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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GreenArrow1(m): 5:31am On Dec 07, 2019
meobizy:
Does this “guys” cover their fellow male students? A lot of male uni students are dying of conji because of the forming girls put them through. I am a fully grown adult contributing to society. All I want is a female with a job. A student is only a liability because she’ll ask for finances repeatedly. If she doesn’t want to her friends will pressure her into the act. We all know how stupid girls are when it comes to friends’ advices. A woman, most women with jobs, handle their bills and use a man as a supplement as opposed to a source for financial dependence.


As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Omoslim26: 5:33am On Dec 07, 2019
tonididdy:
Yoloba boys can fall for this kind traps


bia don't bring your childish trash here

this is a discussion for adults

so pls just read the comments and waka pass because it's obvious dat you can't have anything reasonable to input here

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Jesuspikin8: 5:34am On Dec 07, 2019
Numerouno94:
grin grin
Long story. Who still dey date babes 4 dis 21st century?...
The rule of d game is have a nice apartment, a gud payin job, a nice car nd importantly build ur self esteem nd charisma.. Den invite dem nd Bleep dem, after which brkup nd move to anoda.. I promise u dat u gonna b ontop of ur game nd enjoy ur life.

The 2nd rule is dnt eva ask a girl out (lyk can u b my girlfrnd).... Dats old fashion stuff.. Jux invite her to ur fresh apartment nd she will start gettin wet as soon as she sees ur fresh apartment.D next step is to Bleep her well. Dats all.den dump her wen u tired of her pussy.

Guys even if u cant afford a nice car for now, jux ensure dat ur apartment is d bomb. Make sure its sweet.

Remember, babes re nt meant to b taken seriously lyk tryin to date dem, hell no.!! Jux Bleep till u tired nd brk up.den move to d next. Simple life.
Cant blif sum guys re busy killin denselves 4 hoes called naija babes.
Accuracy

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by rman: 5:41am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:



As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.

This cracked me up cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 5:48am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:



As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.

Why February? Why not sort out differences now?
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by vicben27(m): 5:52am On Dec 07, 2019
my fiancee is a student, we started dating since she was in 100level it wasn't easy financially thou. but God was always there for Us she will be graduating next week.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 5:53am On Dec 07, 2019
sharone21:
Men saying female students may dump them if they train them, come, is it FREE that u will pay her fees etc and not be demanding from her....swear that u don't sleep with her? And don't tell us it is mutual, sex is not mutual for ladies dictionary.
Anyway, there are MANY graduates, why go for a non- graduate, unless the graduate is going back to school then u can support her....but any woman u choose to invest on, for your sanity sake, try to wed her then delay childbearing even if she his going to college for the first time.

Delay wetin? Give am belle. Na that pikin go remind am say e don marry by calling her mummy.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 5:55am On Dec 07, 2019
vicben27:
my fiancee is a student, we started dating since she was in 100level it wasn't easy financially thou. but God was always there for Us she will be graduating next week.

You said fiancee?

Better go for counselling to prevent suicide.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by adamubk(m): 5:55am On Dec 07, 2019
IyaTola:
Why are guys so scared of dating students?

Girls let's hear them out
Transfer of responsibilities!

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GreenArrow1(m): 5:57am On Dec 07, 2019
deltateam:


Why February? Why not sort out differences now?

She'll finally be going for service (after one year of waiting) by then. The plan (when I thought she had sense), was to redeploy and get married later on. However, now that it's obvious that she prefers to go through life as a liability, I've binned that idea entirely. Unofficially, she's just dating herself right now while I pay for services rendered. Fully concentrated on the building of my house now. Make we no let evil people distract our hustle bros.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by vicben27(m): 6:00am On Dec 07, 2019
deltateam:


You said fiancee?

