Rabbish.

IamPlato:
The Security Man No Get Eye

Thought they said love was blind? Just saying.

Victorex001:
Only uncultured Nigerian Men would blame this Lady or see nothing wrong in this messages.

Yes a Rich guy can fall in love with a poor girl, a Rich girl can fall in love with a poor guy. (Happens mostly in Nollywood though)

But in this case, the security is nothing but a pervert and he’s definitely not in love with her na konji, don’t be the surprised the security man is even married with kids.

Telling a woman if you can come over that you’re lonely on your first approach is a big big turn off even if it was Dangote telling a decent girl on first approach if he can come over because he’s lonely is also a turn off except she’s a gold digger or some loose girl.

And you asking why did she bring it to the Media...Yes she has to, She has to be careful...I’ll advsie she should limit or stop (if possible) going to the restaurant or outlet where the security man works because that security man could pose danger to her.

He’s a PERVERT!

Thank you.

Omo the security guy must ve having a hard on for the woman since,

I wonder why she come trust her so much to give him her number.


I have been laughing reading funny comment up there.she dress as a joker..and bringing her matter to social network is just so wrong she will soon get bashing.

If he have has a car will she tell the world about him.


Yeye woman ,maybe she get Love Machine in her room to use and the security thinks she is sex starving .

She is so stupid to carry the matter to show the world.

*leavestread.

What I find offensive is his asking to come stay with her.

That’s very suggestive and it’s nonsense. Guys on this thread are just supporting him sentimentally. They aren’t on the same class. He should have kept his feelings to himself.

Randy100:
A much smaller size.

The mentality is wrong bro. Why do broke girls go for guys with money and broke guys can't go for rich women?

AmuRubber:



Olajumoke Bread...

Wrong mentality bro. We shouldn't circulate poverty

See mbeke feeling funky with poor sense of dressing. The color combination is a turnoff. If to say the security get money, will u treat his matter like that.

bdchange:
People tends to misused kindness to something else sometimes. Ladies suffer it mostly when they appear friendly or too nice to a guy. Before you know it the guy start misinterpreting it to she likes me, she don fall in love, bla bla bla. Well if she is polite enough she can turn him down politely and tell him how he might lose his tips if he continues.

And vice versa cos we naturally gravitate towards good. We're all allowed to catch feelings

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Um99r6sgspY

This is what all those silly love songs do.today this song sounds like a stalkers anthem.

Dude must have been imagining na just a friend tinz. Throw in an I need you tonight and you're at the next level.

The lady is mad foolish with her juvenile dumb clout chasing. The gestapo at her office( pocohantas people) will now start detailed review of rule book for security guards.

To be honest though, a lot of security guards may be graduates managing till something better comes along. if she is young enough he may still be seeing her as his contemporary. Her kindness may even have been for that reason.there but for the grace of God go I.

Security guard, at least for cute chicks, has been a path into my old company. Security guard at one of our installations is now head office reception.

This guy is not in love with her. He categorically said he's lonely, that's just lusting after the lady.

crossfm:
Poverty is a bastard.guys pls husle oo make them no bring your matter here as a refrence point.
Back to the topic.He is a man and naturally should be attracted to a lady.I envy his courage.atlist he has poured out his mind,it's now her option to say yes or no.
We see rich guys date and marry poor girls everyday.

Bcus it's a woman's world. It will be difficult de other way round

tartarus:


Did you even read the screenshot?!. He said he wants to spend a night with her, just a few minutes. That's very perverted coming from someone she's not really aquatinted with..
I don't know why many Nigerian men take a woman's kind gesture as "green light". If you have a sister and man is sending her lewd texts give her the same advise.

If na one big politician or bussiness tycoon woo her like that, will she post it? I'm pretty sure she has seen worst than that from men but she won't post it because those ones are rich unless you want to tell me the security man is the first person that have wooed her.
Let's assume a senator messaged her saying he will love to f*ck her this night and he will send 18 million naira to her account as a start. And after their first night together, she will take her to Monaco for vacation then the senator post the name of the hotel and room number of the hotel they will meet. Ask yourself, will she post it? We both know the answer.
How do you think the sugar zaddies woo ladies? You are the sugar in my tea, you are the water in my sea, you are the leaves on my tree.
He can only do that to a poor man because he doesn't have what she wants, which we both know.

bdchange:
People tends to misused kindness to something else sometimes. Ladies suffer it mostly when they appear friendly or too nice to a guy. Before you know it the guy start misinterpreting it to she likes me, she don fall in love, bla bla bla. Well if she is polite enough she can turn him down politely and tell him how he might lose his tips if he continues.

Thank you. theres even a security man I keep seeing but I had to be doing strong-face, even though its not really my nature, to avoid stories like this

Sterope:
Did the condition of life frustrate his common sense too? Why should a man she barely knows messages her about how his loneliness and his desire to be with her at night?

Does that sound right to you?

