sinaj:
lol
Yes sha

EmptyCoconutHead:
useless women.
If not for bearing of children and sexual gratification to kill konji, there's no other use of women in marriage.

111sunshine:
the internet has a way of distorting issues.... there was no jab...just two friends toying with each other... bloggers and their search for content sef

Ebonygirl1:


Lmao. As if one needs to interact with all to come to such a conclusion. One only needs to read the news and pay attention to what happens in society to see how toxic zoogerian men are

dangotesmummy:
hmnnn your thoughts and i respect it however I don't buy it.

There is ALWAYS A PLACE,TIME,HOUR, MOMENT TO SAY Certain things and there are some places not to say certain things at all.those kinds of banters aren't meant to be said in public in the midst of so many people

Moreover the elders say it's when a person is drunk he divulges what he would never have said when he's sober that was in his mind but didn't have the boldness to say.in the same way when a woman is overly happy or joking she says things that she wouldn't have said when she wasn't joking

From the abundance of the heart,the mouth speaks

dangotesmummy:
there's nothing goofy or playful about it.if she said that when it wasn't public or just amongst her friends its ok but in public where all manners of people are,it's rude... people need to be considerate of others feelings

It's like Mr a coming for Mrs b graduation party and Mr a says no go school without knowing or understanding the conditions that didn't make Mrs b go to school

Do you know whether she will feel comfortable for the rest of that party? How can a person come to a person's party with high spirit to rejoice with her and leave with sadness and bitterness.


The bride has just planted a seed of bitterness and discord and it says a lot about her

Do you think people will not be mindful of coming close to her after such statement? The elders say inu jin.the human heart is very deep.when you are happy there's a tendency to jam talk but just control it.she doesn't even know what she will meet in the marriage so wisdom is profitable abeg.

dangotesmummy:
hmnnn.the bride needs to be 100 percent sure that that friend is not offended or took offense with that statement because na where enemity and unhealthy rivalry they start from be this o

After the wedding it's safe for her to go check on her friend and explain it because na laugh her friend laugh.you Don't know whether it's a friendly laughter or she's hiding behind a friendly laughter with evil intents.people are more dangerous than this and moreso it's not usually an open enemy that kills but an enemy pretending to be a friend and has stopped being your friend long ago without you noticing or realising it

Eyan ma'nwa ore kun ore, eyan okin wa ota kun ota nio

dangotesmummy:
there's nothing goofy or playful about it.if she said that when it wasn't public or just amongst her friends its ok but in public where all manners of people are,it's rude... people need to be considerate of others feelings

It's like Mr a coming for Mrs b graduation party and Mr a says no go school without knowing or understanding the conditions that didn't make Mrs b go to school

Do you know whether she will feel comfortable for the rest of that party? How can a person come to a person's party with high spirit to rejoice with her and leave with sadness and bitterness.


The bride has just planted a seed of bitterness and discord and it says a lot about her

Do you think people will not be mindful of coming close to her after such statement? The elders say inu jin.the human heart is very deep.when you are happy there's a tendency to jam talk but just control it.she doesn't even know what she will meet in the marriage so wisdom is profitable abeg.

lexy2014:


How many news have u read and what does that news that u read say? When u paid attention to what happens in society, what did u notice?

Culin:


Take all your seriousness and vex to politics and deliver Nigeria, this isn't the situation for it jare. Obviously you're not the playful type with playful friends. Life is not that serious my dear and not everyone is evil or mean.

It's only on nairaland sef that I'm seeing people commenting negative things, because they're majorly old old people. Even the instablog 9ja that uploaded it on Instagram sef had people commenting positive and lovely things on the post. I'm still wondering what's wrong with "come on don't go and get a boyfriend be there shouting goosepimples on my body." If anything it means that the bride means well for her friends.

Ebonygirl1:

I noticed that men are toxic.

