LaGersona:


Still on your experience at your church.
There's nothing about spiritual husband or wife. It's invested by the leaders.
When you say someone has spiritual husband or wife. What is the person personally? "Every human are not just human being, we are spiritual being having human experience".
The only issue about us is that we've not discovered our potential and still seek from those you have discovered their potential or those who pretend to have discovered their potential.
There might be some situation which requires spiritual intervention for instance SPELL but most of our problems are caused by self and can also be solve by self. Also, our energy, emotion, blockage, grounded or non grounded, amongst others also determine our life experience.
If you doubt me about this pastor's things. Just meet the pastor personally or refer someone to him/her to discuss about your or the persons situation and see what the end result would be.
So, the level our spirituality also differ that's the reason you would see some in this forum saying they don't believe in God or Spirituality and some been stuck on religion or practices of all sort and would not want to look outside the box on different dimension of physical and spiritual understanding.
We are here to evolve and learn new things about the universe and nature and not given out our energy for others to use.

LaGersona:


Boss, I didn't say I won't support but it won't be as what I'd wish for. She go get wetin wife dey get but other benefits no go go to her.
Regarding churches and testimonies, some testimonies are usually false and some of the people given testimonies thinks there problems are spiritual or have been resolve.
When I was into church things, I testified about how God has solved my problems and pastors take glory but las las some problem still dey.
Also, I've written to a pastor who has more than a thousand member every Sunday service about my problems expecting him to announce (which he usually do to some) and give solution. Till today I never see anything. He even blocked me to avoid reaching him.
No be only him o, different pastors with their flaws way I don experience.
Most of us facing challenges are either caused by self or via SPELL.(there are solutions to this)
You may need a spiritual leader but a leader who could not show you how to DIY is not really helping you.
We are more powerful than most of the so called pastors or religious leader but we depend on them without thinking on how to improve ourselves and explore our knowledge

elonize:
we are spiritual being experiencing human nature ,correct ..n der are forces (good n evil around us).listen Helen okpabio confession, u go understand say dis life too wide ...I don't know if u have seen churches were spiritual husband Or wife affects their life,even strong man...don't doubt this...there are man made problems n der r human made problems... Those onces we can solve..d other one,we need deliverance from God.
As for dose earthworms claiming there's no God are just been misled..let them continue... After all those who have ears let dem hear

elonize:
hahahhahahahahah,guy u dey make me laugh o"las las e still dey".
Fake testimony dey,n real onces also dey.
If I c a real church,I will know,if I c fakie,I will know
We run to dem cos of high ordinance, its been der right from time...we have moses,Elijah n co.its their calling to lead a congregation

We also can say n pray positive into our lives but der are somethings ehn...guy u go need ur spiritual head to pray for u
As for those pastors u wrote to...other men of God dey around u,genuine ones...I hope if u c a fake church,u go know ?

elonize:
she was giving u custom love na

elonize:
true,but some mugu still dey do d spending

emmaodet:



Very stingy set of people.
God forbid bad thing.

uncjay:


I guess your perspective is beclouded, to think all we do is get serious all the time. And your mention doesn't relate with the op comment. so what's your point?

franchasng:
men follow what women fancy, or what majority of women fancy.






How many Nigerian ladies would agree to have a date at a garden where she won't order drinks, fried rice, shawarma, goat head, pizza, cold stone, etc

franchasng:





They are more interested on how to dress or walk or talk or move to get a rich guy that will be squandering money on them; me I love it oh, in fact, I am a fan of it but let's be honest, Nigerian ladies are interested in men for the below reasons:

1.) Money
2.) Gifts(phones, laptops, cars, houses, etc)
3.) House rent
4.) School fees
5.) Upkeep money
6.) Free vacation

lefulefu:
Do we have gardens or natural spots in nigeria? everywhere has been done with cement and tiles nau.the only pleasure spots we have in nigeria are the fastfood joints and as for naija ladies hassling guys for sharwama ,chicken and suya u cant blame them since hunger is real in naija.maybe if food in naija was much cheaper and affordable then chicken and sharwama for no dey freak them .

purples25:


in abuja theres millenium park. People enter for free. There are places, but just like nigerian films, people think couples fun is only good and classy when both of you sit at a table eating rice, salad and chicken.

