One of my senior cousin has been in her father's house for 38 years no husband, now she met a man this year who has promised marriage still she is doing shakara, asking for rich husband like that BBN skinny Khloe girl. When I heard the story I felt like dashing her slap but i calm my anger because she senior me. Why do you ladies always like rich husband is it an abomination to support a man financially? even when menopause is approaching you will still be looking for rich husband, receive sense

as much as it is wrong to value a man for money, i certainly ALSO dont believe that becauses she is 38yrs old and living in her father's house, she should just accept the 1st donkey that comes her way and offers marriage... thats equally stoopid.

If it is what she wants,nothing wrong with it as long as she is not getting it through rituals.
She will either find the rich man and marry or keep waiting till rapture.

Nope bruh, it's their natural wisdom of insurance policy on all other things.

Don't be so pained over your cousin's matter. Face your own. I'm sure you're not married either, why not try to sort out your own marriage matter first, as you seem to know and value the importance?

Because she's already having sex with a rich guy, but that rich guy hasn't promised her anything yet.

That's why she doesn't like the guy that wants to marry her.

Marriage is not an achievement

The title though

Her standard is realistic but her chances are minimal, considering her. If she has her own money, perhaps she can start thinking of augmenting with a possible partner rather than have nothing and wait for one wealthy dude to whisk her near 40 a5s away.

Drink water

One thing i like about women is that the are strict and good business women when it comes to relationship/marriage.
They will never venture into it if it is not profitable to them.
They will rather die single and lonely than to go into unproductive relationship were they will be feeding or nurturing the man, they don't have time for nonsense and i Respect that a lot.

Another day. Another bucket of tears on a woman matter. Please It’s her personal business. Leave her alone.

You could have simply said “my cousin doesn’t have sense “. But we know where your thread is headed and the type of audience it’s made for.

emmaodet:
One thing i like about women is that the are strict and good business women when it comes to relationship/marriage.
They will never venture into it if it is not profitable to them.
They will rather die single and lonely than to go into unproductive relationship were they will be feeding or nurturing the man, they don't have time for nonsense and i Respect that a lot.

Peace be with you.

Op go and buy sense, i repeat go and buy sense. I am sure you are around 40 yet still as foolish as when you were a toddler.

Geminita1:
Peace be with you.

Amen

ctleurocollege:
One of my senior cousin has been in her father's house for 38 years no husband, now she met a man this year who has promised marriage still she is doing shakara, asking for rich husband like that BBN skinny Khloe girl. When I heard the story I felt like dashing her slap but i calm my anger because she senior me. Why do you ladies always like rich husband is it an abomination to support a man financially? even when menopause is approaching you will still be looking for rich husband, receive sense

So because of menopause make she marry madman? Na stone the children go chop ba? Her life, her menopause and her decision.

Even if she is not married, why is she still in her father's house?

emmaodet:
One thing i like about women is that the are strict and good business women when it comes to relationship/marriage.
They will never venture into it if it is not profitable to them.
They will rather die single and lonely than to go into unproductive relationship were they will be feeding or nurturing the man, they don't have time for nonsense and i Respect that a lot.

The question now becomes when men go get sense.

Lol
Please, nobody should coerce that woman in doing what she don't want to do, else that marriage will be a miserable union!!

ctleurocollege:
One of my senior cousin has been in her father's house for 38 years no husband, now she met a man this year who has promised marriage still she is doing shakara, asking for rich husband like that BBN skinny Khloe girl. When I heard the story I felt like dashing her slap but i calm my anger because she senior me. Why do you ladies always like rich husband is it an abomination to support a man financially? even when menopause is approaching you will still be looking for rich husband, receive sense

My only concern is that a 38years old adult is still living with her parents. I don’t agree that after 27/28 anybody should still be living with their parents.

Go out there ,find a job /career that you’re passionate about and do stuffs for yourself and I’ll take you serious.

