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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by melaninpop: 11:38pm On Dec 17, 2019
fcdgrand:
correct!

My dear, a cheat is a cheat... Teacher or no teacher. It's my field, I know what I'm talking about.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Dec 17, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Mister sexist, Alakija the billionaire is richer than your very existence, and she's still with her husband and very born again, speak only for the females y'all breed in your family.
you are so naive!!!

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:55pm On Dec 17, 2019
isthatso:

you are so naive!!!


You are very delusional.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by tck2000(m): 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2019
24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.

lol
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 18, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



You are very delusional.

you are the one who is delusional and i will tell you why.

Alakija is one in 300million there are only 2 acknowledged female billionaires in Africa in a population of 600m women. Both came about their fortunes by luck or good fortune rather than true hustle. One happenned t be a hairdresser to a presidents wife, one happenned to be a daughter of a president. their billions didnt come through hustling, they could easily have been billionaires just by being at home.

to base your life on an outlier is delusional!!

for every wizkid, mikel obi, j j okocha tiwa Savage, there are tens of thousands who have pursued a path and failed and realised when they are too old they have wasted their lives on a delusion or a dream.

It's good to be ambituous but the majority of women no matter how lofty their dreams of youth are going end up with a normal mediocre average existence and if they havent damaged themselves, marry normal men and struggle to pay fees, deal with nepa and traffic and the mortgage like most folk.

There is nothing wrong with dreaming but what if your dream doesnt materialise?

Alakija's husband will put up with whatever because he aint leaving the billions. For you to have husband that will put up with the crap, how much money are you going to make, how much money is the avaerage woman going to make her husband put up with visiting men in their homes and hotel rooms in the pursuit of success?

Dont compare yourself with the Alakija because the odds are you wont be an Alakija!!!

To do so is setting yourself up and other women for a life of misery, a life of being a side chick. because once you become damaged by your occupation, no man worth his salt will want to marry you.

Pursue a career where you can maintain your respectability as a woman and still rise to the top and if you do not rise to the top you do not compromise yourself, reputation, dignity, image or prospects in the process!!!!!

I am not your enemy i am giving you good advice. Hustling in Nigeria is not a woman friendly world.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by davillian(m): 12:14am On Dec 18, 2019
House girl grin
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Swinger60(f): 12:18am On Dec 18, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Ah fada lawd, most mothers of old did a very terrible job bringing up men of these era, look at this one giving excuses for promiscuous horseband, terrible creatures springing up everyday, especially here, SMH!!!
And, that's why divorce is on the high side. Ladies of our generation have refused to tolerate this b.ulls.hit from them, unlike our mothers.

Marriage scatters, everyone goes their Way. Man move on, woman move on.., children suffer. Yet, this men have refused to face reality.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 18, 2019
Swinger60:
And, that's why divorce is on the high side. Ladies of our generation have refused to tolerate this b.ulls.hit from them, unlike our mothers.

Marriage scatters, everyone goes their Way. Man move on, woman move on.., children suffer. Yet, this men have refused to face reality.

the argument over which is the chicken and which is the egg will go on for ever. One thing is for sure, the future and present where children are raised in more and more broken homes without fathers will be a worse future than that of today. You obnly have to look at black americans to see what the deliberate policy of separating parents during slavery did to the pysche of multiple generations of blacks that still endures today. There is a reason why in Europe and America, African immigrants are always more successful than the desendants of slaves who you would think have the advantage of being there for centuries. it is because we have a sense of self and that sense of self and confidence, starts with coming from a stable home, even if if was just an illusion. For one thing girls/women who are raised without or by a distant father tend to be more promiscuous, even teenage boys looking for easy sex pick up on this. For all you may say about Our Mothers, they sacrificed to raise better children that they would have otherwise.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Dannonye(f): 12:44am On Dec 18, 2019
Tailoring if she isn't four walled educated If she's a degree holder ,biko let her work with her cert The basic is that u both must be happy

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by InvertedHammer: 12:51am On Dec 18, 2019
vickydankal:


Insecurity in men could clearly be seen but not limited to the following :
Consuming jealousy
Fear of losing your mate to another
Spying your wife
Excessive monitoring
Excessive control
Demanding explanation for every friendly greeting, sms, chat or call
Demanding access to your phone
Stop every outdoor activities especially with the opposite sex
Paranoia and disbelief as to your partner’s whereabouts
Constant reassurance
Fear of your wife's exposure
Fear of financial independence
Among others
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Some of these behaviours seem normal and natural with the exclusion of "excessive/control/demand/constant/paranoia" which push the actions to extreme. But by recent events, none of those conditions were met before men were tagged insecure. That moment your side girlfriend tells you that her husband is insecure and you wonder why.

