izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

Basher8583:


It's just like saying not everyone wants to be loved.

We are all made with the same biological and chemical components.

Those hormones in her body will not allow her to make her clear choices.

Trust me this lady is silently unhappy for her to come out boldly to state she doesn't have any regrets when no one asked her

I should trust you over her?

She's telling me about her situation, and you want me to trust you that know nothing about her?

Okay, I will

flyca:
She could still marry of she wanted to. She might even be engaged already. It's never late!

If she is into kids, she might soon adopt and be able to send the kid to an elite school. The making of a star kid comes with money - fact!

Besides na this kind late dey get money to take care of her parents, pamper them, take them on vacations etc

I'm happy for her abeg

izzou:


I should trust you over her?

She's telling me about her situation, and you want me to trust you that know nothing about her?

Okay, I will

partnerbizn4:
lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

partnerbizn4:
This is offside musings!

Life is meaningless. What exactly are we doing here?
What's the grand design? What's the ultimate goal?
To wake up, go to work, eat, sleep, etc?

The worst part is that there is no justice in the world.
In life, the innocent can be imprisoned with no one to speak for him.
A criminal steals your money and invests in businesses.
He becomes rich.

A woman can keep herself chaste, marries as a virgin properly but will be barren for 20 years whereas prostitutes or women who were never chaste, who don't want kids, get pregnant daily and abort it.

The good man can die of cancer. He never smoked nor tasted alcohol.
Whereas the bad guy who engages in all vices, smokes, drinks etc will live for 100 years.

Life is chaotic, uncertain, unpredictable.
Nothing is guaranteed. With so much pains.

Some now walk only in the rain so their tears can't be seen.

It's a bad world. An imperfect one.

It's better not to have been born, said Prof. Benathar and I agree.

Let me stop here.

DCmonster:
Liar! You can't work these long weekly. it not possible for you to work such hours weekly it's not feasible. Except if you are a medical practitioner. All I see is a lying bitch trying to console herself for the pain of being single at her menopausal age.

izzou:


She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

cao:

Wow. Just say that you yourself can't/won't work long hours. Folks that be doing some serious crunch hours in the tech/gaming industry like it's water. Rockstar that was busy boasting about 100 hour work week for Red Dead Redemption 2. Long hours are not ideal, definitely not healthy, but they're entirely feasible. It ain't only a medical practitioner thing.

partnerbizn4:


lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

alexola20:
No mind dem.Dem go dey hide behind one finger.Reality will still reset their brains to the definition of happiness.

bdchange:

Unfortunately most women don't want this in reality but only desire independent online. One told me on this same forum that she is supposed to sit at home and build her family so they won't get spoilt, and the hubby can go to work his ass out because apparently women belongs to the kitchen(like ur President said). Until they realise genuinely that they don't need a man to be happy and stop unnecessary entitlement on men they will still be regarded as jokes and sex giver.

pocohantas:


I don't know why they always like to impose themselves on women. Emotional blackmail, bullying, threats...etc. Somehow they still claim to be the uninterested and shortchanged party in marriage.

Like, if you are so desirable, why bother that a minute set doesn't want you?

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

pathneluti:
Finance geek reveals what she benefited from sacrificing her 20s.


Ayesha Selden @AyeshaSelden:



https://mobile.twitter.com/AyeshaSelden/status/1201171562654814211

nlPoster:
Just let Nigerians know if you need a man for a relationship.

DCmonster:
I work long hours baby! I am a medical practitioner and I do call duty 10-14 days a month. I know what I am saying. Don't compare artistry,tech, freelancing or any other to a regular job.

DonJayrome:


That one concern you. I said my own and being jealous ain't my stuff. I can also get whatever I want so why do I need to be jealous. Am only speaking my own from her own post. Now come to think about it, why did she have to post it if not to try to proof certain point that is probably bothering her or the people around her. Why didn't she just keep it to herself and enjoy her happiness quietly.
No woman born of a woman is ever fulfilled when she didn't reproduce in her lifetime. No matter how rich she is, the main purpose of being a woman and having a womb that was unused is never a lifetime achievement. If her mother were to do the same, she definitely won't be existing today to achieve whatever she claims to have achieved.