Mindfulness:
Even if she is not married, why is she still in her father's house?

I didn’t see this before dropping my comment.

Plead:


I didn’t see this before dropping my comment.

Never mind. Your comment is still valid and needed.

AntiMCU:



The question now becomes when men go get sense.

Bro a lot of men won't oooooo.
But with time, as jobs keeps getting dried up and unemployment increases, women will continue dropping men's asses because at that point, a man as outlived his usefulness to a woman.
That is when reality will done on many men that all the -
lovey-doveys,
i love u i love u,
i promise never to leave u for any other man,
No other man will ever take your place slogans
Are all SCAMS bro.
Make pple dey use dia head ooo before trouser wear dem.

I don't know why I think that the OP was the one that requires some sense...Lord have mercy... She doesn't want to be with the said man, Is that a crime against humanity? So the fact that she is single means every thing that moves must approach her and she accepts... what a teenage mentality..

marriage shouldn't be a compulsory thing, if she is not ready, leave her alone.

Plead:



My only concern is that a 38years old adult is still living with her parents. I don’t agree that after 27/28 anybody should still be living with their parents.

Go out there ,find a job /career that you’re passionate about and do stuffs for yourself and I’ll take you serious.

Wait, the fact that she's living in her father's house automatically means she does not have a job? Is there a rule on when a female should not be in her father's house? Isn't it clear she's stays there to keep her grounded and to prevent promiscuity? Does living alone makes one serious or less serious?

Mindfulness:
Even if she is not married, why is she still in her father's house?

And what is wrong in her living with her parents at that age?

I think Op will be disappointed with the comments cos they are not what he was expecting, he should have created this thread in romance section where he'll be satisfied with the insults he clearly wants for his cousin

Yes, they are mostly senseless but I blame the man that even asked her hand in marriage in the first place. I mean, what is a reasonable man doing with an old cargo?

The older they get, the more bitter and frustrated they are. While some men mistake such bitterness and frustration for maturity, I refuse to be that gullible.

Thirty what? I consider 26years old girls afternoon paper. I personally cannot marry a 26years old girl when I'm ready.

God! I hate old cargoes AKA yesterday newspaper. Sadly, they are all over the place in this wonderful forum Seun created for us to interact and have fun, displaying their bitterness and frustration towards everyone.

Any man going for such parcel is unknowingly signing his death warrant as the parcel is filled with maggots and other life threatening features.

No offense

OP, no offense but do you even have sense? how is your cousin's life affecting you that you had to bring the matter here in hopes that people will abuse her while you laugh in agreement. I'm so glad by the responses so far, it has shown that family section is not romance area which is filled with kids your age, here you have mature thinking people with sense who are not afraid to bring you to your knees when the need arises


Get a life OP, stop hating on women

24kmagic:
Yes, they are mostly senseless but I blame the man that even asked her hand in marriage in the first place. I mean, what is a reasonable man doing with an old cargo?

The older they get, the more bitter and frustrated they are. While some men mistake such bitterness and frustration for maturity, I refuse to be that gullible.

Thirty what? I consider 26years old girls afternoon paper. I personally cannot marry a 26years old girl when I'm ready.

God! I hate old cargoes AKA yesterday newspaper. Sadly, they are all over the place in this wonderful forum Seun created for us to interact and have fun, displaying their bitterness and frustration towards everyone.

Any man going for such parcel is unknowingly signing his death warrant as the parcel is filled with maggots and other life threatening features.

No offense

Dem done migrate from romance section come this side, tufia! see the bitter vile coming from this fellow no kill yourself o, don't die because someone in 30s is still determined to get the best and not settle for less bro

Biglittlelois:



Wait, the fact that she's living in her father's house automatically means she does not have a job? Is there a rule on when a female should not be in her father's house? Isn't it clear she's stays there to keep her grounded and to prevent promiscuity? Does living alone makes one serious or less serious?

There’s no justification for a 38years old adult still living with her parents.