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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by DrTims(m): 9:46am On Dec 07, 2019
cheesy cheesy
vincentjk:


When a female student calls me and start sounding somehow on phone i be like ;

Me: what's wrong?
Her: I'm fine don't worry(exepecting me to ask more so she'd tell me she is lacking money)
Me: okay *log out immediately *
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by GeneralPula: 9:46am On Dec 07, 2019
Omo!! Nawa oo!!
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Kokaine(m): 9:47am On Dec 07, 2019
They have no wisdom at that stage.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Iphran6: 9:47am On Dec 07, 2019
90% student relationship ends immediately after their graduation, no matter your level of investment in them and female students always have a campus love thus dating them is not worth the hassle





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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by okpalaAnambra: 9:50am On Dec 07, 2019
pocohantas:


Looks like they are just conditioned to bash. No one should take some of them serious.
Poco, you don't want to respond to my PM
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by airminem(f): 9:56am On Dec 07, 2019
Students should be focus on their studies. Thats why they are referred to as "students". Meanwhile, most students are unserious.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:57am On Dec 07, 2019
OkoAmarashy:


They said students, not 16 to 26.
Even at that, it is not sensible to ask what they want when basic mathematics tells you that there are still ages between 26 and 30.
This is the most illogical comment of the week.
If students that are usually between 16-26 are NO GO AREA to date

If NYSC members that are usually between 21 and 30 are no go area to date because of "NYSC hoeing"

If women of 30/35+ are no go area because of being "evening newspaper.

Then who should be dated?

Do you guys think that a girl that hoe in higher institution and during NYSC will suddenly become Angel when she is done with that phase?

Do you guys know what some ladies do at work with their colleagues, bosses, fellow professionals etc? Or should guys also not date working class?

See, this thread has exposed what many female Nairaland members have been saying of most Nairaland guys on this board. They lack intelligence!


Stop being a woman wrapper, students are parasitic no-go areas for upwardly-mobile young men.
SMH...

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by dave4rella(m): 9:58am On Dec 07, 2019
lexy2014:


But in ur initial comment, u sounded as if u were doing her a favour by sending her money. Now u saying she was d one who actually did u d favour. U even had a fiance and u were dating someone u call a hoe

You people are too judgemental
I was trying to explain to a guy why I'm still sending her money

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 07, 2019
Because they are All hoes using student as cover.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:00am On Dec 07, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Very surprising coming from a naija guy
Most of y'all want to Bleep multitudes but expect future wifey to be a virgin or have a body count of 1
I like your mentality, as you be fucklicant you no mind say future wifey be fucklicant in her past life
Thats good
Most of them making noise are "Audio fucklicant", concocting fake tales on social media to make themselves feel good.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by pansophist(m): 10:05am On Dec 07, 2019
Remove sex from a relationship and you discover that most women have nothing more to offer. Remove money and most women will not see a reason to be there. Trevor Noah.

I am a cheerful giver, I spend lavishly on my family, but not on a girlfriend, never. The only woman I will spend and give my all to will be my wife, and to even reach that level of gaining my commitment, she will really have to be a wonderful lady. I have lived to see the two nature of some women, who will hang with you until you outlive your usefulness, then they migrate to the new fertile land. The test for me is simple. If you bill me and me tell you I do not have (just to test), and you leave, then that's it. Bye.

Men should understand that it takes two to play, she can request, but the ultimate decision to give rest on you. Do not be an enabler to leeches and lazy women. Since men can work, they should work too, later now, they will be complaining of the wage gap, meanwhile, they make, influence and spend over 85% of consumer purchases, which are all done with men money.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by ocelot2006(m): 10:06am On Dec 07, 2019
Because of their lack of maturity during that particular phase of their lives. Most of them aren't always committed to whatever relationships they're in and will always two-time you. So dating them is simply not worth the effort, funds, or emotion.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by luminouz(m): 10:09am On Dec 07, 2019
lefulefu:
inside life grin grin grin.ehm offpoint and luminious come and give ur own experience when una dey sponsor d babe wey una dey date for uni grin grin

Lmaoooo...

Baba you know your guy naaaaaaa...I no mumu reach that level. Once I see you dey wan bill me,my convo go be like

Her: (on the phone,speaking in a strangled voice) I'm not feeling fine but I'm ok sha

Me: Ok

Her: You are not caring,won't you ask what's wrong with me?

Me: Oya tell me o

Her: I need 20k. To make my hair and buy some toiletries.

Me: Really? What of your father? He is not dead,is he?

