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Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 5:35am On Nov 28, 2019
Jacqueline22:
You are right
It someone else and that is you.
I remember now, never liked the pic
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by seedgreen(m): 5:43am On Nov 28, 2019
SBL28:
I have received mails from a few, added two on whatsapp. For one of them, I actually thought I was adding a girl because his profile said female on NL, I stopped responding after few days though. The other one too was not just 'it' for me.

Word of advice to NL guys that are still abbreviating in 2019, stoooooop. Maybe that is why those girls are not responding. It says a million and one things about you.
seriously ?
Interesting
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by jessysparkles(f): 6:01am On Nov 28, 2019
vincentjk:
I'm not really good, the harmattan is beginning to get at me already cry
Sorry about that, try keep your self warm....
Guess you are in the North
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by vincentjk(m): 7:32am On Nov 28, 2019
jessysparkles:
Sorry about that, try keep your self warm....
Guess you are in the North
Mmm... Yes I'm. You must be a magician to have said that lol smiley

But if you aren't then how comes you know??
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lyndaway(f): 10:20am On Nov 28, 2019
Pusyiter:
A boyfriend is different from a husband Don't give the attributes of a hubby to a BF. Your hubbie might just be a NL
noted
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lavylilly: 10:41am On Nov 28, 2019
Very judgmental. Many of them are very bitter and misogynist
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 11:59am On Nov 28, 2019
lavylilly:
Very judgmental. Many of them are very bitter and misogynist
It all depends mostly on how you present yourself to them in a conversation or action , you might not know it but sometimes our words wrongly insinuate judgment towards other people , now that triggers defense on their part .
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by jessysparkles(f): 12:30pm On Nov 28, 2019
vincentjk:
Mmm... Yes I'm. You must be a magician to have said that lol smiley
But if you aren't then how comes you know??
Lol... I'm not o... I know someone who just left there
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by vincentjk(m): 12:35pm On Nov 28, 2019
jessysparkles:
Lol... I'm not o... I know someone who just left there
Lol fine. Happy new month in addy, so how/where are you celebrating this xmas?
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by lavylilly: 2:01pm On Nov 28, 2019
True
Mogambo123:
It all depends mostly on how you present yourself to them in a conversation or action , you might not know it but sometimes our words wrongly insinuate judgment towards other people , now that triggers defense on their part .
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by nellyelitz(m): 2:46pm On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:
I have 3 ex husband who are nairalanders. I have finally given up on finding love here... undecided
I'm not saying u're lying but this doesn't sound real to me.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Kingsteve(m): 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2019
nellyelitz:
I'm not saying u're lying but this doesn't sound real to me.
She's probably a man-eater.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by nellyelitz(m): 2:55pm On Nov 28, 2019
MedicH:
Which one be Igbo? Like Filipino?
welcome to NL
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by nellyelitz(m): 3:01pm On Nov 28, 2019
Kingsteve:
She's probably a man-eater.
we don't know that.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Originalsly: 3:37pm On Nov 28, 2019
Iretii0511:
Nairaland kind of shield them from the realities of life. Most girls on here only want to meet the financially stable guys (which is in itself relative). Those of us who are on the building phase usually don't cut it for them. I have tried to meet someone from here before but it didn't get past the stage of emails due to that singular reason. I made my choice never to repeat the mistake of trying to meet a Nairalander (lady) after that experience.
One person you tried to link up with..... and what that one person is looking for in a man you decided that alllll the other female Nairalders are likely to be like her. How that sounds? What happens if the first Nigerian you try to date also has issues... then what?... to Ghana you must go?

@ topic. Distance. From my experience.... the few Nairalanders I chat with... and met..... are all wife material. From my observations.... some of the better babes show up on the better topics while a whole lot of them are silent readers.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by yazga: 4:08pm On Nov 28, 2019
Originalsly:
One person you tried to link up with..... and what that one person is looking for in a man you decided that alllll the other female Nairalders are likely to be like her. How that sounds? What happens if the first Nigerian you try to date also has issues... then what?... to Ghana you must go?

@ topic. Distance. From my experience.... the few Nairalanders I chat with... and met..... are all wife material. From my observations.... some of the better babes show up on the better topics while a whole lot of them are silent readers.
I just weak
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:22pm On Nov 28, 2019
Coz I ain't ready for any form of commitment
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by olatunyemi(m): 4:49pm On Nov 28, 2019
I stay in North and hardly find a nairaland in Katsina or Zaria. The level of awareness is below par
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by seunayeni(m): 4:58pm On Nov 28, 2019
I'll appreciate some1 teaches me how to send mails on nairaland, cos i truly dont know how to after all these years smiley
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Exponent123(m): 5:14pm On Nov 28, 2019
They're faceless and mostly feminist.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 8:46pm On Nov 28, 2019
Not interested in dating, be it offline or online.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by paix(m): 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2019
SteveOfu:
What's stopping you from dating a member here?
I don't know any yet.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by jessysparkles(f): 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2019
vincentjk:
Lol fine. Happy new month in addy, so how/where are you celebrating this xmas?
How- don't know yet o
Where- definitely going to be in Lagos
And you?
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by vincentjk(m): 9:14pm On Nov 28, 2019
jessysparkles:
How- don't know yet o
Where- definitely going to be in Lagos
And you?
Either in my hometown or at my aunt's place. You seem busy today, don't worry will mention you some other time so we talk again. Okay!
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:20pm On Nov 28, 2019
You see those ones that hardly make comments, they are the best. You will see something like registered in 2017, 4 comments.

Met only one early this year, she came from Ph and needed a place to stay, I offered her our family house @ 10k for 2 months. She didn't stay up to a week, got another place but still have me the 10k.

There are still good, mature and responsible people here.

Watch the quiet ones, exceptions do exist.
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by boiz2men(m): 9:24pm On Nov 28, 2019
SBL28:
I have received mails from a few, added two on whatsapp. For one of them, I actually thought I was adding a girl because his profile said female on NL, I stopped responding after few days though. The other one too was not just 'it' for me.

Word of advice to NL guys that are still abbreviating in 2019, stoooooop. Maybe that is why those girls are not responding. It says a million and one things about you.
So of all the things in the world, your problem is abbreviation... Very petty I must say. I hardly contract my words but this excuse is outright nonsense... Just take a look at your moniker... SBL must be abbreviation for something and you think you wield the right standing to advice guys on abbreviation
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 28, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Coz I ain't ready for any form of commitment
Linus! grin
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by boiz2men(m): 9:28pm On Nov 28, 2019
[quote author=Zita55 post=84408213][/quote]grin

Do you have money? Young?
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by boiz2men(m): 9:30pm On Nov 28, 2019
Jacqueline22:
Same here sis
with a dp like that, its fuckboys you will attract
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by iceberg02(m): 12:51am On Nov 29, 2019
Love to make female friend
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by jericco1(m): 4:18am On Nov 29, 2019
What are the procedures of one wants to date a NL member? sad
Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by SteveOfu(op): 9:54am On Nov 29, 2019
y?
paix:
I don't know any yet.
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