Heroclitus:
To be precise, what, what and what do they(guys) have to talk about

Ariza:
Hello Guys, Welcome to my edition of 'Help us know you better' . Here would be a platform for guys to express their likes, needs, wants and what they seek for in a woman. It has been observed that over the years Men particularly Nigerian men have developed a form of grudge towards their women.There have been lot of complaints, rants and evolutions against their women and this forum is a solid evidence as it serves as an outlet for guys to pour out their minds.

Now, here would be an avenue for women/ladies to know where the shoe hurts and make amends to establish a loving and solid relationship. Guys tell us what you want us to know.

To make this easy, it could come in form of question and answer, share experiences, write stories and so on.

lilmax:
The audacity

See wetin nairaland guys dey cause?

pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine

Preshy561:

My dear, wetin concern agbero with over load.

pocohantas:


Nnem, lekwanum okoro o

Preshy561:

My dear, wetin concern agbero with over load.

pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine.

Preshy561:
Ariza, I believe you are doing this out of boredom, if not, the opinion of these guys shoukdnt bother you cos it's a very different scenario in the real world. Btw, hope you are good?

Ariza:
Relationship needs continuous efforts to build , who knows this thread may open your minds to where you are defaulting which your men may not want to tell you out of fear of losing or upsetting you, something that fades of immediately the knot is tied. Have you ever asked, 'baby is there something you would have loved me to do that I'm not doing? If No, please do and you will be shocked.

Perhaps, ,you have it all covered. Mind sharing ideas with other women as to what you do do that makes you irresistible, indispensable and spectacular.

Ariza:
Maybe, maybe not.

I'm good, you?

Ariza:

Perhaps, ,you have it all covered. Mind sharing ideas with other women as to what you do do that makes you irresistible, indispensable and spectacular.

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

Ariza:
This is fantastic, I hope other ladies learn from you.

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

pocohantas:


1. I don't beg him for money.
2. I cook good meals for him or send him pictures of cooked meals
2b. I have an A in home-management.
3. I send him VNs just so he remembers the voice that makes his prick rise.
4. I give him TROUBLE. Yes, once in a while I need to give him PLENTY TROUBLE.
5. I check on him. Work, health, his family...
6. I try to ask questions. If e no answer, e kuku know say na WW3 e wan start.
7. I make him laugh.
8. I write him notes, just for fun.
9. I am a good conversationist. The only exceptions should be when I am angry or sick.
10. I let him in on my plans. Allow him influence some of my decisions, even work related.
11. Sometimes I ask him stupid questions, like..."should I make shuku or all-back?"
12. I tell him my movements.
13. I could be a good listener, anti-depressant and motivator.
14. I am pretty frugal. I love the easy and cheap life.

After everything, I wear my heels to work on Monday. When he sees how I do things out there- makes him wonder how the same woman is his chick. They love shii like that.

I can't be every man's woman, I can only be one man's woman (i.e) I can only bend for one. The rest should fix themselves. That's why I said, till I see mine posting nonsense on here, I can just chill...

DanDeeBoss:
I hold no grudges against most Nigerian ladies, I actually envision a relationship where partners do things together, call and text each other often, play like kids, hold intellectual conversations and arguments, help each other out, sit down and discuss (sort things out) when things go wrong.. A near-perfect relationship I must say devoid of cheats and wannabe feminists

I dunno if you are interested in physical traits I want in a lady

Cc. Ariz a

Randy100:
Super story.

he will join them soon ijn

pocohantas:
They should keep ranting. As long as my guy hasn't joined, I am fine.