vincentjk(m): 9:28am On Nov 23, 2019
freemi:
wel u need to test 1st b4 thnkin of marrying ha

Why! To test what exactly?

I'm only asking to know
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Steezz(m): 9:33am On Nov 23, 2019
djoe21:


I know a study that says the closer in age a couple is, the longer their marriages will last. Although, I don't really dwell on such cos there so many things to consider when it comes to such statistical studies.
There could be some truth in it. The way me and my wife play ehn. She can slap my head, say things like sharrap or oga are u high? Lool. Of course it's all bants (only when we are alone though) and it makes us bond more. If the age gap was massive I don't think all that would be possible.

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by midnighter(f): 9:38am On Nov 23, 2019
Omoluabi16:
37 is a bit on the high side now.

Yeah. It's the upper limit.
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:42am On Nov 23, 2019
midnighter:

Yeah. It's the upper limit.
40 and above nko?
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by midnighter(f): 9:51am On Nov 23, 2019
Omoluabi16:
40 and above nko?

What about them? You were the one saying it was on the high side and now you're talking about 40+.

Aren't you just answering your own comment?
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by starstaz(m): 10:01am On Nov 23, 2019
This discussion has exposed the inherent intellectualism in average Nigerians. I love the the back and forth display of ideas generated along. This generation could also create a new force of thinking on this subject matters. That said.


To be candid, the Nigeria of today is capable of dislocating clear cut ideas on when a man should settle down to form his family. On account of myriads of problems making simple decisions in otherwise civilize society absolute complex on our shores. At this present times.


Taking answers to the what is wrong in U 33 man, Absolutely nothing is wrong. The decision to both male and female still settle on individualism and personality and perceptions. All of these are also heavily influenced by experience, environment and (E)diosyncracies.

This discuss has a multi prongs attach to it and there is no definite answers.

What works for taiye may not for kehinde and vice versa.

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Omoluabi16(m): 10:17am On Nov 23, 2019
midnighter:


What about them? You were the one saying it was on the high side and now you're talking about 40+.

Aren't you just answering your own comment?
oh.. understood now.
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by baratech: 10:24am On Nov 23, 2019
Just reading comments

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by worriedguy(m): 10:24am On Nov 23, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



I know of a 40 year old married man that is not matured at all, not even small, na only book e get for head, nothing again, and people tell him that with instances o, but he wouldn't listen, I dey always pity the wife, that's why I tell people being intelligent is so much better than being brilliant.
what's the difference between intelligent and Brilliant??

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Cutehector(m): 10:28am On Nov 23, 2019
midnighter:
33-37 is perfect marriageable age for a man
marry early so that you will see your grand children and great grandchildren!
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by MiddleDimension: 10:33am On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:


It is obvious you are U33. They are always trying to form smart, whining, bickering and bringing up petty arguments from nowhere.

They can give you massive headache in record time. Gosh!!!!

it is a question i asked. i only want you to show me how that statement is true.

and your response to me just proved your theory to be faulty. i only asked for an explanation, but you got pissed off. how emotionally mature is that?
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by pocohantas(f): 10:34am On Nov 23, 2019
engrelvis:
l read no 4 with a smile because dats so true

Yea and very common too.
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by KingWarri: 10:51am On Nov 23, 2019
vincentjk:


Really? Any experience pls where with me
Make known ur intentions.... You will be surprised that She might be waiting for you to say it....
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guys is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts grin. I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.


Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 11:56am On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guys is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts grin. I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.



Wow! I'm reading ur comment for d first time on NL. No 4 is d real thing. My neighbor (40) does that to his wife (24) all d time. Nice analysis!

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 12:06pm On Nov 23, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



You asked a stupid question and I refused to answer means I'm throwing emotional tantrums? Who wrote a long epistle here and ended it "god dammit" as seen below? Who is going emotional out of me and you here?




Get a life pls

Pity d guy na! The insults pain am. If to say this fit see u face to face eh, asuweh him go pinch u...
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Twoclans(f): 1:32pm On Nov 23, 2019
pocohantas:
Nothing is wrong with a man U-33, but I will tell you the advantage of an above 33 man or what most ladies look out for in them (and older men in general)

1. Financial stability: I put this first because it is (one of) the most important attraction. If you are old without money, one would wonder what you were doing in your youth.

2. Emotional maturity: The average woman is more emotionally mature than a guy her age. She has to look further to find a balance- MOST times. A guy has all the time to be stupid and if he decides to be stupid for life, there will be a woman for him. Women have to get sense on time, she has a biological clock to watch and most men do not have that fix-it mentality.

3. Older guys are more chilled: Age, experience and more money to their pockets has taught them to take life jeje. They don't get angry unnecessarily over petty issues like younger guys who see everything as a bruise on their fragile egos.

4. They are more caring, maybe fascinated by your juvenile displays. Those things you will do that makes the younger guy go all red-pilled, the older guy will tell you sorry, just carry your wahala dey go. He looks at you as a child, with that smile on his face.