Her: No.

Me: Do you want him to die?

Her: God forbid.

Me: Stop transferring his duties to me then. Ask your parents for money. I only give to orphans.


Her: You Mudaf.......

Me: cuts call and grins like a Tiger!

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:12am On Dec 07, 2019
sharone21:

There are many graduates both young and mature ones, why go for a JAMBITE or UNDERGRADUATE( unless maybe final year)?
Because most "matured females" come with their baggage and from time immemorial, it is always the younger, the sweeter and the most preferred.

If u must date undergraduates, MARRY them first and delay childbearing to avoid 'stories that touch'.....Period
It is not a guaranteed that they will be faithful, neither assured that they won't leave the man.

However, misbehavior is not restricted to only undergraduates, it is also common among some female folks. Also, not all undergraduates misbehave.

So, it depends on the girl!

Personal Experience:
An ex started misbehaving after she was admitted in a Uni as a DE student. Well, I noticed it but deliberately watched before breaking up without even telling her.

You know the funny thing? I already noticed some traits in her that wasn't pleasing to me even before she got admission and I wasn't surprised that she would play herself... Although I was disappointed when I found out undecided

My Point is, who wan spoil go spoil whether undergraduate, apprentice, working class or housewife.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by philip0906(m): 10:13am On Dec 07, 2019
Joiceee:
you make sense especially in the last paragraph.

Imagine a guy who will never call you when you are in school, but will want to hang out with you during holidays and bring marriage talks. And once holiday is over, communication ends. A guy who will chat you up once in a blue moon and only concerned about when you will be done with school.

It doesn't just make any sense
That man is a smart man. No sane man with self esteem, wastes precious time on a young, naive girl while she's still on campus where you will bombard him with your problems and he can't even see or be sure of what you're up to.

His best is to wait till you're on holiday when he can see you.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Yeezus998(m): 10:14am On Dec 07, 2019
My Ex left me because she gained admission into University we both applied for
I later got to know it was because of big guys in the school

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Ajibade123(m): 10:16am On Dec 07, 2019
for the students in love see how to concentrate on studies when in love
https://explicitsuccess.com/how-to-concentrate-on-study-when-in-love/
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by pocohantas(f): 10:16am On Dec 07, 2019
okpalaAnambra:

Poco, you don't want to respond to my PM

Me and NL guy no get anything to discuss offline biko. Happy weekend, Sir.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:18am On Dec 07, 2019
Yeezus998:
My Ex left me because she gained admission into University we both applied for
I later got to know it was because of big guys in the school
My brother, most girls, whether uneducated, undergraduate or graduate, usually dump their men for bigger guys!

BUT

Count it all joy when that happen to you. It shows that she was never your girl. Ironically, 90% of them later regret their action

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by MrMacinterchi1: 10:19am On Dec 07, 2019
BanevsJoker:
"Dourlin' I'm sorry. I don't know what came over me".
� � � � lol lol lol lol
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by philip0906(m): 10:20am On Dec 07, 2019
TonyeBarcanista:

Because most "matured females" come with their baggage and from time immemorial, it is always the younger, the sweeter and the most preferred.


It is not a guaranteed that they will be faithful, neither assured that they won't leave the man.

However, misbehavior is not restricted to only undergraduates, it is also common among some female folks. Also, not all undergraduates misbehave.

So, it depends on the girl!

Personal Experience:
An ex started misbehaving after she was admitted in a Uni as a DE student. Well, I noticed it but deliberately watched before breaking up without even telling her.

You know the funny thing? I already noticed some traits in her that wasn't pleasing to me even before she got admission and I wasn't surprised that she would play herself... Although I was disappointed when I found out cheesy

My Point is, who wan spoil go spoil whether undergraduate, apprentice, working class or housewife.
The point Tonye is simple...The propensity for a young girl 18-23 to misbehave, is higher than those in another age bracket 25-30s...

Girls within the former age bracket are in their hoeing phase...They want to explore, which is totally fine. At that age, the are susceptible to all sorts of vices, naivety, hit and run, experiments etc

Girls in the later age bracket, ideally have gone past that hoeing phase and life has taught them one or two lessons so they are better prepared to know what they want in life, relationships, men etc.