Secure men are the gifts that keep giving. They are the ones that allow their wives to go and do night vigils with pastors because they are secure. They let their wives or girlfriends travel for a business getaway with their male bosses to exotic locations. In other words, if you are not a mugu to your female partner, you are insecure.

Some are looking for wife-friendly occupations while others are looking for pocket-friendly wives.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by GAZZUZZ(m): 1:00am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:



nice suggestions there..




You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..


some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..



Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.



from colleague colleague,

they start something funny.

Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.



It's not insecurity on the part of such men,

they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..





no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..



once again thanks for your suggestions.



MODIFIED !!!!!!



If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.




You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that


theory is different from practical.




Inside life, we know how things operate.




I asked a simple question,

'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "


Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?





marriage is for two who agree to get together.



If you are a career woman, marry a career man.


Simple!

Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by 300wayne: 1:06am On Dec 18, 2019
My brother you are not far from the truth leave all this people saying insecure and turning blind eyes we read it everyday we hear it we see it so Wetin dem dey talk when you come now say my wife confessed she slept with her boss/colleague they will say crucify her, divorce her, you are a weakling she is dis n dat.... Hypocrites.....back to ur topic if she get hand work try help her grow through it if she no get one try make she get den help her establish e.g if she sabi sow clothes or bake try open up her own space support her and help her grow..... My 2cent
Casemiro:



nice suggestions there..




You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..


some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..



Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.



from colleague colleague,

they start something funny.

Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.



It's not insecurity on the part of such men,

they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..





no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..



once again thanks for your suggestions.



MODIFIED !!!!!!



If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.




You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that


theory is different from practical.




Inside life, we know how things operate.




I asked a simple question,

'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "


Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?





marriage is for two who agree to get together.



If you are a career woman, marry a career man.


Simple!
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by BrainSanitizer: 1:11am On Dec 18, 2019
24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.


You are right.
Although there are schools that run from 7:30am to 5pm.
Even at that, a teacher-wife is the way to go.
I use to like nurses too but after reading stories about their escapades, I am left with only one choice - to marry a teacher.

ARE YOU READY TO MARRY?

Are you a female teacher residing in any part of Lagos? Single and of marriageable age? Emotionally ready to settle down? Not a slay queen? No nose piercing nor tattoos?





























Keep praying and being a good girl.
Your husband is very close to finding you.

angry grin grin cheesy grin cheesy angry cheesy grin
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by ForbesHomesNG(m): 1:15am On Dec 18, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
What do you mean by wife friendly? Is there a job they can't do because they are married? You are very sexist, rubbish.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by ForbesHomesNG(m): 1:16am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:
Some men would prefer their wives not working under someone or in an office, but wifes need to be supportive. So how do we balance it?

What wife friendly occupation would you suggest for a married or intending married lady?




Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Enemyofpeace: 1:18am On Dec 18, 2019
Selling fried akara, yam, bread and akamu in front of una gate just like mynd44 is managing herself now
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by haryomikun(m): 1:30am On Dec 18, 2019
Pavore9:


So the summary of the whole thing is "how to restrict the chances of a wife from cheating"! Reality is be it man or woman, anyone who has made up his/her mind to be promiscuous, there is always a way to actualize it.
If you're talking like this, then you probably haven't met many people and seen/heard experiences sir.

Anyone who has made up his/her mind to be promiscuous would be, yes.

However, we all have different reactions to temptation. Especially women wey dey softly fall once dem jam one crazy nigga wey dey lie for them.

Roll with several women and get knowledge about their private lives before you can understand the OP.

He said something here which should have made you understand where he was coming from and I quote,

'The truth is that they never ever wanted to cheat on their husbands, but when it lead to it, they didn't just do it once or twice, they kept on doing it codedly.'

If you're one of those who believe in the 'only a woman who wants to cheat will cheat' farce, then g'luck to you sir...
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Nobody: 1:44am On Dec 18, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
What do you mean by wife friendly? Is there a job they can't do because they are married? You are very sexist, rubbish.

