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When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:01pm On Dec 22, 2019*

Pls it's not too long to get you bored. Just read it to the last line.

Pls how can I deal with this predicament. This girl had a crush on me. She told me and suggested we date each other. I simply didn't want to hurt her cos of some sad stories she's told me about her family issues and so many other things. So I felt like I shouldn't break her heart the more by telling her no.

So I agreed to date her. The problem here is that;

Any offence by me can make her cry and become so sad for the rest of the day. She will call me crying. Like I may be online and she is also online and maybe I don't chat her up, she will get sad easily by posting different things on her status. She is just 18years. Still a kid and too emotional with me. She will always tell me how much she loves me and all that. So I make sure I am online every minute to reply her messages.

The worst of all is that she will always tell me about taking her life anytime I hurt her sad

(This scares the shit out of me). Cos the funny thing is that I don't even know when I hurt her huh

Take a look at our recent Chats and please profer a solution to me on how to handle her. I see her as a younger sister to me. I have not had intimacy with her. But I know she would be willing to. But that's not my problem. Mentioning her life scares the shit out of me. Suicide keeps ringing in my head whenever she says that.

pls how do I handle this situation. I would like her to just be a friend to me. Cos I don't see a future between the both of us.

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:06pm On Dec 22, 2019

Here is just our recent chats

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:07pm On Dec 22, 2019

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:07pm On Dec 22, 2019

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Conceptman: 12:10pm On Dec 22, 2019

Well, u shouldn't expect more from her cos she's still young.just epp her grow and she will be fine

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:15pm On Dec 22, 2019

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 22, 2019

Pls dont leave her she need to be encouraged she need to get her self back because she is going through a lot and lastly dont take advantage of her
The best way you can really help her is show her more love her own luv we be reduced trust me it works

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by MARX77(m): 12:31pm On Dec 22, 2019

On behalf of my fellow nairalanders, I'd propose you edit the topic so we can read the post.

Signed

Concerned members

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Riele(f): 12:31pm On Dec 22, 2019

Do people still love this way ?

Because i know i can't o .

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by karkinase(m): 12:34pm On Dec 22, 2019

Her eyes never clear... grin

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 22, 2019

I just dey burst laugh anyhow for here.

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by luvlyoracle(m): 12:37pm On Dec 22, 2019

Dont be surprised if she is the one that inturn breaks yours. kiss

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:39pm On Dec 22, 2019

luvlyoracle:
Dont be surprised if she is the one that inturn breaks yours.

No not at all. You read a different meaning to the whole thing. I am not into her.

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:42pm On Dec 22, 2019

Conceptman:
Well, u shouldn't expect more from her cos she's still young.just epp her grow and she will be fine

But I simply don't know how to. I have tried in my own best way possible.

If I know, I wouldn't have created this thread

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:42pm On Dec 22, 2019

A girl that was in love with me during my university days told me if i ever leave her she would kill herself.Months after we broke up,my guy who stays in d same street with her told me how robust&shining she'd been lately.omo,i weak.

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 22, 2019

GeniusWannabe:
I just dey burst laugh anyhow for here.

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Conceptman: 12:46pm On Dec 22, 2019

TheGenius001:
But I simply don't know how to. I have tried in my own best way possible.

If I know, I wouldn't have created this thread

this is tough, are u her first love? From the conversation u both had, u are her only hope, situations like this looks scary, u are in it already just make sure you don't hurt her so that she won't take her life or even hurt you, with time everything will be fine and moreover she's still young and she has really gone through a lot, u just have to be strong

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 22, 2019

luvlyoracle:
Dont be surprised if she is the one that inturn breaks yours.

Yes that my ex gf break my heart after making me fall for her emotional blackmail
she nah dump me for no reason

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:49pm On Dec 22, 2019

Riele:
Do people still love this way ?

Because i know i can't o .

Yes people still do. She loves me so much that she buys me food almost Everytime, even when I don't ask for it. She doesn't even allow me to spend money on her. All of these are simply a prove of love.... So yes people still love.

You better start showing some love

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 22, 2019

She is just blackmailing you emotionally ....this was exactly what my ex gf was doing till she finally broke up with me wink

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by TheGenius001(op): 12:51pm On Dec 22, 2019

Conceptman:
this is tough, are u her first love?

No I am the second. But believe me the 1st was all this childish kind of boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. And that was 2years ago until she found me.

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 22, 2019

Riele:
Do people still love this way ?

Because i know i can't o .

You might feel like a hard girl now but d day you'll fall,when u eventually come outa the trance,you'd realize how gullible one can be.It's just a phase.

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Conceptman: 12:57pm On Dec 22, 2019

TheGenius001:
No I am the second. But believe me the 1st was all this childish kind of boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. And that was 2years ago until she found me.

just keep sex out of it because she will be more into you if u do and that's where u will have bigger problem if u dare hurt her. is there any plan for her to go to the university? If she enters school, she will release u small small and all the attachment go reduce

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by zackon(m): 1:01pm On Dec 22, 2019

1StopRudeness:
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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Riele(f): 1:01pm On Dec 22, 2019

TheGenius001:
Yes people still do. She loves me so much that she buys me food almost Everytime, even when I don't ask for it. She doesn't even allow me to spend money on her. All of these are simply a prove of love.... So yes people still love.

You better start showing some love

She does all this for you and you're not into her ?

What exactly do you want ?

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Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by zackon(m): 1:02pm On Dec 22, 2019

1StopRudeness:
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lol

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 22, 2019

TheGenius001:
No not at all. You read a different meaning to the whole thing. I am not into her.

Very good! Now seat her down and talk to her like a big brother would. Tell her you appreciate her and will be there for her but not as a lover but as a big brother. If she insist let her know she's at the risk of being taken advantage of believe me she will put herself together.

Re: When A Girl Over Loves You becomes life threatening (Pics attached) by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 22, 2019

favoryte33:
A girl that was in love with me during my university days told me if i ever leave her she would kill herself.Months after we broke up,my guy who stays in d same street with her told me how robust&shining she'd been lately.omo,i weak.

You wan make she kill herself? grin

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