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pamelaayomide:
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

young lady chat Falana privately or Chidi Odinkalu, they maybe of immense help
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Good Evening nairalanders.
I warmly appreciate all the emails and best wishes to me on this sad incident.

I have been receiving mails even to this since I wrote my sad story of blackmail and threat here.
The outpouring of concerns to help me is overwhelming.

So I want to use this medium to plead to you guys and the intending ones that were touched and feel like helping should pls don't DM me.
My privacy is disturbed.

A nairalander who is a lawyer has offer to take it legally with and is doing it pro bo no(FOC).

Once I again I sincerely appreciate those that have DM me to help from the bottom of my heart.
I love you all.

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

hanhan!

pamelaayomide:
The mails flooding my inbox is too much.
If you want to help be sincere about it pls.
I won't like to give out information that will now be used against me.
Who knows if my ex is reading all these.
Pls if you want to help me be sincere and honest about it pls.

Thank you.

ok this is my piece and I don’t usually do this.....but it seems you’re really helpless at the moment so instead of judging you and casting aspersions like some other guys have done on here....I think it’s best to help you find a solution first before tongue lashing cos obviously you kinda brought upon yourself but that’s not important and second I find discomforting and disconcerting when guys take undue advantage of girls especially drugging abd getting them drunk I find it really annoying and low....btw the guys you hang around are quite immature and infantile,they’re irresponsible and lowlifers....you can pm Me btw Watch out for the people reaching out to you right now some are just time wasters and clowns and some might just be trying to mock you and bringing you down the more so it’s better you don’t chat with anyone with a number that can be traced to you who knows your bf and your druggee and rapist might have seen this and taken too steps ahead of you....cos it’s quite easy to connect the dots unless the funaab 300 level car party and bf is just pseudo people who know bout this would definitely discern.....lastly if you get yourself out of this mess....try to live and do better and stop endangering yourself!btw what’s the age of the two guys involved and are they of any means influential?connected or rich background?or they’re just the typical and regular lowlifers?and you didn’t say much about the supposed rapist and videotaper,why is that tho?send me a Pm let’s get you some help there are bout 3-4 ways your issue can be arranged or dealt with which is still within legal means.Takecare?

Come let us reason together.

Madam you're not telling us the truth.

(1) You have clique, meaning you are not the nice type (you flirt a lot)

(2) You wrote that the guy took advantage of your drunkenness. And you didn't confront him after the act. Meaning you consented to the act. I can tell the truth from angle 90 that the guy did not stop digging you after day.

(3) Your boyfriend came threatening you with a video of you and the guy but you never went back to the guy to question him. Meaning you are aware of the video, you only wonder how it get to your boyfriend's hand.

(4) In your write up, your anger and threat is being directed to only your boyfriend. Meaning you don't want the guy that have sex with you to be in trouble. On the other hand you like the guy, its only unfortunate things have to go down this way.

(5) You mentioned using dreaded cultist against your boyfriend. Hmmmmm, so you even know the dreaded cultist in your school. Meaning you are not the innocent type.

I can bring out 100 points from what you wrote to show you are not telling the truth.

Now let's go again
(1) Your boyfriend might be reading this and you know what that means
(2) The boy you claimed had sexx with in your drunken state might also be reading this.
(3) You've just added fuel to already burning fire.


With these just knee down let me pray for your safety in that school.

The fear of Babcock student is what makes you bring this to us.
The threat from your boyfriend didn't start today.

The only advice I have for you is; report yourself to the security and please tell them nothing but the truth.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

I really feel for you.
There are people on Twitter that will be willing to help you. Especially with cases such as this...

Try and put this story on Twitter just as you have explained here.
If all things go well, the two bastards will be on the run for the rest of their lives.

NaijaDonCast:
the best way is to trace and threaten the rapist guy of charges in connection with felony, breach of privacy and conspiracy, by so your fiancee will see he will also go in for it, because how come he got the tape if they don't mutually know each other

Let him know that there are laws against pornography. If he uploads it on the internet, he will be arrested for distribution of pornography under the Cybercrime Prevention and Prohibition Act 2015.
Get a good lawyer and get him arrested for harassment and threats to life. Let him spend 3 days behind bars, first. And let him know that a worse fate awaits him, if he dared to upload it.

makydebbie:
Shut up, flexing around is a necessity. You this sanctimonious hypocrite.

hmmmmm, mind you, one can't combine studies with flexing, I didn't flex during my time, so am not an hypocrite, infact you are the one who's an hypocrite.

CyberWolf:
Of course she knows very well, forget all these her crocodile tears here seeking public sympathy.

and many guys here are falling for the manipulation, they're already trying to be all mancho in her defense, pft whats the definition of asslickers.

GrabHisBalls:
There's nothing wrong in flexing. I think it's a good thing provided one's academics doesn't suffer but the story up there was made up. She should just say she has a sex tape with someone and scared of the unknown than typing all that implausible tale to justify whatever her intents were.

Flexing is very wrong o, what if she's pregnant in the process, what will she tell her parents, her parents will surely tell her if they sent her to school to flex, and mind you if the guy uploads the video, her academics maybe affected, and what can you say for the lady that was expelled recently for flexing? I understand your point.

