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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by noblealuu: 11:38am On Dec 17, 2019

RiyadhGoddess:
Somebody shout Halleluyah!
Op is that what you want We should rejoice with you, clap for you or want.
You came here seeking advice and you were told to stop having sex but No the two of you refused and now she's pregnant, what advise do you want again from us when our opinion no dey count eh?
Wait how old are you
Even an illiterate knows that AS and AS is a No No, Wrong combination even the most anointed man of God ever liveth won't advice the two of you to marry.
Knowing fully well of your genotype, you still have the effrontery to nack her raw, una two well so
Tomorrow now, you will start going from one prayer house to another disturbing pastors for prayers something that you can avoid now.
See my own advice is, You cannot marry your girlfriend due to the genotype ish. Yes she's pregnant, let it stop there so that you will know that it's just one burden should in case the child is SS.
Trust me, you do not want bury any of your children. The heart ache is really something you do not want to experience.
That love that you are shouting now, by the time the painful reality starts to hit you, the love go clear sharperly. Then it will become a thing of regrets and blames.
See the pregnancy as your gain for the love between the two you and end it there.
But if you insist and allow the girl who is obviously loving you with her heart and not her head push you into marriage in the name of I love you, I can't love any other man, whatever your eye see eh, be prepared to take it ooo.
All these sickness dey favour rich man ooo and I hope you are very rich to spend money lavishly in the hospital. Na serious agbana you shook yourself into I swear.
Lastly if you think you are a man of faith and non of your kids will be SS, then you can proceed. We don't want another chronicles from you biko.
All the best Sir!

Olorun oni jeka rogun agbana ooo
May we not spend our time and money lavishly in the hospital...

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by warrantyme(m): 11:38am On Dec 17, 2019

This is campaign after election.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by aminusodiq(m): 11:39am On Dec 17, 2019

vicholas:
Hmmmmm! Am also a victim. my wife and I we are both AS, we lost our 7yrs old first daughter 5yrs ago and our 5yrs old third son 4yrs ago both are brilliant and wonderful children. we spent a lot of money daily on drugs and other expenses. My advise to you guys is terminate the pregnancy and both of you should forget about the relationship. Simply end the relationship NOW

op... A word is enough fr d wise... If u like... Do ur ear like goat again!!!! Go marry As because of one yeye love!!! U go hear am!!!
Aditi oshii

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by shugaboy6102(m): 11:40am On Dec 17, 2019

Lexusgs430:
Goes to show against all the talk wey we talk, you and your gf do head like goat, wey no gree hear word......

Your cross, go and carry it..... We cannot waste our advice.......

For all we know AS + AS = AA, AS or SS...... Since you're the gambling type, update us after 9 months, if una ticket cut...........

wicked guy haba

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Wakeel32: 11:41am On Dec 17, 2019

Alaye... D best decision u can make regarding the issue on ground is just go terminate d pregnancy straight.. I am pleading don't try and take d risk cause d child is gonn curse u if it happens to be a sickle celled.
... Buy misoprostol tab... Just let her insert d it in her vaginal in d night.. Dats d safest pill for abortion.. Thank me later

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by vicholas(m): 11:45am On Dec 17, 2019

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Chi59 ( f ): 11:25am
Having a child with Sickle Cell is not even about the money.
There's the
Physical.
Financial
Psychological
Emotional
Social
Even spiritual impact of having a child with Sickle Cell
Before I could form coherent words I knew there was something wrong with me. Some people were lucky to find out they were sicklers in their teenage or adult years. I was never that lucky. I was always in pain right from the earliest time my mind could recall.
Living with Sickle Cell is hard. The pain is hellish. Even family members get tired of your complaints, parents inclusive.
You spend so much on your health, you are almost always depressed. I once attempted suicide..
Falling in love is easy, finding someone to love you beyond your health status is hard.
You suffer in silence, and can't wait to die sometimes.
I still haven't been able to forgive my parents despite their ignorance.Yet, fools like this idiot keep gambling with nature. All for replaceable pussy.
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Chi59 ( f ): 11:25am
Having a child with Sickle Cell is not even about the money.
There's the
Physical.
Financial
Psychological
Emotional
Social
Even spiritual impact of having a child with Sickle Cell
Before I could form coherent words I knew there was something wrong with me. Some people were lucky to find out they were sicklers in their teenage or adult years. I was never that lucky. I was always in pain right from the earliest time my mind could recall.
Living with Sickle Cell is hard. The pain is hellish. Even family members get tired of your complaints, parents inclusive.
You spend so much on your health, you are almost always depressed. I once attempted suicide..
Falling in love is easy, finding someone to love you beyond your health status is hard.
You suffer in silence, and can't wait to die sometimes.
I still haven't been able to forgive my parents despite their ignorance.Yet, fools like this idiot keep gambling with nature. All for replaceable pussy.
Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Chi59 ( f ): 11:25am
Having a child with Sickle Cell is not even about the money.
There's the
Physical.
Financial
Psychological
Emotional
Social
Even spiritual impact of having a child with Sickle Cell
Before I could form coherent words I knew there was something wrong with me. Some people were lucky to find out they were sicklers in their teenage or adult years. I was never that lucky. I was always in pain right from the earliest time my mind could recall.
Living with Sickle Cell is hard. The pain is hellish. Even family members get tired of your complaints, parents inclusive.
You spend so much on your health, you are almost always depressed. I once attempted suicide..
Falling in love is easy, finding someone to love you beyond your health status is hard.
You suffer in silence, and can't wait to die sometimes.
I still haven't been able to forgive my parents despite their ignorance.Yet, fools like this idiot keep gambling with nature. All for replaceable pussy.