5. They are most times not scared of looking weak or not in control. Unlike younger guys who seek validation from their fellow younglings, thus acting like you both are in a power tussle. An older guy is a man all by himself, he would allow you- but never mistake this act for stupidity, he is very well watching and calculating.

6. If you really wanna tap into wealth of experience/knowledge, then an older guy is your best bet. They witnessed Abacha's regime with clear eyes, they saw Yakubu miss that goal- he is like your History teacher. Also, his friends will most likely be his age group, some of their gfs would even be older than you- that is if you are really young. Except you are a bimbo, you will be on your toes to upgrade, that way you don't look stupid at their hangouts grin. I can't say the same thing for younger guys who just sit around, talking about ASUU strike, sex and Nigerian girls.

7. Oh! Their voice! It gets deeper and subtly assertive as they age. When they talk, they exude this confidence and masculinity. It isn't forced, read off a book or some alfa male code. You just can't miss it.

...etc

There are exceptions, but on the average, there is really no comparison. We get finer with age, all things being equal.




Queen Poco you could not have said it any better.This is spot on .

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Aboguede(m): 2:02pm On Nov 23, 2019
That is it. Your mum and family will not accept her as you say. Why not distance your self from her now cox she is just saying those things cox of you and u know it.

Wht do u mean she said she is not in a hurry to marry but she is maybe 27 or above

If she is ur sister at that age and said that she is not in a hurry to marry, will you be happy with her? When you know that men in Nigeria don't usually like to take ladies above 30 for marriage

Listen my friend I know you find her as easy sex partner and that is all. As time goes on since you are not ready to marry now, you will eventually see that she is too old for you considering there are many younger girls available.

This is how a person invites evil into his life

"To be forewarned is to be foreharm" as the saying goes


Just start keeping ur distance now!


vincentjk:


I've no problem with her being older than me nor the tribe difference. The problem is my mum and family

Btw she told me she isn't in a hurry to marry else I wouldn't be considering this at all
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Slimsly100(f): 3:14pm On Nov 23, 2019
Newguyhere:
gbam! you just said it.
And the funny thing is even those women claiming 25 are in most cases lying about their age. All of them are old cargos, it's only make up and push up bras nah im dey hide the sorry state of their body grin

Savage!!!!




But true cool
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by djoe21(m): 3:52pm On Nov 23, 2019
Steezz:
There could be some truth in it. The way me and my wife play ehn. She can slap my head, say things like sharrap or oga are u high? Lool. Of course it's all bants (only when we are alone though) and it makes us bond more. If the age gap was massive I don't think all that would be possible.

Good to know you are enjoying your marriage. I pray it continues till death do you part.
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Steezz(m): 4:59pm On Nov 23, 2019
djoe21:


Good to know you are enjoying your marriage. I pray it continues till death do you part.
Amen. Many thanks.

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Godiloveu(f): 5:52pm On Nov 23, 2019
What if they married early n no kids early nko! Abeg God time is the best
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Hannania(m): 6:16pm On Nov 23, 2019
It's all about purpose, below 30 is cool

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by vincentjk(m): 7:20pm On Nov 23, 2019
Aboguede:
That is it. Your mum and family will not accept her as you say. Why not distance your self from her now cox she is just saying those things cox of you and u know it.

Wht do u mean she said she is not in a hurry to marry but she is maybe 27 or above

If she is ur sister at that age and said that she is not in a hurry to marry, will you be happy with her? When you know that men in Nigeria don't usually like to take ladies above 30 for marriage

Listen my friend I know you find her as easy sex partner and that is all. As time goes on since you are not ready to marry now, you will eventually see that she is too old for you considering there are many younger girls available.

This is how a person invites evil into his life

"To be forewarned is to be foreharm" as the saying goes


Just start keeping ur distance now!



Ok thanks for your warm advice, makes sense a lot but we are not having sex tho. We never did
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Raalsalghul: 7:46pm On Nov 23, 2019
Gerrard59:


Why did he give birth to FIVE children? People should please make informed decisions. You cannot be a civil servant/military personnel who started having children from the age of 50 yet gave birth to FIVE children. How is that anyone's fault?

Please ask him.

Thanks.

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Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Raalsalghul: 7:55pm On Nov 23, 2019
Cutehector:
marry early so that you will see your grand children and great grandchildren!

Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Cutehector(m): 11:34pm On Nov 23, 2019
[quote author=Raalsalghul post=84304269][/quote]because you lack wisdom
Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Raalsalghul: 11:39pm On Nov 23, 2019
Cutehector:
because you lack wisdom

Re: What's Wrong With A Man Under 33? by Trueyarn(m): 5:04am On Nov 24, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



I am very much highly special, deal with it, you quoted me first, so you have to stop quoting first too.

You guys would make a nice couple... You should link up... 9 outta 10 times, stuff like this happens when there's subliminal attraction. wink

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