Someone advised that you should relate the matter to your school security......in my own opinion that is the best idea. You would laugh last. Feel free to watsapp this number for more insight on this. He shall not succeed. 08063297966

DanXplore:
1. Stop playing victim, the truth is you are a very loose and wayward girl with no class as evident by the class of friends you keep.There is a very high correlation between waywardness and drunkeness. You would not have been "raped" if you stayed away from these.

2. You padded the story. Alot of evidences show that you actually permitted the guy to have sex with you and you enjoyed it but is now playing victim because of a threat to release the video. Reason is that you were careful not to call the sexual act rape, meaning that deep within you you know it was consensual. How you managed to go to the dude's car for the act suggests consensuallity. Why didn't you confront the guy that fvcked earlier?

I really hope he does not destroy your dignity by releasing that tape but you must take responsibility for what ever the case may be. You are one of the reasons most guys these days are determined to marry only virgins. I am sure this padded story that is filled with lies is what you will tell your prospective husband.

Plenty sense in one comment!

Inteltower:
and see see you jumping into conclusions as well.
Mr know all.
give the lady a break. and try to see the story clearly

look at the asslicker, abeg get the fvck out. Someone said she was raped and you don’t care about arresting the rapist but the innocent boyfriend that is hurting. Let her get the rapist arrested first let start from there.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Contact Segalinks on Twitter. He'll help you pro bono.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yimu

It's what I want now.

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

Oh, you're still a student: But, you know how to have multiple sex!

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Report him to Police and get an UNDERTAKING from him to be of behaviour immediately.

you're a hoe and an olosho.
deal with it and if e pain u take sniper.
ewu gambia shey na the school wey your poor parents dey suffer dey sponsor u be that.
anuofia

greatermeme:
Oh, you're still a student: But, you know how to have multiple sex!

Go to hell.
No one is above mistake.

EmptyCoconutHead:
you're a hoe and an olosho.
deal with it and if e pain u take sniper.
ewu gambia shey na the school wey your poor parents dey suffer dey sponsor u be that.
anuofia

Back to sender.
Stupidity runs in you.

It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.


Dm me , my dad owns one of the reputable law firm in Lagos, I can hook you up with a lawyer

pamelaayomide:
Go to hell.
No one is above mistake.

It's only a f00l that will give you a piece of advice! For me, what comes around, goes around. fast-moving legs are always watched by fast-moving eyes. I just pity your future husband who doesn't know about your dirty past! You deserve no pity! That guy should go ahead and set the internet ablaze. I need to see the video!

pamelaayomide:
Back to sender.
Stupidity runs in you.

I can see you're not ready to receive help.
and it's because it this your bad character that is why you're having problems everywhere.
I pray he uploads it and if I see him I'll give him a reasonable amount of money and get the video and upload it sharparly to porn hub.
the fact is you're a disgrace to your parents.
you're the black sheep of the family.
and I'm quite sure you're grades are poor in school.
itiboribo

If I believe this narrative make I bend. I believe she edited the whole story in her favour and you guys are so blind to it. There are two sides to this story, maybe more but this story reeks of falacy.

i will be of great help to you. i have sent you a DM. reply me with the full name and department of that your wicked boyfriend.[/quote].Nairalanders I am actuaI am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together.

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he w

Kaycee54321:
Will this work for BuBu?

Did Bubu rape you?

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kay4kay:
Let me put the story like this

You had sex
It was recorded
You heard about the Babcock story
Fear of expulsion and shame


Please tell us the truth

At last someone else is seeing things differently, women will always claim they were drunk or forced.
If she's a good girl why would she even get drunk especially in the midst of people you are not familiar with? Why get drunk by the way?
People are even proud sleeping with someone who isn't their mate and see nothing wrong with it even when they are in school to learn.
And for her to also talk about involving cultists shows the type of person she is, she was only being played and she is looking for how to

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

I pray he leaks it to the world and your parent esp can see how loose your pucci is and how dumb you are.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

No woman, I repeat, no woman, deserves to be treated this way. we make mistakes. but blackmailing is a no no. You also made a mistake by keeping it to yourself. I also believe it for a good reason. we need to start making example of misogynist that dressed like real men. I believe your boyfriend case will send message to a lot of other guys that believed in trashing women.

Dear op, just as the FTC said, get a lawyer and drop the bomb yourself. He will regret his misguided and conceived thoughts and action very soon.

You can also reach out to @sagelink on twitter, dude is ever ready to take up cases like this to justice. Don't be scared, else he will take advantage of you. He (that your so called boyfriend) is a coward.

here is a link to his pinned tweet. click to view his profile, follow him if you haven't, send DM to him. he will reply you in time.

https://twitter.com/segalink/status/1143021465924775939?s=19
Good luck.

[quote author=healthserve post=84298539]Maybe others will help

I've vowed to be unhelpful even in the face of death of a Nairalander. Sorry, its all about the game, not you. Don't take it personal
You stupid,ur post it's irrelevant,u had better off kept mute...

Viicfuntop:
Just tell us you watch law series. You could have just dropped the meaning there.

I don't watch law movie series. I used to be in & out of sh!t so I had to get a personal lawyer but b4 then, a pro bono was at my service.
A pro bono is a legal work done by a reputable law firm without asking for payment. They do that as service to humanity such AIT (advert for sick people), hospital (tuberculosis, HIV). Be confident and go and ask. You'll be surprised