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What are the disadvantages of dating you?

we all have strength and weaknesses. most times in a relationship we present our strength at first, when we are sure the other loves us, we now gradually present our weakness. This leads to quarell as the other wants us to reverse back to our previous self- the self he fell in love with.when this is not happening, he\ she withdraws completely or accepts us like that while being hopeful for a miracle.


If you could state one baggage about you, that you know could affect your union, what could it be

Am too sincere

I'm careless and i care less..

I am broke for now

When it comes to relationships, i easily get bored. I find it hard to understand how two people could marry and live together till death.

Relationship with me is toxic. And I lose my mind all the time.

Be ready to know how to play chess if you don't know how

I eventually learned to entertain myself more than you ever will provide. Get ready for long periods of inactivity featuring me staring at my phone.

I take things too personal and sometimes act too insecure but when it comes to care am the best guy to date

I loose interest easily

if you want to ask me for money, do it 2 weeks before the day u will need it or OYO

Hungry for more money that i can even forget i had a girlfriend.

1. Don't take nonsense
2. Don't give a 'NO' for an answer
3. Get bored in long relationship
4. Ignore me, I will ignore you.

I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

I'm a sadist

Biglittlelois:
I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

We await not only the More but also the Pepsi, Gulder, 33, Star, Coca-Cola and their like.

Nothing I can think of

Moodswing.
Too smart to pretend.
I no send you attitude.

Biglittlelois:
I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

How are these traits disadvantages?

Biglittlelois:
I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

These are more of unique traits, not disadvantages. Before you add the "more coming"

Ximenez:
These are more of unique traits, not disadvantages. Before you add the "more coming"

Some people may find it annoying, not everyone can stand people like me, it can be unique to some people, and a total turnoff to others.

Ishilove:
How are these traits disadvantages?

Everyone has unique disadvantages, what is normal to some people can be a total turnoff to others.

I gist too much and can chat forever non stop.

No

More like Aproko

Biglittlelois:
I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

Which novels do you read? Hardley Chase, John Grisham, Sidney Sheldom, Mario Puzo, Robert Ludlum, Steve Berry? Etc
Seems we have same qualities.

I have a cold heart . Whiles it’s hot for you please don’t take advantage of it , when it gets freezing cold I no longer care about you.

emmaodet:
Which novels do you read? Hardley Chase, John Grisham, Sidney Sheldom, Mario Puzo, Robert Ludlum, Steve Berry? Etc
Seems we have same qualities.

Yes I've read all, and Patricia Corwell, Sandra Brown, Michael Cornelly, Kathy Reichs, etc, can't remember some names.....

Biglittlelois:
I ask a lot of questions cos I like to know everything

You have to know how to play mahjhong cos I love it

I'm an introvert but an extrovert with the person I love

When I'm angry, I don't listen to explanations at first, you have to repeat it again and again for me to think about it and accept, (working on that though)

If you cheat on me, no amount of begging will make me come back, no matter who you are, I have principles, and cheating is a no no,

I read novels, I have three big boxes full of novels, you have to love reading too,

I like to discover new things, I'm inquisitive and overly curious,

More coming....

The question was state ur diaadvantage, not tell us about yourself ... we can now see yu are a very boring personality n that is a disadvantage.

I like Olosho pass my certificate.


I don't really know why.

KingWarri:
1. Don't take nonsense
2. Don't give a 'NO' for an answer
3. Get bored in long relationship
4. Ignore me, I will ignore you.

1. That means you're impatient and intolerant.
2. That means you can rape.
3. That means you can cheat.
4. That means you're vindictive.

Oga, please remain single.

mumumugu:
What are the disadvantages of dating you?

we all have strength and weaknesses. most times in a relationship we present our strength at first, when we are sure the other loves us, we now gradually present our weakness. This leads to quarell as the other wants us to reverse back to our previous self- the self he fell in love with.when this is not happening, he\ she withdraws completely or accepts us like that while being hopeful for a miracle.


If you could state one baggage about you, that you know could affect your union, what could it be

OP, tell us your own? Mine is I just don't like receiving head.