Better go for counselling to prevent suicide.
Lol Na you wan kill me?grin l know you will say she may ditch me for another dude, if it happens, That's fine by me in life l expect anything humans don't surprise me any more. watch out for our prewedding pix at the first quarter of 2020.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 6:03am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:


She'll finally be going for service (after one year of waiting) by then. The plan (when I thought she had sense), was to redeploy and get married later on. However, now that it's obvious that she prefers to go through life as a liability, I've binned that idea entirely. Unofficially, she's just dating herself right now while I pay for services rendered. Fully concentrated on the building of my house now. Make we no let evil people distract our hustle bros.

I do hope and pray you hear her out. Depending on her colleagues opinion to carry out this is wrong as you don't know how jealous they may be of your relationship.

Have you discussed with her. Invariably she'll still quit the job for her service.

This is not enough reason to breakup unless you can say that you are bored with her. She didn't cheat on you, what she needs is advice and reorientation...

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 6:05am On Dec 07, 2019
vicben27:
Lol Na you wan kill me?grin l know you will say she may ditch me for another dude, if it happens, That's fine by me in life l expect anything humans don't surprise me any more. watch out for our prewedding pix at the first quarter of 2020.

Okay. smiley
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 6:07am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:


She'll finally be going for service (after one year of waiting) by then. The plan (when I thought she had sense), was to redeploy and get married later on. However, now that it's obvious that she prefers to go through life as a liability, I've binned that idea entirely. Unofficially, she's just dating herself right now while I pay for services rendered. Fully concentrated on the building of my house now. Make we no let evil people distract our hustle bros.

Bros how do you earn? I mean building house in this Buhari era?

Could you put me through?
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GreenArrow1(m): 6:12am On Dec 07, 2019
deltateam:


I do hope and pray you hear her out. Depending on her colleagues opinion to carry out this is wrong as you don't know how jealous they may be of your relationship.

Have you discussed with her. Invariably she'll still quit the job for her service.

This is not enough reason to breakup unless you can say that you are bored with her. She didn't cheat on you, what she needs is advice and reorientation...

Relax, I'll tag you when i finally put up the thread. By the time you read the full story, you'll be looking for me to slap for foolishness.
Her own reason for quitting was to enable her get time for clearance in school. Ordinary clearance o! Like say we no go d school before. See, ehn, a woman who is too stubborn to receive advice is not a woman who is teachable. She quit twice and on both occasions only informed me after quitting. A guy that you are co-habiting and planning your future with o. Just because you think things are gelling for him at the moment.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GreenArrow1(m): 6:13am On Dec 07, 2019
deltateam:


Bros how do you earn? I mean building house in this Buhari era?

Could you put me through?

I'm in construction bro. I'm a Builder. If you want to hustle, just forget about whoever is in power and hustle o. Cos this country, no messiah is coming to save anybody o.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Seankhalifa: 6:19am On Dec 07, 2019
I Bleep dem and u guys date dem grin

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Emaprince: 6:21am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:


Relax, I'll tag you when i finally put up the thread. By the time you read the full story, you'll be looking for me to slap for foolishness.
Her own reason for quitting was to enable her get time for clearance in school. Ordinary clearance o! Like say we no go d school before. See, ehn, a woman who is too stubborn to receive advice is not a woman who is teachable. She quit twice and on both occasions only informed me after quitting. A guy that you are co-habiting and planning your future with o. Just because you think things are gelling for him at the moment.
she gets bored with you maybe. just quit
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by LeonMacJames(m): 6:24am On Dec 07, 2019
IyaTola:
Why are guys so scared of dating students?

Girls let's hear them out

Because some Students are underaged,

And some lie about their age, or wont disclose.

Most of them in public schools are always broke.

Plus, dating sometimes can be a distraction to someone's academics.