Of course it is not fool proof...but it is what it is

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Nobody: 10:24am On Dec 07, 2019
grin cheesy grin Even Poco dey feel herself
pocohantas:


Me and NL guy no get anything to discuss offline biko. Happy weekend, Sir.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by ojuu4u(m): 10:25am On Dec 07, 2019
[quote author=TonyeBarcanista post=84699898]
This is the most illogical comment of the week.
If students that are usually between 16-26 are NO GO AREA to date

If NYSC members that are usually between 21 and 30 are no go area to date because of "NYSC hoeing"

If women of 30/35+ are no go area because of being "evening newspaper.

Then who should be dated?

Do you guys think that a girl that hoe in higher institution and during NYSC will suddenly become Angel when she is done with that phase?

Do you guys know what some ladies do at work with their colleagues, bosses, fellow professionals etc? Or should guys also not date working class?

See, this thread has exposed what many female Nairaland members have been saying of most Nairaland guys on this board. They lack intelligence!


I always tell guys around me who brag about not spending for women but to sleep with them, that they are liars from pit of hell...except those who are desperate to get partner.......All over the world , relationships with women come with spending though its varies individually.
It has nothing to do with students,corps members, jobless or working class girl/lady, its the trait of individual that determines how much she bills her guy. Women take joy in spending their guys money though some ladies over demanding.
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by meobizy(f): 10:29am On Dec 07, 2019
GreenArrow1:



As you are going for a woman with a job, go with sense o to avoid wetin I dey inside now.
Went for a lady with a job. After 3 months, boom! Lady quit her job and became a total liability. According to her colleagues, her reason for quitting was to have time to concentrate on our relationship. Time? Me wey no get time at all. Last last, lady is gonna get dumped officially by February.
Find out first why she is working o. Some of them are only doing that cos they don't have people paying their bills for now. Their liability mode is just on pause.
A lazy woman? God forbid! There is nothing sweeter than financial independence. I can’t believe a human being will leave their source of income even if it’s doing agbepo to fall on someone else. The disrespect such a move brings can bring shame on the person. Sha, then again, a lot of Nigerians do not know the concept of shame.

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Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by pocohantas(f): 10:31am On Dec 07, 2019
Kaeboy:
grin cheesy grin Even Poco dey feel herself

What nonsense are you on about?
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by pocohantas(f): 10:33am On Dec 07, 2019
TonyeBarcanista:

This is the most illogical comment of the week.
If students that are usually between 16-26 are NO GO AREA to date

If NYSC members that are usually between 21 and 30 are no go area to date because of "NYSC hoeing"

If women of 30/35+ are no go area because of being "evening newspaper.

Then who should be dated?


Do you guys think that a girl that hoe in higher institution and during NYSC will suddenly become Angel when she is done with that phase?

Do you guys know what some ladies do at work with their colleagues, bosses, fellow professionals etc? Or should guys also not date working class?

See, this thread has exposed what many female Nairaland members have been saying of most Nairaland guys on this board. They lack intelligence!



SMH...

I done tire abeg...

Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Joiceee(f): 10:34am On Dec 07, 2019
udemzyudex:


So all the ones you've been reading from page 1 to here still doesn't make sense to you?

For a guy to be sending money, paying school fees etc,you think he doesn't communicate with her?

Even the ones that plan to marry her immediately after school?

Madam you no get talk.
the way you guys talk makes me wonder the km and of girls you meet and where you meet them. Talk about the ones you've met........stop generalizing Mr
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by partnerbiz4: 10:35am On Dec 07, 2019
Lawalemi:

Mine stopped picking my call the day that she finished last paper. It's three months now. I supported her all through her academics

You were paying her fees?
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by okenwaa(m): 10:36am On Dec 07, 2019
isyourboy:


two bottles of lacasera for u bro.

this made me laugh

Small stout will do....thanks.

Never get strength for jedi jedi
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by TechSpace02: 10:41am On Dec 07, 2019
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Rekhina(f): 10:45am On Dec 07, 2019
light099:




mamajj2 is always my favourite anyday, any time.
y not mention her ,so that date urge u have 4 me will die naturally
Re: Why Are Guys So Scared Of Dating Students? by Joiceee(f): 10:45am On Dec 07, 2019
philip0906:

That man is a smart man. No sane man with self esteem, wastes precious time on a young, naive girl while she's still on campus where you will bombard him with your problems and he can't even see or be sure of what you're up to.

His best is to wait till you're on holiday when he can see you.

well you see it as being smart, but I see it as being foolish and stingy. I would be done with school in weeks time, and am ending all communication this time around. How do you even call someone who can't be there for someone he claims to love when she really needs it but would only show up when things are rosy smart He wants to reap where he has not sown!

You guys think everything is all about money........the truth is most times its not!!!

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