@ CHI59 am very very sorry. my e m a I l is obaproof at g m a I l dot com

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ImaIma1(f): 11:47am On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

This love will become strained when you have SS children that you caring and worrying for.

At this point, all you can do is pray that the child is not SS. And then you can plan your children to be either AS or AA (I think that's possible now).

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by explicitee(m): 11:47am On Dec 17, 2019

Enjoy your SS child

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by sinaj(f): 11:49am On Dec 17, 2019

Lexusgs430:
Very long and financially intensive ride......... Which would end up splitting them..........

Normally, the man walks away....... Leaving the woman and her family, carrying the baby (literally)......

very true

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by delezac(m): 11:49am On Dec 17, 2019

You can actually know the foetus' genotype at the early stage.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by nauto: 11:51am On Dec 17, 2019

I see

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Mcy56(f): 11:54am On Dec 17, 2019

lebron7:
If the child does not have sickle cell that would be all

Says who?
You think the f.o.o.l will still not attempt to risk another pregnancy if they were lucky with the first?
I hardly call people names but this Op deserves it cos if he knows what those kids' crises used to be, he wouldn't attempt to go against advice.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lovelypet28: 11:55am On Dec 17, 2019

Op your a lunatic, you purposely had intercourse with her to prove a point,knowing fully well the implications.
Now because of stupid love ur doing to incur expenses.
God will punish that love ooh, dat love will die when you have to carry your child to the hospital every week and the child curses you on the death bed.
Even if ur gf get fish brain and is emotional, your a man and should think.
I have managed many HbSS patients and it's not a walk in the park, it's a NIGHTMARE.
It drains spiritually,financially,even the yeye love u think it's there will die.
Do amniocentesis and if its HbSS, be a man,abort and leave the relationship because God will not be with a man who willingly inflicts everlasting suffering on his children
GOODLUCK

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by lizychimamanda(f): 11:55am On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
when we say no sex before marriage, they will abuse Islam, when we say marry young if you love each other and you have the means, they will say Islam preaches rubbish, some will say sex is different from marriage, now they will have to give birth to an SS child out of wedlock, still get married and the sin would be on their head forever. when the children finds out, they will hate their parents for it. Meanwhile, it is a 1/4 probability, I have an uncle like that, gave birth to just 2, luckily the two are AS.

see this jjc o, so u think no pre Marital sex in Islam?

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by ogyunging(m): 11:57am On Dec 17, 2019

The deed is done. Na way forward sure pass. Since you dont take advice and you like skin diving, na to fire am dey go bros, abi your engine na turbo level, the egg fit OD on too much sperm. E go be like film trick, I deeeeeey text u bros. thank me later.

Ozwo

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by vicbry007(m): 12:01pm On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
when we say no sex before marriage, they will abuse Islam, when we say marry young if you love each other and you have the means, they will say Islam preaches rubbish, some will say sex is different from marriage, now they will have to give birth to an SS child out of wedlock, still get married and the sin would be on their head forever. when the children finds out, they will hate their parents for it. Meanwhile, it is a 1/4 probability, I have an uncle like that, gave birth to just 2, luckily the two are AS.

Bro no da involve religion,pikin wa don spoil don spoil,religion no fit change anything
One imam da our area wey be say him only two daughters da collect doggy for anywhere,back of motor,under canopy ,any where at all as long as them fit position for am,Muslim girls da our side wey wey and most of them get belle out of wedlock (boyfriend and girlfriend) also self Christians da like that plenty oooo
So no drag religion
Who spoil . Spoil

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by saddler: 12:02pm On Dec 17, 2019

Culin:
"Finance, health or what?". Uncle what topic are we discussing here if not health.

Ok sorry for deviating.

How is she better in health than most normal people?

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 12:07pm On Dec 17, 2019

Chi59:
Don't say what you don't know. Having a sickler can occur as the first, second or fifth pregnancy. It's a gamble.