what about art galleries, what about places you can go, just spend no more than hundred or two hundred, cant they look at animals in the zoo,laugh and talk, joke, go home. Are there no places than restaurants ? Na wa o

purples25:




what about art galleries, what about places you can go, just spend no more than hundred or two hundred, cant they look at animals in the zoo,laugh and talk, joke, go home. Are there no places than restaurants ? Na wa o

purples25:


in abuja theres millenium park. People enter for free. o

lefulefu:
like i said before its because of the poverty level in nigeria that ppl are always interested in filling their stomach .for here chicken is cheap and most ppl u see in KFC over here are mostly carpenters,drivers and other blue collar workers who are just returning from the day"s job and looking for a bite in the fastfood joint .but sadly in nigeria when u go to mr biggs,kfc, and others u regarded as a bigboy and when u buy fried chicken dem go dey hail u dat u dey enjoy .for here chicken its like u eating garri and groundnut .na im be the most common meat over here.the one dat is a little costly is fish.

lefulefu:
ehn seriously?

purples25:


honestly i always hated myself and other nigerians for this mentality. Imagine, people will be dressing like they are going to see the queen to enter ordinary eatery, including me. It irks me, somewhere that should be so ordinary, you are a rich man once you step in. If you dress very casual and laid back then you are a wannabe trying to fit in .

lefulefu:
do we still have animals in our zoos?? pray say some ppl never eat some of the animals and sell the remainder for blackmarket to chinese merchants and as for art galleries since when have u seen the average nigerian loving art .

purples25:


see places to go o, that will make life more interesting. As for the zoos, i just feel bad for the animals, lion go turn to cat. We need to widen our scope as people, i love art and will try to see more of it. Seriously you no longer feel like you're in a box of 'dress up eat and come home/work' when you discover the vast array of things you can do. There are beautiful places to play even board games, see fine things etc. How about reading novels, talking about them, drawing each other on paper, going hiking together,etc. Anyway, these are just ideas o.

lefulefu:
thats naija for u .except i am coming from somewhere but then if na from my home i wan go buy somethin from shopping mall i just wear my three quater with T shirt then my backpark.i cant be dressing up like someone going to the party nau .shoppingmall is no different from open air market..all na market

lefulefu:
the stress and insecurity in naija wont make ppl relax and do all these things u listed.but taking a stroll in the garden or going to the zoo can be cool but unfortunately all these things are dying in naija.nowardays na d guy to take the girl to mr biggs to eat fry chicken and sharwama and after dat he go hang her for bed

Juliearth:




It hurts that you have to generalize your analogy. It hurts really bad.

Boyooosa:

I 100% agree with your opinion here but suggesting that 100% of them are dumb is the notion I will like you to review.
I've met a couple of them, very very few tho, that have pushed me into 'business idea' discussion.


Modified
90% is a good evaluation...
If not more sef.

wisdomkid:



If the girls are that clueless as you portray, then something is certainly WRONG with the men (their fathers and Boyfriends). I can't have a girlfriend where we can have a strong agreement or disagreement on politics, sports, etc.

I've discussed politics and aspiration with Women and their f**king intelligent. Maybe you're staying around the wrong women or the women you grew up with are basically just drilling holes. Most f**king guys are stupid too, they know nothing. Stop with the generalization and gender biase against ladies.

SoNature:


I told my babe to join me so we attend a forex seminar together because we want to invest with some traders.

She told me that someone invited her to an all-night church program, so she's already booked.

Well, women kept themselves where they are today, and they will always be the biggest casualties of religion.

EmptyCoconutHead:
give me the 3 trending issues in Nigerian politics and how it's affecting the economy.
also who is the current minister of state for Niger Delta and how is his relationship with the minister of Niger delt affect the performance of the latter's duties and how it will make or mar us as Niger Deltans.

if u can answer those questions correctly we won't generalized that Nigerian girls are naturally dumb and slowpokes

Pinkie2018:
I mean the relationship shouldn't be based on whether she's intellectual or not, relationship is supposed to be about being their for each other, companionship, preparing for marriage. Trust me most ladies that display their intelligence all the time sometimes scare men away. I for one usually always show my intelligence in talks with guys trust me, they don't always feel comfortable.

EmptyCoconutHead:
kindly give me the contact of those few unique ones.
I need to see for myself before believing

anslem04:

Ia agree with that there are ladies wit brain out there buh remove the "lots", i see the way you idolize ur woman n i hope she is here to see so she fit melt lik cornbeef, buh these only buttress d fact that, intellect n a woman like urs are rare gems.
Baba i don't believe in searching ..i believe in fate, even if u search n find her if you aint meant to be 2geda e no go work. we can only wish & hope.

EmptyCoconutHead:
kindly give me the contact of those few unique ones.
I need to see for myself before believing

Juliearth:





I would answer these questions and more( even in a nightmare), but I would pass on this one because you are just an empty Coconut head... Better still, drop your number, I'd call you and fix an Interview so you can ask all that you want to....




I am serious BTW