Since you are not sexist, when are you gonna give us a fight between Anthony Joshua and a female boxer? When will you silly woke people accept that men are different(not better) from women in a lot of ways?
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:03am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:
Some men would prefer their wives not working under someone or in an office, but wifes need to be supportive. So how do we balance it?

What wife friendly occupation would you suggest for a married or intending married lady?
Sorry. It is only in Africa and Nigerian mentality that tolerate such rubbish. In US and other advanced countries couples work in paid jobs like the police, army and in the same office and nothing will happen.




Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:04am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:
Some men would prefer their wives not working under someone or in an office, but wifes need to be supportive. So how do we balance it?

What wife friendly occupation would you suggest for a married or intending married lady?


Sorry. It is only in Africa and our Nigerian mentality that tolerate such rubbish. In US and other advanced countries couples work in paid jobs like the police, army, industries and get promoted in the same office and nothing will happen. Every occupation is wife friendly. Jealousy and lack of planning and unemployment is what makes us put boundaries for our spouses

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by xyz123456: 2:08am On Dec 18, 2019
melaninpop:


My dear, a cheat is a cheat... Teacher or no teacher. It's my field, I know what I'm talking about.
I hate this kind of lie. Are you saying there is no temptation at all? Fine, if a woman wants to cheat, she will cheat but a lots of woman will not cheat if they dont have access to it.
Its basic principle.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by xyz123456: 2:12am On Dec 18, 2019
scaramucci:


Since you are not sexist, when are you gonna give us a fight between Anthony Joshua and a female boxer? When will you silly woke people accept that men are different(not better) from women in a lot of ways?
Dont mind them. We are different in everything. And if an emergency now, they will start shouting women and children first.
The earlier you feminist understand this, the better...Na oyinbo people bring this stupid mentality to Africa
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Nobody: 2:18am On Dec 18, 2019
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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by NiCurious: 2:32am On Dec 18, 2019
Extend the same trust to your wife as you expect her to extend to you. It works both ways.
You do not control one another. You are both autonomous individuals joined in a partnership called marriage.

For those men who feel threatened unless their wives make less money than them, and fear their disrespect if they start earning the same or more...look at yourselves, look within--have you nothing worthy of your wife's respect, besides your money? It's up to you to work on yourself, to make YOURSELF a catch, and not your wallet. Haba!

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Wickedtruths: 3:22am On Dec 18, 2019
Damilolacoker:
This is bullshit.

Nairaland is a microcosm of Nigeria.
There is a proliferation of idiots.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by HIbreed(m): 3:28am On Dec 18, 2019
vickydankal:
Supermarket
Freelancing
Manage osusu small scale
Blogging
Bitcoin etc

Any man who doesn't want his wife to work in a cooperate office is insecure
sorry, they are not insecure. They've seen it all
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by HIbreed(m): 3:30am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:



nice suggestions there..




You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..


some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..



Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.



from colleague colleague,

they start something funny.

Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.



It's not insecurity on the part of such men,

they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..





no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..



once again thanks for your suggestions.



MODIFIED !!!!!!



If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.




You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that


theory is different from practical.




Inside life, we know how things operate.




I asked a simple question,

'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "


Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?





marriage is for two who agree to get together.



If you are a career woman, marry a career man.


Simple!
leave that guy, he don't know women.
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by madeinnigeria: 3:33am On Dec 18, 2019
What does this even mean? There's nothing like this. Women can do whatever they want.

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by HIbreed(m): 3:54am On Dec 18, 2019
InvertedHammer:

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Please define insecurity?

How can one's genuine concern about his relationship be buried on the altar of insecurity?

I never understand this "insecure" thing that people love to throw around casually.

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i don't,understand it too. Insecure insecure until one id!ot begin dey shine your wife congo grin

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Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by Microwhy: 4:02am On Dec 18, 2019
vickydankal:
Supermarket
Freelancing
Manage osusu small scale
Blogging
Bitcoin etc

Any man who doesn't want his wife to work in a cooperate office is insecure
Insecure!
Maybe you're still single.
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by hustla(m): 5:20am On Dec 18, 2019
Casemiro:
Some men would prefer their wives not working under someone or in an office, but wifes need to be supportive. So how do we balance it?

What wife friendly occupation would you suggest for a married or intending married lady?





Lol na them
Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by hustla(m): 5:21am On Dec 18, 2019
Microwhy:
Insecure!
Maybe you're still single.

Yes, he's insecure and has low self esteem
Single kee you there

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