That is boldness, he said it the way it is in his hesrt. It is left for her to say Yes or No. There is no cause for alarm she is not the first person to have an admirer. Will she say the same thing if the Son of Dangote she barely knows makes the same move.

vickydevoka:

Bcus it's a woman's world. It will be difficult de other way round

hehehe.pls let's give even if its one room to men in this woman's world.live and let's live.

ornicus:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Um99r6sgspY

This is what all those silly love songs do.today this song sounds like a stalkers anthem.

Dude must have been imagining na just a friend tinz. Throw in an I need you tonight and you're at the next level.

The lady is mad foolish with her juvenile dumb clout chasing. The gestapo at her office( pocohantas people) will now start detailed review of rule book for security guards.

To be honest though, a lot of security guards may be graduates managing till something better comes along. if she is young enough he may still be seeing her as his contemporary. Her kindness may even have been for that reason.there but for the grace of God go I.

Security guard, at least for cute chicks, has been a path into my old company. Security guard at one of our installations is now head office reception.

I have no problem with him approaching her, a man will always approach a woman- irrespective of class. I have a problem with the message, it isn't right. That so many guys here see nothing wrong with it, goes a long way in showing the prevailing mentality.

Our security guy used to tell me the same thing too. He also never failed to add the "If I get money ehn...". I didn't overthink it, it is allowed. At some point he started saying suggestive things and taking longer than usual to carry out my orders. That was when I knew all the previous compliments were SHIT TEST. I had to remind him who is the boss.

technuel:

That is boldness, he said it the way it is in his hesrt. It is left for her to say Yes or No. There is no cause for alarm she is not the first person to have an admirer. Will she say the same thing if the Son of Dangote she barely knows makes the same move.

Oil de your head jor.
She might have seen worst from rich dudes but she won't post it because those ones meet her standard.

1shortblackboy:
What is d meaning of a working class lady. Is the security man not working as well?

I agree with you bro.. @ op is like u dont know the meaning of working class... The headline is quite demeaning to the man's persona...

my dear you need to wary of that kind guy... remember African juju dey work oooo..before u know pregnant has happened and the rest will be story of God ...lol

Who knew financial status is a good justification to act like a creep?

pocohantas:


Lots of "broke" guys play victim a lot. They see only one problem- their financial condition. They hardly ever take corrections or agree there is a problem with their approach.

They won't dress well, smell good, behave well...etc. But once you turn them down, they will say it is because they don't have money.

Now look at this young man, look at the perverted message he sent. His colleagues right here are saying "if he was RICH", rather than face the fact that, rich or poor, his approach is distasteful. I avoid men who reason like that. They will wear you out mentally with emotional blackmail and guilt tripping.

Judging from his fancy, Ripe paw paw and tomato will be a good consolation.

I will look at it from two angles: from a security and emotional perspective. Humans whether rich or poor have a right to love. The security man has a lot of confidence combo to express his feeling; no big deal. However, he went overboard by telling her he is lonely; if he can spend sometime in her place: very scary I must say. The lady should do two important things. The fact that she brought the matter to the court of social media suggest he might like the guy. She should give him a try na. Who knows, he might even be a graduate, condition forced him into 'Kondo Olopa.' But his upfront home visit is a no, no. My verdict: She should go for it though. www.securitymattersafrica.com for your security needs

stop giving him tips so him no go get money to buy airtime/data to dey type rubbish

Am with Antonio gramsci on cultural hegemony.

That believes, values, explanation and perception are but reflections views of the ruling class.

Otherwise, how do one explain the position were two people are obviousely working were-as only one is judge in the sentence as "working class".

What do you mean by shoe get size,is it bad for a matured man to express his feelings to a woman despite his status...seek for brain mbok

Randy100:
Shoe get size, everybody should wear their size. My advice to the security man.

eghuan1:
Why is she dressed up like the joker?

Hahahahahahahaha

An admirer that barely knows her, that did not ask for date but proceeded to tell her how he wants to spend the night with her.

Son of Dangote or Dangote himself, it is very distasteful. You don't know this lady to assume she would have acted otherwise. If she had, she wont delude herself to believe it was out of love.

I wonder the kind of homes youse come from.

technuel:

That is boldness, he said it the way it is in his hesrt. It is left for her to say Yes or No. There is no cause for alarm she is not the first person to have an admirer. Will she say the same thing if the Son of Dangote she barely knows makes the same move.

IamPlato:
The Security Man No Get Eye

that's why Love is said to be blind .....hahaha

Y is she announcing it?

bdchange:
People tends to misused kindness to something else sometimes. Ladies suffer it mostly when they appear friendly or too nice to a guy. Before you know it the guy start misinterpreting it to she likes me, she don fall in love, bla bla bla. Well if she is polite enough she can turn him down politely and tell him how he might lose his tips if he continues.

Y'all saying the security guy misinterpreted the lady's kindness, do you think the guy doesn't know the lady is way out of his league? ofcourse he knew he only choose to shoot his shot! its a yes or no answer nothing else!

Beside the lady is a fashionista and a model i follow her on IG