My distant cousin dropped out school in 3rd year because of boyfriend, went and got pregnant ( stuff like this baffles me at times )

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GreenArrow1(m): 6:24am On Dec 07, 2019
Emaprince:
she gets bored with you maybe. just quit

On the contrary, she's too clingy. She wants me to now employ her at my work place as a site clerk just so she'll be close to me 24/7. That's mixing business and pleasure with a slight touch of monitoring spirit. So, bored? No. Clingy? Definitely.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by OkoAmarashy: 6:27am On Dec 07, 2019
tonididdy:
Yoloba boys can fall for this kind traps

Don't carry your family stupidity enter here.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by OkoAmarashy: 6:29am On Dec 07, 2019
vicben27:
my fiancee is a student, we started dating since she was in 100level it wasn't easy financially thou. but God was always there for Us she will be graduating next week.

Calm down na.
Let her graduate first make your eye open.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by WowSweetGuy(m): 6:32am On Dec 07, 2019
LIABILITY & TAXES

The money their parents give them is never enough.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by OkoAmarashy: 6:33am On Dec 07, 2019
deltateam:


I do hope and pray you hear her out. Depending on her colleagues opinion to carry out this is wrong as you don't know how jealous they may be of your relationship.

Have you discussed with her. Invariably she'll still quit the job for her service.

This is not enough reason to breakup unless you can say that you are bored with her. She didn't cheat on you, what she needs is advice and reorientation...

Reorientation at what age?
You're not seeing what that guy is seeing.

The guy is thinking that is it this girl that reasons like this that would be the mother of my children?
Don't you know she controls the thought processes of the kids?

Marriage is different from dating o.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Legacyy(m): 6:35am On Dec 07, 2019
every student is promiscuous and can never be trusted.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by kingjrofficial(m): 6:35am On Dec 07, 2019
The comments are Educative.... May God bless us all..and provide for the poor,broke,needy and helpless students (Both gender) Amen

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by joyandfaith: 6:37am On Dec 07, 2019
IyaTola:
Why are guys so scared of dating students?
Girls let's hear them out
do not date female student if she is not ready for marriage.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by deltateam: 6:41am On Dec 07, 2019
OkoAmarashy:


Reorientation at what age?
You're not seeing what that guy is seeing.

The guy is thinking that is it this girl that reasons like this that would be the mother of my children?
Don't you know she controls the thought processes of the kids?

Marriage is different from dating o.

You do have a point especially as it relates to children taking intellectual prowess of their parents.
I was baffled once when I asked a child who did his homework. Kid said it was his mum. I was like, " Your mum did this?" embarassed

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Emaprince: 6:41am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:


On the contrary, she's too clingy. She wants me to now employ her at my work place as a site clerk just so she'll be close to me 24/7. That's mixing business and pleasure with a slight touch of monitoring spirit. So, bored? No. Clingy? Definitely.
So why she quoting the relationship? To be free to taste other dickss?

Yeah trying to get employed maybe to stay close and monitor you like typical Naija girls that wants to eat their cake and have it. IMO, this is she trying to fully fall back to you after getting tired of hoeing, fuccked and dumped by several dudes. Now she wants to prevent you from ever looking or flirting with another woman. Wise up bro

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Stewart883(m): 6:44am On Dec 07, 2019
Vivikema:
Im a student.....I hustle for my own money and hate to depend on guys and my parents every time for money

C
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Stewart883(m): 6:47am On Dec 07, 2019
sharone21:
Men saying female students may dump them if they train them, come, is it FREE that u will pay her fees etc and not be demanding from her....swear that u don't sleep with her? And don't tell us it is mutual, sex is not mutual for ladies dictionary.
Anyway, there are MANY graduates, why go for a non- graduate, unless the graduate is going back to school then u can support her....but any woman u choose to invest on, for your sanity sake, try to wed her then delay childbearing even if she is going to college for the first time.

What do u mean by sex is not mutual in a ladies dictionary
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Stewart883(m): 6:57am On Dec 07, 2019
vicben27:
my fiancee is a student, we started dating since she was in 100level it wasn't easy financially thou. but God was always there for Us she will be graduating next week.

Thank God for you.

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