How are u coping generally?

Do try and forgive your parents. My in law died in her final yr cos of crises.

I have a cousin who is one. If not because of money and there is s medical Dr in her family, she would have gone.
She is an accountant. Was heavily pampered. Never lived alone. She is engaged now. So beautiful. Some days she will be very energetic, some she will just be down. She is into fruits and veggies a lot and any thing that give her iron the natural way.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2019

vicholas:
Hmmmmm! Am also a victim. my wife and I we are both AS, we lost our 7yrs old first daughter 5yrs ago and our 5yrs old third son 4yrs ago both are brilliant and wonderful children. we spent a lot of money daily on drugs and other expenses. My advise to you guys is terminate the pregnancy and both of you should forget about the relationship. Simply end the relationship NOW

Hmm. It's well. Just imagine.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by mechanics(m): 12:16pm On Dec 17, 2019

You both caused it yourself, are you saying is a crime to stay out of sex in a relationship, you didn't listen to the advise then and you want us to advise you, I don't know what to say but don't abort the baby, you have no choice than to take care of the baby whether he or she will be SS or not.

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Pappyjim: 12:22pm On Dec 17, 2019

U needed to be castrated Idiot!
After u enjoyed Kpekus dey pour Akamu your brain dey yur "John thomas" then, shiiooor

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 12:23pm On Dec 17, 2019

sassysure:
How are u coping generally?

Do try and forgive your parents. My in law died in her final yr cos of crises.

I have a cousin who is one. If not because of money and there is s medical Dr in her family, she would have gone.
She is an accountant. Was heavily pampered. Never lived alone. She is engaged now. So beautiful. Some days she will be very energetic, some she will just be down. She is into fruits and veggies a lot and any thing that give her iron the natural way.

Lucky her. My parents aren't rich. But my mom tries her best. I try to survive the best way I can. It's depressing some days, other days, I just manage to go by.

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Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by risos(m): 12:30pm On Dec 17, 2019

Na now you fit dey nack steady, she no go get belle again. You did nacker, always siphoning fluids into the nackee......e dey do una myo myo...

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Geofavor(m): 12:32pm On Dec 17, 2019

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by bonnyhope: 12:36pm On Dec 17, 2019

lastempero:
You are just like Buhari,not taking full responsibility of your life. Will you keep quiet in patience Jonathan voice.

Must you mention Buhari in every comment?

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by bonnyhope: 12:40pm On Dec 17, 2019

What's is this thing in SEX that youths cannot do without until they are married

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Mttambi: 12:40pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

Pay attention to current discoveries in science/ Epigenetics. It’s now a scientific fact you can upregulate your genes and change your genes. It does not need to limit you, your partner or your unborn child. Descatian/Newtonian physics is becoming obsolete

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 17, 2019

Chi59:
Lucky her. My parents aren't rich. But my mom tries her best. I try to survive the best way I can. It's depressing some days, other days, I just manage to go by.

Don't be too hard on yourself( your posts shows that).

My cousin takes folic acid daily. It helps reduce crises.
Don't exert yourself too much e.g. through thinking or physical works. If u can, all ways eat plantain and anytime u are hungry eat very very well.
Use more seafood to cook instead of beef or chicken.
Be positive, okay?
Pls, don't allow mosquitos feed on you. Anything that will.make u sick.

There was a thread created by o e guy here on family section on how they all were coping and managing. Look for it and read everything there. It will also help u.
All the best kiss

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by DenreleDave(m): 12:42pm On Dec 17, 2019

Snowale:
when we say no sex before marriage, they will abuse Islam, when we say marry young if you love each other and you have the means, they will say Islam preaches rubbish, some will say sex is different from marriage, now they will have to give birth to an SS child out of wedlock, still get married and the sin would be on their head forever. when the children finds out, they will hate their parents for it. Meanwhile, it is a 1/4 probability, I have an uncle like that, gave birth to just 2, luckily the two are AS.

You are a big fool... How does AS concerns Islam.. Fool.

No be una ijab sister dey Bleep dick anytime. Married or not married..

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Kakamorufu(m): 12:47pm On Dec 17, 2019

YOUR DICK WAS FUNCTIONING AS YOUR BRAIN. Me no get advise for u oooo. Just pray hard angry

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by chigoizie7(m): 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2019

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

How selfish of you

Re: My Fiancée Is Pregnant For Me. We Both Have AS Genotype by Lexusgs430: 12:49pm On Dec 17, 2019

shugaboy6102:
wicked guy haba

Oga, why seek for advice and go against majority of the sane, and do the insane?

Then return with your tails between your legs, seeking another form of advice?

Making a mistake once, is a lesson..... Making it multiple times, is a decision...... So leave with that decision........

Abi no be so?..... grin

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