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This is about about a girl who I have found so attractive, she seemed to unite some of the best blessings of existence. I came to notice shortly after I revealed my feelings to her that she had been in a relationship. She later told me she can't date me because she is not free. but when I notice she can't let me go from the frequent calls and affectionate attitude she showed me, it became really hard for me to leave her despite the guilt and selfishness I felt about myself. I need your advice on what best decision to take, either to let go and move on or to continue with her.

Let her go, you will complicate things for her... She'd start comparing her boyfriend with you... She'd end up being in a relationship with two people... And she'd choose one eventually.. You might be the one or you can save yourself some heartbreaks and walk away...

All this una third party relationships. If una no take care 2 on 2 marriages na him we go dey get.. Its lust. Its not worth it. Its the blood rush in your system. Let it go

Take her out!
By her jewelrys!
Get her an expensive gift!
Give her blank cheque!
Sponsor one of her sibling then let her decide if she is truly in a serious relationship.

Lol. Seems the Op is happy to be an assistant bf

If you love her,let go of her.if she comes back,she is for you then.

crazygod:
Lol. Seems the Op is happy to be an assistant bf

If I want that, I wouldn't have bordered, she seems to be all I need to be happy, and I'm feeling guilty.

EngrUgbes:
If I want that, I wouldn't have bordered, she seems to be all I need to be happy, and I'm feeling guilty.

let her bf catch you, cult boys neVr make life tire you before....anoda girl no dey your area abi, na person gf dey enter your eyes idiot.

DaddyNimo:
let her bf catch you, cult boys neVr make life tire you before....anoda girl no dey your area abi, na person gf dey enter your eyes idiot.

Every lady is one man's girlfriend (better still, every lady has a man), it's all about playing your game right and leaving her with thinking and fantasizing about being with you. Making her see reasons why you are a better fit for her than her present guy... And if that doesn't work, make her see reasons why you should be a better fvck buddy than her present smasher

Lamanii22:
Let her go, you will complicate things for her... She'd start comparing her boyfriend with you... She'd end up being in a relationship with two people... And she'd choose one eventually.. You might be the one or you can save yourself some heartbreaks and walk away...

Put yourself in her boyfriend shoes if she dumps the guy for you, imagine how he would feel.

Lightangel65:
Put yourself in her boyfriend shoes if she dumps the guy for you, imagine how he would feel.

About how the non-boyfriend would feel? I don't understand your question...

Lamanii22:
About how the non-boyfriend would feel? I don't understand your question...

I said if he was the boyfriend that would be dumped so she can go out with the guy she liked

If u date her, she will find another friend and the cycle repeats again. Girls!