SURElee:
What a thing to vomit from your mouth to a friend. Did she invite the friend to her wedding to give her that savage reply? Anyway, thank God for the internet that never forgets, let us now watch how the internet digs this her utterance out when the marriage begin capsize like titanic ship.


Some ladies are just foolish, once they get married they begin to talk down their single friends.

dangotesmummy:
Indeed and that's why there's no wickedness and injustice in Nigeria

Be underestimating human beings and be deceiving yourself there

Culin:


Take all your seriousness and vex to politics and deliver Nigeria, this isn't the situation for it jare. Obviously you're not the playful type with playful friends. Life is not that serious my dear and not everyone is evil or mean.

It's only on nairaland sef that I'm seeing people commenting negative things, because they're majorly old old people. Even the instablog 9ja that uploaded it on Instagram sef had people commenting positive and lovely things on the post. I'm still wondering what's wrong with "come on don't go and get a boyfriend be there shouting goosepimples on my body." If anything it means that the bride means well for her friends.

midnighter:


Yes, I agree that now that she is aware that the comment may have been made in bad taste, she should connect with the person whose opinion on it matters the most , thats the friend, and beg her forgiveness if she was offended.

But all the hundreds of other people who watched it just have to hold their peace lol you cant apologise for yourself all the time!

lexy2014:


So its at d wedding that d bride suddenly realised that her friend didn't have a bf?

Culin:


God heal your broken trust there.

lexy2014:


How are they toxic? U didn't answer these: How many news have u read and what does that news that u read say?

lexy2014:


So its at d wedding that d bride suddenly realised that her friend didn't have a bf?

Culin:


Has her friend been shouting "goose pimples on my body" before?

dangotesmummy:
true

If na you nko? Well if I was in the party I will pretend as if i didn't hear anything

Premiumwriter:
Sometimes the topic I see on the front page of this so called forum amazes me.

Ebonygirl1:


Lolz. I should start quoting all I have read for you?
The romance and family section of nairaland alone is enough to show anyone with half a brain how the average Nigerian man thinks. Nuff said mehn

muyoge:
They must have advised the lady to get into a meaningful relationship but it seems the lady has never taken them seriously. Some will never heed advice if such critically defining psychological moments do not come.

You might say the bride was harsh, but that harshness could provoke the lady into action.

Wounds from a friend are better than kisses from an enemy!

lexy2014:


I don't no. Do u know? Is having a bf d solution to goose pimples?

SURElee:
What a thing to vomit from your mouth to a friend. Did she invite the friend to her wedding to give her that savage reply? Anyway, thank God for the internet that never forgets, let us now watch how the internet digs this her utterance out when the marriage begin capsize like titanic ship.

Some ladies are just foolish, once they get married they begin to talk down their single friends.

SURElee:
What a thing to vomit from your mouth to a friend. Did she invite the friend to her wedding to give her that savage reply? Anyway, thank God for the internet that never forgets, let us now watch how the internet digs this her utterance out when the marriage begin capsize like titanic ship.

Some ladies are just foolish, once they get married they begin to talk down their single friends.

EmptyCoconutHead:
I'll get the Services of a housemaid or concubine to do that.
no need for the scam called wife.
I'll just pay the services of a lady and when she delivers a child for me then I pay her off and train my child.
That is a more better idea

Culin:
Such a goofy bride, this is friendship goals. Quick recovery taking this video serious and calling the bride harsh. Infact quick recovery to the op for using such a senseless caption.

Culin:



Lmaaaooo. Can't even believe I'm arguing with someone like you on a thread (someone who doesn't understand social trends). No wonder most people here are taking it serious. They don't even know what friend A meant by saying she was having goose pimples when she saw her friend B in a wedding dress. To them the friend A just said Hello and the friend B said "go and get a boyfriend". Lol I'm not even wasting my time on this again.

Culin:

Has her friend been shouting "goose pimples on my body" before?

lexy2014:


I don't no. Do u know? Is having a bf d solution to goose pimples?